Premature Ejaculation tips

[peter_bungee]

Hi guys

Im early 30's and suffer quite bad PE, have always had this problem and it gets worse Longer i  abstain from sex, as i am doing at the moment

Round one will usually be 30 seconds (after abit of foreplay but i tell her not to touch my little man), round 2 will be 2-3 minutes but can get to 5min stopping and starting constantly

The enjoyment of sex (paid n non paid) has always been crap, as im constsntly thinking about not cumming soon as we start to kiss.  In january i came in my pants while just kissing the escort, she was rubbing me with her knee for like 10 seconds and kissing v passionately - but this was a new low

I have tried kegel excercises eg starting n stopping while peeing and pelvic floor where u squeeze in the testicle area similar to holding in a pee.  I did this for 1/2 months x2 day didnt work.  Durex longer lasting dont work.  I have ordered a delay spray from usa which is only fda approved. I have considered prilogy to take just before, but its an antidepressent with side effects.

Does anyone have any more advice? Having a wank 3/4hrs before would kill the urge, plus wouldnt make much different still pop in 2/3min .  Im not massively experienced

[cueball]

Take a picture of my Mrs with you, stick it to the back of the prossies head whilst podging her in doggy, look at the picture, you'll never pop, you'll be a sexual tyrannasaur

[Mansell]

Prilogy is your answer, had this problem a few years ago when getting nothing from OH. So when the chance came I was far too ready !! Taking prilogy sorted this out.  Don't know why but never have the problem with wg's 

[peter_bungee]

Prilogy is your answer, had this problem a few years ago when getting nothing from OH. So when the chance came I was far too ready !! Taking prilogy sorted this out.  Don't know why but never have the problem with wg's 

Thanks im seriously looking at this.  However prilogy is only good for the day, do u take it everytime u have sex? Or has it somehow cured the problem for good?  For how long u take it did u buy online?

[Mansell]

Bought online from Lloyds, buy the bigger tablet and cut in half, I ended up only taking quarter in the end. Yes you need to take 1 to 3 hrs before, so with the OH I would sometimes take it then she wasn't interested, more than sometimes   

Sex with WG's just doesn't cause me a problem think it's because of OWO first etc, where as no chance of that with OH.

[tantric talents]

Go to your local gum clinic for a standard check-up. While you are there tell them your problem. They have special clinics to sort such problems and will refer you directly so you can circumvent your GP and it will stay private.

If the problems turns out to be psychological rather than physical I would seriously think about seeing a qualified hypnotherapist.

[peter_bungee]

Mansell: thanks lloyds pharmacy is also what im looking at, can i ask how long it extended your time from? Dont wana go from 30seconds to 1hr lol.  And owo for me would mean i last even shorter time during sex

Im currently seeing a urologist for another problem so will mention to him, im sure he will just fob me off though, how do i know its in the mind?.. Some people say it happens if you wank to porn from a young age and too quickly...i avoid this now. Have also tried "edging" where u get close to PONR then stop

[AnthG]

The main things that I have heard of are

1. There are delay sprays you can buy, Boots sell them for example. This numbs the area a bit so you get less sensation

2. There are delaying condoms you can get (I get the feeling they will be just pretty thick condoms so you get less sensation.

3. There is Priligy/Dapoxetine but I reacted badly to that stuff as its a massively potent SSRI. And it had extreme sedative results on me. The feeling of being hit by a train type sedation. Its also very expensive

4. Or you could just literally go to your GP and say your mood is low and ask for some SSRI anti depressants. This will have the same effect as Priligy and be much cheaper.

[Bestway]

Ricky Harrow, I had the same problem come in 10 minutes, that was 10 years ago when I lived in Harrow, it must be the air in Stanmore and Kenton, now I live in South Coast, I last longer.
You need to get out  of Harrow and get a home by the beach.
But i still drive once a month to Harrow to eat my Chinese food, my fav restaurant on Station road

[riker]

Avoid sex, wanking, looking at porn, fantasizing etc for a few months...your system will reset itself.

Or just go see your GP, they love these type of problems.

[Hobbit]

A glass of wine 1 hour before a shag usually does the trick for me. 

[Thepacifist]

Smoke some Kush 

[wheeliebinwanking]

Get circumcised . . .

[fredpunter]

Ricky Harrow, I had the same problem come in 10 minutes, that was 10 years ago when I lived in Harrow, it must be the air in Stanmore and Kenton, now I live in South Coast, I last longer.
You need to get out  of Harrow and get a home by the beach.
But i still drive once a month to Harrow to eat my Chinese food, my fav restaurant on Station road

Possibly you now last longer cos your 10 years older? 

At my age I sometimes last about a week.

