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Autopunter

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Okay, so a while ago I posted a thread asking for suggestions for sex venues where civies and WGs mixed, and was given a couple of names. The idea was to cross off some items on my bucket list, meet some swingers and still know that cash for gash was available if I was striking out. I got the idea reading the Shoreditch strip club thread, which is why Domina's was suggested to me. This is my report on the evening there any thoughts on the experience.

The Skinny
Domina's is a private members club that runs events including fetish nights, strippers etc. They have a website where you join to get a number, and you see a list of the different events on different evenings. I attended the Friday night strippers event.

The club is at Dalston Junction and easy to find, discreet and enterence fee is £15 for single guys. Drinks and sacks are available at a bar, prices are low for London and there are lots of nooks and cranies for sneaking off to with a bird. I can't speak for the sex parties because I was there on a night for dancers, some of whom also put out on the side.

Stripping

Nine or so girls were working when I turned up on Friday, a mix of ages and nationalities. Heartening quite a few black British birds were there, a personal favourite. I had only been once to a strip club before, a night in Germany when I was looking for a knocking shop, found a Berlin club called the Butterfly and literally swung in to pick up a dancer for sex in their backroom. So this time I was determined to do stripping properly and see if it was a thing for me. I had a punt booked the next day so tonight was life experience night.

Domina's girls are hot, they come over and chat without pushing too hard for a private dancer where they make their money. I had a comfortable four hours in the club and finally got to appreciate women walking around in crotchless fishnets. Each dancer would bring a cup around for a quid and dance the room raunchily. Some really had some moves on them, like a black Brit working under the name of Kia. There's reception if you want to surf the web or you can chat to the other punters. Germany's finest porn plays on TV screens around the room. Club management is definitely organised, above board and solid  :thumbsup:

Immoral Encounters:
I had three dancers take me to the private playcells for dancing and here is where things break down a bit for me with my experience as a punter; dancers are independent contractors separate from management and each is different with prices, do's and don'ts and internet punting is definitely better value for cash imo. Alas it lacks attmosphere. I will refer to the three dancers I tried as A, B and C to avoid shit stirring. A and B were both sexy Latina Brazilians in their 20s, A in particular having a fantastic arse and wearing a strappy black number to show it off. C was an Italian girl in her late 30s, but hard bodied and lean, in a black bikini number. All three had had boob jobs

A approached me early in the evening for a private dance which I accepted, as I wanted a proper lapdance for the first time. The cost is £20 and A delivered a full nude lap dance that showed off her fantastic arse and I would say was worth it for a bit of fun. However A did what a lot of Edinburgh sauna girls did and tried to upsell basic stuff like a handjob, but with conditions. It sounded rushed and pricey so I declined. I was also put off because it was barely 9 and I knew she'd be shooting off to work the rest of the room.

I returned to the common room to enjoy a drink, watch some dances and swap words with a dancer called Kia. Sadly I missed out on her later, by dint of having to return home at midnight but IMO she would be the one to hire as I think she does extras, and is a hell of a dancer, so easily worth £20 for a lap dance. I got walking to B however as A had put me in mind to get a bit of personal service from a Latina, a type I don't have much experience with.

B was the low point of an otherwise great evening for me, because of the inherent ambiguity of her job as a dancer who may or may not offer extras. As it so happens B did, but I should have checked what before we got up to go back. There is also no time set to nondancing extras, unlike a punt, which puts pressure in you to come fast and cut into my enjoyment. I had a fantasy of a lapdance, B fingering herself and then a blowjob off B. Alas B only did covered blowjobs, a deal breaker for me. I settled for B giving me a handjob but ultimately left feeling my £60 would have been better spent.

I finished my night by meeting C who is from Rome and chatty. C is a regular at the club and one who is going down on my list as a reliable service provider. When I was ready to leave I decided to have one last try but to skip any lapdances. C and I covered a fs punt for a hundred and I got a solid 30 minute dance, bj, fuck, bj to completion off her. I also kept her number as she escorts and does anal. This was a breakthrough as finding an escort who agrees to let me fuck her ass after she's seen my dick is rare and I've been looking for a while.

