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Author Topic: Read But No Reply. So Annoying.  (Read 7306 times)

Offline AnthG

This has to be one of the most annoying things. As you immediately start to think you have done something wrong or said something wrong.

But in the last week I have messaged what seem clear two proper escorts about a booking. And both read but then never replied.

At first I thought it was the username, so changed it. And so yesterday evening messaged someone with a reasonable amount of feedback about a booking enquiry for next week (her profile says to do that). And read but no reply.

I have often saw James say Escorts are so desperate for the guys money and do not care. It seems that is not the case.

As a tip towards an escort. If a punter has done something wrong in a message to you. It would be handy to pull them on it as opposed to read but not reply. For £100 plus per hour job doing this is cost effective and beneficial.

Offline James999

about a booking for next week. And read but no reply.

A lot of pro$$ies can't see beyond the today / tomorrow, and are looking for the cash NOW and as such pass by bookings for the future  :hi:

Offline AnthG

A lot of pro$$ies can't see beyond the today / tomorrow, and are looking for the cash NOW and as such pass by bookings for the future  :hi:
But then they lose out. This particular escort only does outcalls but her profile says she has a hotel booked for next week to do incalls. so messaged her to ask which hours she would be available at the hotel.

So do you think its worth re-messaging her on say Friday, or just use this current read but no reply as a response she does not want to see me; as the last thing I want to be is a pest.

But also remember I am really struggling to find someone to see as there is nobody at the moment in Newcastle. And hence why I even looked on an escorts profile of only down for doing outcalls.

Offline James999

But then they lose out.

Of course they do, but if they are looking fro some cash today a booking for next week is of no interest to them.

Some are a bit more organised, but for many it is cash for the moment they are after  :hi:

If you want to see her Tue then I'd say mail her monfay or call her if number displayed.

Of if you want to get her attention Mail her and tell her you think she is a fake profile  :scare:

Offline Miss A Squires

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What did you actually write in your messages? Do you have feedback yourself on AW? X

Offline AnthG

Of if you want to get her attention Mail her and tell her you think she is a fake profile  :scare:

Will do one better. Will post the link here so people can decide if its real or not.

https://www.adultwork.com/Miss%2DVixen

Offline AnthG

What did you actually write in your messages? Do you have feedback yourself on AW? X

Yes I have a feedback of 1. But two positive feedbacks. Page2020 messed up and selected neutral when she meant to do positive. But the text she put was very positive.

Here is my message

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Hi Miss-Vixen.

Can I ask which times are you available for an incall at the hotel you mention you have booked for January 30th. I ask as I was hoping for a late morning 11pm onwards or early afternoon around 12pm and 1pm.

Also if you are available those times how would I book you, should I call you on the day or what exactly.

Thanks
Anthony.

On rereading I accidentaly put 11PM as opposed to am. but she clearly could have guessed that.

Offline smiths

I dont waste my time emailing, no phone number, no booking off me. I do of course appreciate if you punt in a punting desert and emailing is all thats on offer your stuck with it. I usually punt same day and need an instant response.

Good luck to those WGs who get enough punters without needing to display a phone number but i will never be one of them.

Offline Strawberry

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Sometimes I'll read a message via my mobile phone, but wait until I get home to the pc before I type a proper reply. If I have a long booking, am travelling or simply having a day off that might not be for 24 hours, I may also not be quite sure of other arrangements that day (I have sometimes jumped in, to then find other bookings change in the meantime) and like to wait a little before giving a definite respons. Some guys do expect a reply within fairly quickly though. I'd advise waiting a short while before following up, if she doesn't reply by the end of the day contact someone else.

Or you could just phone her.
« Last Edit: January 25, 2012, 10:57:10 AM by Strawberry »

Offline smiths

Will do one better. Will post the link here so people can decide if its real or not.

https://www.adultwork.com/Miss%2DVixen

She does say she will be in touch within 24 hours. I see on her feedback a negative says now show which i assume means no show.

Offline Miss A Squires

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Honestly Anth, she's been a member since June last year, only has 4 escorting feedback and one of those is negative!

I prefer emails if someone wants to book in advance as I don't always have my diary to hand.

Offline Strawberry

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She does say she will be in touch within 24 hours. I see on her feedback a negative says now show which i assume means no show.

I've just taken a look, and yes she does say she'll be back in touch within 24hours - so technically you could get a reply today.

Offline Jimmyredcab

I dont waste my time emailing, no phone number, no booking off me.

That is pretty much my policy as well.

Can you imagine ANY other business not supplying a phone number. ????????????

Offline Jacob

You should ask for 2 x 30 min @ 55 and save 10 off the hourly rate of 120.  :rolleyes:

Offline James999

Will do one better. Will post the link here so people can decide if its real or not.

https://www.adultwork.com/Miss%2DVixen

OK Anth,,
This is the message you send her....

