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Jasper56

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Never thought i would need to write this review,having seen Amber 4 times,see AW feedback.
But while our time was as i wrote,i trusted Amber,but my trust has been badly betrayed.

Amber Ryder is a LIAR,CHEAT,SCAMMER,DISHONEST,RIP OFF MERCHANT......

Possible that she the best escort ive seen,but at same time,has earnt the title WORST ESCORT I'VE DEALT WITH.

I had seen her twice,Feb/March....and booked a third meeting,she had moved to new flat,and asked if i would be willing to give her some or all the money of third meeting in advance,as she claimed to have a lot to pay on her new stuff in flat.
I was offered 30 min extra as a thank you...no charge.

Bit odd to be asked,but i had seen her twice,had exchanged email and text,so had formed a sort of friendship,she might be an escort,but she had the right to be treated with RESPECT,as a young lady.....Thought that RESPECT went both ways.
I agreed to give her the money in advance,and had my bank pay into her account.....
The booking had already been set,but on the day,she was unwell,or so she claimed,
(think she was really unwell,but i have had so many lies from her now,i really do not trust a letter of any word she has said).

AS she was unwell (if true),we set a new date,and i booked Hotel in Nottingham,plus made a second booking following day....
I put the money in account (for following days meeting) few days before these meetings,saved me getting cash out,or the need to have cash in hotel room.....I TRUSTED HER :(((((
These bookings took place 4th/5th May......see feedback/field reports.(the flat one was an hour short,due to soreness)

In my last field report,i said she was planning a tour,in my area....Cambridge,
Then she thought Cambridge/Stansted....the idea was i would see her twice,in Cambridge and then in my home....
then she thought,not Cambridge,not Stansted,but London.....I did not want to travel to London Hotel,so plan became that she would visit me at home......

Also looking ahead,planned meeting on my Birthday,so we had many more planned meetings.
I said earlier,how we had formed a sort of friendship,so when she was a bit down,for whatever reason,personal stuff,she said about needing a break,Spa break in Spain.
I offered to give her the money in advance,as i had done twice before.....without any problem,i trusted her,i gave her £700,being two 3 hours.....Cambridge/my place.....I gave her another £400 which would be my Birthday one.
Amber was grateful,and said we could do as time,OR she would repay,or part and part.....
Now you might be thinking i was stupid to trust her......but i had seen her 4 times,and she had said her Reputation was important,and i always had AW feedback if she was not as she said....honest....not take the piss...etc etc.

She did not do the tour,but right up to last few days,she was saying we were still good for the June 19th....the day she was going to visit me.....then she said,how i would have to go to her,in Nottingham......because she was NOT doing the London tour.

When she had been planning London,i had sorted out going to Notts the following week,as i wanted to see her,but not in London...
i arranged with Amber,days,times,booked my hotel...sent booking form with our agreed dates etc....
Then few days later,she tells me she had made mistake,and was going on holiday to Turkey...so she marked booking forms unavailable and deleted them....
My hotel was booked on NO CHANGE/CANCEL.....i could not get refund.
She seemed totally dismissive that i was not happy......and when i said,i did not want to text her or get text from her at that TIME,as i did not want to say anything rude,she did not like that....
Saying if i was going to be like that,she would just give me the money back,as she did not want to keep it,she had done a lot of work,so would have no problem paying it back,even if at £300 a week.

I suggested we could sort it out after her holiday,and while i was hurt,cross etc i wished her a good holiday.
On her return,i sent text to wish her happy birthday....
i got leave me alone,im giving you your money back etc etc.....
I still thought she was honest,and still wanted to sort it out,so we could meet as we had intended.
We had always done 3hrs,apart from 4th visit,when Amber was sore,new razor....when we did 2hrs.