[anonyorks]

Stop watching porn/wanking unless it's the day before. Avoid Doggy too that always brings things to an end for me

[Happylad]

Call at Tesco on the way and buy a large bag of frozen peas, then stuff it down your trousers while you`re waiting for her to answer the doorbell.

[threechilliman]

Hi guys

Im early 30's and suffer quite bad PE, have always had this problem and it gets worse Longer i  abstain from sex, as i am doing at the moment

Round one will usually be 30 seconds (after abit of foreplay but i tell her not to touch my little man), round 2 will be 2-3 minutes but can get to 5min stopping and starting constantly

The enjoyment of sex (paid n non paid) has always been crap, as im constsntly thinking about not cumming soon as we start to kiss.  In january i came in my pants while just kissing the escort, she was rubbing me with her knee for like 10 seconds and kissing v passionately - but this was a new low

I have tried kegel excercises eg starting n stopping while peeing and pelvic floor where u squeeze in the testicle area similar to holding in a pee.  I did this for 1/2 months x2 day didnt work.  Durex longer lasting dont work.  I have ordered a delay spray from usa which is only fda approved. I have considered prilogy to take just before, but its an antidepressent with side effects.

Does anyone have any more advice? Having a wank 3/4hrs before would kill the urge, plus wouldnt make much different still pop in 2/3min .  Im not massively experienced

Sounds like bliss to me. How many times can you pop in an hour? Why not try and set a record (which might just stop the PE if you're under pressure). Go on, try for ten!

tcm

[lewishamguy]

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Does anyone have any more advice? Having a wank 3/4hrs before would kill the urge, plus wouldnt make much different still pop in 2/3min .  Im not massively experienced

Watch External Link/Members Only and listen carefully, may help you. 

[new_punter_1]

PE is a medical issue!

pills and gadgets wont help.

it is mostly psycological.

i have been looking into this for many years.

i suggest Reiki healing, Chackra balancing and maybe lomi lomi massage.

you can have a good laugh and then read this addition to your post again.

removing negertive energies or feelings which cause PE is a must.

or else keep eating pain killiers and then let the DR say you only got 6 months to go as its a tumor not just headache.

deal with the symtoms now!

i can go on and on. most imporant is to act now.

[Daffodil]

PE is a medical issue!

pills and gadgets wont help.

it is mostly psycological.

i have been looking into this for many years.

i suggest Reiki healing, Chackra balancing and maybe lomi lomi massage.

you can have a good laugh and then read this addition to your post again.

removing negertive energies or feelings which cause PE is a must.

or else keep eating pain killiers and then let the DR say you only got 6 months to go as its a tumor not just headache.

deal with the symtoms now!

i can go on and on. most imporant is to act now.

So you state the problem is medical, and then insist on treating it with hocus pocus 

[Cuntminion]

Lucky bastard

[tantric talents]

and maybe lomi lomi massage.

So good they named it twice !

[Bestway]

Drink tea and shag, the real tea from India, HARD Middle leg and real deal.go for it
Tea helps, kama sutra is from India, so drink tea, and have a good time.
One life..enjoy

[DazedCorinthian]

The problem with a vagina is that it feels very different to the hand and offers much more stimulation than masturbating due to it's warmth and moisture. If you were able to fuck 5 times a day for a couple of months the problem would solve itself because you'd get used to the sensation. Another challenge is masturbation. We want to orgasm as quickly as possible every time which is of course diametrically opposed to what we want during sex. Short of spending a couple of months in a Thai brothel the solution appears to be to find a way of masturbating which replicates as far as possible the sensation of a vagina. A Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit serves exactly this purpose. You'll be surprised at how much it feels like a real vagina. Buy and use a Fleshlight and follow the guide in the downloadable manual.

As for Kegels, they do work but you need to follow a progressive protocol as with any form of exercise. Google around. The plan I found went from 3 sets of 5 seconds to 2 minute sets. I would post a link but I can't recall where I found it and the protocol is on a dead hard drive.

The first time I used a Fleshlight I blew my load in about 45 seconds, it's pretty tight. 

Hope this helps.

[OscarC]

Agree with the advice on using a fleshlight, particularly the stamina training unit.  Works wonders!

[maxxblue]

The problem with a vagina is that it feels very different to the hand and offers much more stimulation than masturbating due to it's warmth and moisture. If you were able to fuck 5 times a day for a couple of months the problem would solve itself because you'd get used to the sensation. Another challenge is masturbation. We want to orgasm as quickly as possible every time which is of course diametrically opposed to what we want during sex. Short of spending a couple of months in a Thai brothel the solution appears to be to find a way of masturbating which replicates as far as possible the sensation of a vagina. A Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit serves exactly this purpose. You'll be surprised at how much it feels like a real vagina. Buy and use a Fleshlight and follow the guide in the downloadable manual.

