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Author Topic: how to avoid being "fluffy" in your FR's  (Read 2018 times)

Offline serial_punter

Hi everyone, the whole fluffy thing is new to me (where did the name come from btw?)

As Im hoping to contribute a lot of field reports hopefully, I wanted to know where the fine lines is between harshness and fluffiness.

For example, say a girl was exactly as she was in her photo's, no airbrushing, no fake pics, its not an old pic or anything, but she's just very photogenic, but was a really nice girl, on time, great service etc, would you criticise her saying "not as nice as in photo".

Or if she was a great girl, beautiful looking, on time, polite, courteous, really amazing, but was a bit robotic in some of her services without meaning too but clearly was trying her best to please you, would you criticise her skills, if she tried everything she offered on her profile?

I would want my fr's to be useful but wouldnt want to become known as the simon cowell of punting either so just wondered where teh fine line is and when you class someone as fluffy?

Offline Joe Blob

If you were reading a FR, what sort of report would you yourself want to read?

That's the sort you should write

If you were reading a FR, what sort of report would you yourself want to read?

That's the sort you should write

or just have a flick through the current fr's and see which ones are best presented.

Fat Brian uses a template that works well :thumbsup:

Offline serial_punter

or just have a flick through the current fr's and see which ones are best presented.

Fat Brian uses a template that works well :thumbsup:

thanks man, can you post up a few examples of his or a link so i can take alook. seems that might be what im looking for. my first field report, i dont know if it would have helped anyone to be honest. if anyone can check out my first fr, please feel free to pm me some feedback. on aw im the same username as here. hopefully i can make some useful field reports for everyone to benefit from

Offline markc65

Not sure this will be the right place to post this link but here goes   https://www.adultwork.com/ViewFieldReport.asp?FRID=53402

To me this seems taking fluffy to the extreme. Makes me wonder what is he after.


Offline AnthG

As Im hoping to contribute a lot of field reports hopefully, I wanted to know where the fine lines is between harshness and fluffiness.

There is no line I would say just say what happened. If you are writing a review it generally means you really enjoyed the punt or you really did not. People don't generally review ok appointments.

You can sing the praises of the girl. But you can still say negatives.

"At the start of the appointment she took everything off and you could see was definitely into the appointment. Started kissing. Then she brought out the condom for Oral with condom. Which lasted for a great 10 mins. She did not want to do 69. So we then proceeded to sex."

You have given the info people want; what went on and that she does not do OWO and 69. You have put it in a way both punters and the escort would not be pissed off about.

When I write a FR I have two things in mind.

1. Not annoying the escort, especially if I overall enjoyed the punt and want to see her again.
2. Wanting to try and put anything relevant to punters so they will know in advance of what to expect, so they can choose to book her or not. And also to help out the escort so they will not go there with the idea in mind she will give them a 69 and then have the awkward situation of refusing it.

But am curious is serial punter just something you are intending to be as surely you would have wrote some FR's by now and got an idea of what fits to your style of writeup?

Offline serial_punter

Not sure this will be the right place to post this link but here goes   https://www.adultwork.com/ViewFieldReport.asp?FRID=53402

To me this seems taking fluffy to the extreme. Makes me wonder what is he after.

I think this is the right place as a real life case study allows us to analyse methods of field reports and what to avoid. thanks

Offline serial_punter

There is no line I would say just say what happened. If you are writing a review it generally means you really enjoyed the punt or you really did not. People don't generally review ok appointments.

You can sing the praises of the girl. But you can still say negatives.

"At the start of the appointment she took everything off and you could see was definitely into the appointment. Started kissing. Then she brought out the condom for Oral with condom. Which lasted for a great 10 mins. She did not want to do 69. So we then proceeded to sex."

You have given the info people want; what went on and that she does not do OWO and 69. You have put it in a way both punters and the escort would not be pissed off about.

When I write a FR I have two things in mind.

1. Not annoying the escort, especially if I overall enjoyed the punt and want to see her again.
2. Wanting to try and put anything relevant to punters so they will know in advance of what to expect, so they can choose to book her or not. And also to help out the escort so they will not go there with the idea in mind she will give them a 69 and then have the awkward situation of refusing it.

But am curious is serial punter just something you are intending to be as surely you would have wrote some FR's by now and got an idea of what fits to your style of writeup?

Good advice, I like the style you have mentioned. Will definitely use that

Regarding your question, serial punter is my grand aspiration in life :-)

Not there yet as only have 3 under my belt but hopefully one day I will match the name

it also sounds catchy as I wanted to become a known name in field reports that can be trusted for good information and I think its a name that will stick in peoples minds. Now I just gotta build up my experience and field trips.

When I reture I might start the serial punter university of punting  :cool:

Wil have a full course and some field trips to amsterdam and the soho walkup  :cool:

Offline Fatbrian

or just have a flick through the current fr's and see which ones are best presented.

