Right, so I have been reading quite a few threads here but I have to say this is the one that compelled me to sign up and provide my perspective.
Personally, I find the type of financial domination described to the extent of having PINS, details, wife details just FAR TOO DANGEROUS.
Even though lady teeny did say a good domme will know when and when not to use this information, will never actually put the one being dominated in actual jeopardy, I just do not believe it is worth it at all.
Someone mentioned 'financial bareback' as a way of describing it; I agree; you are putting you entire life/career/etc. at stake and who knows what happens after the relationship ends? your wifes name does not change even if your bank PIN does. And what if the domme passes the details on to someone else or they are misplaced? There are more security issues related to the whole thing then I care to list.
To me; as a WG, I do see married men of course but the thought of even ever informing one of their wives, or the sheer threat of it just makes me sick. I am aware it is a domme service that some people can find thrilling; but if most WGs would never trust you to do bareback sex why on earth would you trust someone to hold such personal details?
I am not saying other people should not do it or engage in financial domination of this extent; each to their own but to me it is just disturbing and dangerous.
Phew my first post/rant over!