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Author Topic: Has Punting Changed You For Better Or Worse?  (Read 3110 times)

Offline smartieshouse

Interested as to peoples thoughts.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Compared to when. ???
Punting for me was far better 20 years ago when I had a dozen brothels within a short drive and the girls were mostly English.
Now we have to rely too much on Adultwork which is full of headless photos, lowlife skanks and Romanians, even my street punting days were better.      :hi:

Offline smiths

Interested as to peoples thoughts.

Its mainly changed for the better in recent years due to two things, meeting and having contact with other punters and the rise of UKP. This means I could have virtually all good punts by sticking to regulars but I choose to take a risk in search of a gem when I feel like it which sometimes works, sometimes doesn't.

A/W a site run by low lifes but still the best resource I know to locate WGs with phone numbers has got worse in the last 2 years in particular in my view, its now like wading knee high in shit, all the more crucial that UKP exists to mitigate that.

Offline mh

I think the OP meant how has punting changed us personally, not how punting has changed.

It's changed me for the better. I no longer hate my missus for holding out on me. If she puts out I enjoy it and when she (mainly) doesn't I don't stress about it. Our relationship is all the better for it!

johnnyboy61

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I think the OP meant how has punting changed us personally, not how punting has changed.

It's changed me for the better. I no longer hate my missus for holding out on me. If she puts out I enjoy it and when she (mainly) doesn't I don't stress about it. Our relationship is all the better for it!
I think that the lack of sex with the OH with no outlet for my sexual energy without punting would have meant that I would have either had an affair and/or a divorce, and therefore split up my lovely family. I've been punting for over twenty years and my children are in their early twenties and still come away on holiday with us and I wouldn't have wanted to have lost a fairly uncomplicated and very fulfilling family life.  I feel that it has had a positive effect on my life, although a series of fuck-buddies might have meant a few more foreign holidays or a new car!

Offline dboy74

Interested as to peoples thoughts.

Asks us to offer our thoughts but contribute's nothing himself!  :rolleyes:

johnnyboy61

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Asks us to offer our thoughts but contribute's nothing himself!  :rolleyes:
Seems to be quite a trend for newer members. Perhaps the lack of reviews indicates that he has little to contribute on the subject??

Offline smartieshouse

Seems to be quite a trend for newer members. Perhaps the lack of reviews indicates that he has little to contribute on the subject??

Hi

Ive been punting on and off in the West Yorks and North West since the late 80's. My interest stems from how my own emotions towards punting have changed.

I joined here in 2011 but am not a frequent visitor. My lack of Reviews will obviously give you reason to doubt my lack of knowledge / experience.

Cheers.

johnnyboy61

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Hi

Ive been punting on and off in the West Yorks and North West since the late 80's. My interest stems from how my own emotions towards punting have changed.

I joined here in 2011 but am not a frequent visitor. My lack of Reviews will obviously give you reason to doubt my lack of knowledge / experience.

Cheers.
So........please tribute to your thread then.

Offline shagbambi

Asks us to offer our thoughts but contribute's nothing himself!  :rolleyes:

Which is why I could not be bothered to answer the OP.  His own views are obviously his own business.

Offline Silver Birch

Do you want MY opinion, or the opinion of my missus?

Actually, (if I take off my macho hat), I think it has changed me for the worse. No longer do I harmlessly fantasise about weird and kinky shit, I just do it.

vw

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Hi

Ive been punting on and off in the West Yorks and North West since the late 80's. My interest stems from how my own emotions towards punting have changed.

I joined here in 2011 but am not a frequent visitor. My lack of Reviews will obviously give you reason to doubt my lack of knowledge / experience.

Cheers.
I think what people were getting at is you didn't offer a glimmer of how punting changed your life.

For punting changed my life in a very big way.

new_punter_1

  • Guest
Interested as to peoples thoughts.

Porn took me to paid sex.
paid sex took me to look at women with negtivity.

thinking sex seeing a women each time took me to lossing 50% of what the world population, other sex, women has to offer.

this has lead to me being single and lonley.

why?

1. seeing women as sex objects
2. thinking how and whne i paid women do the same.
3. infidelty or affiars thoughts.
4. thinking how i want the sex. i cant perform way the brain wants, desires want and she may not want it the same.

where is the women who is a whore like the pornstars, has a pussy of a virgin, wants to fuck when i want, and can cook.

also where is this porn star, cock, stemina, body and do i really have time for all that?

paying for sex is just low. its done to curb the lust.

pleasure of flesh is sin. now i know why.....

thinking rationally when so many women exisit, singles, etc... why small precentage of people pay is beyond me. beacuse i cant understand why i pay. when sex is about EMOTIONAL RELEASE AND FULLFILMENT TOO. paid sex takes care of phyical... only.

my opinions and thoughts...

