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Offline Jacobsladder

When is the best moment to hand over cash to a WG - at start or end of meet?
If the WG asks for cash at start but you say I'll give you the money when we are finished do you run the risk of a stalemate if the WG says I'd like the money up front ?
What's the proper etiquette here?

Offline Jacobsladder

I will just say that i have seen a few WG's and my experience varies - but mainly the girls I have seen are happy to take cash at the end
Is it different in other parts of the UK ?

Offline pumps

Just pay upfront once  your in the room and discussed services.

Once you build trust with said prossie then payment can be made at the end if she's happy with that.

At the end of the day you have to pay her, you wouldn't want her making an alegation against you for not paying.



Offline smiths

When is the best moment to hand over cash to a WG - at start or end of meet?
If the WG asks for cash at start but you say I'll give you the money when we are finished do you run the risk of a stalemate if the WG says I'd like the money up front ?
What's the proper etiquette here?

In my over 30 years of punting most WGs have wanted the money at the start or its punt off, with regulars it can be entirely different though. I am talking about UK punting here.

Offline Cuntminion

Really? !?!.....

Do you get bamboozled at mccys when ordering a big mac, pay now or after?

If it's such a conundrum simplify it for yourself and PROACTIVELY hand the money over at the start

This was never really a paragraph question was it


Hyperchicken

  • Guest
I wouldn't argue if she wants it up front and insist on paying afterwards - even if the punt does go ahead you've probably soured it considerably.

Offline Cuntminion

In my over 30 years of punting most WGs have wanted the money at the start or its punt off, with regulars it can be entirely different though. I am talking about UK punting here.

I always pay at the start, if I am happy (not hard with a regular) or someone new I decide whether I'm happy to continue within the first few mins


The money has to be paid and it won't gain interest in my pocket so get it out the way early

Type_O_Negative

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There was a thread about punting fashion and now about handing over the money. What will be the next? How to iron my socks before my "date" with prossie???

Offline smiths

I always pay at the start, if I am happy (not hard with a regular) or someone new I decide whether I'm happy to continue within the first few mins


The money has to be paid and it won't gain interest in my pocket so get it out the way early

So do I but it would suit me much better to pay at the end but that's simply not how most WGs I have punted with viewed it.

vw

  • Guest
I always do after discussing services initially.  One thing about the local Thai girls I have noticed they always ask "I'm I OK"  that seems the time to pass the cash.

Last thing you want is a Mexican stand off before you put your cock in some ones mouth ! Which is where reviews on here come in handy, greatly reduces your doubts

Offline cueball

There was a thread about punting fashion and now about handing over the money. What will be the next? How to iron my socks before my "date" with prossie???

We've got gifts running as well.

Next.. lace up shoes or slip on's?

Offline smiths

There was a thread about punting fashion and now about handing over the money. What will be the next? How to iron my socks before my "date" with prossie???

I am waiting for "How to give a WG money just because I love her?". And "How to sweep a WG off her feet and propose?"

Sureshot

  • Guest
Pay as soon as she asks for it, dont argue coz it'll get you nowhere but kicked out the door.

It has a much nicer feel if she asks for payment at the end but i've only experienced that with a reg.

unclesweetheart

  • Guest
I always try to remember to give the money first, to show I'm a "gentleman". At my first 3some with Adele and LilyHart I was so blown away (pun intended) by the opening minutes that I completely forgot, and had to be gently reminded by Lily that we hadn't er sorted out the "
paperwork" yet.

That said, the best ever punts are where it's forgotten about, until either after the first orgams or, better yet, at the very end.

But the default position, rightly, is obviously pay before play.

JupitersBurning

  • Guest
They've always asked me for the money first although by now I just give it to them before they need to ask. Normally I put it in an envelope which lead to WG complimenting me on the shape of my brown envelope.

Quesadilla

  • Guest
I always try to remember to give the money first, to show I'm a "gentleman". At my first 3some with Adele and LilyHart I was so blown away (pun intended) by the opening minutes that I completely forgot, and had to be gently reminded by Lily that we hadn't er sorted out the "
paperwork" yet.

That said, the best ever punts are where it's forgotten about, until either after the first orgams or, better yet, at the very end.

But the default position, rightly, is obviously pay before play.

I generally hand it over straight away - especially at a first meet, and especially at an incall.  But a lot of my punts were outcalls to my place with regs in which case I got in the habit of just putting it on the sideboard - usually it would end up being forgotten about til right at the end. 

That said I did have one first meeting which massively ran over time - both myself and the WG were so shagged out we completely forgot the money til after she'd driven off.  She remembered 10 minutes down the road and had to turn around and come back.  :D


Offline nigel4498

How to iron my socks before my "date" with prossie???
Good question, should I turn them inside out to iron them first?