She agreed to seeing each other,but only 2.5hr bookings,take it or leave it.
Now it is only 30 min less,but as i have round trip of 250 miles,i was not happy to do shorter visits.
so i said no,i would have the money back......when ever i disagree with her,i get abuse,but even now,as i write this,ive been polite.
So it seemed as if Amber was going to return my £1200,being the £700 + £400 + hour lost due to soreness.
She told me she would pay £200 in 7th or 8th July,then following week,£500.
Not really how i wanted things to be,but i was not willing to do shorter.....we had 7.5 hrs,plus the £400 Birthday,so with 250 miles,plus hotel etc.....all adds to my costs......and i had paid for my hotel while she went to Turkey......that cost me £250,and she was not there.

Because i did not agree to 2.5 hr.....Amber claims i broke the deal.....really?
Amber had been unwell April 17th,so reset date,4th/5th May.
Amber had failed to do Cambridge/Stansted/London/My home tour.....
Amber agreed meetings,times,hotel,but once i had sent booking forms,and paid for hotel.....she went to Turkey,left me high and dry.
And Amber feels i broke the deal by not agreeing to HER change of amount of time,2.5 hrs rather than 3hrs. 

She has agreed to pay me the money,she has said NO REFUNDS,she will give me my money,no she will not give any back.
IT IS A MESS....

The Amber i thought i first dealt with,sadly that person seems to have gone.....
I wrote to Adultwork,as i feel she has broken the site rules.

AdultWork.com is operated in an open and honest fashion as a club for the benefit of the members. Anyone found to be acting in a manner deemed to be outside the spirit of the club or in any way against the interest of the club and its members will be removed and any credits they have accumulated will be forfeited. The Webmasters decision on this will be final.

 Amber has over 180 good feedback,how many other clients has she ripped off Adultwork?.
How can she get away with ripping off people like she has,and be allowed to go on with great feedback?

I will leave others to work out if you want to see this person,or stay clear of her.
I have waited for her to do the right thing......i waited long enough.



Offline Northerndave666

Hate reading this short reviews, could you put some more detail in it next time?  :P

Don't know why, but took the time to read this diatribe from a first-time poster and hate to say it, but ever heard the phrase, a fool and his money ? I'll leave you to work out which role in that phrase you play.


Sureshot

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I got a bit lost in all that but the conclusion is very clear - you are a mug. 

You handed over £1100 to a prostitute you thought was your friend and seem surprised when she doesnt honour her part of the deal.

Lesson learnt from now on - think with your brain, not your dick.

Offline Bigus Dickus

This either sounds like a well crafted fantasy or you are the dumbest punter in the UK! How about you start with publishing some proof such as screenshots of your payments!

If you have really been scammed then you will be supported here!

A very odd first post though!

 :wackogirl:

Sureshot

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This either sounds like a well crafted fantasy or you are the dumbest punter in the UK! How about you start with publishing some proof such as screenshots of your payments!

If you have really been scammed then you will be supported here!

A very odd first post though!

 :wackogirl:

Supported maybe, but i cannot give any credibility to a man who hands over his money so readily without expecting the consequences.

If the op is true then ms ryder deserves retribution.  Jasper, however, is still a daft cunt.

Offline Ipunter

I don't think this is true...

vw

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I'm sorry you got sucked into punterlove, what's her link you missed that out of your review.  Think it will have to be a case of cutting your losses or the anger will eat you up if you become obsessed with it.

I don't need to tell you the lessons you have learned from this, but don't let it destroy you.  Just post her link here so it slows her business and move on, 99.9% chance of getting your money back.

How did you pay her out of interest ?

yorkshire123

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 OP a link would be nice in the future External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

I assume this is you?

Quote
If Carlsberg made escorts,they would NEVER match Amber,This young lady is my little Royal Princess....SPECIAL ,VERY SPECIAL.


Soppy fucker  :D

vw

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OP a link would be nice in the future External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

I assume this is you?
 
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If Carlsberg made escorts,they would NEVER match Amber,This young lady is my little Royal Princess....SPECIAL ,VERY SPECIAL.