Hi,

Seen your profile and would like to come and see you, I must say that I am slightly nervous and when meeting for the first time, to relax myself I like to sit and have a relaxing coffee and cake, would it be ok if I booked you and brought along a few cakes for us to eat during the first part of our meeting.

Offline AnthG

I've just taken a look, and yes she does say she'll be back in touch within 24hours - so technically you could get a reply today.
Thanks Strawberry. I assumed the 24hrs was there to give her time to read it. And with her reading it and sent no reply I just guessed the worst.

But your explanation above sounds pretty feasible.

Offline AnthG


Hi,

Seen your profile and would like to come and see you, I must say that I am slightly nervous and when meeting for the first time, to relax myself I like to sit and have a relaxing coffee and cake, would it be ok if I booked you and brought along a few cakes for us to eat during the first part of our meeting.
But that is a misconception. I like to chat. But only when she is naked. The thrill is chatting to a naked hot girl.

Offline James999

Anth you missed the subtle message.... that you will bring Cakes !!(she will think, cool, no work and free food)

And when you turn up, you can either say....

I Left the cakes in the car and exit to get them (and piss off) if she's a minger

or say

I couldn't pick the cakes up due to roadworks and not being able to park, but you'll bring them next time (Thus implying she will get a second booking and cakes if she's good )  :hi:

Offline smiths

That is pretty much my policy as well.

Can you imagine ANY other business not supplying a phone number. ????????????

Its business logic to use all means to attract customers. ;)

Offline smiths

Honestly Anth, she's been a member since June last year, only has 4 escorting feedback and one of those is negative!

I prefer emails if someone wants to book in advance as I don't always have my diary to hand.

Indeed, unless she has only recently started insisting on booking through the A/W booking system she should have more feedback in 7 months. If she took phone bookings for most of the 7 months it wouldnt be unusual to have that amount of feedback. I punted with many WGs with displayed numbers who had no feedback or little even many months later. ;)

Offline Ali Katt

That is pretty much my policy as well.

Can you imagine ANY other business not supplying a phone number. ????????????
I agree to an extent, everyone has their criteria. I met one lady who said she doesn't post a number as she doesn't want to give AW money, She did send it via email first time though.

Tony Montana

That is pretty much my policy as well.

Can you imagine ANY other business not supplying a phone number. ????????????

Most other businesses don't get nutters calling them up at all times for a free sex chat.

But I can empathise with the OP.  I've had lots of emails read but with no response, and bookings made with no response either.  A quick "Sorry I can't make that date, is 9th August OK?" would keep me happy.


Offline James999

Most other businesses don't get nutters calling them up at all times for a free sex chat.

Are you sure you#re not a pro$$ie ?

As for Pro$$ies getting calls at late hours etc, thats bollocks, all they have to do is switch their phone off, in th esame way the pub locks it's doors when it's closed  :hi:

Offline mattylondon

This has to be one of the most annoying things. As you immediately start to think you have done something wrong or said something wrong.

In all walks of life, you'll get courteous and rude people. It isn't any different in that sense. If you try a couple of times and receive no reply, blacklist them and move the fuck on. It's not worth getting hung up about. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.

I have often saw James say Escorts are so desperate for the guys money and do not care. It seems that is not the case.
There's a very simply caveat to this. A prompt reply can often depend on how long you wish to book for. In other words, the person that's offering the most cash is going to take primacy, unless in some cases, it's a well know regular. But then, I'm sure they still manage to find a way to squeeze the regular around the longer booking! Remember Anth, you ain't the only guy that's e-mailing her, so if a better cash offer comes rolling in, who's she going to book? Who would you book? Remember... they are in it for the £££££  :hi:

Offline Strawberry

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In all walks of life, you'll get courteous and rude people. It isn't any different in that sense. If you try a couple of times and receive no reply, blacklist them and move the fuck on. It's not worth getting hung up about. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.
There's a very simply caveat to this. A prompt reply can often depend on how long you wish to book for. In other words, the person that's offering the most cash is going to take primacy, unless in some cases, it's a well know regular. But then, I'm sure they still manage to find a way to squeeze the regular around the longer booking! Remember Anth, you ain't the only guy that's e-mailing her, so if a better cash offer comes rolling in, who's she going to book? Who would you book? Remember... they are in it for the £££££  :hi:

Hmm don't know how any other WG operates, but that isn't the case with me. I have however known guys to say they want a long booking, thinking it'll somehow impress me or mean I'll shuffle things around for them. I look at each and every booking equally, since you don't know which one is going to go through with it (golden rule in whoring is don't assume the money is yours until it actually is), or even what a shorter booking might lead to either.


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