Offline The Beano

Try what I did recently, stick a post it note on the back of each note that described in filthy detail what service was expected in exchange for the note, and get her to read it out loud before she accepts it. This covers off what services she will do, gets the money out of the way first and saves her having to count it! Of course it also gives you chance to humiliate her by saying things like "Hmm so for £10 you will let me fuck your face, not bad, can't get a decent bottle of wine for that"
TB

Offline cueball

Good question, should I turn them inside out to iron them first?

I put em under my pillow the night before, works a treat, they come out flat as a fart and most of the smell soaks into the pillow, win win

foreverandever

  • Guest
Generally, if you have not met her before offer it upfront. If she takes it great and get down to business. If not, you know you still have to pay at the end but maybe she might be up for as much fun as she is the cash so bingo. Most prossies will suss out someone trying to fuck em over srtaight away so just go with the flow. Maybe its the younger ones who need the cash upfront?

foreverandever

  • Guest
Just read this post. Envelopes?? Jesus, cash in the mitt or on the bed. Rules.

Offline smiths

Generally, if you have not met her before offer it upfront. If she takes it great and get down to business. If not, you know you still have to pay at the end but maybe she might be up for as much fun as she is the cash so bingo. Most prossies will suss out someone trying to fuck em over srtaight away so just go with the flow. Maybe its the younger ones who need the cash upfront?

Its always been WGs of all ages from 18 upwards in my experience with the odd exception and with the exception of some regulars.

foreverandever

  • Guest
At the end of the day they want yours bees and and you want to spill your seed.

Offline Dime

Generally, the rule of thumb is you pay them at the start as you could potentially do a runner at the end, and I get the impression they couldn't exactly call the police in the same way if you did a dine and dash in a restaurant for example. Some of them will count it, but most will just assume it's the right amount and put it into their handbag. I can remember once a WG was counting my cash and said to me "you should really take better care of your bank notes ", as they were scrunched up because of the way I had thrown them into my wallet at the cash machine.

Offline dboy74

Always found my best punts have been with WGs who ask for the money at the end of the meet.

However, in my experience 95% want the cash up front, especially the shit ones  :rolleyes:


Offline hw189

Not much to add here and I agree what other members say here with regards to paying at the end, when you have become a regular to your chosen escort. Just wanted to add, in my experience I have always found it strangely erotic when the escort has faith in you to pay at the end of the session and gets straight down to the action without asking for payment upfront. That's all.   

JupitersBurning

  • Guest
Just read this post. Envelopes?? Jesus, cash in the mitt or on the bed. Rules.

It reduces the risk of me dropping notes and I don't trust anyone enough to take my wallet into a punt. It's a minor thing. Not like I'm stood there trying to decide which elegant suit to wear for 5 hours prior.

Offline threechilliman

Not much to add here and I agree what other members say here with regards to paying at the end, when you have become a regular to your chosen escort. Just wanted to add, in my experience I have always found it strangely erotic when the escort has faith in you to pay at the end of the session and gets straight down to the action without asking for payment upfront. That's all.

Newbies I offer up front, regs I usually have an understanding with. I asked one recently if anyone had escaped without paying - answer was yes, more than once, but all had returned with payment, either immediately or, with very trusted regs, on their next visit. I would be mortified if I left without paying.

tcm

Offline Marmalade

Newbies I . . .  :rose:

Why spoil the thread? The discussion about socks was just getting interesting!  :D

Offline Marmalade

It reduces the risk of me dropping notes and I don't trust anyone enough to take my wallet into a punt. It's a minor thing. Not like I'm stood there trying to decide which elegant suit to wear for 5 hours prior.

Really! That sounds like a load of made up bollocks, true or not. Are you in the habit of dropping notes, or is the nerves of it getting to you? Why take a fucking wallet anyway? Right money, folded in half, in a safe pocket. Back up money somewhere or other secure. I'm pleased to hear you have reduced your suit-choosing time to less that five hours.

 :hi: :cool:

vw

  • Guest
Why spoil the thread? The discussion about socks was just getting interesting!  :D
Had one once, she drove back to Birmingham from Gloucester before any of us realised I hadn't paid.  No problem at all, zip zap money down the wire, the joy of technology.

Offline stevedave

We've got gifts running as well.

Next.. lace up shoes or slip on's?

Definitely slip ons cue, lace ups are far too tricky if you need to make a quick getaway  ;) :lol:

Offline sushi

Always found my best punts have been with WGs who ask for the money at the end of the meet.

However, in my experience 95% want the cash up front, especially the shit ones :rolleyes:

Care to share these gems who are happy to take the money at the end of the meet?
« Last Edit: July 23, 2015, 08:38:37 am by sushi »

Offline dboy74

Care to share these gems who are happy to take the money at the end of the meet?