Conclusion:
So, would I return? The answer is yes, but there are things I'd do differently. I loved the sight of naked women wandering around, the atmosphere is great and management run a tight ship. A lap dance is a good taster, not too pricey and really puts you in the mood to bang a girl a bit later. One of the things that puts me off punting is the lack of spontaneity. For four hours use of the facilities I spent £20 on drinks, free snacks and entry fee, £20 on a nude private lapdance and maybe ten quid on common room dances. It was a blast and I crossed lapdancing off my bucketlist. If you like stripclubs go here.

From the sex perspective I spent £160 for about 40-50 minutes all together. Frankly you get more bang for your buck punting. Domina offers value for time, but Friday night P4P is pretty rushed. The club has the same drawback that saunas do, that all the girls are competing with each other and out to grab what they can. There's also an ambiguity not present in a sauna with a service pricelist about time, price and who does put out on a Friday. Friday is dominated by the pros however since it is a strippers night. Other nights might bring in more horny couples who want to swing and less rushed to cash in.

I suspect that Domina improves on Fridays if you are a regular, you know the girls and you have bargaining power of repeat business. For example next time I will arrive between nine and ten, ask here for a list of strippers who give good service, their prices and who do OWO. I'll also be less in a rush to see a girl dance, which is £40 saved right there.

Do Go: if you want a long social evening talking to naked women, having a beer and getting tits rubbed in your face for £1, plus discreet ten minute blowjobs on the side

Don't Go: if you are in the mood for a luxury full service massage and multiple cums for two hours whilst being spilit.

Domina is a monthly thing for me I expect, a way to celebrate payday that takes longer than a single hours punt. Next though I plan to visit Paradise Sauna, which was also recommended to me, and report back. It has made me realise that I might enjoy a party if there were enough girls present.


« Last Edit: July 18, 2015, 12:04:20 pm by Autopunter »

fredpunter

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Kia was the one who looked after me quite nicely when I went ... take your waterproofs along if you make her cum though.

Autopunter

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Yes, I had her name off another punter I realised when I got back. I saw her in the club and we chatted, but then I got snagged before she was free again. Definitely on my to-do list though, since I do love a black girl.

I actually had a reverse booking on for Friday who called abruptly to reschedule for today, so I ended up at the Domina pretty unexpectedly and didn't have my mental list ready. You can't exactly log onto UKP at work. Still I'll know for next time. If there is a steady group of girls there it'll only take so long to pin them down on who's good and who isn't.
« Last Edit: July 18, 2015, 11:50:01 pm by Autopunter »

fredpunter

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Yes, I had her name off another punter I realised when I got back. I saw her in the club and we chatted, but then I got snagged before she was free again. Definitely on my to-do list though, since I do love a black girl.

I actually had a reverse booking on for Friday who called abruptly to reschedule for today, so I ended up at the Domina pretty unexpectedly and didn't have my mental list ready. You can't exactly log onto UKP at work. Still I'll know for next time. If there is a steady group of girls there it'll only take so long to pin them down on who's good and who isn't.

Costs extra if you want to pin them down

Autopunter

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Yeah, I'll probably just catch her the next time I'm in. She's not exactly a blushing violet sitting in the corner fanning herself  :angelgirl:

Offline GalaxyMan

The club is at Dalston Junction and easy to find, discreet and enterence fee is £15 for single guys. Drinks and sacks are available at a bar, prices are low for London. I can't speak for the sex parties because I was there on a night for dancers, some of whom also put out on the side.

Stripping

Nine or so girls were working when I turned up on Friday, a mix of ages and nationalities. Heartening quite a few black British birds were there, a personal favourite.

4 girls of this description last Friday, altough one is a *very* limited 'dance and cuddle only' girl.  There often another, slimmer than that one who is similar, but more 'tactile' and she is very time generous.

