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Author Topic: Is dating a waste of time and money?  (Read 3160 times)

Offline Aspen

You can count the women I've dated virtually on the fingers of one hand (might need to add another thumb if a one off counts  :D) and only two of these for any length of time.
Looking back I wished I'd have had more confidence and put more effort into it rather than spending so much on prossies.

Ironically however most of these dates were before I started punting. It was only when they started to dry up and I got badly hurt with the last relationship I turned prossies.

I think you are far from being alone. I dated almost two hands worth, but then I made the mistake of staying with the last one for a while. Next thing I know years have gone by and I've got nothing to show for it.

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Offline 306

I got badly hurt with the last relationship I turned prossies.
+1
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That's what my son tells me too. Go on Tinder & meet a girl,Downloads films to watch, make their own cocktails, fuck the rest of the day/night. Phone his mother to pick him up hungover.
See a different one the next night ...cost a bottle of Tequila & fruit juices. Who said romance is dead.

Exactly, that's how to do it. No need for countless dates, cinema, theatre shows and all that crap. Find a bar that's convenient for both of you (Don't dine in expensive restaurants). Next arrange a stay in night, takeaway, booze, netflix and away with the mixture. I find most women don't like talking on the phone, they just want text messages. Which suits me because I hate talking on phone at the best of times

It takes a bit of time, but you can get dates easily. Also, best to have the first date midweek - bars and restaurants less busy and arrange stay in night over the weekend.

If you live with parents, get a hotel room or go round hers.

A date should only cost £40 max. Enough money for a meal and a few drinks. Dating shouldn't break the bank, like punting does! ;)






Exactly, that's how to do it. No need for countless dates, cinema, theatre shows and all that crap. Find a bar that's convenient for both of you (Don't dine in expensive restaurants). Next arrange a stay in night, takeaway, booze, netflix and away with the mixture. I find most women don't like talking on the phone, they just want text messages. Which suits me because I hate talking on phone at the best of times

It takes a bit of time, but you can get dates easily. Also, best to have the first date midweek - bars and restaurants less busy and arrange stay in night over the weekend.

If you live with parents, get a hotel room or go round hers.

A date should only cost £40 max. Enough money for a meal and a few drinks. Dating shouldn't break the bank, like punting does! ;)

Good post, if I could date I would, its far cheaper than seeing wgs, even if you are going for 70£ a half hour.

Offline Oberyn1

I suppose it depends if you can get the kind of sex you want from the every day girl. I don't know many plain janes who can offer a pse, and even if you asked them to give that to you she might have no idea what to do to make it a pse experience.
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Offline Oberyn1

Also, online dating works but mostly If you're good looking,  this applies even more so if you're looking for sex unless the girl is not a looker herself. I could have had a fuck buddy after her former fuck buddy got married, but I wasn't taken on her physically so I pretty much passed her up even though she sounded like she was filth, saying she could hang off the bed and let me throat fuck her ( I know I know, thinking back it could have been an experience for sure lol). The thing is, with punting you can pick and choose sexy women to fuck, whereas in real life that's impossible for 99% of average joes, unless you're famous and look like bradley cooper.
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I got badly hurt with the last relationship I turned prossies.
+1
That sounds familiar, 15 years later for me.


In the past I used to put myself under too much pressure when dating.  I  treated the process the same way as I would preparing for an interview.   :dash: Make a good first impression for sure, as with anything/anyone in life, but I soon realised it's more about managing expectations and just talking/chatting and being yourself. Seeing WG's helped me with my confidence in this area...and a guaranteed shag.. :P

For me it was never a waste of time. With regards to a waste of money, that more a personal preference. Any woman would like to be lavished with presents, but that's more for relationships. With dating it's more about the attention and keeping the interest for a further date. This is also cost effective and TBH, she should be offering to go dutch too.

Turning dating it into a sexual relationship is another matter. IMO, you can often gauge when she wants to take the next step.

Offline Aspen

I suppose it depends if you can get the kind of sex you want from the every day girl. I don't know many plain janes who can offer a pse, and even if you asked them to give that to you she might have no idea what to do to make it a pse experience.

It doesn't work like that anyway. Proper dating can take weeks before you get around to doing anything serious. Looking back on my dating experiences, only a couple of them did it progress to sex in less than a week. The average was more like three months.

The positive thing with prozzies is that they don't waste much time getting around to it, and most of them are very experienced. It's not dating, but being with a girl who knows what she's doing is a big plus.
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Offline Siadwel

Dating isn't a waste of time and money IF a punter wants now or in the future to meet THE ONE as he is unlikely to find it punting. IF a punter has no interest in finding love then punting only might be ideal for him.

