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Author Topic: How much did your first punt shape your future perceptions?  (Read 2380 times)

Offline wasox

Thought-provoking topic, hadn't really thought about this until I saw this thread.

First punt was with a more experienced woman (~10yrs older than me - I was in my mid-20s).  Wanted a confidence booster as was going through a prolonged dry spell following a messy break-up.  Made a conscious decision early on not to see someone that could be viewed as 'dream-fulfilment' or who was dramatically out of my league, as I was nervous enough to begin with without facing a porn-star-esque woman who I was certain, in my first punt panics, would judge me and shatter my self esteem.  Ended up seeing a plain, though not unattractive woman with a fair amount of curves, but an excellent personality.  Booked a 90-minute session as I was worried about being rushed in and out. 

The session itself went reasonably well, though I spent the entire time worrying about my performance rather than actually enjoying the events.  The game changer for me though came after the conclusion of the festivities, as I still had time left.  We sat and had a fantastic chat, and that, more than anything else, gave me the confidence boost I was looking for.  I even got some honest feedback from her, which has actually been really useful since!  I've since been a lot less nervous in meets, and have even started seeing some more 'fantasy' WGs. 

I guess my first punt really opened my eyes to what was really out there if I looked for it, and how much fun could be had by taking a (well-researched!) leap of faith!

Offline unclesweetheart

My first punt was in January 2014. I did it because I was sexually inhibited and my brother, whose wife had died a year or so previously, had been seeing escorts and had confessed to me. This led the way. I had been puritanically dismissive of his explaining to me how marvellous the girls were, how it wasn't as simple as I thought...

I saw a girl in my home town. I didn't realise escorts kissed: I was that naif. So within a minute of our meeting, with this beautiful virtually naked girl kissing my face off and me finding her pussy wet, we went incredibly quickly into PSE mode.

I left the meet - it was only an hour - more stunned than I'd ever been in my life before. For a couple of days I didn't eat. I kept running the session through in my head - it had been VERY PSE - and I absolutely couldn't believe that what had happened had happened. I sent the girl a text apologising for the hardness of the session, and she was good enough to reply reassuring me that it was fine and she'd had a great time.

So I saw her again and the same thing happened. Pure filth. At the end she gave me a spliff she'd been rolling - we'd smoked one together in the previous session - and it was so strong that when I smoked it at home I almost passed out.

But in our first session she'd allowed me to fuck her bareback. I'd been so overwhelmed by this whole new thing that at the time I'd gone along with it - for the first spooning bout. However, nonplussed as I'd been I sortve knew this was wrong, so insisted on a mac for the rest of the session.

So then I started to do my research, found UKP and SAAFE and my local punters' site. Told the girl that I couldn't see her again because she was still doing BB and did she really think that was a good idea? Got tested: fine.

Then, thanks to UKP and a few kind souls on here, I started to see the Queens of the Scene: firstly Adele and Lily Hart, latterly the phenomenae(?) which are Lindsey and Little Katie and Ellie Rose and Kavita.

In retrospect, I realise that the first session wasn't, really, that special. But at the time it was the most fantastic time I'd ever had sexually. So I'm really grateful to the girl, who's no longer working. She gave me more than a little taste of how much pleasure there is to be had, started to erode my previously moralistic objections to prostitution and initiated me on a journey which has not just been (mostly) incredibly enjoyable, but has also led to me meeting some off-the-scale, extraordinary women. And it's not over yet.

If it had been a bad or medocre experience I probably wouldn't have continued. But to the small-minded, relatively inexperienced guy I was then, it was like discovering a whole new world.
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Really great post uncle S. I think you have hit the nail on the head certainly for many here.  :hi:

1st punt about 4 years ago up in Manchester on a stag do large group which just disintegrated left, right and centre as the night wore on, came up to the time when the club was closing so I just slipped out the group went up to a taxi and asked for a brass jumped in and off we went just outside the town centre. Got there paid the entry fee walked into a large premises like a pub with TV and pool tables there were other punters in this reception area just going about their business which made me feel relaxed.