Do Go: if you want a long social evening talking to naked women, having a beer and getting tits rubbed in your face for £1, plus discreet ten minute blowjobs on the side

Don't Go: if you are in the mood for a luxury full service massage and multiple cums for two hours whilst being spilit.

Perhaps we UKP collective might consider a lapel badge?   :cool:  :hi:  :drinks:  :thumbsup:  :wacko:

GM

Offline jackthelad

Hi brothers,

I was wondering if anyone has been to the couples nights or the BDSM nights? What was it like?

Thank you
J

fredpunter

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4 girls of this description last Friday, altough one is a *very* limited 'dance and cuddle only' girl.  There often another, slimmer than that one who is similar, but more 'tactile' and she is very time generous.

GM

anyone I would know?

Offline a203203

Hi there – Have tried the number listed on Domina's website but it doesn't to be working. Does anyone know if the Fridays are still on, and the location? Keen to try next week. Thanks.

Offline Steely Dan

Is this it?  The web site is as shit as a shit thing, isn't it?
External Link/Members Only
Hard to navigate, advertising events from 2 months ago.

Offline a203203

Yup that's the website. No info on the Friday events. Do you know the location? Might try to pay it a visit on a Fri anyway.

piccadilly47

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I used to visit this place in the previous decade. It was much livelier when it was located in Manor House. It became a  swingers club where not much happened. I wouldn't want any of my mates to know I'd visited this club.

Earlier this year I've walked past it during the day and didn't get impression it was still open. Website gave me the impression that it was closed. Are Brian and Claire still running it?

The swinging scene in London was good 10-15 years ago. But now it's only for guys with £100 in their pocket to burn.

Offline dieseldriver

I used to visit this place in the previous decade. It was much livelier when it was located in Manor House. It became a  swingers club where not much happened. I wouldn't want any of my mates to know I'd visited this club.



Yes, I too used to visit it when it was in Green Lanes Manor House. Situated beneath a restaurant. Was a fetish club them days. Recall an old guy used to go there every Sunday (that's when club open) naked from the waist down. Wore a shirt, waistcoat, and trilby hat! Regular lady used to wank him off. Then he would go. Persuaded her to wank me once in full view of others!!   

Online davidgood

I used to visit this place in the previous decade. It was much livelier when it was located in Manor House. It became a  swingers club where not much happened. I wouldn't want any of my mates to know I'd visited this club.

Earlier this year I've walked past it during the day and didn't get impression it was still open. Website gave me the impression that it was closed. Are Brian and Claire still running it?

The swinging scene in London was good 10-15 years ago. But now it's only for guys with £100 in their pocket to burn.

Hi Piccadilly,


I take it you are reminiscing about The Oasis as it was called at Manor House and then it was just know as the street number when it moved to Dalston.

The place was run then by Ian and Claire, assisted by their son Jason. Unfortunately Claire passed away in 2013.

Last decade I used to enjoy going to the stag evenings at The Oasis organised by Spud & Jim and then when they went off to Club Lick I used to go to the Thursday strip evenings organised by Claire.

They were interesting because as well as the pub circuit girls there were also some part timers you would not see elsewhere and the odd couple would turn up. In particular there was a Scots couple who came a few times because the guy liked watching his misses playing with the strippers. I was lucky enough to be introduced to the lady by one of the strippers I knew and end up with a free blow job one night.

I did not usually pay for more than a few private dances, but they could be quite raunchy. I would have continued going regularly but then I started going to sex parties and realised they were much better value and overall more enjoyable.

However in 2013/4 I went back to the New Oasis as it was sometimes called to attend Pam’s Parties there until they moved to Crystal Palace. I had some good times there, but the place was a bit grubby and lacked showers and decent toilets.

Due to the lack of parties in London I was interested in trying Club Domina but I could never seem to get very far into the web site.

I would be interested to know if the venue is still open and what sort of events are held there and on what nights.

