Thanks guys - I was pretty sure it wasnt and btw I wasnt proposing to pay afterwards it was 1/3 on meeting, then meal, then 1/3 at room and 1/3 in morning giving me some comfort that she didnt 'hit and run'
She seems a great WG and I can understand their concerns of being paid all up front but as you say the lie has soured it!
I want an overnight as I want early hours and morning fun too and prefer to have a nice meal as well- each to their own but if the correct bid is received then they can be vg vfm
Then let her go and seek somebody else to pay her for an overnight then. I think that if you explained the position properly via a telephone conversation, she'd come around to your way of thinking. At the end of the day, she looses out, not you. You can always book another girl. Who else is going to guarantee her that kind of money any time soon? Think about it!
But if you want my honest opinion on this, I feel you're wasting your money. Why don't you consider booking a girl for 2-3 hours, including a nice meal. 1 hour max for the meal, 1 - 2 hours playtime?
And then if you really feel like it, book another girl in the morning. The answer being that you can sleep properly inbetween and it will also cost you a lot less than paying for some girl to simply sleep in your bed!! Don't be a mug doing that, if you're paying the going rate.