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Author Topic: Do we do it for the emotion or physical? With prossies?  (Read 2049 times)

Offline d00fer

Prompted by a humorously sarky post from Punk on another thread and johnnyboy61's assurance that this will provide some interesting and thought provoking discussion.

For me personally the answer is a politicians cop out, neither. I punt for my own reasons, there's some emotion and there's definitely plenty of physical, but neither is the prime motivator.

Offline DG

Definitely physical but it's nice to get a girl where there's a bit of a connection, whether that be emotional or intellectual.
Banning reason: White-knight

Offline smiths

Prompted by a humorously sarky post from Punk on another thread and johnnyboy61's assurance that this will provide some interesting and thought provoking discussion.

For me personally the answer is a politicians cop out, neither. I punt for my own reasons, there's some emotion and there's definitely plenty of physical, but neither is the prime motivator.


Nowadays I punt solely for the sex and not for emotional reasons, I get that elsewhere. I do know from past experience though that it can be easy to get emotionally attached to a WG but that way is very likely to lead to disaster. And that's why Emotional Attachment Syndrome (EAS) is something to look out for in my opinion.

Offline berksboy

   Pump her money slot and go .Save the other stuff for someone you care about.

Offline Jimmyredcab

I punt because I like girls many years younger than myself --------------- if I tried to chat up a 19 year old civvy she would simply say "fuck off nonce", she would not be wrong.     :hi:

Offline Malvolio

Prompted by a humorously sarky post from Punk on another thread and johnnyboy61's assurance that this will provide some interesting and thought provoking discussion.

For me personally the answer is a politicians cop out, neither. I punt for my own reasons, there's some emotion and there's definitely plenty of physical, but neither is the prime motivator.

For me it's the physical relief - although I like a bit of a chat with whoever I'm seeing it's certainly not worth forking out the cash for on its own.  I'm intrigued as to your prime motivation if it's not one of the two above - do you love taking risks?

Offline nigel4498

I punt because I like girls many years younger than myself --------------- if I tried to chat up a 19 year old civvy she would simply say "fuck off nonce", she would not be wrong.     :hi:
+1 you and me both  :hi:

In my humble opinion, anyone in it for the 'emotion' is on a hiding to nothing.

Offline webpunter

In my humble opinion, anyone in it for the 'emotion' is on a hiding to nothing.
+1   Nice when they do add something to make it seem like its just not for cash.  At least for the odd split second when the punting-brain is experiencing a foggy moment.  The mist soon clears  :sarcastic:

Offline comaminion

I don't know why I do it, I went for 7 years without having a physical experience with a female prior to punting, or I could in theory stuck with xhamster forever

I all but given up on an emotional connection with anyone ever


I think my reason for starting was a mound of problems building up I stepped back from it and thought fuck I haven't done this, this or that

I have always had an end of times attitude towards life, but the time is feeling really fucking nigh of late so I'm just working through things I want to do but put off
Banning reason: White-knighting

Offline MrBridger

I agree with others who say if you're looking for an emotional connection you're saving up trouble for yourself.

I am looking for intimacy as well as the purely physical release. The experience is improved immeasurably for me if I genuinely get on with the girl, believe she's enjoying herself and can establish some form of connection/rapport before, during and after the act, but I would never say emotions are involved.

I've been punting for less than a year and to be honest I've surprised myself with how well I've managed to compartmentalise the different aspects of this game; I have discovered that it is quite possible to be respectful, friendly and even on occasion caring towards these women while recognising their professional boundaries and without ever becoming emotionally attached.

Banning reason: Spreading allegations against another punter because of personal dispute

Offline yorkshire123

I get all of the emotional up's & downs I need at home so it would be pure physical for me.
Fortunately the tide has turned on the physical aspect at home also, thus I haven't punted for over 6 months with only the odd urge to do so that is easily suppressed with the help of the internets main purpose in life. 
Banning reason: Making false malicious allegations against admin

Offline johnnyboy61

I agree with others who say if you're looking for an emotional connection you're saving up trouble for yourself.

I am looking for intimacy as well as the purely physical release. The experience is improved immeasurably for me if I genuinely get on with the girl, believe she's enjoying herself and can establish some form of connection/rapport before, during and after the act, but I would never say emotions are involved.

I've been punting for less than a year and to be honest I've surprised myself with how well I've managed to compartmentalise the different aspects of this game; I have discovered that it is quite possible to be respectful, friendly and even on occasion caring towards these women while recognising their professional boundaries and without ever becoming emotionally attached.
I totally agree with you Mr B.

