im in the same boat, i have more or less packed it in. i havent even punted this year and im not even hungry for one now. I really dont think the majority of them appreciate the amount of money that is being handed over, most of them are spending it in their heads during the punts and wondering what kind of shoes they are going to buy with it. you frequently hear excuses like 'my mouth is getting dry so ill have to stop sucking now' after like 5 minutes oral then you get the ones that give a sarcastic sigh when you ask to change positions with the look on their face which says 'jesus havent you cum yet?' its all very off-putting and its beginning to feel like a waste of money and time.