Soppy fucker  :D
And they called it punterlove
Oh I guess they'll never know
How a young heart really feels
And why I love her so

And they called it punterlove
Just because we're in our teens
Tell them all, please tell them it isn't fair
To take away my only dream

I cry each night my tears for you
My tears are all in vain
I hope and I pray that maybe someday
You'll be back (you'll be back) in my arms (in my arms)
Once again (you'll be back in my arms once again)

Someone help me, help me, help me please
Is the answer up above?
How can I, oh how can I tell them
This is not a punterlove

Someone help me, help me, help me please
Is the answer up above?
How can I, oh how can I tell them
This is not a punterlove

(This is not a punterlove)
(This is not a punterlove)
Not a punterlove
(This is not a punterlove)
(This is not a punterlove)

Offline Turtle Z

Reads like a very genuine review to me, albeit posted by an idiot. Another mug punter who thought he could buy a prossies affections.  :dash:

Offline Owwhatanight

Well I am booked in tomorrow and cannot wait. I will pay my money fuck and go. That's what we do :hi:

Offline arthur

How often ive read these types of threads with punters talking of their 'friendships' and being 'hurt' by the actions of a WG  :dash: :dash:
Combine that with the first time post and the fact you sound a bit of an emotional prat and your going to get a lot of criticism, so you need to post proof first and foremost.

For some reason im inclined to believe the story; she must have took the money with the intention to repay, thought she could mess you around and when you showed some annoyance the relationship turned sour, wg's tend to think they have the upper hand in this dynamic cos there used to hearing nothing but praise from punters and don't think you have a right to show annoyance.

If its all proven to be true she needs to repay to avoid the blacklist, you can not refuse to pay someone money owed because of a fallout.

SamcroPunter

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Well I am booked in tomorrow and cannot wait. I will pay my money fuck and go. That's what we do :hi:


+1

Offline arthur

Well I am booked in tomorrow and cannot wait. I will pay my money fuck and go. That's what we do :hi:

Get the full story for us, although it would probably take up half of your booking  :D

Offline Ipunter

Well I am booked in tomorrow and cannot wait. I will pay my money fuck and go. That's what we do :hi:

Damn I've been doing it all wrong!

password02

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This either sounds like a well crafted fantasy or you are the dumbest punter in the UK! How about you start with publishing some proof such as screenshots of your payments!

If you have really been scammed then you will be supported here!

A very odd first post though!

 :wackogirl:

+1 - Please provide details - If you have her bank details then tell her you will publish on the internet - Not sure if this will mean she will publish your bank details?

vw

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Damn I've been doing it all wrong!
This advanced payment lark really works out for people though !  Never heard of paying 2 in advance so what can we conclude?

Offline arthur

What type of OP posts an essay like this which clearly took a while to write, and 3-4 hours later hasn't been on to respond to comments, definitely reading the thread offline!

Offline Turtle Z

He obviously spat his dummy out. He'll probably be begging her for forgiveness soon and asking admin to take the review  down because it was all a misunderstanding.  :dash:

vw

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He obviously spat his dummy out. He'll probably be begging her for forgiveness soon and asking admin to take the review  down because it was all a misunderstanding.  :dash:
I was structured like the Whiskey was talking very difficult ramblings to follow.  Think your right and will ask for removal..

Never book a hooker or review one drunk.

Offline rnrn636

This advanced payment lark really works out for people though !  Never heard of paying 2 in advance so what can we conclude?
Exactly!! I don't care how good her reputation is but to part cash up front twice is beyond stupid?
« Last Edit: August 09, 2015, 11:49:11 pm by rnrn636 »

Offline Owwhatanight

The op calls her his Royal Princess in Aw feedback ????  :rose:

vw

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The op calls her his Royal Princess in Aw feedback ????  :rose:
Well he has been royally screwed now !

Jackjones

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I was structured like the Whiskey was talking very difficult ramblings to follow.  Think your right and will ask for removal..

Never book a hooker or review one drunk.

He can ask for removal all he wants you know unless admin thinks it's bogus it's here for life now.

On that note Jasper56 field reports read the same as this one BUT he's missing a negative about this crap. So it's really him or some one has gone to a lot of trouble to fake it.

