for me this is the old scooter joke "they're fun to ride until your mates find out".
everyone's different, we all like different cars, TV programmes, holidays, football teams.
I like big birds ! there we go! have done since i was in school (mid 40's now). If there's a group of girls i was the one talking to the larger one, if they're attractive though, have to be clear on that!
I've got mates who won't look at anything over a size 6, i don't get that, but i don't judge either, each to their own.
As for the phrase BBW, for me i see a fat woman and then i see a BBW as two different things. There can be a woman who isn't necessarily good looking who is just plain fat with a saggy belly and can look gross in my opinion.
You then get the woman who yes, is fat, but is facially attractive and then has all the curves to go with that, and that to me is very attractive.
I think fat and very curvy while are similar, are also distinctly different.
I do find though, i can't tell anyone, people just don't get it !