Regards,
davidgood

Offline dieseldriver

I went there the same decade Redstripe was using it for their spanking parties. The Club Domina on Sundays can't remember who hosted? But can remember a big fat guy who sat on a chair at the entrance acting as doorman    :D :D :D

Online HappyandLucky

Cheers for the overview Auto. Will put it on the list when I fancy a beer and tickle rather than a full service.

piccadilly47

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Thanks for telling me the sad news David. The last time I went to the club would have been in 2009 and I had heard on the quiet that Claire had cancer. 

The only affordable parties now are the ones Rebecca Ryder organises, which we have both been to (me not for a couple of years).




Offline Hansolo69

I had the misfortune of visiting this event last night  :(
Really wish I hadn't bothered.

Paid £15 door money then went into bar / dance area.
First impressions were "What a dump".
Horrible room and manky carpet on the floor.
Then I noticed the dancers, Oh dear.
There may have been between 8 - 12 dancers working, only 1 interested me.  That's a bad start.
So bought a bottle of beer - plus point it's very cheap.
Sat down on a sofa bench type seat and tried to assess the situation.
A few dancers approached me and introduced themselves - not one white English girl.  Mostly Brazillian if that's your thing.
The only English girls were 1 black and 1 mixed race.
Spoke to a guy behind the bar asking if someone would show me around, which they did.  Very dingy looking place.
The only girl that I liked the look of spent most of the time I was there sitting with a guy and some of her mates.
Thankfully as I was thinking of leaving she came over with a mate to try talk me into going for a dance with both of them.  Luckily I'm not gullible so just said I'd prefer to just go with you.
So off we went to try find a quiet private area for a lapdance.
Eventually settled on a very small dark room, which made me feel a little claustrophobic, she explained I could have a standard dance for £20 or a naughty dance with touching for £40.  I said I'd try the £40 option.  So she played a song on her mobile phone and started dancing.  She was pretty and very sexy.  Touching was limited and I didn't realise the dance was literally just one 3 minute song  :dash:
She asked if I wanted her to continue, so I asked her what her levels were.  She didn't do anything extra !  :unknown:
I said thanks but not to worry.   I was so disappointed.
Left the dance area and told her I was calling it a night.
Other negative points to note, nobody explained when I was asking about going that it's a pound in the pot type place, which I hate.
Customers and girls are allowed to smoke in the bar area, which I also hate, came out stinking of smoke.

I'd have been better of booking an escort locally, or just going to a regular strip club.
I don't think I'll be rushing back there anytime soon.

Online davidgood

Thanks for the update on the 'New Oasis' Hans.

Sounds as though nothing much has changed in the past few years.

Regards,

davidgood

Offline a203203

Wow that sounds just like a shoreditch strip pub but with a high cover. Was hoping for more extras.

piccadilly47

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Oh dear. It's gone from mediocre to worse.  So I've not missed anything. Even the reincarnated Fantasy video porn cinema in New Cross has been closed down.

Are there any affordable swinging clubs/parties in
London left?

Offline dieseldriver

Would the venue have been in Hackney? Redstripe used to hold parties in the basement of a disused shop I think Kingsland Road?

Offline Petronius

Didn't realise Club Domina was still going. I wish them well.

I used to go on Sunday fetish nights in the late 1990s when they were on Green Lanes near Manor House tube station. The hostess was known as the Black Widow if I recollect correctly, and it was always a friendly atmosphere. Once a month there would be a more hard core BDSM night run by a Mistress Orchid, who was in her late 40s or early 50s then. Those nights were not for the faint hearted if you participated, although no particular pressure was put on to do so.

Offline dieseldriver

Didn't realise Club Domina was still going. I wish them well.

I used to go on Sunday fetish nights in the late 1990s when they were on Green Lanes near Manor House tube station. The hostess was known as the Black Widow if I recollect correctly, and it was always a friendly atmosphere. Once a month there would be a more hard core BDSM night run by a Mistress Orchid, who was in her late 40s or early 50s then. Those nights were not for the faint hearted if you participated, although no particular pressure was put on to do so.

