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And 'fatprossie', your man has simply been whipped. How convenient that he doesn't like to pay other women for sex? Convenient for your hypocritical values I'd guess!? It looks to me like a classic case where the prossie holds all the cards. Truth be told, if he tried to pay women for sex you'd go ballistic! It's comforting for you that he doesn't feel able to.  :sarcastic:

Not at all. I booked him one for his borthday last year and he did not enjoy it as much as he thought he would.  He prefers to swing where the girl can choose him rather than pretend to want him.  I dont hold any cards.  He works in a good job, he has a life of his own, I dont own him and he doesnt own me.  There is no point arguing about it as you obviously cannot understand the concept.  Some people can and some cant.  We respect each others choices.  We met through swinging so we both knew exactly what we were signing up for.  We are completely honest with each other and for us it works. 
I do not expect someone else to understand, just as you cannot expect me to understand the whole subject of monogomy as to me that is just crazy and I could not imagine only having sex with one person for the rest of my life and neither could my partner. 
Never judge others for something you have no concept of.  We all have different values and morals and what works for one might not work for another. 
I respect your views as they are how you feel and how you choose to live so perhaps you should show the same courtesy and respect me and how I choose to live mine.

Offline mattylondon

Enough "justification" for you?   
I've read all of that rant.  :wackogirl: I think you're missing the point. Your socio-economic circumstances are irrelevant to the question posed. Nobody forced you into prostitution GG. Its a choice you made. I wonder deep down whether you're really happy doing what you do? I suspect that due to the services you offer, you are not. And I'd also wonder if deep down you're happy to be with a guy who'd accept that? I wouldn't put much stall in your relationship lasting the course, to be honest. How would you feel about your husband fucking other women then; be they either prossies or just civvys? Does he have your blessing to do that because I fucking well doubt it! I also doubt you've ever experienced what is means to be faithful either way, so you don't know any different.  ;)

Yes, I don't know the mind of every single prossie, but I do know that when the question has been discussed after a punt, I've always received exactly the same answer. And for the most part, even the married ones will provide certain services behind their husbands back that aren't listed on the their profiles. And yes, it's due in part because they don't respect them and have told me so. People stick together a lot of the time for financial and support reasons.  :hi:




« Last Edit: February 07, 2012, 10:20:12 PM by mattylondon »

but I do know that when the question has been discussed after a punt, I've always received exactly the same answer.

You believe what pro$$ies tell you  :scare:

They're all liars don't you know  :D
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I've read all of that rant.  :wackogirl: I think you're missing the point. Your socio-economic circumstances are irrelevant to that particular question? Nobody forced you into prostitution GG. Its a choice you made. I wonder deep down whether you're really happy doing what you do? I suspect that due to the services you offer, you are not. And I'd also wonder if deep down you're happy to be with a guy who'd accept that? I wouldn't put much stall in your relationship lasting the course, to be honest. How would you feel about your husband fucking other women then; be they either prossies or just civvys? Does he have your blessing to do that because I fucking well doubt it!

Yes, I don't know the mind of every single prossie, but I do know that when the question has been discussed after a punt, I've always received exactly the same answer. And for the most part, even the married ones will provide certain services behind their husbands back that aren't listed on the their profiles.

What a strange, cold, heartless, and dogmatic little individual you are. Hope you never have any difficult choices to make, and if you do, hope you choose to make the most of them as I do. I am happy with what I offer, that is what I said when I said I like most aspects of the job. You cannot purport to read my mind or decide for me whether I am or am not. What matters is that I am happy with choices I have made (even if they haven't been under the best circumstances), whether you want to believe that or not makes no difference - still I am generally happy with my lot. I don't attempt to tell you what your reasons for paying for sex are, and about your interpersonal relationships. It was yourself who jumped on me when I made lighthearted comments on the thread (can quote the timeline if you like) - perhaps that says more about yourself and your own character?   

