To Punt or Not to Punt (BIG DILEMMA!!)

[Firebird]

Please read through it all lads, apologies if it get's boring... 

I was made unemployed a few months back and therefore money has been in short supply, I'm a young man in his early 20's and like all of you on here I love punting (well, shagging in general) and a couple of hours ago I booked a 1 hour in call for tomorrow evening that will set me back the standard £150. Now, it was my birthday a fortnight ago and I received quite a bit of cash from various relatives, I've only spent about eighty quid of it and at the moment I am sitting pretty with a good few hundred pounds, I don't drive (I'm getting lessons which aren't cheap) and what with me currently being on a diet and trying to shed a few pounds, buying new clothes is out of the question, there aren't really any expenses coming up that I can think of (besides the next block of driving lessons).

The girl I have booked to see certainly looks hot in her photos, she does OWO, DFK, all the essentials and judging from our email correspondence, she seems like a very nice girl, however, from the moment I made the booking I haven't been 100% sure about it and I am thinking about cancelling, I can't stop thinking about the idea of me just handing over £150 for the sake of 1 hour, all those tenners and twenty pound notes, all gone for just one solitary shag. I have been punting since last year and for a while this mentality didn't exist, but in the past 6-8 months it has started to manifest everytime I make a booking, I don't know if it's because I am unemployed and therefore know that I should try and keep a hold of my cash or maybe I'm just becoming a tight arse in my old age.

Part of me thinks fuck it, you only live once, you're a long time dead so enjoy yourself and then another part of me thinks, fuck it, have a wank and save yourself one hundred and fifty bucks, keep a hold of the money for a while, save it for something special. I still have the rest of the day to cancel the booking but I need some advice, should I punt or should I cancel the booking?????

[Superbad]

Or find a cheaper escort who offers better VFM

[johnbanebridge]

Hi, my advice would be to cancel while you are unemployed. I don't know your situation but typically you never know when you will become employed again and have the cash to spare. I would save and return to punting when you are able to.

[seeker]

I only punt with spare cash ie.
not needed for essential things ..
If I was you ....I'd cancell. ...£150 is a lot of money
when your unemployed ....especially as you say for just
an hour of fun .
Save her on your 1st to do
when your back on your feet... money wise ..
But it's your choice 

[seeker]

I'm not even going to ask for a link
£150 an hour 
She can fuck right off

[Firebird]

My head's telling me one thing and my cock's telling me another 

[johnbanebridge]

Hi again, as someone who tends to think with his penis far too often I always feel deep regret when I have let my penis get the better of me. I know it is difficult but I would say be strong and wait. Like seeker said put her on your to do list and come back when you are in safer position. A silver lining may be that the anticipation will make it even better when you finally meet her. However may I would suggest making a decision  quickly, the sooner the better if you are going to cancel it is only fair you let the lady know with decent notice.

PS: out of curiosity do you mind giving a link to her profile.

[vw]

Maybe driving lessons should be priority, will make you more employable  then you can punt every day/week/month as required.  Invest now reap the rewards later.

[claretandblue]

Would be able to give you a better opinion if you provided a link to the whore in question 

[threechilliman]

Maybe driving lessons should be priority, will make you more employable  then you can punt every day/week/month as required.  Invest now reap the rewards later.

Good advice.

I guess it seems a lot as you probably don't have many other outgoings. I think for a lot of the older guys with mortgages and kids, £100-150 on a punt barely makes a ripple. I set myself a budget and stick to it so it's now just a normal outgoing for me - I might not think like that of course if money was tight, but it isn't. I'm not a millionaire or anything like it, but I can afford a few of the luxuries in life now. I tend to think of it as my own little pampering session and no different to a woman going to the hairdressers/beauticians/spa days and all the other crap they spend money on.

tcm

[MancSean]

I agree with John cancel save the money till you are working and have a good long tug instead

[RandyF]

It's a slippery slope, your contemplating spending what you've already admitted you can't afford. That's how people end up totally fucked and in debt the rest of their life's. 

