Not being able to cum from blowjob

[Dime]

I have never came from OWO, only during penetration (usually missionary) which can be embarrassing and frustrating. Does any other punter have this issue and what do you think could be the reason for it? (I watch porn and wank a fair bit, though when I was younger, my preferred masturbation method was bed rubbing- lying on my stomach and rubbing my cock against the bed till I came). I've had WGs suck me for like 20 minutes at a time and I still couldn't cum. I would really like to experience CIM, which despite my fair number of punts I  have been unable to do so. When I'm fucking her, I could pull out when I myself getting close, but by time I pull the jacket off and get my cock into her mouth I would probably have already shot my load.   

[Ben4454]

Depends how long you last climax'd, how turned on you are within the moment etc etc

Consider not jerking off for two weeks, edge a few days before the event, cut out porn and stop googling naked girls. Consider buying a sex toy where you are not using your hands... stop using the death grip.

[Speedy]

I have never came from OWO, only during penetration (usually missionary) which can be embarrassing and frustrating. Does any other punter have this issue and what do you think could be the reason for it? (I watch porn and wank a fair bit, though when I was younger, my preferred masturbation method was bed rubbing- lying on my stomach and rubbing my cock against the bed till I came). I've had WGs suck me for like 20 minutes at a time and I still couldn't cum. I would really like to experience CIM, which despite my fair number of punts I  have been unable to do so. When I'm fucking her, I could pull out when I myself getting close, but by time I pull the jacket off and get my cock into her mouth I would probably have already shot my load.

Can u cum by wanking off? If so, wank yourself off and when you are getting close ask her to start sucking. This is what I do when the girl is particularly bad at giving a BJ.

[Silver Birch]

Ask her to use her hand to assist stimulation while giving OWO. Many wgs use this technique to make the punter cum QUICKER than he wants to.

[vw]

What you need to do is face fuck, so she can learn your preferred range of motion and rhythm.  Maybe find a piece of music that follows that rhythm so she can follow easily. 

[yorkshire123]

Same issue here, I have still only found one prossie that can bring me off via oral without the simultaneous use of her hands.
I believe a wise man once coined it "sucking like a Dyson" (good old Frank  )

[pumps]

I'd go with what Ben4544 has said, save up for a long time, and CIM will be possible. Personally I'm like yourself, I never cum from CIM (unless I've saved alot)

[Cornish sub]

Her profile says she's off work for 2 weeks, but if you ever get the chance to see Lucy May xxx (she sometimes tours), then you should definitely do so. I defy you not to cum during one of her exceptional blow jobs. She swallows the lot too.

[pianodave]

Very unusual for me to cum from pure OWO, i.e. mouth only. I treat it as foreplay.

Only time it happens is if she uses her hand too, and then it still requires quite a bit of effort, and would need to be after I'd fucked her, and was on the way towards popping.

Weirdly, I once fucked an unattractive civvy, and very soon after she blew me and I did cum, despite having emptied the tank just a few minutes earlier. I have no idea why this was, but probably something to do with the fact she was so genuinely desperate to suck me off and loving it, turned me on a bit. Or maybe I secretly like fat ugly women, who knows 

[NotoriousNot]

I also find it very difficult to reach an orgasm just through oral. The only times I can get there are when I'm really turned on, and this usually involves some extra activity, such as 69. One time with the lovely Katie from Chester, she had been sucking me like a good 'un for about 15 minutes. I was enjoying it (it felt great) but I was actually starting to lose my erection. I asked her to get up from between my legs and position herself across me on all fours, so that I could get at her backside. She was wearing a short tartan skirt and as soon as I started brushing my hand against her white knickers I was back in the game.

Then I started to lick her bum and as I tried to get my tongue to reach her knickers I realised that the job was done and she took the lot in her mouth. It was that extra element of naughtiness that did it, plus the fact that I had stopped fixating on the blowjob itself.

Maybe there is something the girl could do (or wear) that would give you that extra incentive!

[rockharders]

Normally no, but if I don't have sex or jerk off for around a week or more then yes I'm ultra sensitive and horny.

[johnnyboy61]

In a duo once one of the girls was blowing me for well over twenty minutes, but I try not to come through oral as I like to come through penetration.  She then jumped on top of me and I came within seconds. Felt like a bloody teenager again and was very embarrassed. They told me that they were very surprised I hadn't climaxed with the oral as I think that it was a little trick between them to ensure that you climaxed with not enough time for a second round, but still selling you short.

I think if you convince yourself that it isn't going to happen then it probably won't. Have occasionally done CIM, though after penetration when the going was getting tough. I then feel that I can relax and blow my load at that stage, but I'm a one pop merchant.

[SamLP]

I have never came from OWO, only during penetration (usually missionary) which can be embarrassing and frustrating. Does any other punter have this issue and what do you think could be the reason for it? (I watch porn and wank a fair bit, though when I was younger, my preferred masturbation method was bed rubbing- lying on my stomach and rubbing my cock against the bed till I came). I've had WGs suck me for like 20 minutes at a time and I still couldn't cum. I would really like to experience CIM, which despite my fair number of punts I  have been unable to do so. When I'm fucking her, I could pull out when I myself getting close, but by time I pull the jacket off and get my cock into her mouth I would probably have already shot my load.