Offline mattylondon

I do not expect someone else to understand, just as you cannot expect me to understand the whole subject of monogomy as to me that is just crazy and I could not imagine only having sex with one person for the rest of my life and neither could my partner. 
I've read what you said and I believe we've had this conversation before. You can quote the odd exception, where you've 'booked him a prossie', but again it's totally missing the point. There's a huge inbalance between what you do for cash and what he may well have done, the odd time. It's exactly the same as the swinging scene. It all starts off fine and dandy whilst both are getting an equal measure of the fun. As soon as an inbalance occurs, the natural jealeousy is bound to kick in! It's a natural human reaction and nothing to be ashamed of. I'll quite happily wager that if your husband had regular casual sex with non-prossies, you wouldn't be very happy and would start to question why he 'needed' to do that. When we're comparing like with like, then I think you'd have a fair case, but your personal situation is far from being a balanced one so cannot be put to the test.

Offline mattylondon

You believe what pro$$ies tell you  :scare:

They're all liars don't you know  :D
:lol: lol Yes, of course most of them lie, but a prossie who demonstrates they disrespect their husband by providing services they would disapprove of or told them were 'off limit's displays by her actions, that she doesn't respect him. I don't need to believe anything they say about their husbands because time and time again they prove it!  :cool:

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No is the answer to the thread title. I treat every woman as the unique individual they are. I will continue to punt for sex and have relationships for love if i am fortunate enough to.

The concept of MONOGAMY REALLY SUCKS and i wont ever practice such a mind numbingly boring thing, shagging around as suits me is far more fun.

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No is the answer to the thread title. I treat every woman as the unique individual they are.

Aww...  :kissgirl:

Offline mattylondon

What a strange, cold, heartless, and dogmatic little individual you are. Hope you never have any difficult choices to make, and if you do, hope you choose to make the most of them as I do. I am happy with what I offer, that is what I said when I said I like most aspects of the job. You cannot purport to read my mind or decide for me whether I am or am not. What matters is that I am happy with choices I have made (even if they haven't been under the best circumstances), whether you want to believe that or not makes no difference - still I am generally happy with my lot. I don't attempt to tell you what your reasons for paying for sex are, and about your interpersonal relationships. It was yourself who jumped on me when I made lighthearted comments on the thread (can quote the timeline if you like) - perhaps that says more about yourself and your own character?   
:sarcastic: What you say about my character is water off a ducks back. I've been fortunate, for the most part, to have had decent relationships and it's never occured to me to cheat on a partner. I respect my partners GG, unlike you. This isn't about having any base insecurity, it's about having respect for somebody else and not thinking in a selfish fashion. Truth be told, I suspect you've been the recipient of infidelity more than once, hence why you appear 'bruised' at times. I'm very sorry that you have tough personal circumstances, but so do many other people and they haven't made the choices you have. This isn't a very poor country such as Thailand or Laos, so I won't hear any nonsense about a prossie having 'no choice in the UK. At least in Thailand I can see the argument, but even there I spoke to a few girls who wouldn't dream of doing it.

I give only my view based on my own experience. Naturally, there are other views and people will disagree. The thing I find interesting about you is that I can sense the conflict within yourself about the whole prostitution business and you often sound like you're in denial.  :hi:
« Last Edit: February 07, 2012, 10:47:58 PM by mattylondon »

Offline mattylondon

The concept of MONOGAMY REALLY SUCKS and i wont ever practice such a mind numbingly boring thing, shagging around as suits me is far more fun.
Indeed. It's not a question of one size fits all and people have different viewpoints. I simply feel that a lot of prossies like to have their cake and eat it. That's what I have a problem with. A great many apply double standards.  :hi:

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:sarcastic: What you say about my character is water off a ducks back. I've been fortunate, for the most part, to have had decent relationships and it's never occured to me to cheat on a partner. I respect my partners GG, unlike you. (!!!!!! wow how presumptuous of you) This isn't about having any base insecurity, it's about having respect for somebody else and not thinking in a selfish fashion. Truth be told, I suspect you've been the recipient of infidelity more than once, hence why you appear 'bruised' at times (more pan-psychology assumptions). I'm very sorry that you have tough personal circumstances, but so do many other people and they haven't made the choices you have. This isn't a very poor country such as Thailand or Laos, so I won't hear any nonsense about a prossie having 'no choice in the UK. At least in Thailand I can see the argument, but even there I spoke to a few girls who wouldn't dream of doing it.

I give only my view based on my own experience. Naturally, there are other views and people will disagree. The thing I find interesting about you is that I can sense (oooh ... you "can sense", can you...  :sarcastic:) the conflict within yourself about the whole prostitution business and you often sound like you're in denial

How arrogant, do you work in the field of psychology perhaps?  :lol: Thanks so much though for yet again telling me how it is for me, based on a load of codswallop Peter-pan psychology you make up in your own head. I didn't say I had no choice at all, I said I made a difficult choice, especially considering stigma of prostitution. Different thing sunshine. 