This is me, this is why I punt.

I don't know if dating's a waste of money, it would be for me, but other people's mileage may vary.


If u want a relationship then date. If u just want sex get a friend with benefits or punt. All can be fun it just depends what you are looking for.

Offline Aspen

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Maybe not in your world, but I have one in mine.  :hi:

Offline Aspen

Maybe not in your world, but I have one in mine.

That's cos your happy and lucky.

Most of us it doesn't apply. Otherwise we wouldn't need to go looking for hookers.
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Offline Donnie69

I never bothered contacting the regular woman for a date.

I contacted one of my regular WGs and as I was away from home last week, she travelled about 1.5 hours each way to see me for a 3 hour booking.  Of course she was prepared to travel because she knows I am reliable.  It's the first time any WG has travelled any distance to meet me too.

Just seemed better, guaranteed sex and pleasant company.  She also got nicely dolled up in heels and a sexy little dress!

Offline cueball

As said by a few further up the thread, punting and dating have two very different objectives. I've done plenty of both and enjoyed both, I've not spent a lot of time out of relationships so I must like dating too.

Punting is for a good time and sex.

Dating is for a much longer good time, potential relationship building and ofcourse sex.

I love punting but I also would always want a woman in my life full time too
« Last Edit: June 20, 2015, 06:33:31 PM by cueball »

Depends what you're looking for. Punting is short term thrill seeking with (normally) guaranteed sex. Dating is generally entered into with the intention of a longer term relationship. Entering into one does not necessarily rule out the occasional dalliance with the other.

Offline Aspen

Dating is for a much longer good time, potential relationship building and of course sex.

Don't count on either of those.

I've dated women who have become outraged at the suggestion that they might be expected to have sex. And that's after several weeks. They think if they don't bring the subject up themselves they can avoid it.

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Offline cueball


I've dated women who have become outraged at the suggestion that they might be expected to have sex. And that's after several weeks. They think if they don't bring the subject up themselves they can avoid it.

i won't wait "several" weeks

they don't need to bring up the subject, I will

Offline Zola1956

Don't think so. Sure you are not guaranteed sex or the relationship might fail. At least you tried. Visiting and paying will make you lazy and after a while it becomes uninteresting because you have taken a short cut to get a sexual thrill. For me after two years of doing this I have given up. At first when I began at 27 I was excited to see pretty women and did not care about paying. Recentely I noticed I walked out of some sessions I booked for an hour within 20 minutes. These were ladies were a stunner. Now I find it boring, waste of money and worse resorting to pay ladies to have sex with you and when you come back to your house feeling disgusted with myself.

Offline Sonny Crockett

I've never done dating....................... But I believe it is absolute nonsense!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I think sometimes I'd like a relationship again but the problem is finding suitable girls and thats puntings fault!.

Ones I would have been very intrested in years ago now don't get a second look.

I think theres a real danger of just looking at them as sex objects, sad to say;(.


FWIW the few long term ralationships i have had it was a while before we got around to the Sex, it seemed appropriate in a way as it if was valued more as it were.

« Last Edit: June 21, 2015, 11:36:10 PM by Watts.E.Dunn »

Offline Pdubz

Id love to be in a relationship again, coming home from work to a nice cuddle everyday, im fairly a vanilla guy, i miss the feeling of going down on my ex pretty much every morning before work/uni and not paying for it, made my day so much better.

it sometimes beats paying for worthless sex for an hour or two and then coming home to a lonely house  :dash:
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Ideally you'd fuck a girl that you're dating asap and then you're on equal ground.

You will want to spend time with her because she's a good, interesting person. She will have influence on you because she's worth something to you.
Bargaining with pussy in a relationship is just another type of prostitution that people engage in because it's more subtle and accepted.

Punting is good eye opener in a way. Sex is no big deal and shouldn't influence your decision about who to spend rest of your life with.

Original question answered in one of first few posts :D different objectives.
If it's a shit date or a shit punt than it's a waste of money.
If the experience was good than it isn't a waste of money.

Offline Aspen

FWIW the few long term relationships i have had it was a while before we got around to the Sex, it seemed appropriate in a way as it if was valued more as it were.

Exactly.

I get very irritated by people who assume that when you start seeing someone you are fucking within days. Sure it happens in some - rare - cases, but normally it can be two or three months, and even more in my experience. It just doesn't happen like that. They like to test you to see if you're 'really interested' in them. It's all part of the game, and it works too because I usually give up bothering with them after a week or two. If they are not interested in sex in the early stages then it's going to be REALLY hard going further down the road.  Those are the type that regard sex as something to bargain with, and they are vastly in the majority.
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