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NottsDB

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After reading the thread AND the feedback, it's very cringey. For someone to get that many positive reviews and then turn around and want to do something that short sighted doesn't add up. I think perhaps the OP got a bit too obsessed and now he's trying to bad mouth the WG.

firingblanks

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Gullible
Working girls will never become good friends or girlfriends.
Money is their 1 and only motivation.

Guys who think they are good friends with a WG after a couple of visits is deluding himself.

I hope you take this as a life lesson.
They "JUST" want your money, and if your stupid enough to hand it over by BACS in advance your daft.
To do it twice your really thick.

Go back to wanking, it's probably best for you.

Offline Iloveoral

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It's a sad one to read, obviously if it's true and I'm thinking it possibly is as I know a guy similar to this, visits a WG once a month, takes her shopping before, turned into a a friendship in his eyes, and a regular in hers, sending money up front and only seeing one girl ever sounds too familiar.

The reality is she in it for the money only, it sounds like things have progressed further than being able to "work off the debt" you might want to call the police with your bank statement as proof embarrassing as it will be, probably the only way your getting any money back now or deep breath and walk away I don't think there's any middle ground.

Or some of the lads here use your credits and mail you a cheque? Hehe

Deep down you must be feeling anger at yourself for misplaced trust, you know you've been daft, lesson is don't do it again !!!

vw

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Deep down you must be feeling anger at yourself for misplaced trust, you know you've been daft, lesson is don't do it again !!!
He put he on such a pedestal by the looks of it, one should take your sanity seriously and have more than 3 in a rotation to prevent the punterlove.   Feel for the guy but some of lives greatest lessons are hard.  If he is listening DON'T LET IT CONSUME YOU.

Offline Ipunter

I think this Jasper needs help... She doesn't love you pal, get yourself on POF

Refer to https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=62392.0


Offline RedKettle

I am lining up a punt with Amber and this review will not put me off that is for sure - either it is a load of bollocks or the OP is an idiot!

password02

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Has the OP been back since posting?. This is looking very suspect IMO.

Offline j122

Not met Amber so can't really comment....

Seeing as his feedback got weirder and weirder (I can't be arsed to read the field reports so don't know if they're as bad) he probably got a bad case of EAS & she might of refused to see him again so he wrote this to get back at her.

But I could be wrong  :unknown:

Offline Owwhatanight

I have cancelled my meeting with her today as she is pretty fucked up. She read the review last night and has not slept much since. Told me he keeps turning up at her house, sending 3 page letters all because she will not see him. Rearranged my meeting for when she is in top form as I am paying for a trouble free service.
I have gifts for her dog only ...?

« Last Edit: August 10, 2015, 11:09:08 am by Owwhatanight »

Offline Iloveoral

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If she has read this and from what's been said by people that's seen her she seems pretty genuine and honest, she needs to text this guy or call him with financial solution in agreement With him staying away, I'd be pretty pissed if I was a grand or so down so I'm feeling his pain, but to be honest I wouldn't have got in that situation to start with, I'm sure his heart was in the right place to start but it seems more important his money was in the wrong place wrong time,  I got close to a thai girl we all know, she is a very good friend as in we talk but my head is strewed on and feet firmly on the ground, Im not a cash dispenser or hand out free personal loans either lol, as ipunters post stated and I totally agree with him it will never be love with a girl that's still working simple as that, but some sensible resolve is required as it sounds like if he carry's on the plod will be paying him a visit for harassment.....if she is that upset by all this that might not be far off

password02

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Some people are assuming he actually gave her the money?  Do we definitely know that as fact? ??.

Who do we believe? 

Offline Owwhatanight

Amber has Just accepted my new booking and stated this is not about money, she owes nothing and never scammed anyone as her customers on ukp will know. This is about him wanting a piece of her. More than possessive She Said this has happened to him before with another local now gone WG.

password02

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Amber has Just accepted my new booking and stated this is not about money, she owes nothing and never scammed anyone as her customers on ukp will know. This is about him wanting a piece of her. More than possessive She Said this has happened to him before with another local now gone WG.