Can't you even attempt to understand that just because you think something is so (ie prossies husbands don't respect them, prossies don't respect their husbands, indeed even swingers WILL have problems and 'jealousy' according to you a few posts back), doesn't make it so for other people too? Try grasping onto that concept for a moment... (om....om....meditating in suspense).

 

Offline mattylondon

How arrogant, do you work in the field of psychology perhaps?  :lol: Thanks so much though for yet again telling me how it is for me, based on a load of codswallop Peter-pan psychology you make up in your own head. I didn't say I had no choice at all, I said I made a difficult choice, especially considering stigma of prostitution. Different thing sunshine. 

Can't you even attempt to understand that just because you think something is so (ie prossies husbands don't respect them, prossies don't respect their husbands, indeed even swingers WILL have problems and 'jealousy' according to you a few posts back), doesn't make it so for other people too? Try grasping onto that concept for a moment... (om....om....meditating in suspense).
Sunshine am I now?! Well, that's slightly better than being called an arogant, amateur psychologist! Before your fingers type any faster on that keyboard, I suggest you just try to calm down a little bit dear.  :P Hey, it's your life and you make your own choices, difficult or otherwise.

I'll spell it out for you. I'm simply stating that for most women, it wouldn't even occur to them to go into prostitution in the first place. You girls on here are not the norm any more than we are as punters. I just happen to think that even though your husband may care for you, it's not a total respect because he has had to accept that you have sexual contact with other men. Now tell me, if your husband said to you that he wanted to book other prossies for a covered blow job and massage, is that ok with you? And this is a hypothetical question so don't get out of it by telling me he's 'secure' enough not to want to do that! Or are you saying that you've had difficult choices, so what you're doing is exceptional. You see, I can see your argument, but at the end of the day, you're sucking another guys cock and you're married. You can't get away from that.

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Sunshine am I now?! Well, that's slightly better than being called an arogant, amateur psychologist! Before your fingers type any faster on that keyboard, I suggest you just try to calm down a little bit dear.  :P Hey, it's your life and you make your own choices, difficult or otherwise.

I'll spell it out for you. I'm simply stating that for most women, it wouldn't even occur to them to go into prostitution in the first place. You girls on here are not the norm any more than we are as punters. I just happen to think that even though your husband may care for you, it's not a total respect because he has had to accept that you have sexual contact with other men. Now tell me, if your husband said to you that he wanted to book other prossies for a covered blow job and massage, is that ok with you? And this is a hypothetical question so don't get out of it by telling me he's 'secure' enough not to want to do that! Or are you saying that you've had difficult choices, so what you're doing is exceptional. You see, I can see your argument, but at the end of the day, you're sucking another guys cock and you're married. You can't get away from that.

You are backtracking now sunshine. 'Oh so reasonable Matty' now, aren't we?!  :lol:


Offline mattylondon

You are backtracking now sunshine. 'Oh so reasonable Matty' now, aren't we?!  :lol:
You're wierd!!?  :crazy:  :D I'm always reasonable Matty, don't you know?! You bring a smile to my face, even if it isn't always for the right reasons! I think you're in denial, but nevertheless should answer the bloody question posed!!   :cool:

I have a civvie-job 3 days per week, my husband works 12 hour shifts 6 days per week. Between us we cover all household bills and expenses
Jesus Christ. If I worked 12 hours a day for 6 days a week and came home knowing my wife was laying on her back somewhere getting dicked by random men and loving it... i'd slit my fucking throat.
Have you ever worked a 70+ hour a week!!? Seriously, you do not deserve this man because quite frankly you're taking the piss.

I am actually quite glad I have a husband who is so supportive of my family situation and trusting and secure in himself (although obviously relationships are not always rosy!) that he would put aside his own insecurities to 'allow' me to be myself.
He doesn't 'allow' you because it sounds like he doesn't have a choice either way and you're taking advantage of that.

What's really sad is using you brothers condition to justify being a prostitute. That's absolutely disgusting.
You should be working 6 days a week like your husband doing ANY job or mulitple jobs to make ends meet and if ends don't meet then you seriously need to re-evalulate your lifestyle and put your brothers needs first.