Hahaha, me too! Still have black membership card with the gold lettering Club Domina. Do you remember the old guy that went there to be wanked off? Small area where the TV was. Lady used to come in with her hubby (think hubby), go the that area where he was waiting for her. Minus his trousers and underpants.
Another character was a transvestite done up so well couldn't tell it was a man. Till he lifted his skirt knickerless to show his cock...... Yes, seen some sites there. Guys taking a strap-on over the bence, spankings, canings. Heard Club Domina moved to another venue cos it got flooded?

Online davidgood

There seems to be confusion seeping into this thread about a specific party organiser and the venue it uses or used for parties, which is still used for other parties/events.

Although I have never been to one of their parties, my understanding is that Club Domina was a fetish club who held their weekly events at the old Oasis  near Manor House and then  moved to the owners new premises near Dalston Kingsland Overground station. I do not know if they are still organising parties, there or anywhere else.

The original Oasis, in a basement below a café  called the Oasis, had to close about 10 years ago when it had problems with its drains, allegedly caused by building work going on next door at the time.

The owners of the venue relocated their operation to a basement below shops in Dalston  and several of the party organisers went with them.
When it first opened the new club was quite smart, compared to the old Oasis. But over time the fabric has got a bit run down as mentioned in Hansolo’s post.

I have not been to the premises for a few years but they used to have posters on the walls advertising various events/parties which were held there.

I believe the Friday night events are something the guys who own the venue organise themselves. Essentially they are a private strip party, with ‘jugging’ and public dances in the bar area.  Private dances are available in the rooms behind the bar. What you get in a private dance is subject to how far the stripper will go and how much you are prepared to pay. 

These particular events are not what I would class as a sex party.

If anyone has any info on other parties being held at the venue please let us know or add the info to the Parties section of Punting Wiki.

Regards,
davidgood

Offline dieseldriver

Yes, spot on! The oasis at Manor House was the one I went to. Although the fetish nights were on a Sunday.
Also, redstripe used the basement below the shops in Dalston. I went to a few parties there. I think its still being used for spanking parties that are advertised on ITC-mag.com.

mezy

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Hi Piccadilly,


I take it you are reminiscing about The Oasis as it was called at Manor House and then it was just know as the street number when it moved to Dalston.

The place was run then by Ian and Claire, assisted by their son Jason. Unfortunately Claire passed away in 2013.

Last decade I used to enjoy going to the stag evenings at The Oasis organised by Spud & Jim and then when they went off to Club Lick I used to go to the Thursday strip evenings organised by Claire.

They were interesting because as well as the pub circuit girls there were also some part timers you would not see elsewhere and the odd couple would turn up. In particular there was a Scots couple who came a few times because the guy liked watching his misses playing with the strippers. I was lucky enough to be introduced to the lady by one of the strippers I knew and end up with a free blow job one night.

I did not usually pay for more than a few private dances, but they could be quite raunchy. I would have continued going regularly but then I started going to sex parties and realised they were much better value and overall more enjoyable.

However in 2013/4 I went back to the New Oasis as it was sometimes called to attend Pam’s Parties there until they moved to Crystal Palace. I had some good times there, but the place was a bit grubby and lacked showers and decent toilets.

Due to the lack of parties in London I was interested in trying Club Domina but I could never seem to get very far into the web site.

I would be interested to know if the venue is still open and what sort of events are held there and on what nights.

Regards,
davidgood

Ho yeah I remember the Oasis I've only been once there I found it a bit sad :thumbsdown:...but I far much preferred the "gentleman's parties" :yahoo: organised by Terry at Club Lick first and they moved to Bow later it was very good, most of the girls were lovely I always enjoyed a lot over there . Been to Pam's parties also in Earls Court was OK...also been to the South London Swingers  in Crystal Palace Ok also, and recently to the Kestrel in Heathrow very good as well and huge ( may be too big to fill up) but clean with plenty of rooms of all sorts...

Also been to the Domina Jason at entrance last January for a swingers night and it was very good, as I arrived I spotted some action on the back of one main room and try to join in and without any problems get the first pop in to the mouth of a lady while her partner was enjoying the show...after hanging around for a while and chatting to few strippers, then pop into another swinger as a doggy as she was busy sucking a rod :wacko:...Great evening.