Fat Brian uses a template that works well :thumbsup:

Keep it factual and detailed. No need for mills&boom story: relavent details needed:

Name
Place
Date
Time (morning, afteroon, evening... All had an effect)
Time of booking
Cost
Cost of extras
Description of the girl and what she looks like.
Comments: what did you get up to. What services did the girl provide. Was she skilled at providing services? Was she enthusiastic?

Th key things to a good report, detail and writing objectively and accurately.


I have just got back from fucking Nikki at The Wonder lounge and will be writing a report later. Feel free to take a look to get an idea of how I write

Offline serial_punter

cool post up a link to your report and take a look. In hindsite my first report was a bit shocking then. Not very useful for other punters. Everything I wrote was true and I had a proper good punt, i only paid for one hour and she stayed overnight till morning and was an inteligent and sweet girl so it really is a high bar to meet with my future punts, im kinda worried im not gonna get that type of experience again to be honest.

whats mill&boom?

Offline Joe Blob

whats mill&boom?

Something to do with that Fred Dibnah bloke blowing up factory chimneys

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Offline Strawberry

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cool post up a link to your report and take a look. In hindsite my first report was a bit shocking then. Not very useful for other punters. Everything I wrote was true and I had a proper good punt, i only paid for one hour and she stayed overnight till morning and was an inteligent and sweet girl so it really is a high bar to meet with my future punts, im kinda worried im not gonna get that type of experience again to be honest.

whats mill&boom?

Quick google will give you the long answer, the short answer is a very 'fluffy' series of romance novels popular in the 1970s and 80s.

Offline AnthG

i only paid for one hour and she stayed overnight till morning
How did you manage that?

And what time did you book her? Was it late like 10pm start? or what?

Did you check around the house afterwards as the pessimist in me would think if an escort I do not know comes around for a 1hr punt and then stays the entire night till the next morning I would be thinking she maybe was doing it to try and nick something from me while I slept.

Offline Tom Banjo

"She had the allure of a Botticelli, the sexuality of Madonna and sensitivity of Shakespeare’s Juliet "

now that is fluffy!  :lol: and all that "entering her perfumed garden" shite I presume her meant her boudoir or was it a euphamism for something else?  :sarcastic:

Offline serial_punter

How did you manage that?

And what time did you book her? Was it late like 10pm start? or what?

Did you check around the house afterwards as the pessimist in me would think if an escort I do not know comes around for a 1hr punt and then stays the entire night till the next morning I would be thinking she maybe was doing it to try and nick something from me while I slept.

lol no she came to my hotel. She came for an 8pm booking. I managed it because she was just a really cool girl, she just fancied relaxing in a four star hotel, watching movies, having nice food etc so she stayed and chilled. We had a really cool time (or I did at least). She's a really sophisticated and educated girl aswell so could sit and chat bout things for hours. Im dreading having ridiculously high expectations on future punts now. Did any of you read my field report? If not I can pm you the link

Offline AnthG

Im dreading having ridiculously high expectations on future punts now.

Can say now pretty safely, you're never going to get another punt like that.


Offline serial_punter

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=5899.0

just managed to take a look at this. All I can say is awesome. Fatbrian is becoming somewhat of a legend. He is like the jedi master. I wanna write some reports like that, where can I get teh templates from? Im gonna go see the moroccan girl in london and write up a report so keep ur eyes peeled

Offline serial_punter

Can say now pretty safely, you're never going to get another punt like that.

you never know man. My first punt was really good. Didnt get no extra time as it was in a parlour but if I was writing field reports then I would definitely have written a big thumbs up. I reckon I still got some more good punts to come. I think I need to lower my expectations though as Im always gonna be hoping they stay longer now but Ive been told you shouldnt ever ask that of a wg

Offline serial_punter

Not sure this will be the right place to post this link but here goes   https://www.adultwork.com/ViewFieldReport.asp?FRID=53402

To me this seems taking fluffy to the extreme. Makes me wonder what is he after.

just read this. You guys are gonna really hate me when you see my first field report then lol. I think it was prob fluffier than that. I understand what it means now. Its all soppy love storey romantic type stuff.

I think i need to get an oppinion from a few people first. I understand why I got a few compliments from auto-censored on my first field report and also the feedback i got from the girl. All makes sense now

Offline Mr XL

If you were reading a FR, what sort of report would you yourself want to read?

That's the sort you should write

Sums it up for me.

Forget the politics and the OP being banned.............................we are all different and all have differing preferences when it comes to the type of girl we want to see and the kind of FR we want to read.

I sometimes think some get obsessed with the so-called 'Fluffy' title. Sometimes I'm fluffy; sometimes I'm not....at least in my eyes, after all it is in perception isn't it.

One thing I won't do is slag off anyone who declares himself one way or another.

That's just being intolerant.


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