Offline mh

Porn took me to paid sex.
paid sex took me to look at women with negtivity.

thinking sex seeing a women each time took me to lossing 50% of what the world population, other sex, women has to offer.

this has lead to me being single and lonley.

why?

1. seeing women as sex objects
2. thinking how and whne i paid women do the same.
3. infidelty or affiars thoughts.
4. thinking how i want the sex. i cant perform way the brain wants, desires want and she may not want it the same.

where is the women who is a whore like the pornstars, has a pussy of a virgin, wants to fuck when i want, and can cook.

also where is this porn star, cock, stemina, body and do i really have time for all that?

paying for sex is just low. its done to curb the lust.

pleasure of flesh is sin. now i know why.....

thinking rationally when so many women exisit, singles, etc... why small precentage of people pay is beyond me. beacuse i cant understand why i pay. when sex is about EMOTIONAL RELEASE AND FULLFILMENT TOO. paid sex takes care of phyical... only.

my opinions and thoughts...

Poor you! Now fuck off.

pking_paul

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You don't sound a happy punter new punter?

I agree with the superficial side of it all though, which is probably one reason why I personally enjoy the company of more intelligent women when I punt.

This site and the selection process is much better that it ever was before. There are not many of the type of WG around that I like, but at least I can find them these days.

 :hi:


vw

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Poor you! Now fuck off.

+1

Wasn't sure how best to respond to that and now thanks to mh now I'm sure.

Offline smartieshouse

For me curiousity in the whole "prostitute thing" took me as a young lad took me to my first WG.From my early days I got a taste for it and have never looked back.

Emotionally yes physical lust is still a massive part of it but paying for it is s o engrained in my own sexuality I could never imagine stopping. People talk of addiction but for me l've never felt the uncontrolled compulsion to.

Obviously the practicalities these days are far better than what they were - who else remembers ringing numbers in the back of The Sport!!:-)

vw

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For me curiousity in the whole "prostitute thing" took me as a young lad took me to my first WG.From my early days I got a taste for it and have never looked back.

Emotionally yes physical lust is still a massive part of it but paying for it is s o engrained in my own sexuality I could never imagine stopping. People talk of addiction but for me l've never felt the uncontrolled compulsion to.

Obviously the practicalities these days are far better than what they were - who else remembers ringing numbers in the back of The Sport!!:-)
The sport was my progression from night walking in Liverpool, discovered soon after the Echo newspaper was more useful and less walking.

Offline smartieshouse

The sport was my progression from night walking in Liverpool, discovered soon after the Echo newspaper was more useful and less walking.

In a similar vein anyone remember Contact mags?

My 1st internet revalation was a site called "Aberdeen Girls" if anyone remembers that one?


Sureshot

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Im not sure i can give a definitive answer but i can split my punting history into two distinctive eras witch have had different effects on me.

When i was late teens / early 20's i was hooked on the street scene.  Risking my safety and spending money i didnt have.  After each punt i felt incredibly low, guilty and worthless.  This gave absolutely no resistance to go crawling the next night.   

Obviously this had a very negative effect on me and at this juncture i can say punting changed me for the worse.

I had a long break after i moved city, got married, kids, career etc but the itch was always there and this year i gave in and started seeing escorts again.  (Yes, both SW and escorts are still prostitutes but to me they are leagues apart).

This time round i can handle things so much better.  I dont suffer any of the post punt negatives i used to and infact feel more relaxed in general life.  I like my "secret hobby" and i also like the fact i have a secret hobby.

So right at this minute i can say punting has changed me for the better.  Although This will change in such cataclysmic ways if my wife was ever to find out.

I could go a lot deeper but this is a punting forum not a self help group lol!

DogFace36

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  I think it has changed me - in a positive way. I used to be really shy with women but since I started punting in my 30's, I've found it much easier to get on with them generally and more self-confident when chatting them up. I think a good fuck with a prossie takes the pressure off and removes the 'stink' of desperation.

Offline TPotts

Better less pent up energy and knowing i can get a release when needed.

Worse every spare pound goes into it.

Dave2014

  • Guest

pleasure of flesh is sin. now i know why.....


Give me a fucking break already! Get back to church you numpty  :dash: :dash: :dash:

Big Cat

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Changed my bank balance for the worse but puts me in an A+ mood for the rest of the day. Don't really think it's "changed" me as a person... yet?