I definitely will go back   

scotsman7

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There seems to be confusion seeping into this thread about a specific party organiser and the venue it uses or used for parties, which is still used for other parties/events.

Although I have never been to one of their parties, my understanding is that Club Domina was a fetish club who held their weekly events at the old Oasis  near Manor House and then  moved to the owners new premises near Dalston Kingsland Overground station. I do not know if they are still organising parties, there or anywhere else.

The original Oasis, in a basement below a café  called the Oasis, had to close about 10 years ago when it had problems with its drains, allegedly caused by building work going on next door at the time.

The owners of the venue relocated their operation to a basement below shops in Dalston  and several of the party organisers went with them.
When it first opened the new club was quite smart, compared to the old Oasis. But over time the fabric has got a bit run down as mentioned in Hansolo’s post.

I have not been to the premises for a few years but they used to have posters on the walls advertising various events/parties which were held there.

I believe the Friday night events are something the guys who own the venue organise themselves. Essentially they are a private strip party, with ‘jugging’ and public dances in the bar area.  Private dances are available in the rooms behind the bar. What you get in a private dance is subject to how far the stripper will go and how much you are prepared to pay. 

These particular events are not what I would class as a sex party.

If anyone has any info on other parties being held at the venue please let us know or add the info to the Parties section of Punting Wiki.

Regards,
davidgood

Yes there was a problem with them building next to the Oasis and each time the problem got worse and it dragged on for so long Ian decided to move - the new Venue had been used on occasions but it was only meant for lager parties and had been up and running for two years when Ian moved all the clubs over - I was running the website at that time so have been to all the main parties.

As you will know Claire was the one to make the parties roll - Claire and I started treatment at the same time for cancer and she had been given the all clear after her treatment but then she had a sudden relapse and died very quickly and this shattered Ian.

Friday nights at the Oasis was far better than what they ended up at the new Venue but at that time there was far less private Parties going about.

The Couples only club held on a Saturday was far more interesting - I started going when they were held at a Venue in Wood Green { prior to the Oasis } and that was where Club Domina started.

On moving to the Oasis Ian also started the Wednesday Club { like a Friday but held on a Wednesday }

over the years some of the Members have started up their own clubs and this divided the membership Ourplace4fun had the biggest impact when they were still at the Oasis.

Overall Club Domina { the club held on a Sunday } is not bad although it all depends who shows up as to how good it is.

If anyone wishes to attend then they really should go though the website as they are not keen on strangers showing up at their door and why I would ask everyone not to list the address + you never know who may be reading this so we don't want what happened to Club Whiplash happen to Club Domina.

I see some people mention Redstripe - sadly Ivor who ran it was killed when he tackled two guys who were carpet fitters { that had fitted some carpets for him } who decided to sneak back when they thought he was out but he was in fact there and was killed - I think the Police were only able to convict one of them.

Redstripe used to hold parties at Forest gate which was a large party house { with swimming pool and it was that Venue that held some Club Submission parties  } I ran { but did not own } and they were bloody brilliant as he made sure all the females were well paid and Punters were begging him to hold more - due to the cost he would only hold a party every three months - shame really as I used to enjoy them being at the house - they had full access apart from the Pool area as we did not want anyone to drown - that House had three fully fitted Dungeons although surprisingly they were not used much at a Redstripe Party as Punters preferred the rooms on the first floor made into a schoolroom - it was open every weekend but just like the Oasis it was Members only - its no longer at that location due to press attention so the owner sold up and has started a smaller venue outside of London.

 just to prove I am who I claim to be - here is two short clips filmed at the new Venue { sure its heavily edited but we did not want them taking down }   

External Link/Members Only

External Link/Members Only

piccadilly47

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Thanks for the update Brian. I forgot that Club Lick was set up by Oasis members. Greg & Lisa's club is good, just a shame it like other clubs now) is so expensive for us single blokes.