I also can't see how sex with another person can be purely physical. Compare humping a sex-doll (like me you probably would have to imagine this one, I don't write from experience) with the sex in your last good punt, and then I don't think you can say that there are no emotions involved.  I also enjoy giving RO, but how can there be any physical pleasure for me involved in that? The pleasure must be all in the brain, I certainly wouldn't be getting any pleasure myself unless there was a real woman with real reactions on the end of my tongue.
Banning reason: Successfully caused damaging problems on UKEscorting

It was a female nurse that said to me it was natural for humans to want to seek emotional and physical connections. When I was younger I sought an emotional connection and gfe, mainly because of my problems connecting with civvies. I've probably developed EAS 2 times throughout my punting career and now can't get in contact with said girls. Coincidence I think not and lessons have been learned. Now, it's mainly physical. I enjoy facials and cim. UKP has helped me alleviate the emotion involved. I know they only pretend to like me because I'm paying and that helps me stay grounded in reality while enjoying the physical fantasy.

Offline unclesweetheart

Good sex makes you feel good. Feelings are emotions. The good feeling you have after/ during a great session isn't - for me anyway - just physical. I feel happier, more positive, lighter (in so many ways) energised. So I don't feel attached to the girl, as in EAS, but I do feel emotional. For a plain, middle-aged commitment-phobe who lusts after and adores sexy young women,  punting is the perfect solution. After one brilliant session I told the girl I loved her and - she'd had a great time too - she said that yes, I loved her for that night. That struck me as pretty much the truth. It is love for sale, after all.
Banning reason: Prossie fanboy + Sharing account with banned member (Atticus Finch aka Sylvester)

Offline Tetley

just physical really, not every day you can have it with a pornstar

Good sex makes you feel good. Feelings are emotions. The good feeling you have after/ during a great session isn't - for me anyway - just physical. I feel happier, more positive, lighter (in so many ways) energised. So I don't feel attached to the girl, as in EAS, but I do feel emotional. For a plain, middle-aged commitment-phobe who lusts after and adores sexy young women,  punting is the perfect solution. After one brilliant session I told the girl I loved her and - she'd had a great time too - she said that yes, I loved her for that night. That struck me as pretty much the truth. It is love for sale, after all.

It's not love for sale it is sex. Those lines should not be crossed.

I think I'm about 90% intimacy/emotion and 10% physical. Fucking with a condom on is effing useless as I just won't come and none of them give as good hand job as I give myself.... OWO is okay though. But, I do like kissing, licking, sucking them and making eye contact a lot. In that moment I feel very emotionally connected and attached to them and I really like that feeling. Despite that intensity I quickly snap out of it as the punt ends and just feel happy but not all doe-eyed and delusionally " in love". My natural persona is stoic, unemotional and cold (Think Mr Spock!) so just letting go with feelings on a punt is what I do.

Offline LL

I punt for my own reasons, there's some emotion and there's definitely plenty of physical, but neither is the prime motivator.
For me emotion is the driving force behind motivation. Motivation for punting, motivation to do anything.

To anticipate a punt, to enjoy the risk, take pleasure from the intimacy, to be satisfied afterwards. These are all emotions. Punting with emotion is not necessarily about having an emotional-connection - e.g feelings of infatuation for the girl or misplaced feelings of perceived love.

Often I act on emotion when booking a punt. I'm not one of these guys who books a particular girl weeks in advance - I don't have the motivation for that (the emotion).  Instead the idea will enter my head one afternoon that I'd really like a punt and at that point I'll scour my hotlist and make some calls there and then - seeing whoever is free at short notice.

"Thinking with the little head", a term often used in punting is simply acting upon emotion. For instance: not walking away from a punt when bait n switched (I'm sure we've all done it); making an impromptu visit to a walkup/brothel/parlour when just out shopping or drinking; phoning someone for sex who we might not normally find attractive but just feel in the mood to try something different; going through with a punt which we know is risky (close to home / dodgy area / unreviewed Romanian!).  Reasoning and balanced thought-process goes out the window as emotion takes over.

Physical for myself, but having a WG you click with is a bonus.
This also makes it a comfortable and friendly punt, even if it's paid for.

You can never forget you purchased their time and effort and being nice to you is part of their work.

Offline Mr Br1ghts1de

I do it 100% for the physical reasons, the release and to hopefully have great sex with younger women.

I definitely enjoy it most though when there is that emotional connection before, during and for a short while after.

Then it's time to let go and respect professional boundaries once again, until hopefully the next time.

Offline GreyDave

 :cool:

Its cheaper than the gym , you can not excise that muscle there and I just love to get hold of tits simple as that... :drinks:

password02

I do it 100% for the physical reasons, the release and to hopefully have great sex with younger women.

I definitely enjoy it most though when there is that emotional connection before, during and for a short while after.
Then it's time to let go and respect professional boundaries once again, until hopefully the next time.

+1 - Also to fck lots of younger women to give me the lasting memories to look back on in 20-30 years time !!

Offline Chuckman

I enjoy the chat nearly as much as the sex but wouldn't go further than that as that path leads to madness aka fluffydom.

Offline Quesadilla

I enjoy spending time with gorgeous women and the more I get to know them and connect with them the better.

On the one hand the physical side of it is why I chose to punt rather than joining a yoga class.

But on the other if I didn't want any emotional involvement at all I'd get a fleshlight or have a wank.
Banning reason: Obnoxious and arrogant + Veiled threat of outing punter on UKE


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