Absolutely  :)

-xhannahx-    xxxchloe555xxx    isabelrose   

All are WGs that are working or have worked in the Midlands  :hi:

Offline Jimmyredcab

When is the best moment to hand over cash to a WG - at start or end of meet?
If the WG asks for cash at start but you say I'll give you the money when we are finished do you run the risk of a stalemate if the WG says I'd like the money up front ?
What's the proper etiquette here?

As a general rule you pay first -------------- unless you are well known to the girl in which case she may let you pay at the end of the session.    :hi:

Offline Mansell

I had an interesting one the other day when a girl that is relatively new to all this said as I paid within a minute of getting in the door. I don;t like asking   :unknown: and thinking about it she hadn't asked the first time I saw her, I just paid straight away as I always do. Unless I'm with my regular girl who I think I have paid every way you can think of from into bank before up to leaving and having to walk back as I've found the cash still in my pocket.  :lol:

johnnyboy61

  • Guest
I always try to get the cash counted out and out of the way first thing. Personally I just feel more comfortable that way. The only time I forgot was with the excitement of seeing an old regular who I hadn't seen for a few months. At the end of the meeting as I was just about to go she asked if I was going to pay her; I could have died with embarrassment.

With one reg I just put the money on her dressing table at the start as I'm getting undressed. When I leave it is still lying there uncounted. I like the feeling that she feels that she can trust me not to have to count it and stash it away.

Offline Cuntminion

Why would anyone have a preference for paying at the end  :unknown:

vw

  • Guest
Why would anyone have a preference for paying at the end  :unknown:
So you can come back next time ! And its nice to have an element of trust with a good regular !

Offline Cuntminion

So you can come back next time ! And its nice to have an element of trust with a good regular !

It just really is a non entity to me , it makes zero difference in my mind when I pay just do it early so it's done

Offline Boundless

I always give the girl my address and ask her to submit an invoice. Then i simply send her a cheque drawn on the joint account.

Offline Mansell

I always give the girl my address and ask her to submit an invoice. Then i simply send her a cheque drawn on the joint account.

  :D :D :D

yourgent

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I always give the girl my address and ask her to submit an invoice. Then i simply send her a cheque drawn on the joint account.

I hope you don't add VAT. There is VAT relief on seed and other means of propagation  :D

Offline Marmalade

Why would anyone have a preference for paying at the end 

It's not so much a choice as following the unspoken rules. In the UK, this generally means paying first. (One or two saunas in Scotland at least are a civilised exception). When you buy something in a shop you generally pay before you take it away. When you buy your electric, you generally pay afterwards. When you pay for your contract phone, you pay afterwards and then pay some more!

In some countries, only an idiot pays first with an independent, since it means she would then just give minimal service and get rid of you as soon as possible. At other times it is better to pay first to establish there are no extra charges.

People who have been punting for a long time in the UK know that the rule is pay first, but that sometimes that is waived as a courtesy. Just learn the rules and follow them. They are punter rules, not prossie ones. For instance, if a prossie asks for payment upfront when that is not the norm, you should refuse. If she forgets to ask a regular for payment then it is the punter's duty to remember to give it her before leaving, or go back and pay if he forgets.

Offline smiths

Why would anyone have a preference for paying at the end  :unknown:

So if the WG doesn't offer what was agreed I would give her pro-rata what she DID offer, that of course is one reason most WGs want payment at the start.

Offline Marmalade

Another tactic is to give the agreed or negotiated amount at the start and promising a tip at the end if performance is outstanding. I only know of one country (not the UK) where this is worth doing. In the UK they are overpaid anyway and would mostly just pretend that you had got outstanding service for extra money (common lapdancers' tactic).

Much as I agree with Smiths' sentiment, I've not found the times when payment is accepted at the end to be the bad providers -- the opposite in fact. The big London parties have always given outstanding service (payment at end). LSS in Edinburgh and one or two others accept payment at the end but you can always complain if service was not up to scratch (more effective than trying to withhold part of it, though you could try that at LSS by speaking to management before you gave the prossie the money). Regs who forget to ask until the end are mostly the ones who are so damn good that they know you won't have any complaints or reason to begrudge the payment.

Redhead Lover

  • Guest
Just give her a £2 coin every minute until the hour is up.  :thumbsup:

vw

  • Guest
Just give her a £2 coin every minute until the hour is up.  :thumbsup:
I bet you get great service from that policy, do they go and stash it every time you give them a coin ?

Offline Cuntminion

Just give her a £2 coin every minute until the hour is up.  :thumbsup:
:thumbsup:

Sounds like a plan

Offline Smoking joe

My last couple of meets, and I'm still new at this, I kinda give a little nod with the money in my hand so they can see what im doing, and leave it on the side. It kinda reminded me of offering a bribe or a tip to someone in a casino in Vegas, in my mind anyway.

I did have one meet where I came out of the shower with a towel wrapped round me being held with one hand, and the money in the other, and she had a glass of water in each hand, so she nodded to slide it into her bra! We both laughed as I did and it set the tone for a fun meet! :cool:
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