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Offline unclesweetheart

Anticipating a very pleasant meet in a couple of weeks and am thinking that I'll need/want to lay off the self-abuse for a week or so at least beforehand to ensure the tanks are full. You often read in reviews references to "letting her have 5 days' worth" or some such: but is this something of a myth? Obviously it makes sense - or it does for me - to abstain for a couple lof days beforehand but beyond that - is there really any point? Is there a doctor in the forum?
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USH, I think different guys are different. From my own experience, I find about 2-3 days abstinence the right time before a good punt. This gives me the throbbing feeling in my cock & I get maximum enjoyment. Anything too much more abstinence, I find the throbbing feeling during anticipation goes away & I can cum lots more during the punt but it is not generally anywhere as enjoyable! You need to find the perfect your own perfect balance.

Btw, who are you planning on saving your precious juice for? Link please.

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5 days works for me, but I'm like the guy trying to give up the gear in Trainspotting by the end.

Offline Quesadilla

Of course it's all individual - your fitness, exercise, diet etc etc will all affect your ability to cum on a given day as well as your sexual habits.

Re habits - for a youngster who could literally jizz in his pants with the slighest provocation abstinence will make things much worse - probably better to whack off before going on a punt!  For older guys you might benefit slightly from abstaining for a few days.  But my experience as someone in mid-40s is exactly as you suggest US - any more than 36-48 hours makes zero difference to my ability to cum. 

That said, if you get stuck in a rut of always cumming the same way - especially watching porn and with a death grip wanking style - then you will train yourself to only cum that one way and may struggle. 

Ultimately variety is the spice of life.  When I'm regularly fucking - ie at least two or three times a week - I'd say that if anything, having cum once, my chances of cumming again are definitely improved by cumming more often whether through wanking or regular sex - my body just gets used to recovering more quickly. The key is not to get stuck in a rut of always cumming the same way - whether masturbation or with a partner. 

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In terms of spunk I'm pretty sure the tank's full as it can be after 48hrs... Maybe abstaining for 5 days gives one a psychological boost though? Y'know, a feeling of the dam's gonna burst sort of thing.

my record was 17 days, wasnt too difficult as i was pretty busy at the time and new i had a punt on the horizon. I nearly passed out. ive since read that 4 days is the maximum amount of time you can 'save it up' for and after that it slowly seeps out anyway but after having the will power to leave myself alone for just over two weeks i can tell you first hand that is not true

Two days I would say works for me - but wanking only provides very short term relief from those filthy desires. :bomb:

Offline itk

Was lining up a punt today, but that fell through so now it's 11 days. God help whoever gets in the way when I go off. To be honest though it doesn't feel that long, not really had the urge at home and it's been near impossible to get time for a punt.

Offline purple_t

Testosterone levels peak at 7 days of absitence, after that they fall again (weird I know, but look it up). So on day 7 you will feel horny as fuck. That may or may not be a good thing for a punt depending on what you are looking for. I know that I would probably cum too quickly. I like to abstain for 3-4 days before a punt.

Offline unclesweetheart

Testosterone levels peak at 7 days of absitence, after that they fall again (weird I know, but look it up). So on day 7 you will feel horny as fuck. That may or may not be a good thing for a punt depending on what you are looking for. I know that I would probably cum too quickly. I like to abstain for 3-4 days before a punt.

7 days it is, then. Many thanks. Will post a review afterwards & say whether or not it worked!

Have to say that it was horny as fuck when, once, a girl I was going to see also abstained for a couple of days before our meet. I told her she could edge but that was all. I know it's often a bit of a line - "O I haven't been fucked in so lomg I'm just dying for your cock" etc - but I totally believed the girl in this case and the session was epic. 
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Offline Quesadilla

Testosterone levels peak at 7 days of absitence, after that they fall again (weird I know, but look it up). So on day 7 you will feel horny as fuck. That may or may not be a good thing for a punt depending on what you are looking for. I know that I would probably cum too quickly. I like to abstain for 3-4 days before a punt.

I did look it up - everything I read said masturbation has no notable effect on testosterone levels - other than a brief spike during and then a drop to normal levels.  :unknown:
http://examine.com/faq/does-ejaculation-affect-testosterone-levels.html
http://yourbrainonporn.com/whats-the-connection-between-orgasm-and-testosterone-levels
http://www.livestrong.com/article/246689-the-effects-of-masturbation-on-testosterone/
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Offline closeshave

im currently at 7 days into a 10 day abstinance, have  asession with Mistress comign up then

Offline the_exile

5 days works for me, but I'm like the guy trying to give up the gear in Trainspotting by the end.

Yeah, saved up for 5 days before one punt and all I seemed to be thinking of all week was sex! Not a good week for work. The session itself was great, one of the few when I've managed to cum three times in two hours. Couldn't go at it as hard as I wanted to on the first round as I didn't want to cum too soon but piled into her when I fucked her again and it felt fantastic. Absolutely filled the first two condoms!

Offline hw189

Yeah, saved up for 5 days before one punt and all I seemed to be thinking of all week was sex! Not a good week for work. The session itself was great, one of the few when I've managed to cum three times in two hours. Couldn't go at it as hard as I wanted to on the first round as I didn't want to cum too soon but piled into her when I fucked her again and it felt fantastic. Absolutely filled the first two condoms!

I had a long wait to meet the highly praised and popular E C B today and had abstained for 6 days prior to her meet. Just like how you mention, the waiting period was torturous and seemed like an eternity. I easily popped three times in the one hour session I had with her, with the first two pops being over rather uncontrollably in a matter of seconds (few strokes of her OWO or thrusts missionary). Gushed out loads on all rounds.


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