I wonder what happened to Marc (his brother ran a club in Dunstable) & Beccy (dark hair glasses, a little bit like Jenny Eclair)?

Persie

  • Guest
I have been to this venue and remember it being a fetish sex club

From what I remember, get yourself invited to the Saturday nights (think its last Saturday or something) - they are better.

you are right tho - its very very seedy but drinks are cheap as chips!

scotsman7

  • Guest
Thanks for the update Brian. I forgot that Club Lick was set up by Oasis members. Greg & Lisa's club is good, just a shame it like other clubs now) is so expensive for us single blokes.

I wonder what happened to Marc (his brother ran a club in Dunstable) & Beccy (dark hair glasses, a little bit like Jenny Eclair)?

Clearly we must know each other as you know my name - I do know what happened about the club in Dunstable.

Now I was not there so I only know one side of it from the organisers - it was being run by four people { in fact two couples } and one night the two couples fell out with each other - over what ' it was never really clear ' anyway they ended up not speaking to each other ' but there was a added complication - something to do with the lease -

so Couple A was going to continue ' at the same Venue ' but Couple B { who controlled membership } was planning to get a new venue and take the members with them but as I have not seen them in ages I cant say if that happened.

Now I am good friends with Greg and Lisa { going back donkey years } but it was bloody daft to hand out invites ' without permission ' at the Oasis and I did tell them that at the time - I was there the night they were kicked out - in fact I have free entry { on any night to Ourplace4fun } but I never did go as I know Ian would go Nuts - I must really get down as it would be nice to see Greg & Lisa again.In fact I designed their first web site - { this was long before they even had a Venue but at that time it was going to be a club held on a night the Oasis was not open } which was a lot better than what its like now { well I would say that anyway }

have you tried External Link/Members Only have not been to Richard's place in ages but its good to see they are still  going - Ian and I stepped in when Kat { she is on the door } had problems with a few jokers who was causing problems on the door - not sure where Security was all we know they were not at the door - anyway the jokers soon left.

I don't have a clue how much they charge for entry as I get in for free but it is a good party and you can take your own drink in which saves money.There was a Couple - not sure if I first met them at Forest Gate { Earlham Grove } or Wood Green { the venue Ian used to run } but it was one or the other and they used to be seen everywhere and then ' they vanished ' but I bumped into them and they had started up their own Club but I forget where it is - they use a Private House but they are well connected - so many Clubs but I just don't have the time to see them all - I know the owner of the party house of Forest Gate has started up a new place although not as big as Forest Gate but cant recall what they were going to call it.

I still miss Forest Gate - I was the only one who lived there all the time - I used to wake up - walk down into the indoor pool and would have a swim every day - the only problem was parking as people used to park wherever they could find and sometimes they would block drive ways and they come to complain and I had to find out who owned the car { not as easy as it sounds if there is 300 people inside } - so it was well laid out - had loads of room but ' it was in the wrong location '

Did you ever go to Forest Gate ?

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Yes there was a problem with them building next to the Oasis and each time the problem got worse and it dragged on for so long Ian decided to move - the new Venue had been used on occasions but it was only meant for lager parties and had been up and running for two years when Ian moved all the clubs over - I was running the website at that time so have been to all the main parties.

As you will know Claire was the one to make the parties roll - Claire and I started treatment at the same time for cancer and she had been given the all clear after her treatment but then she had a sudden relapse and died very quickly and this shattered Ian.

Friday nights at the Oasis was far better than what they ended up at the new Venue but at that time there was far less private Parties going about.

The Couples only club held on a Saturday was far more interesting - I started going when they were held at a Venue in Wood Green { prior to the Oasis } and that was where Club Domina started.

On moving to the Oasis Ian also started the Wednesday Club { like a Friday but held on a Wednesday }

over the years some of the Members have started up their own clubs and this divided the membership Ourplace4fun had the biggest impact when they were still at the Oasis.

Overall Club Domina { the club held on a Sunday } is not bad although it all depends who shows up as to how good it is.

