Never thought i would need to write this review,having seen Amber 4 times,see AW feedback.
But while our time was as i wrote,i trusted Amber,but my trust has been badly betrayed.
Amber Ryder is a LIAR,CHEAT,SCAMMER,DISHONEST,RIP OFF MERCHANT......
Possible that she the best escort ive seen,but at same time,has earnt the title WORST ESCORT I'VE DEALT WITH.
I had seen her twice,Feb/March....and booked a third meeting,she had moved to new flat,and asked if i would be willing to give her some or all the money of third meeting in advance,as she claimed to have a lot to pay on her new stuff in flat.
I was offered 30 min extra as a thank you...no charge.
Bit odd to be asked,but i had seen her twice,had exchanged email and text,so had formed a sort of friendship,she might be an escort,but she had the right to be treated with RESPECT,as a young lady.....Thought that RESPECT went both ways.
I agreed to give her the money in advance,and had my bank pay into her account.....
The booking had already been set,but on the day,she was unwell,or so she claimed,
(think she was really unwell,but i have had so many lies from her now,i really do not trust a letter of any word she has said).
AS she was unwell (if true),we set a new date,and i booked Hotel in Nottingham,plus made a second booking following day....
I put the money in account (for following days meeting) few days before these meetings,saved me getting cash out,or the need to have cash in hotel room.....I TRUSTED HER
((((
These bookings took place 4th/5th May......see feedback/field reports.(the flat one was an hour short,due to soreness)
In my last field report,i said she was planning a tour,in my area....Cambridge,
Then she thought Cambridge/Stansted....the idea was i would see her twice,in Cambridge and then in my home....
then she thought,not Cambridge,not Stansted,but London.....I did not want to travel to London Hotel,so plan became that she would visit me at home......
Also looking ahead,planned meeting on my Birthday,so we had many more planned meetings.
I said earlier,how we had formed a sort of friendship,so when she was a bit down,for whatever reason,personal stuff,she said about needing a break,Spa break in Spain.
I offered to give her the money in advance,as i had done twice before.....without any problem,i trusted her,i gave her £700,being two 3 hours.....Cambridge/my place.....I gave her another £400 which would be my Birthday one.
Amber was grateful,and said we could do as time,OR she would repay,or part and part.....
Now you might be thinking i was stupid to trust her......but i had seen her 4 times,and she had said her Reputation was important,and i always had AW feedback if she was not as she said....honest....not take the piss...etc etc.
She did not do the tour,but right up to last few days,she was saying we were still good for the June 19th....the day she was going to visit me.....then she said,how i would have to go to her,in Nottingham......because she was NOT doing the London tour.
When she had been planning London,i had sorted out going to Notts the following week,as i wanted to see her,but not in London...
i arranged with Amber,days,times,booked my hotel...sent booking form with our agreed dates etc....
Then few days later,she tells me she had made mistake,and was going on holiday to Turkey...so she marked booking forms unavailable and deleted them....
My hotel was booked on NO CHANGE/CANCEL.....i could not get refund.
She seemed totally dismissive that i was not happy......and when i said,i did not want to text her or get text from her at that TIME,as i did not want to say anything rude,she did not like that....
Saying if i was going to be like that,she would just give me the money back,as she did not want to keep it,she had done a lot of work,so would have no problem paying it back,even if at £300 a week.
I suggested we could sort it out after her holiday,and while i was hurt,cross etc i wished her a good holiday.
On her return,i sent text to wish her happy birthday....
i got leave me alone,im giving you your money back etc etc.....
I still thought she was honest,and still wanted to sort it out,so we could meet as we had intended.
We had always done 3hrs,apart from 4th visit,when Amber was sore,new razor....when we did 2hrs.
She agreed to seeing each other,but only 2.5hr bookings,take it or leave it.
Now it is only 30 min less,but as i have round trip of 250 miles,i was not happy to do shorter visits.
so i said no,i would have the money back......when ever i disagree with her,i get abuse,but even now,as i write this,ive been polite.
So it seemed as if Amber was going to return my £1200,being the £700 + £400 + hour lost due to soreness.
She told me she would pay £200 in 7th or 8th July,then following week,£500.
Not really how i wanted things to be,but i was not willing to do shorter.....we had 7.5 hrs,plus the £400 Birthday,so with 250 miles,plus hotel etc.....all adds to my costs......and i had paid for my hotel while she went to Turkey......that cost me £250,and she was not there.
Because i did not agree to 2.5 hr.....Amber claims i broke the deal.....really?
Amber had been unwell April 17th,so reset date,4th/5th May.
Amber had failed to do Cambridge/Stansted/London/My home tour.....
Amber agreed meetings,times,hotel,but once i had sent booking forms,and paid for hotel.....she went to Turkey,left me high and dry.
And Amber feels i broke the deal by not agreeing to HER change of amount of time,2.5 hrs rather than 3hrs.
She has agreed to pay me the money,she has said NO REFUNDS,she will give me my money,no she will not give any back.
IT IS A MESS....
The Amber i thought i first dealt with,sadly that person seems to have gone.....
I wrote to Adultwork,as i feel she has broken the site rules.
AdultWork.com is operated in an open and honest fashion as a club for the benefit of the members. Anyone found to be acting in a manner deemed to be outside the spirit of the club or in any way against the interest of the club and its members will be removed and any credits they have accumulated will be forfeited. The Webmasters decision on this will be final.
Amber has over 180 good feedback,how many other clients has she ripped off Adultwork?.
How can she get away with ripping off people like she has,and be allowed to go on with great feedback?
I will leave others to work out if you want to see this person,or stay clear of her.
I have waited for her to do the right thing......i waited long enough.