Anyhow a line up of girls came out chose a very busty Hungarian went to the massage room undressed and down to business OW then she propped up and rode me hard came and that was it, paid for 1/2 hour but was told 1 pop was new to this so was like ok. Cleaned up walked out had spent all my money for the night was in the middle of nowhere so I just walked it back to my hotel as I had been mapping the distance and area in my mind when in the taxi earlier. Took me 40 minutes returned to the hotel got into room friend was crashed out slept and that was it, when he asked me where I disappeared off to the previous night just said I went back to couple of strip bars as I had free strip vouchers given to us.

I spoke to other close friends who broke their punting duck in parlours too another rites of passage into that grey morale area. One of my reasons for punting was my part obsession for large breasts like FF onwards. Civvy wise I've been unlucky on that front up to my 31 years only had 1 girl who I can say had very large breasts. Found AW after trawling through other sites it was like a goldmine when I first saw it was like facebook for punting in terms of the search function. 1st punt off there was some chubby GG+ polish girl she was 23 good punt it was, after that I started delving more into the world of punting on how everything operates getting the knowledge not to be scammed and so forth. Found that other fluffy forum first never posted on there but the fluffiness towards prossies who posted there and banning of links/mention to AW found off putting, came across UKP by random like 3 years ago or so by then had my wits about me but this place sharpened them even more.

Thought-provoking topic, hadn't really thought about this until I saw this thread.

First punt was with a more experienced woman (~10yrs older than me - I was in my mid-20s).  Wanted a confidence booster as was going through a prolonged dry spell following a messy break-up.  Made a conscious decision early on not to see someone that could be viewed as 'dream-fulfilment' or who was dramatically out of my league, as I was nervous enough to begin with without facing a porn-star-esque woman who I was certain, in my first punt panics, would judge me and shatter my self esteem.  Ended up seeing a plain, though not unattractive woman with a fair amount of curves, but an excellent personality.  Booked a 90-minute session as I was worried about being rushed in and out. 

The session itself went reasonably well, though I spent the entire time worrying about my performance rather than actually enjoying the events.  The game changer for me though came after the conclusion of the festivities, as I still had time left.  We sat and had a fantastic chat, and that, more than anything else, gave me the confidence boost I was looking for.  I even got some honest feedback from her, which has actually been really useful since!  I've since been a lot less nervous in meets, and have even started seeing some more 'fantasy' WGs. 

I guess my first punt really opened my eyes to what was really out there if I looked for it, and how much fun could be had by taking a (well-researched!) leap of faith!

beautiful. who was it, is there a link?

Offline Hatcher

A street hooker in Rotterdam. She looked good from a distance, not quite so good close up, and when she got naked in the room she turned into Wilfred Bramble on a bad day. Didn't try again for about 20 years. My lesson? don't punt unless you need to. (These days I need to)
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Offline wasox

beautiful. who was it, is there a link?

Sadly I can't find her any more. Was a couple of years ago and, if I'm honest, the name escapes me. Sarah? Sophie? Something with an 'S' anyway! Found her on AW but I didn't have a profile so don't have a record of her. Tried tracking her down through a couple of sites a few months back but doesn't look like she's working these days. Sorry I couldn't help!

My first punt was really brilliant, everything I hoped for and she's the only girl I've seen more than once and still see too. I did spend forever researching so I'm claiming some of the credit of it going well  :P

Not much! It was a quickie suck and fuck in the Amsterdam RLD about 15 years ago. But I guess I got an inkling that amazing looking girls don't always (or even often) give great service, and that encounters of that kind are seldom much more than a cartoonish wank which also happens to involve a nude lady and 30 euros.

23 years ago this month - know this because wife was pregnant with our first. Still not sure why but after a few drinks with an old work colleague I went to Kings Cross looking for some action. Almost gave up looking - it was raining so that might explain why it was quiet- when saw a young girl who I thought might be a hooker. She walked off and I followed her. As I got close she turned around and uttered those immortal words " do you want some business?". Before I could stop myself I had said " yes please" and followed her to a flat nearby.