If anyone wishes to attend then they really should go though the website as they are not keen on strangers showing up at their door and why I would ask everyone not to list the address + you never know who may be reading this so we don't want what happened to Club Whiplash happen to Club Domina.

I see some people mention Redstripe - sadly Ivor who ran it was killed when he tackled two guys who were carpet fitters { that had fitted some carpets for him } who decided to sneak back when they thought he was out but he was in fact there and was killed - I think the Police were only able to convict one of them.

Redstripe used to hold parties at Forest gate which was a large party house { with swimming pool and it was that Venue that held some Club Submission parties  } I ran { but did not own } and they were bloody brilliant as he made sure all the females were well paid and Punters were begging him to hold more - due to the cost he would only hold a party every three months - shame really as I used to enjoy them being at the house - they had full access apart from the Pool area as we did not want anyone to drown - that House had three fully fitted Dungeons although surprisingly they were not used much at a Redstripe Party as Punters preferred the rooms on the first floor made into a schoolroom - it was open every weekend but just like the Oasis it was Members only - its no longer at that location due to press attention so the owner sold up and has started a smaller venue outside of London.

 just to prove I am who I claim to be - here is two short clips filmed at the new Venue { sure its heavily edited but we did not want them taking down }   

External Link/Members Only

External Link/Members Only

Scotsman or Brian,

Your comment about running the website is interesting as when I have chatted with Ian over the bar I got the impression that he or his venue did not have a website and he preferred people to hear about what was  on by word of mouth.

I am not sure who runs the Club Domina site but it does not tell you much other than there is party on a Sunday evening and to get entry you have to have membership which involves giving your address. I can't see many people wanting to do that !!!

Is there a website that you can direct us to which tells what is on each evening at the 'New Oasis' or 'Ian and Jason's '?

Regards Our Place 4 Fun, I understand that it is only for couples and young studs. They do not hold sex parties as such.

Regards,

davidgood

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Scotsman or Brian,

Your comment about running the website is interesting as when I have chatted with Ian over the bar I got the impression that he or his venue did not have a website and he preferred people to hear about what was  on by word of mouth.

I am not sure who runs the Club Domina site but it does not tell you much other than there is party on a Sunday evening and to get entry you have to have membership which involves giving your address. I can't see many people wanting to do that !!!

Is there a website that you can direct us to which tells what is on each evening at the 'New Oasis' or 'Ian and Jason's '?

Regards Our Place 4 Fun, I understand that it is only for couples and young studs. They do not hold sex parties as such.

Regards,

davidgood

Hi there - sorry I did not reply - I had a whole series of Operations to do with Peripheral arterial disease so have been in and out of hospital.

Ian wanted a site but it was aimed at people who lived abroad

it may sound Mad but his thinking was to stop the British press from being able to get in.

every week between the two clubs - Couples from abroad would show up and provided their e-mail had the correct password - they were allowed in.

I had to stop handling it as I ended up with cancer so my time was focused on getting better.

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I have seen his new site - have not a clue who runs it but it may be Jason.

although I cant find it now as the domain jumps to another domain name.

but the one I did see ' did ask for personal details '

I will have to drop in and find out what is going on .

re Our Place 4 Fun - I must drop in and see them as I am old friends as far as I know its still going strong.

I am still recovering from the artery bypass so I cant walk far but when I recover I will be seeing them both.

sorry I cant be more help but when I have more concrete information I will post back here.

so have you been back recently to Domina ?

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Thanks for the reply after such a  time. I hope you make a full recovery soon.

Just for the  record I have  never been to Club Domina.

I first went to Ian's place in Dalston when he moved from the old Oasis and Claire was running strip parties on a Thursday evening.

After I stopped going to strip parties I was back at Ian's when Pam was running her parties there for a while and that is when I had some long chats with Ian about publicity and wanting to keep a low profile.

If Ian and Jason have a web site now I, and I am sure lots of others, would like to know what it is.

Regards,

davidgood

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I used to to go the Dalston venue before the pandemic. Does anyone know if the nights still take place there?