There are always plenty of jobs especially in retail and cleaning but some would rather swallow a cock then their pride....


Offline mattylondon

Jesus Christ. If I worked 12 hours a day for 6 days a week and came home knowing my wife was laying on her back somewhere getting dicked by random men and loving it... i'd slit my fucking throat.
Have you ever worked a 70+ hour a week!!? Seriously, you do not deserve this man because quite frankly you're taking the piss.
You have to understand that with GG, she contradicts herself an awful lot and applies double standards where it suits her, just like a lot of other prossies. I'll give you some examples.

GG sees other men and sucks their cocks for cash, amongst other things

This was a very difficult choice and done due to desperate socio-economic circumstances! And this is from a girl who's previously posted that she doesn't do it out of need and that she earns enough money in her 'regular part-time job' to get by and pay the bills? So which is it? Is is down to economic need or simply pocket money?!? Seems to want it both ways to me?  :hi:

Husband wants to get blown by other women or prossies because his wife is sucking other guys cocks, so thinks that fair is fair!

He's a stupid insecure man, who needs to get a fucking grip and stop acting in such a selfish manner!

My husband has no insecurities.

Basically husband has been whipped and feels he has no choice because if he doesn't comply GG will fuck him off and divorce him!
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Wow you both sure know me much better than I know myself!

I should be eternally grateful for your advice and superior insight into my life, my family, my marriage! (bows down..)

If he doesn't comply I will fuck him off and divorce him? Yet before you said he was disrespecting me?

Yes, I said in a previous thread that I have a regular part-time job (true, no contradiction there?) and that it does give "pocket money" yes. Did not mention the family circumstances then for obvious reasons (or are you really too insipid to realise that...)

What are you on about Sucky2Dollar , clearly I will never ever gain your respect (boo fucking hoo!   :cry:) , because like you have said yourself, you think all prossies are dirty! -

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All this 'escort', 'courtsean' crap is just to make them try to forget they are the dirtiest most disgusting females on the planet

Bet my poor, whipped (or disrespectful depending on which you believe!) husband has more respect for me than you do for the women you pay for sex...

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« Last Edit: February 07, 2012, 11:54:01 PM by GlasgowGirl »

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husband has more respect for me than you do for the women you pay for sex...
:lol: Really, that's a very interesting assertion! Truth is your husband is a cuckold and has very little respect for you, if any. I should imagine that deep down he's quite angry. Again, you're in denial. I've always treated prossies with respect during a booking and as I've had more than one freebie and my fair share of £100 - £150 overnights, I must be doing something right!  :cool:

Would I want any of my family to be a prossie? Never. Would I respect anybody I knew who did that? Never. Why do I use them? Because I'm single and I've got a wider choice and can pick and choose, with no strings? Does that make me a hypocrite? Perhaps a little, but it isn't the same thing. You suck anybody's cock that comes your way and have put a price on your willingness to do it. Sorry, but I wouldn't lick any womans pussy for all the money in the world and there's no price I'd put on my head for performing sexual services, in any imaginary universe. That's the difference between you and I.  :hi:

Oh, and you still haven't answered my hypothetical question about your husband seeing other women, so I'm looking forward to your answer! :rolleyes:  :D
« Last Edit: February 08, 2012, 12:07:30 AM by mattylondon »

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:lol: Really, that's a very interesting assertion!

That wasn't aimed at you, it was aimed at the adorable Sucky2Dollar, who apparently thinks that prossies are "the dirtiest, most disgusting females on the planet", so no need for you to justify your own reasons Matty boy  :kissgirl:

"You should imagine" my husband is quite angry deep down... quite the amateur psychologist you are, aren't you? Well you can imagine what you like about other people's relationships, just as you imagine getting all these freebies! It must be your personality which makes you so irresistible, or perhaps it is because you "sense" things, and wow them with your amazing insight and empathy.  :P

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That wasn't aimed at you, it was aimed at the adorable Sucky2Dollar, who apparently thinks that prossies are "the dirtiest, most disgusting females on the planet", so no need for you to justify your own reasons Matty boy  :kissgirl:

"You should imagine" my husband is quite angry deep down... quite the amateur psychologist you are, aren't you? Well you can imagine what you like about other people's relationships, just as you imagine getting all these freebies! It must be your personality which makes you so irresistible, or perhaps it is because you "sense" things, and wow them with your amazing insight and empathy.  :P
:D I don't imagine. I do and I happen to be seeing a lovely 20 something prossie in that capacity right now. I know that it is very hard to accept, as you make a lot of things up so think everybody is the same as you! :hi:

I do love all the matty boy, dear and other such passive aggressive terms of affection you reserve for me. I'm very flattered. Naturally, it must be my charm that's doing the trick!  :D

Now. Answer my question, for the third time of asking...  :hi:

Clearly I will never ever gain your respect (boo fucking hoo!   :cry:) , because like you have said yourself, you think all prossies are dirty!

Yes dirty. All of you. 
But you missy, you're a different breed. 

You're the type I dislike the most, the type that will continously and consistantly lie with one face, then act all innocent and cute and string fluffies along on pro$$ienet with another face, then finally slag them ALL off on Saafe...

A few of the more 'enlightened' guys here know why you come here and why you hang around on the other site, and it's not because your phone is dusty.

I like this site because its run by punters not prostitutes. If I was to say even one negative thing about you guys on pro$$ienet I would be banned but here I have freedom to be truthful and to help fellow punters see through all the bullshit and that really gets under your skin especially when we give you the 3rd degree.

If you're looking for a forum where punters swoon at your every comment and blush when you put kisses on your posts then you're in the wrong place.


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You're the type I dislike the most, the type that will continously and consistantly lie with one face, then act all innocent and cute and string fluffies along on pro$$ienet with another face, then finally slag them ALL off on Saafe...

A few of the more 'enlightened' guys here know why you come here and why you hang around on the other site, and it's not because your phone is dusty.

I like this site because its run by punters not prostitutes. If I was to say even one negative thing about you guys on pro$$ienet I would be banned but here I have freedom to be truthful and to help fellow punters see through all the bullshit and that really gets under your skin especially when we give you the 3rd degree.

If you're looking for a forum where punters swoon at your every comment and blush when you put kisses on your posts then you're in the wrong place.
Some prossies who post on other sites tend to moderate their tone on UKP. Although it pained me, I've read a great deal of prossient posts to become better informed. I've also read saafe too.  :vomit: I'm in no doubt whatsoever as to why a lot of prossies are here. I'm not completely stupid and friendly banter with any prossie doesn't alter that fact. As long as it's punters who moderate the site, I don't get too excited about it. I could never post on prossienet purley out of principle.

I actually have a lot more respect for prossies that admit they're in it for the money and simply made a life choice. We all know why they do it. Even more respect if they pay their taxes too. The ones that irriate the fuck out of me are the underhand ones and those who peddle social sob stories, like only they have suffered hardship. Plenty of other hard working women do and don't resort to prostitution, so I'm sick of hearing it dragged up as an excuse. For me, this is about punting, so how somebody came to be a prossie holds no interest for me whatsoever. However, I hold a different view when this has arisen in a face to face chat, which is more interesting. On this board, I'm mainly interested in who is a good SP as opposed to bad, who are the scammers and which SPs deliver value for money. Social welfare issues should be discussed off topic.
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I don't think GG is particularly a bad or devious, in her defence. I just find that she contradicts herself quite a bit and applies double standards where it suits. I'll say this for her though... I respect the fact that she vigorously fights her corner and doesn't just sit there silently, logging in to read posts but contribute nothing. I don't have to agree with her to respect that.  ;)
« Last Edit: February 08, 2012, 01:15:47 AM by mattylondon »

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Bet my poor, whipped (or disrespectful depending on which you believe!) husband has more respect for me than you do for the women you pay for sex...

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Oh and GG, you've actually slipped up there, haven't you?  :sarcastic: Let's disect that comment a little. So you wish to compare your marriage and your husbands respect for you, with the way you believe that I respect prossies?!  Ah ha!!  :D So subconciously you believe your husband partly looks at you as a prossie, rather than simply a wife? And your defence is what? Well at least he respect me more than you do prossies? God, I really feel sorry for your whipped hubby if that's the best defence you can drag up for him!  :P

I'm very concerned for your marriage if you'd think for a minute that his respect may be equal or less than my respect for prossies! Thank you for answering one of my points much better than I ever could. :hi:
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