The fact the spare cash came has from family/friends, would for me personally,  make it 100x more difficult to blow it on an overpriced hoor- if you'd won it down the Gala Casino or found in the street, well fuck why not, but you didn't...

Find  a proper dirty wee 60/hh hoor, if you really can't resist the urge.  She won't be anything like £90 worse.

[Sureshot]

Hi, my advice would be to cancel while you are unemployed. I don't know your situation but typically you never know when you will become employed again and have the cash to spare. I would save and return to punting when you are able to.

Pretty much this.

If i ever had to contemplate wether i could afford it or not, this would signal that i couldnt.

Dont waste much needed money on a prostitute.

Get a job, earn a wage and rent a whore guilt free.

[itk]

Personally, if I was in your position I'd cancel the booking. I only punt with money I put to one side over the weeks and months. Putting away money when I can I know that I can then afford and enjoy the punt.

[MancSean]

Would be able to give you a better opinion if you provided a link to the whore in question 

Why is that relevant though if the lads on the dole he should save his dosh imo

[sushi]

With punting like gambling you should only invest money you can afford to lose, why not have an half hour with a well reviewed VFM girl?

[MancSean]

This sounds like something out of Benefits Street now don't forget you might not have any money for some Cutters Choice and a few cans of Tenants

[Firebird]

Lol I can assure you I'm not anything like one of those cretins om Benefits Street, I was made redundant cause the manager couldn't afford to pay staff, despite me being one of the hardest workers in the place I was out the door, since then I've applied for pretty much everything that's going.

Apologies for going over old ground but do you not think that because it's money that I received as a present and the fact that I don't have any upcoming expenses that I maybe should go for it?

I know you've all pretty much answered that already but am dying for a shag, the urge is unbelievable!!!

[MancSean]

How confident are you getting a job by October?  What do you do by the way. Take no offence about the Benefits Street comment I have been where you are now. And I did cut down on the punting the first time but I did have quite a few punts. I never signed on so didn't feel as guilty

[Firebird]

How confident are you getting a job by October?  What do you do by the way. Take no offence about the Benefits Street comment I have been where you are now. And I did cut down on the punting the first time but I did have quite a few punts. I never signed on so didn't feel as guilty

No offence taken mate 

Well I've been unemployed for quite a while now but I'm going to really start knuckling down these next few weeks, I have been applying for as much as possible but I'll admit there have been a few times were I have seen jobs and not applied for them because there the kind of jobs a lot of people my age don't want. I'm pretty much just looking for a retail job or something in a warehouse, just basic work that most folk my age are doing to get by.

I just looked at my original post and noticed that I have said incall instead of outcall, the girl is meant to be coming to my flat in Glasgow tomorrow evening, I don't know if that effects anyone's opinion on the subject...

[MancSean]

No offence taken mate 

Well I've been unemployed for quite a while now but I'm going to really start knuckling down these next few weeks, I have been applying for as much as possible but I'll admit there have been a few times were I have seen jobs and not applied for them because there the kind of jobs a lot of people my age don't want. I'm pretty much just looking for a retail job or something in a warehouse, just basic work that most folk my age are doing to get by.

I just looked at my original post and noticed that I have said incall instead of outcall, the girl is meant to be coming to my flat in Glasgow tomorrow evening, I don't know if that effects anyone's opinion on the subject...

Have you tried Yodel they are always hiring although hours might not be that sociable.
Unlike most on here the fact that the money is from presents would make me more likely to go ahead. They gave you money nor kids so you could spend it how you wish.
When I told you earlier not to do it I think I was being sensible because knowing me I would go for it Punting is taking a risk and this is just another risk. If you feel you can get a job soon then the risk is minimised. Do you not have any rent or bills to pay?
Based on your last post I get the feeling you don't really want to cancel and are waiting for someone to encourage you to do it. So I will fuck the money so you can fuck the girl. Money comes and goes and fucking this girl might motivate you to look for a job more seriously

[SamLP]

Plenty of good girls much cheaper than £150.
Maybe even go for a half hour punt and possibly go for an incall.

On a off topic, I had my drivers license when I was 17.

[MancSean]

Plenty of good girls much cheaper than £150.
Maybe even go for a half hour punt and possibly go for an incall.

