Having a few days away with the OH so I thought I would review in advance.
Night we arrive - too tired and wants early night, but indicates that I will get some later in the trip.
Day - not feeling settled in the accommodation so lets give it a miss and get to know what is around here
Evening - decides she wants to stay late in the bar then when we get to bed says it is too late but we can stay in bed late in the morning.
Next morning - jumps up and hits the shower, then says she does not want to get all sweaty and we will miss breakfast
During the day - finds a series of things she wants to do that do not involve being near the room
That evening - i try and cuddle up whilst she is getting ready and get told that I always want sex and why cannot we just go for a meal, I get angry as this blatantly untrue as I gave up on sex with her years ago and it is only on a trip like this that I reach the unreasonable conclusion that a married couple might have sex.
Trip generally deteriorates.....
I arrive home frustrated and spend a fortune on whores.
I will report back on how my prediction turns out.
I could not have been more wrong. Sex life has been pretty much non existent for years and poor for years before that. It was excellent when we were first together. There was one notable exception on a holiday with the kids a few years ago.
Anyway this time it is a few days away without the kids. I went with low expectations as you can tell and was taken by surprise when she initiated some playful times, now that does not happen when you are married and I was alittle stunned. I was lucky as I had considered sneaking a wank before going to bed to stop myself being tempted and causing a row. However had not had the opportunity, thank god.
Anyway to cut the story short a couple of nights of sex followed with a very hot and raunchy woman who looks 10 years younger than she is. Fantastic kissing, OWO, RO, GFE and sex in several positions. I am utterly knackered!!
We also fitted in some talking and I am hopeful that this is a turning point in our marriage and that the sex will continue, although we have had the odd false revival before.
That does give me a dilemma as I have always justified punting because she clearly did not want to have sex but the rest of the marriage was pretty good. So me getting it elsewhere allowed the family to stay together etc etc - I have expressed this better on other threads, and others have put it even better than me. On a pragmatic level I would also say that good sex with a loving partner like my wife is better than the punts that I have, yes she is that good.
So I should be giving up this game now.
I know I should, certainly if the sex with her continues at a reasonable interval. Not sure how I feel about that, I do like the buzz of the punt and I do like the variety of women.
Maybe a halfway house for a while, reduce the punting and see how the married sex life goes??
Really not sure on this one.
At the moment though I have just had the best fucking week of my life.