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Author Topic: Is dating a waste of time and money?  (Read 3167 times)

Offline Donnie69

I punt mostly with a regular WG who is very good. I like guaranteed filthy sex.

I have a chance of a date with an attractive blonde Polish lady.  I'm thinking I just can't be bothered as possibly too much trouble.  I get the impression she will expect me to pay for the date, and also sex won't be guaranteed.

The truth is many punters can date women, but they would rather punt!  I would rather punt than date.  The feminazis hate punting because it reduces the power of regular women over men.  That's why they want to ban punting. 

Offline hexohm

Answer to your original question - no.

You dont date for a guaranteed shag, you dont visit a whore for the prospect of starting a relationship.  Two different things with two different objectives.


Offline Munching32

Answer to your original question - no.

 Two different things with two VERY VERY different objectives.

:-)

Offline willbred

I punt mostly with a regular WG who is very good. I like guaranteed filthy sex.

I have a chance of a date with an attractive blonde Polish lady.  I'm thinking I just can't be bothered as possibly too much trouble.  I get the impression she will expect me to pay for the date, and also sex won't be guaranteed.

The truth is many punters can date women, but they would rather punt!  I would rather punt than date.  The feminazis hate punting because it reduces the power of regular women over men.  That's why they want to ban punting.

The only time sex is guaranteed is when you book a prossie. If I was single now I tell you I wouldn't waste my time dating
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Offline Toshiba

The only time sex is guaranteed is when you book a prossie. If I was single now I tell you I wouldn't waste my time dating

load of shite, if you fall in love and find a sexy women too then happy days.

what a bad attitude to women thinking only WG's fullfill sexual needs

Well Donnie69 why not give it a go?. Sure you get sex with WG's but perhaps she might be a decent lady to know anyway. A relationship isn't just all sex. Course its important else we wouldnt be here, but I don't think its healthy just to think of women as "fanny's on legs" which is a danger we punters can get into.

Never know, most Polish ladies I've seen over the years have been very good in the sack:)

Anyway Look on the bright side!.

Offline Ben4454

I do not like the idea of one woman controlling my sexual needs. Women use sex as a manipulation tool. I prefer to stay free and to do as I please. No need for hiding a mobile.

The modern dating scene is expensive, time-consuming and full of mind games. Men are turning to punting now because it makes the process of acquiring sex with attractive women easier and cost effective.

With the new feminist laws which are being considered me and my friends do not want to take the chance on marriage.
« Last Edit: June 06, 2015, 10:33:53 PM by Ben4454 »
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Offline closeshave

'The only time sex is guaranteed is when you book a prossie'

Actually going by a couple of reviews on here recently, even that's not guaranteed

Offline Marmite

I have a chance of a date with an attractive blonde Polish lady.


If you are single why not go on the date?  I once went on a date that was not going well at all and we both ended up meeting other people the same night that did end well. 

Nothing ventured nothing gained.

Offline smiths

I punt mostly with a regular WG who is very good. I like guaranteed filthy sex.

I have a chance of a date with an attractive blonde Polish lady.  I'm thinking I just can't be bothered as possibly too much trouble.  I get the impression she will expect me to pay for the date, and also sex won't be guaranteed.

The truth is many punters can date women, but they would rather punt!  I would rather punt than date.  The feminazis hate punting because it reduces the power of regular women over men.  That's why they want to ban punting.

Dating isn't a waste of time and money IF a punter wants now or in the future to meet THE ONE as he is unlikely to find it punting. IF a punter has no interest in finding love then punting only might be ideal for him.

Offline Daffodil

If you're just after sex then yes, it can be a waste of time and money. If you're also already in a relationship then it's also pretty darn risky too.

Comparing dating with punting is futile. It's a quandary. If you just want the sex, and no personal connection, then punt. Remember, you're not just paying for the sex. You're paying to walk away afterwards with no further commitment.

I've been married for a good part of my adult life (three times..... yeah, I know...) but still have this need to fool around. The sweet spot would be finding someone I could do all the wild shit with, but who'd disappear, or I could walk away from, until the next time. The paid-for experience covers that well.

But I'm an old-fashioned guy. I like to have a drink first. Bit of flirting. Some anticipation. And a feeling of connection, however short-term and shallow that might be.

So is the solution one of those dating sites for married people? Tried it. Hugely expensive. Full of bonkers, flaky women, most of whom are not as advertised.

And punting? The same, of course, when it comes down to it. Unless you find a real good 'un. And in an intermittent punting 'career' of thirty years, I've found four good 'uns. Which is about the same number of really great mistresses I've known, and had, in the same time.

The quandary continues.






Offline Aspen

if you fall in love and find a sexy women too then happy days.

what a bad attitude to women thinking only WG's fullfill sexual needs

Sadly for the most part it's true.

When I was in my late teens/early 20's I had an idealistic view which was way different from now. Many of my friends paired up and I eventually followed them. But in very few cases was it happily ever after. Women do use sex as a manipulative tool, and they go through phases when they don't give a damn. Men can be the same of course, but when you've been through the cycle you do see the futility of it all.
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Offline AnthG

But I'm an old-fashioned guy. I like to have a drink first. Bit of flirting. Some anticipation. And a feeling of connection, however short-term and shallow that might be.

But the thing with this is, aren't you worried about the WG thinking you have either EAS for her, or thinking you must be someone prone to EAS and then either refuse to see you, or be creeped out and cagey with you in advance of the punt.