On a off topic, I had my drivers license when I was 17.

Good advice Sam only you know what it's like when your nob gets the better of you and wants a particular girl now!
Yeah and motorbikes at 16 those were the days. 

[SamLP]

Good advice Sam only you know what it's like when your nob gets the better of you and wants a particular girl now!
Yeah and motorbikes at 16 those were the days.

There's no right or wrong way to punt. Everyone has their budgets and methods but yeah when Mr Nob overrides your brain it can be difficult to reset your original programme. I've only ever went over £100ph 5 times, but I tend to stick with half hour punts now which can range from £40-£80. I get what I want out of it and it means I punt more regularly which is what I'm looking for as I'm currently single.

Those were the days, life was simple and fun.

[ClarkeOfTheCourse]

Punting with no job is absolute insanity. Just call her, tell her you've been laid off. You can always see her when you've got your first paycheque

[MancSean]

There's no right or wrong way to punt. Everyone has their budgets and methods but yeah when Mr Nob overrides your brain it can be difficult to reset your original programme. I've only ever went over £100ph 5 times, but I tend to stick with half hour punts now which can range from £40-£80. I get what I want out of it and it means I punt more regularly which is what I'm looking for as I'm currently single.

Those were the days, life was simple and fun.

I used to do cheaper punts more frequently visiting saunas 3 to four times a week. However now I prefer longer more expensive punts rarely spend less than £200 on a session. Strange how we can change plus this change only happened when I became single again 3 years ago. It's not as exciting pre punt but less shit punts as this site has been priceless for identifying good punts. But the fact we are all different when it comes to girls and punting frequency makes this hobby even more intriguing

[Firebird]

Cheers for all the replies lads. A think one of the things that's making it hard for me to cancel is the fact that it's an out call, all of my previous punts have been incalls, I'm just getting really turned on by the idea of her being in my home and in my bed, all for the same price of a normal incall punt.

Anyway, I'll decide before the end of the night, thanks again lads 

[Pdubz]

you have no job yet you want to spend £150 on sex for one hour.

what if you need to eat?

dude my advice, keep the 150 and until you have a source of income then punt, if you cant keep it in your pants go for half hour or find £70ph/£80, keep the rest

end of the day, your money your decision. Good luck

[RandyF]

I just looked at my original post and noticed that I have said incall instead of outcall, the girl is meant to be coming to my flat in Glasgow tomorrow evening, I don't know if that effects anyone's opinion on the subject...

Makes it better vfm...but as you've no income, vfm isn't relevant unfortunately. There all too expensive.

If she offers incalls, do that. £2 bus fare over 20-30quid saving no brainer.

If she does come over leave your UB40 out on the mantle - not for a any chance of a concession mind, its just that way at least Sergi won't come back round later and tan the flat of a giro hunter

These jobs your mention aren't going to sustain many 150/h hoors either,  to be honest mate.  Loads of call centre jobs in G1. If you can speak, have 2 arms 2 legs you can get a start at the shite ones.

[Dave2014]

Cancel the booking. Like everything else in life: if you can't afford it, don't buy it.

There will come a point where you are employed again and can afford to punt. Until then, don't help any added financial pressure on yourself by wasting your money on a WG. I can assure you, you will feel terrible afterwards.

[Cuntminion]

if it's your only punt see a well reviewed sp I say

I don't buy nothing if used had excess cash it would go on an extra punt figure what you personally enjoy get the most from


I actually have a preppers kit (like crazy muricans) it contains enough for a final punt, bottle of vodka, survival knife , cat photo

[Firebird]

if it's your only punt see a well reviewed sp I say

I don't buy nothing if used had excess cash it would go on an extra punt figure what you personally enjoy get the most from


I actually have a preppers kit (like crazy muricans) it contains enough for a final punt, bottle of vodka, survival knife , cat photo

So you're saying go ahead with the punt?

[Cuntminion]

So you're saying go ahead with the punt?

I would but I live month to month with no regard for a future


That's my advice and that's where it's from

[Cuntminion]

Also if you don't get the call centre job every cloud....
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