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Author Topic: Are you bothered if a prossie isn't alone?  (Read 2650 times)

Offline akauya

Never been bothered about prossies having company, whether male or female. Doesn't bother me in the slightest. Also as an ex-swinger I quite find it a turn on when a husband actually encourages you to fuck his missus' brains out.

I'm curious though, those punters who are bothered about other men in the house, what exactly are you worried about? Are you frightened of the guy or what? Does another man make you feel inadequate? Are you afraid they will nick your money? Attack you? Just wondering...


Offline Anadin

I'm curious though, those punters who are bothered about other men in the house, what exactly are you worried about?

Whether it's another punter, a pimp, flat mate or whatever I just don't want anyone else in the area while I'm doing my business. To me that's a private moment made strangely public and uncomfortable.

Offline akauya

Whether it's another punter, a pimp, flat mate or whatever I just don't want anyone else in the area while I'm doing my business. To me that's a private moment made strangely public and uncomfortable.

That's an interesting answer.  I think the crux of the matter here is how one considers sex, which of course is a private intimate moment but for people like me accustomed to group sex (parties and swinging) privacy is no longer an issue. I get it now, thanks.

Offline sam1

I like her to be alone.Guesd it is were I am new to this and get nervous.
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Offline JamesKW

Its very rare for me to have been anywhere  there isn't someone else there.

Offline johnnyboy61

That's an interesting answer.  I think the crux of the matter here is how one considers sex, which of course is a private intimate moment but for people like me accustomed to group sex (parties and swinging) privacy is no longer an issue. I get it now, thanks.
I like sex to be a private intimate moment, have never partied and not even particularly enjoyed the threesomes that I've had, but as long as there is a door between the two of us and any other occupants I really don't care who else in on the premises, so I'm not sure that this is the determiming factor as to how comfortable a punter feels not being alone with a WG.
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Offline Jimmyredcab

If its a guy in the flat I would be livid. I would be very furious and I think it would warrant in itself a negative review for her if I found out.


The chances are you would never know, Sergei could be in the kitchen having a coffee, how on earth would you know.  :hi:

Offline SamLP

Never been bothered about prossies having company, whether male or female. Doesn't bother me in the slightest. Also as an ex-swinger I quite find it a turn on when a husband actually encourages you to fuck his missus' brains out.

I'm curious though, those punters who are bothered about other men in the house, what exactly are you worried about? Are you frightened of the guy or what? Does another man make you feel inadequate? Are you afraid they will nick your money? Attack you? Just wondering...

I guess for most people it's the discrete business of punting. You don't want to see another man in case there is some recognition or a future chance of blackmail, trouble etc.. The reality is most girls have pimps in the house or at least close by if there is an emergency but they are out of sight and not heard. Also, the point mentioned about it being an intimate interaction. I wouldn't mind another punter in another room as you're both doing the same deed. It's the non-punter male that can be an irritation or concern.

Offline DG

I'm not a great fan of the 'workhouse' independent set up although I have had a couple of great punts with girls who work from the same premises. Saw a girl once where the flat owner was in the other room. I asked if she wanted to watch next time and she did. It was a real turn on having her watch and egg us both on. She even played with my balls and cock as the other girl rimmed me  :yahoo:
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Offline Malvolio

Whether it's another punter, a pimp, flat mate or whatever I just don't want anyone else in the area while I'm doing my business. To me that's a private moment made strangely public and uncomfortable.

Do you actually conduct a thorough search of the premises before getting down to business?  I have no desire to make you paranoid, but regardless of what it says on their AW page, most prossies will have someone else in the vicinity as a safety measure.

Offline jsparky


I don't mind if there were other girls in the premises, as a matter of fact I don't mind if she want to watch!  :D

Offline Anadin

Do you actually conduct a thorough search of the premises before getting down to business?  I have no desire to make you paranoid, but regardless of what it says on their AW page, most prossies will have someone else in the vicinity as a safety measure.

Last 2 punts were in 1 bed apartments which started off with a drink in the living room so no there was nowhere to stash someone unless they were in a closet and it's the same thing with a hotel incall. Anyway why would I care if I genuinely had no idea that there was anyone else there?

Offline mj

Whilst I think it's probably quite common that someone else is either on the premises or nearby, I don't want to see or hear them!  If you are visiting someone who claims to be independent, it should be a private encounter.  I always look for tell-tale signs such as how many pairs of shoes there are by the door, or how many toothbrushes there are in the bathroom etc, but in all but 1 case I've never had a problem.

A few months ago however, I was with a WG when the door bell rang and I heard a guy come out of the living room, go answer the door and have a good chat with the some guy delivering his 'tobacco'. After that I lost my nerve, ended the session, and walked.

Similarly, a couple of years ago I was trying to make a booking via phone and could a guy in the background on another call.  Didn't book.

So to answer the original question, I'm only bothered if it's obvious.

Offline Sigatron

Anytime I've seen a girl, the last thing I've worried about is whether there's another person in the house. I generally think that if you don't see someone, then it's not something to worry about. Of course, I've probably had occasions where a guy is in the next room listening, but it's not what's on my mind at the time so it's okay. Just act like it's just you and her you'll be fine..or if you get off on someone else listening then just imagine some big muscly fucker in the next room getting off to what he hears from you and your date for the evening (hour)  :rolleyes:

Offline Trevor12

Doesn't bother me at all- if it did, it would seriously limit my options within my price range and radius.

Online The_Don

As long as it doesn't interfere with my or other punters, punts then,

No.


I punted at locations that have people coming in and out. To much of this, will draw attention.

Smart location management is required.

Offline punk

As long as it doesn't interfere with my or other punters, punts then,

No.


I punted at locations that have people coming in and out. To much of this, will draw attention.

Smart location management is required.

remains me of a place in east london,that is becoming like that.

Offline the_exile

No, not bothered - but has cost me too as I've gone back to see the other girl who was there!

I've been to parlour most it's usual to have someone else there, another girl working or answering the phone. Two places I remember had a male receptionist, no problem with that we are both blokes after all. As long as I am left alone with the girl that's fine.

Offline Kalevra

Havent had my firts punt yet, from a newbie prospective having someone else in the premisis sounds real scary at first thought but i understand the saftey reasons behind it so in that sense it doesnt bother me.

Either way, (especally as my first) i would prefer outcall Hotel, and if there was someone else in the next room i reckon i probably wouldnt even realise and even if i did i wouldnt probably would have forgotten after things got started anyways  :D


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