I could be wrong but in this case I am siding with the WG - Several reasons

1. The OP has made the post and has not even had the balls to come back and see the replies.
2. 1st post with a negative which is sometimes ok but too many gaps in the story
3. Although AW feed back is in most cases is useless in 90% of case the fact is that she has 5 Positive reviews from 4 UKP different members.
4. Can the OP be that stupid to BACS money into a WG bank account?
AND
5. The WG seems like and sounds like a professional - Would she EVER give a client seen 2-3 times her bank account details?
IMO a big FAT NO -

So in this case I am siding with the WG   :thumbsup:  and not with the OP  :thumbsdown:





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Amber has Just accepted my new booking and stated this is not about money, she owes nothing and never scammed anyone as her customers on ukp will know. This is about him wanting a piece of her. More than possessive She Said this has happened to him before with another local now gone WG.

Think here the way to go is book her for half hour, fuck her for 35 mins, if she doesn't start moaning give her a positive review as we want girls who shut the fuck up and get on with what we pay them for.

Any bullshit off her or clock watching its a negative. While I doubt the OP due to his disappearance, something has gone on between them, probably both at fault.

Make her earn her money, pound away from the get go.

Offline Owwhatanight

Ok Diehard I will do just that for you tomorrow :D but no half hour here with a girl like her. I do not give a fuck about him.
I choose my women, I pay my money to fuck then fuck off home a happy punter
 :drinks:

Offline NottsNylonLuvr

Never met Amber (yet) but the Punter seems a complete thick twat.
I'm presuming the story is made up, mostly because he's not even returned to check out our 'advice'.
Hit & run negative thinking thw damage is done.
Wouldn't be surprised to see the same post somewhere else.

Offline Bangers and Gash

No offence, but the OP sounds like a fruit and nutcase.  :crazy:

It's just a shame she's not a bit cheaper...  ;)

Offline Owwhatanight

I have booked her for £120ph special offer

Offline monkeybucket

I have booked her for £120ph special offer

Is her special all inclusive or still +£20 for up the bum fun?  Not in nottingham at all for the next few weeks but 120 all in may tempt me..i keep meaning to retir from this game too :thumbsdown:

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You would expect a reply from the OP if he is genuine, as said by a few guys... First post on the site and its a neg never looks good ...... We wait....

Offline Iloveoral

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I've just looked at Ambers aw profile she seems fit :) and for £20 you get a dip in the chocolate box :)


External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

For anyone else not familiar with her
« Last Edit: August 10, 2015, 03:41:44 pm by Iloveoral »

Offline Bangers and Gash

I have booked her for £120ph special offer

Eh..special offer???  Pray tell, kind Sir!  :hi:

Offline monkeybucket

I've just looked at Ambers aw profile she seems fit :) and for £20 you get a dip in the chocolate box :)


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its only a little chocolate box too worth the extra, better than a thorntons soft centres selection

Offline Turtle Z

Why does there have to be a good guy and a bad guy in this? You think that a WG who sells herself for money would think twice about taking advantage of a mug punter? You also think it can't be possible because she has been reviewed by four punters on here as providing a good service? As my Gran used to say, you probably wouldn't get enough good parts from one to fix the other one with.  :hi:


Offline j122

Eh..special offer???  Pray tell, kind Sir!  :hi:

It was on her profile the other day & added to the offers thread. Might want to keep an eye on it  ;)

AmberRyder has her Special offer back at £120 ph and only on a few days she says :drinks:

achilles

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If true and going on his field reports it may well be, he sounds like an absolute dickhead and this is from a 'softie'!

Going off topic but currently corresponding with a Russian lady, just got to the point of the exercise of asking me for money!  :lol:
I just love the game, the ego boost and pictures... did I tell you she loves me as well!  :yahoo:

If you don't step out of your fantasy world, the real world will bite you on the bum!