Off came her top and leggings and she was naked. Can't remember much except it was my first BJ ( covered ) aged 30 and she was really sweet. And only the 2nd girl I had had sex with.

Didn't partake again until an affair fizzled out 4 years later and I realised I was hooked on illicit sex. Never looked back.

My first and only punt was back in February and I left disappointed because I never came and I felt that she needed some prompting to give me the service I wanted, of which I couldn't do through first-time nerves.

After discovering this site, I'm guessing that it never gets better (ie. she would be hard to beat).

My first and only punt was back in February and I left disappointed because I never came and I felt that she needed some prompting to give me the service I wanted, of which I couldn't do through first-time nerves.

After discovering this site, I'm guessing that it never gets better (ie. she would be hard to beat).
This site should help you very much find what you are looking for.

Add that to confidence to prompt in future, a must everyone has different preferences.

Offline Malvolio

My first punt was in a Shepherd Market walk up about five years ago and didn't last very long.  What it did do was bring home how easy it is to buy sex with attractive women in London.

A lady named jean in 1982 in ran a house in old swan Liverpool. She got her friend Debbie to take me upstairs take her top down then give me an oily wank from which I shot a jet out so strong it hit the wall behind us .... 20 at the time but wonder sometimes what became of these two.

Debbie was 46 at the time ... Still fantasise about it now

My first punt was last October (or 27 girls ago), I did my research on another site ( didn't know about this one) and booked her, had a brilliant time and paid a lot of money to Mr Divine over the following weeks.. It was a high standard to follow but have been more pleased that disappointed thanks to reviews.. Her name was Scarlett ,now an indy and was so friendly/natural it was easy.. 

Offline tonysoprano

My first punt I came twice..then after that as I was still so horny I had to go and book my 2nd punt on the same day so I booked an hour during which I popped 3 more times.

It's never been quite like that again  :rolleyes:
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Offline Morpheus

I was very lucky with my first punt. Three years ago, never heard of UKP, hadn't even heard of Adultwork and very naive about this business. I called a now defunct agency in London and a girl turns up at my hotel looking nothing like the girl in the picture, although pretty good looking anyway. I naively accepted an explanation that they don't use real photos to protect their privacy. She was Romanian, but before the great influx when the work permit rules changed. She was very good, and I still think that after 100 or so punts. Still my only decent Romanian. My second punt was average, third one was awful, one of my worst. If I had seen her as my first, it could well have put me off the whole game.

If I had seen her as my first, it could well have put me off the whole game.
Couldn't agree more and feel this especially applies to the older punter who is still feeling virile but no longer gets any at home  :dance:

Offline affric

My first punt felt like the most exciting and dangerous thing I've done in my life.

For not that much cash in the grand scheme of things the most attractive woman I'd ever seen with her kit off rubbed her tits in my face then sucked me off.   I couldn't believe it was happening, I felt so so nervous, guilty, shamed, yet thrilled and alive.

Subsequent visits to WGs haven't felt the same.    That blew my mind, now I know what can be experienced and how easy it is to experience it it's all a bit more matter of fact.  That level of excitement won't be revisited, I know that.


Have lurked here since May, first meet was in June and your post almost exactly describes my experience, which was first sex outside marriage (valid reasons, so I keep telling myself) in over twenty years.

 I could not have been more nervous, but the experience was clean, safe, serene and absolutely sublime, although I was far too nervous for the sex to be good. Genuinely like losing my virginity again.

For that I have to thank this place (and awj for brilliant research, cannot begin to think Id have done it in pre Internet days.

What I didn't think through beforehand is that there is absolutely nobody to talk to about the experience afterwards. That has been resolved by now seeing a more local 'girl" regularly, who is not only wonderfully hot but who I have brilliant comms with pre, during, post and between meets. I honestly feel this has actually secured my marriage.

ps it will be pretty bloody obvious that I'm super fluffy.

Offline johnnyboy61

Over twenty years ago, street girl who jumped in the car directed me to a tower block half a mile away. Took me to an empty flat a few floors up into a bedroom with nothing but a bare mattress on the floor.