Offline mikeyboy1984

Punting hadn't changed me for better or worse, without punting id probably be divorced by now ( wife puts out once a month if lucky ) the only downside is when I'm in work and it hits me I'm only doing this overtime for my next punt!  :D

Offline Malvolio

I'm better off knowing that my next shag is a phone call and less than an hour away when I want it, rather than hanging around in nightclubs in blue-balled frustration.

KingAlpha

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I think it has changed me - in a positive way. I used to be really shy with women but since I started punting in my 30's, I've found it much easier to get on with them generally and more self-confident when chatting them up. I think a good fuck with a prossie takes the pressure off and removes the 'stink' of desperation.

+1. Although I would add that paying pros for sex (pun intended!) has made vanilla/bad sex with civvies pretty unbearable, so in that sense punting has probably degraded by ability - and desire - to seek out regular relationships. So, I'm less inhibited - but also less bothered.

bristolqwerty

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Better.  I dip my toe in probably less than most punters, absolutely enjoy Asian ladies who treat me very well.  Much better for the experience.

Offline purple_t

Changed me for the better!
In a weird way it's improved my self-confidence and I find it easier to talk to civvies now.
I've also ticked a few of the more unusual things off of my sexual bucket list.
Just wish it wasn't so flipping expensive! :dash:

Hawkwind71

  • Guest
Do you want MY opinion, or the opinion of my missus?

Actually, (if I take off my macho hat), I think it has changed me for the worse. No longer do I harmlessly fantasise about weird and kinky shit, I just do it.

This is spot on, bang on the money. The problem for me is I now wouldn't have it any other way. In other words what has given me sexual fulfilment would be criticised by society as wrong and I would be an outcast if found out. In all honesty I wish I had done this from the outset ( age 18 ). I have met some great WG's and my life is great. I do my research and to the best of my ability, choose WG's who definitely enjoy my company. I may sound shallow but its the truth.

Offline Cuntminion

Short term for the better
I have no future relationship prospects , I'm not a leper I have knocked back advances purely because it's not something I can commit too or provide

I'm not in this for the long haul only startled punting as my world was falling to shit and I thought I'll be fucked if I don't ever sleep with a few more women and actually enjoy it

When I was moping around at the early part of the year someone said I should create things to look forward too

This and gigging is what I do now, I also have a non punting bucket list of silly things I'm ticking off

None of this has really helped in the long term projections

But at least I'm getting some short term fun, happiness and gratification which I was not before


Offline EricJ

It has made me more confident when meeting and talking to women. A bad punt is usually when I see a Romanian (£70 for 30mins is not bad) girl. This tends to make me think twice about punting. However in the short time I have been punting ( 10 months) I have had better sex in general and that's what it is all about really... a decent fuck.

Siadwel

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For the better, definitely.

To explain how would take a lot more typing than I want to put in, right now, but definitely for the better.


Quesadilla

  • Guest
Definitely changed me for the better - on two separate occasions. I first punted to lose my virginity in my twenties. I was just lacking a bit of confidence with the opposite sex and a few punts cured me of that. 

Was happily married for 12 years with no need for punting, when the wife and I went our separate ways last year I was frankly quite low, suffering from ED and my confidence took a dive - internet dating was even more depressing - and punting again was a real pick-me-up.  Fulfilled some of my wildest porn fantasies and ticked off a whole bunch of things on my sexual bucket list. Had some sexual adventures that I will never forget, with some of the hottest and most exciting women I've ever met.

Again as a direct result of my punting I had the confidence to get back into a relationship, with a much younger woman who makes me feel 20 years younger and pretty much cured my ED.  All in all, for me punting has been almost entirely positive - and I have to say in large part thanks to this site and many of you here.   :drinks:


vw

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Definitely changed me for the better - on two separate occasions. I first punted to lose my virginity in my twenties. I was just lacking a bit of confidence with the opposite sex and a few punts cured me of that. 

Was happily married for 12 years with no need for punting, when the wife and I went our separate ways last year I was frankly quite low, suffering from ED and my confidence took a dive - internet dating was even more depressing - and punting again was a real pick-me-up.  Fulfilled some of my wildest porn fantasies and ticked off a whole bunch of things on my sexual bucket list. Had some sexual adventures that I will never forget, with some of the hottest and most exciting women I've ever met.

Again as a direct result of my punting I had the confidence to get back into a relationship, with a much younger woman who makes me feel 20 years younger and pretty much cured my ED.  All in all, for me punting has been almost entirely positive - and I have to say in large part thanks to this site and many of you here.   :drinks:
Nice to hear a good positive story, glad it worked well for you.