I am asking this not to criticize but more so for advice as to be honest in the last week I have been chatting with two girls on the forum and in both casses made my usual hamfisted attempts at flirting and now afterwards I am thinking she is going to think "creepy EAS avoid that guy". Am thinking now flirting is only good if the WG is either on the same wavelength as you. Or she knows its just part of the girlfriend experience. Which I doubt many WGs will know or realize. As for them GFE is just a means to mean "I won't do much on this punt" as opposed to PSE where they will. So how is it do you avoid any messups from doing it is my question I guess.

With regards to the OP the answer is very simple.

I have a chance of a date with an attractive blonde Polish lady.  I'm thinking I just can't be bothered as possibly too much trouble.  I get the impression she will expect me to pay for the date, and also sex won't be guaranteed.

And that is, if you liked this girl, you wouldn't think like this. If you liked this girl wild horses wouldn't stop you from the date. So in terms of this particular girl, messing around with dating is a waste of time and punting is best. When you finally met someone you liked I can bet you would instantly know what I am meaning above. Until then, punt.
« Last Edit: June 07, 2015, 08:15:46 AM by AnthG »

Offline Warwick Hunt

I dont think taking a lady on a date is a waste of money at all Donnie, if its for the right reasons, you might enjoy as much as a "punt" with your regulars.

Lets be honest though, if your just trying to get her kickers off, which is what it sounds like, well then it might.

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But the thing with this is, aren't you worried about the WG thinking you have either EAS for her, or thinking you must be someone prone to EAS and then either refuse to see you, or be creeped out and cagey with you in advance of the punt.



No.

I have never been under any illusion whatsoever that a WG is in my presence for reasons other than financial. I have never pushed things in the direction of friendship or dating, and nor would I want to. One WG in particular I have met for a drink a couple of times, but that was only as a prelude to me spending my money on her in the usual manner.

I know exactly where the boundaries are, and so do they.


Offline AnthG

I know exactly where the boundaries are, and so do they.

I don't really want to hijack Donnies topic. But can I quickly ask.

If you are flirting with a WG. And getting really into it. How do you let them know that you know what the boundaries are? Or how do you let them know that you are someone with boundaries.

I am asking hypothetically for advice as opposed to really a response specifically personal to you, as its pretty obvious me and you are very different, as in I am someone who will get much more carried away with the flirting aspect than you possibly will on it. And my asking this was more so me being worried about getting into that 'trap' as I described above.
« Last Edit: June 07, 2015, 10:43:02 AM by AnthG »

Offline NIK

You can count the women I've dated virtually on the fingers of one hand (might need to add another thumb if a one off counts  :D) and only two of these for any length of time.
Looking back I wished I'd have had more confidence and put more effort into it rather than spending so much on prossies.

Ironically however most of these dates were before I started punting. It was only when they started to dry up and I got badly hurt with the last relationship I turned prossies.

Offline Donnie69

I have quite a friendly relationship with my regular WG, it isn't just sex, as we go for meals most times we meet.  I see her 2-3 times a month and have an overnight every few months.  The rates she charges are quite reasonable too.  We are comfortable with each other, and she lets me try some kinky stuff too.  She never says no to sex.  I sometimes see a few other WGs.

I think the reason I'm not too keen on dating is I wouldn't want to see someone too often, and I've had some crap no or little sex relationships.  I'm not sure about sticking to just one woman either.  I wouldn't want to give up punting if I got a regular girlfriend either.  I still might try a lunch date with the Polish woman. 

     

Offline 306

too true


I think the reason I'm not too keen on dating is I wouldn't want to see someone too often, and I've had some crap no or little sex relationships.
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Offline willbred

load of shite, if you fall in love and find a sexy women too then happy days.

what a bad attitude to women thinking only WG's fullfill sexual needs

What the fuck would you know about my attitude to women....so, anything you don't agree with is a load of shite?.......moron :dash: :dash: :dash:
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I have quite a friendly relationship with my regular WG, it isn't just sex, as we go for meals most times we meet.  I see her 2-3 times a month and have an overnight every few months.  The rates she charges are quite reasonable too.  We are comfortable with each other, and she lets me try some kinky stuff too.  She never says no to sex.  I sometimes see a few other WGs.

I think the reason I'm not too keen on dating is I wouldn't want to see someone too often, and I've had some crap no or little sex relationships.  I'm not sure about sticking to just one woman either.  I wouldn't want to give up punting if I got a regular girlfriend either.  I still might try a lunch date with the Polish woman. 

     

Well go on then and let us know how you got on. As other have said nowt ventured .. nowt gained.  :)

Offline purple_t

I'm probably one of the younger guys on here, I have to wonder do people really 'date' any more? Maybe older people do but inviting a girl over to 'watch Netflix and drink wine' is the new 'going out for dinner', for my generation at least.

OP cannot seem to separate dating from sex in his mind. We all know the advantages of punting, but I'd rather find a nice loyal girl... more for the company and to have someone to do stuff with actually, the sex would be secondary... but finding a girl like this, who won't use sex as a bartering tool, who won't constantly play mind games, who won't try and control your entire life and who won't leave you the second a better prospect comes along is super rare... hardly worth the energy IMO. Just look at somewhere like Japan, traditional dating is dying out and you can even pay girls just to spend an hour cuddling and talking to them... I think the west may be headed in the same direction eventually.
« Last Edit: June 07, 2015, 02:59:01 PM by purple_t »

Offline Owwhatanight

I'm probably one of the younger guys on here, I have to wonder do people really 'date' any more? Maybe older people do but inviting a girl over to 'watch Netflix and drink wine' is the new 'going out for dinner', for my generation at least.

That's what my son tells me too. Go on Tinder & meet a girl,Downloads films to watch, make their own cocktails, fuck the rest of the day/night. Phone his mother to pick him up hungover.
See a different one the next night ...cost a bottle of Tequila & fruit juices. Who said romance is dead.


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