I cant believe this bollocks about a WGs name. Just ask them what it is when you call or email them BEFORE the punt. When I ring a WG its up to HER whether to answer it or not, if she decides to do so I speak to her about the service she is advertising, if she is out in public that's her responsibility not mine. I am prepared to call back when it is convenient to her if I want to see her enough if she asks me to. None of this is rocket science, its basic common sense, though I appreciate some people haven't got any of that.
I just basically outside the flat say "Hi its Anthony, I am here for the 2 o' clock". And the girl immediately knows who I am.
No need to break any discretion or anything.
I guess the problem is, WGs often pick such stupid names that scream out "I am a prostitute" so thus they then feel the need to say in their AW profile "Do not Call me Latoya, Sienna, Misty etc inside the building or the bookings off".
Like you say its not that big of a deal, its just commonsense.
You can kind of see why they do it, as there will always be one git out there who screams loudly on the stairs outside to her building on the phone to her saying. "Hi Misty, I am here for that 30 minute booking with you now, is it ok to come up now".
So if Im heading to an escorts place I could be seeing the previous client as I'm leaving?
You are starting to worry far too much over the incidentals. Trust me, it will turn to neurosis and you will be a nervous wreck your first punt.
Just book someone reliable and well reviewed on the forum and trust her to set it up all correctly and go with the flow under her directions. It will go fine if you do that.