Offline S.X. MacHine

First punt at age 60 as an antidote to perceived loss of sexual interest. Worked a bloody treat! It has boosted my confidence ( not that it was bad before) and introduced me to some truly delightful younger women whom I would not otherwise have met, let alone shagged.
Oh, and I've been able to indulge my suppressed BDSM fantasies. Brilliant.
So good, in fact, that I feel like telling everyone; except I can't, obviously. I for one shall not be going to my grave bemoaning the fact that I didn't have enough sex!

RalphMouse

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I'm better in my marriage now.

Sex had dried up to nearly nothing and I was bitter about it. I was very tempted to have an affair but I didn't want to be like my father - - who destroyed our family.

I travel a lot so punting away from home is easy for me.
Since punting first in December  I have  generally been happier with my marriage. I am not as bitter with my wife - - I can see how I have some blame for the dynamic that resulted - - ironically partly because of the constant travelling for work that makes punting easy.


Offline peter_bungee

Hasnt really changed me much possibly made me more confident with girls as knowing i have the skills to make one cum  :drinks: and also its been  nice to meet some genuinly nice girls - one i have made good friends with and see socially as a friend

But i only punt occasionally e.g. monthly so its not a huge part of my life unlike some others lucky enough to punt almost daily! 

Offline tantric talents

I think that the lack of sex with the OH with no outlet for my sexual energy without punting would have meant that I would have either had an affair and/or a divorce, and therefore split up my lovely family. I've been punting for over twenty years and my children are in their early twenties and still come away on holiday with us and I wouldn't have wanted to have lost a fairly uncomplicated and very fulfilling family life.  I feel that it has had a positive effect on my life, although a series of fuck-buddies might have meant a few more foreign holidays or a new car!
+1
I wish I had started punting many years earlier, but better late than never!

Autopunter

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Both better and worse for me I think.

Punting taught me a lot about sex, where I had huge cock blocking hang ups about things and was forever not getting any better because of women's need for the guy to iniate, be confident and pursue them. So I was trapped in a cul de sac and getting worse and bitter. Talking about it did not help. Thanks to punting I also learnt not to be so hard onyself and that my issues were widespread and not just me.

Down side is I am still illiterate in the ways of chasing women IRL, and since I can punt I often drop out of bothering with dating. Dealing with femake game playing gets tiring when you can just book a hooker. I suspect this means I am going to miss out on some emotional fulfilment in life, though my relationships in my 20s made me wary. I also wonder if I would stay faithful, but then that could be unrelated to punts.

Offline Cuntminion

Hasnt really changed me much possibly made me more confident with girls as knowing i have the skills to make one cum  :drinks: and also its been  nice to meet some genuinly nice girls - one i have made good friends with and see socially as a friend

But i only punt occasionally e.g. monthly so its not a huge part of my life unlike some others lucky enough to punt almost daily!


You know I'm not envious of daily punters, doing it infrequently makes it more fresh and enjoyable

vw

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You know I'm not envious of daily punters, doing it infrequently makes it more fresh and enjoyable
I never punt on the Sabbath the buses are crap.

Offline Cuntminion

I never punt on the Sabbath the buses are crap.

Looking forward if I live this long I want to punt on Halloween , Christmas and other holy days


I don't know why I just do

Could theme the meets


Me "wear something sexy"

Wg "what you have in mind"

Me "snowman costume "

(Walking in the air plays as snowman sensualy lapdances)



Ben4454

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When I first started punting I was a timid guy with hardly any sexual experience apart from a few civvies. I would play a 'passive role' in the punt and just lay down and let her do the service..

Nowadays I direct the show and do exactly what I want. Which results in a better punt altogether. I learnt you can get out of mechanical punts by directing the show yourself and communicating what you like and dislike.

Online jaydefo24

Punting has been a mixed bag but helped me through some bad times ( low confidence post breakup ). It occasionally has lead me to feel more in flow with women I want in real life... It's also given me a lot of excitement / cost me money and earned me money too. I still wish I could just pickup hotties every other night instead, but it's a backup I'm thankful for.

It's also given me more to flash past my eyes when I die.

willbred

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It's brought to the fore a double life I never thought I would enjoy, along with a sneaky side I didn't think I had.

Offline tantric talents

It's brought to the fore a double life I never thought I would enjoy, along with a sneaky side I didn't think I had.
Well observed points  :hi:

Offline Madone1

Changed my bank balance for the worse but puts me in an A+ mood for the rest of the day. Don't really think it's "changed" me as a person... yet?

+1 for the bank account when you think about the money you have spunked on these greedy bitches it brings a tear to the eye. :wacko: but it has made me more comfortable around women in general and taking my clothes of in front on total strangers is a breeze.