I would write a neg and slam it down so quick if warranted
In the same breath I'm quite easily pleased so you would have to try hard to get a neg from me
I mean if I turned up and it was not the girl but a goat , as long as the goat was attentive I would be happy
If it was a scam and I scrapped with a Sergei I would be cool, I like a fight
I always try list what others may not like though even in positive reviews but in a nice way, so there's no offense to the wg but a heads up for others
Two instant infractions that get a straight neg
Sergei stabs me
This is where I stand on this
This is known as being a fluffy. You will possibly grow out of it. There's no need for a prossie to be offended by honesty (i.e. accuracy). If someone has a genuine problem with your product, service, whatever you do for a living, wouldn't rather know??
Reviews are not the same as how you speak to her face to face. Face to face, you owe her money and politeness (unless she tries to scam you or is fucking rude). An honest review is passionless. Re-living your shag by writing some nice soft porn, beautifully tailored at the edges is not really a review. It's just a fluffie saying, "Hey, look I got a shag! Whoopee!" (we are very happy for you).
Some fuckers only take any notice when they get a bad review. However you phrase it, giving a "positive" when it was a bit shit is like recommending 5-day old street food to your mates in the hope that they won't get stomach ache.
An unfair review is slagging her off when the appointment didn't take place (all you know is she didn't conclude the appointment, whether by your or her fault, but you have no info on whether she is otherwise vfm). An unfair review is when you cannot distinguish between material facts and opinion (both are useful but to say she was shite in bed cos she never advertised anal and refused your cock up her arse is unfair: simply to to say she doesn't offer anal is useful info.)
Writing reviews and imagining the prossie is reading them is what people do on AW (ok if honest and to get a couple of decent feedbacks for your own profile) or on prossie-run 'punter' sites (which is despicable).
Most people start off punting by maintaining the fantasy that they have met a nice girl and simply paid her. That is not the case since you do not know her as a person, whatever she tells you. You know her as prossie. Like the TV repair man. Good job? Felt satisfied? Rushed? Looked ok but tv still didn't work after five minutes? Reviews should not be fanmail, at least on here.
It's good to be polite to the prossie in person. Firstly you are more likely to get what you came for and secondly she won't go blacklisting you as a prick that forgot to wash his cheese off. There's nothing duplicitous about it. Merely efficiency. On UKP, it is not very efficient to write for the prossie's sake, but some people have a job getting past it. Just do your best.