Two more experiences with street girls followed, one who charged extra for everything and ended up costing me a fortune and another who had a kid in the next door room. Put me off for a while and got my kicks from parlours with massage and HE, until I started getting FS at some and then I was off again. Mainly using back page of local rag, but things have improved considerably with AW and UKP and I rarely have a bad punt nowadays.

Can't say that I pine for the tower block deserted flat bare mattress on floor experience. And being over twenty years ago, no kissing and OW.
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Over twenty years ago, street girl who jumped in the car directed me to a tower block half a mile away. Took me to an empty flat a few floors up into a bedroom with nothing but a bare mattress on the floor.
Nice to see someone did the same apprenticeship as I did.

Have lurked here since May, first meet was in June and your post almost exactly describes my experience, which was first sex outside marriage (valid reasons, so I keep telling myself) in over twenty years.

 I could not have been more nervous, but the experience was clean, safe, serene and absolutely sublime, although I was far too nervous for the sex to be good. Genuinely like losing my virginity again.

For that I have to thank this place (and awj for brilliant research, cannot begin to think Id have done it in pre Internet days.

What I didn't think through beforehand is that there is absolutely nobody to talk to about the experience afterwards. That has been resolved by now seeing a more local 'girl" regularly, who is not only wonderfully hot but who I have brilliant comms with pre, during, post and between meets. I honestly feel this has actually secured my marriage.

ps it will be pretty bloody obvious that I'm super fluffy.
Excellent first post. Please do consider posting a review of your regular.  :hi:

Offline anyfucker

My first punt was in January 2014. I did it because I was sexually inhibited and my brother, whose wife had died a year or so previously, had been seeing escorts and had confessed to me. This led the way. I had been puritanically dismissive of his explaining to me how marvellous the girls were, how it wasn't as simple as I thought...
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If it had been a bad or medocre experience I probably wouldn't have continued. But to the small-minded, relatively inexperienced guy I was then, it was like discovering a whole new world.
Uncle, you have come a long way in just 20 months and some amazing punts under your belt.

For me my first punt was ~30 years ago, a week in Bangkok on business staying in a 5* hotel. The local expats showed me the scene and i took a different girl "home" every night for a week, fecking brilliant  :cool:

Online The Owl

Many years ago in a dodgy south London massage parlour. The woman was hot, tattooed and sucked cock like a champ but it was a rush job. After that I did my research and screwed Melanie and Sam at the Cottage in Soho. I developed EAS with Sam so moved on. Ended my first foray with three great indies: Kim of Dartford, Jade of Welwyn City Garden and Emma Demontford of Birmingham before meeting a civvy and quitting.

I think I learnt that I had a habit of picking escorts with the Pisces starsign. Indie women were more fun and human (sex and a decent conversation). I should have fucked Jade a lot more as she was incredible in bed (beaten only by a one night stand who hooked up with me on a rebound before realising her mistake after we'd fucked like rabbits all night).

Tried not to come back to p4p but after a long time out of the dating game and being messed about by two women I gave in and booked an escort on impulse... now it's going to take an impressive woman to make me want to stop my fun and freedom.

Offline lonn

Hi, this is my first post so it being about a first punt seems appropriate.

About 18 months back I had a health scare which luckily turned out not to have been quite so fatal as it could have been but left me with a bit of a different outlook on life. I realised how close I'd come to 'game over' and that if there's anything you want to do in life get it done now. So, in March last year, and after a load of false starts, I found AW and booked my first WG. What followed was one of the most incredible experiences of my life. Beautiful girl, incredible hour in her company - in fact the whole thing felt like it was happening to someone else, it was surreal. Since then I've seen her at least 20 times and it just gets better but I have tried other girls with less success. So my first punt was a bit like learning to drive in a Rolls Royce, a tough act to follow to which none of the other girls I've tried have come close.

That said, I now find myself up for anything. I'm having a 2 girl with my regular in April and toying with idea of a T-girl on the basis of try anything once and if you don't like it don't do it again. :)


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