As for Kegels, they do work but you need to follow a progressive protocol as with any form of exercise. Google around. The plan I found went from 3 sets of 5 seconds to 2 minute sets. I would post a link but I can't recall where I found it and the protocol is on a dead hard drive.

The first time I used a Fleshlight I blew my load in about 45 seconds, it's pretty tight. 

Hope this helps.

Yes, if only vaginas were shaped like hands, it would be so much better.

Says who?

Are you on commission?

[DazedCorinthian]

Thanks for your contribution. Did it help the OP?

I was merely trying to be helpful. I would like to suggest you do the same. I knew the commission line would come from someone. Why add anything if you can't add positively? 

[fredpunter]

The problem with a vagina is that it feels very different to the hand and offers much more stimulation than masturbating due to it's warmth and moisture. If you were able to fuck 5 times a day for a couple of months the problem would solve itself because you'd get used to the sensation. Another challenge is masturbation. We want to orgasm as quickly as possible every time which is of course diametrically opposed to what we want during sex. Short of spending a couple of months in a Thai brothel the solution appears to be to find a way of masturbating which replicates as far as possible the sensation of a vagina. A Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit serves exactly this purpose. You'll be surprised at how much it feels like a real vagina. Buy and use a Fleshlight and follow the guide in the downloadable manual.

As for Kegels, they do work but you need to follow a progressive protocol as with any form of exercise. Google around. The plan I found went from 3 sets of 5 seconds to 2 minute sets. I would post a link but I can't recall where I found it and the protocol is on a dead hard drive.

The first time I used a Fleshlight I blew my load in about 45 seconds, it's pretty tight. 

Hope this helps.

sounds like you sell them for a living

[wheeliebinwanking]

Ah the fleshlight, bought it for a mate as a joke. He used it and was hooked.


Would make sense for training. It's delivered discreetely too. Just keep it clean!

[jimmytick]

Tramadol, 1 tablet an hour before you pump. I too suffer.......... I have also tried prilogy at 30mg and 60mg, sober it didnt do much help but ten pints of beer and 60mg and I was a stalion!

[NottsNylonLuvr]

Best thing you can do is accept it as the norm & stop thinking about it, you're feeding the anxiety.
Take it as a given that you're going to cum quick a few times & you'll soon be surprising yourself with longer sessions. It will only seem like a little at a time but then when you look back it will all add up.

[peter_bungee]

Thanks guys will consider ordering a fleshlight excellent idea, similar to edging i guess but more real

Your right i need to not worry about it, especially as its currently with wg's so doesnt matter how long i last lol

Would appreciate any kegal excercise routines people have followed in terms of how many reps  per day

[jamesian]

I suffer occasionally - usually when not seen anyone for 2 or 3 months. I think the excitement becomes too much and oops there we go.
Would you believe I find a Double Gin and Tonic helps. I always seem to last longer if I get the chance to have one about half hour before seeing someone.

[Bestway]

I suffer occasionally - usually when not seen anyone for 2 or 3 months. I think the excitement becomes too much and oops there we go.
Would you believe I find a Double Gin and Tonic helps. I always seem to last longer if I get the chance to have one about half hour before seeing someone.

full bottle Jonny wanker blue label from Scotland sold at duty free shops, helps my middle stump facing the floor all night, but a great whiskey

[gash bash]

You need to see the bitch i saw the other day - i left a review. Normally i also cum in a few min, but i had to pound her hard for 20 mins in different positions before i could cum. lol

[Max Pleasure]

Viagra has helped me to last longer; and I find that taking a break, changing positions or types of activity also helps.

[JV547845]

Sorry that you're having trouble dude, but you're still getting two pops in under half an hour, so maybe just staying hard for round 3 would help - viagra?

Can you train yourself to last longer by slowing down when you jack off?  Have you tried giving your self the least amount of stimulation possible that will still keep you aroused, focussing on the sensations in your cock only, and not just the last porn you saw or your wank bank?

In general just try to relax, recognise before you cum, and then stop and change positions.  I'd stick to escorts who make you feel comfortable too or even gold standard ones, don't be suckered by any cold hearted romanians with hot pics just yet (if ever).

Something I've noticed is that GFE foreplay with lots of DFK or even just body rubbing, will make me pop very quickly during sex, but in more of a PSE type booking, my cock gets a bit over stimulated right away from the girl's mouth it goes numb, then I can fuck for nearly an hour.  It's all good though, I still really like foreplay.

[Ben4454]

As soon as you cum grab another condom and go again.

If you are swift enough it could be like changing a tyre on a formula one track.

[banjo]

As soon as you cum grab another condom and go again.

If you are swift enough it could be like changing a tyre on a formula one track.

Yes just make sure you tighten your nuts properly or it could end up messy.