I have similar issues both from oral and wanking. I can't wank myself off and similar to you I used to use my blanket to get off. I hardly ever cum from OWO too, have done so but either I'm uber horny or a girl is very skilled but it takes a while and some hand use helps. I would say lay off the wanking for a week and give it a go. You could also find a skilled girl who gives a prostate massage with oral and you will certainly cum from that.

[Blackpool Rock]

I used to have the same issue whereby I just couldn't cum from oral until one girl who had an excellent technique managed to get me to pop in her mouth and oh boy the sensation was so much more intense than a penetrative orgasm.
I still think the sensation is way better from CIM when the girl just sucks you or uses just a bit of hand action.

Think it was partly psychological with me as once i had done it the first time it's not been an issue for me unless the girls technique is bad.
A lot of good advise above like save it up so you are super horny and find a girl who is recommended for her oral skills, perhaps start the punt with oral on the understanding with the girl you may just CIM or opt for sex depending on "how you feel" then it takes some of the pressure off of you and if you think it ain't happening then you can still have sex without losing face or feeling bad about it.

Worth persevering though and once it happens you'll be amazed at how good it is     

[Firebird]

Because of the constant wanking and watching porn your becoming desensitized, if you avoid wanking for like a month and then go get some owo you'll probably find you'll enjoy it a hell of a lot more.

In a nutshell, stop wanking!!! 

[ArtVandalay]

Blowjobs have never done that much for me, even when I was a teenager and shagging in the pre-internet porn days.

Only thing (apart from wanking) that has ever really got me off is a hot wet pussy

[AgedCases]

I've never had OWO (just OW once) and it was lousy. All I could feel was the condom rubbing my bellend and it fucking hurt, so I made her stop. Now I'm on a mission to find a WG who gives OWO and can make me explode (but I'm not gonna hold my breath!).

[vw]

I have found the most effective for me are the furthest from the Porno blow jobs watched by us all.  The spitting is a boner killer also for me.

To many people learning from bad pornos and assuming that is the right way.

[Smoking joe]

I've had a good few meets now, including several duos, and I seem to be able to last for a surprising amount of time from receiving oral. My first ever meet though, was with the now retired red trixy, she went at it like a dyson, and also went for anal play, not sure if she hit prostate or not but I lasted only a matter of minutes and was left hanging on to the mattress for dear life! It was probably the strongest shoot I ever had. Maybe a combination of not shooting for a few weeks, 69 with rimming and prostate play will get things moving. If not hand job until you are ready would presumably work!

[Marathon69man]

Depends on the girl for me if she has really good technique and I've not cum for a day then bingo she gets the cum, if not then it's just foreplay.

Indian bj girl in bolton always gets a mouthful however I'm fixed she's got an amazing technique and also great at the titwank ... No lube just spit.

Gets me off everytime

[SJ772]

I actually find it easier to cum from a well done BJ than sex, maybe because I haven't used condoms in my private life for over a decade, and hate the way that they desensitize the feeling.

A well done BJ with her mouth and tongue working the head, one hand wanking the shaft, the other tickling your balls , perfection.   Some girls are crap at oral and need a lot of direction.

[two20]

You don't know what you're missing, stop wanking!!

[pianodave]

Lying face down for a wank is really, really bad for your cock - it damages the blood vessels and can cause erection and orgasm difficulties. You should stop doing this.

[purple_t]

I can't cum from OWO either, I put it down to too much porn / death-grip wanking, which I am trying to cut out. I can't cum when the girl is on top either for some reason (unless it's reverse cowgirl).

But I have done CIM at the end of a punt, wanked myself off then when I'm really close (like 2 seconds away) ask the girl to start sucking!

[Quesadilla]

I really don't like to waste cum in the condom so prefer to try and finish porno style - fucking ass and / or pussy then last minute pulling the condom off and switching to BJ to CIM.  Not always easy to do but when it works it's aces.

It's pretty rare for me to CIM from just a straight bj without a lot of hand action but a good 69 will often get me there as I just love eating pussy (and ass for that matter) - really turns me on especially when the girl has a really tight peachy butt.  There's just something about CIM with my tongue buried in a pussy that seems to really work for me. 

[mr small]

I've always had difficulty in reaching climax, and initially always had one hour bookings to maximise my chances.

Recently thought I had got over it with a couple of girls getting me off for first time with just oral  but

I have then been back to old problem with some girls and not others.

For me it's a combination of the physical, i.e. not emptying sacks for few days / weeks before punt

but also

mental , how engaged am I in the punt ? whats going on in the big head WILL affect the little head, even worrying about shooting too soon or not at all will screw it up.

Will let you know if I suss a permanent fix 

[dboy74]

Some WGs can get me to cum with BJ. Others could do it all day to me and I would not cum.

For me it all depends on their technique and how attracted I am to them.

[vw]

Some WGs can get me to cum with BJ. Others could do it all day to me and I would not cum.

For me it all depends on their technique and how attracted I am to them.

Had a recent case of half hearted blow job and knew she really wasn't enjoying, quickest I have ever cum from oral ever.  Maybe my preference is slow and half hearted and should ask for a shit blow job to get my rock off.  That's just me though !