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Offline rthunderbird

"Use the word 'whore' 'prostitute' or any variation of the two....... will result in the termination of the booking"

Hahaha seems someone is in denial about what they do, you're not exactly selling vacuum cleaners *Dives for cover before the white knights come*

I know it doesn't seem post worthy but I thought it was quite funny and worthy of a little discussion.


Offline rthunderbird

Sorry a little context, she has written a guide for first time users of her service and has claimed that if you use whore or prostitute or any variation of the word will result in a termination of the booking which seems a bit silly to me. I mean is she not a prostitute or a WG or a call girl or an escort all of which are variations on prostitute. I just love it when girls pretend to be more than what they clearly are.

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Offline AnthG

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Its in LilyD's AW profile. No disrespect to her, but I think she has maybe let the fact that she is popular get to her head a bit.

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*If it is your first time using a professional escort or booking independently, please find some info below to help your booking run smoothly. *

_*Always...* _

Make sure you are polite when messaging. My pet hate is being called "babe" or "hun" or any other pet names. If we haven't met before please do not address me as such. I get a lot of emails and filter them depending on how respectful the sender appears. Good grammar and spelling goes a long way.

Shower before you arrive. /If this is not possible shower facilities are available, however this takes precious time away from the booking which could be better spent having fun!

Arrive promptly; As with any other appointment, please arrive on time to avoid missing your booking or losing time. If you are more than ten minutes late please be aware that the booking may be canceled. If you are running late then keep me updated so I am aware you're on you're way.

_*Never... *_

Ask me to do a service that I have previously stated I do not offer. Any pressure to do something I am not comfortable with will result in an unhappy Lily and even unhappier client, as you will be asked to leave.

Ask me for discounts; I do not offer a reduced price under any circumstances, payment is taken for time, not services.

Use the word "whore" "prostitute" or any variation of the two. /Despite a popular school of thought which says these words aren't offensive, and that it does not matter what you call it, as a sex worked I very much disagree. Any use of these words will result in termination of booking.

*_Health.._*

Health is the most important thing for me when doing this job. For this reason I *never offer unprotected sex* and will be insulted if you request it. I get regular sexual health check ups, and would recommend anyone that uses escorts to do the same.

*And remember... *

Everyone is nervous the first time they visit an escort. If you have any particular worries then please do not hesitate to contact me. I am very friendly and non judgmental, so nothing you say will sound silly.

*See you soon! *
*/LilyDelphine /*
*/xoxox /*
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Offline rthunderbird

Its in LilyD's AW profile. No disrespect to her, but I think she has maybe let the fact that she is popular get to her head a bit.

Exactly what I meant cheers Anth.

Offline AnthG

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Use the word "whore" "prostitute" or any variation of the two. /Despite a popular school of thought which says these words aren't offensive, and that it does not matter what you call it, as a sex worked I very much disagree. Any use of these words will result in termination of booking.

I mean is she not a prostitute or a WG or a call girl or an escort all of which are variations on prostitute. I just love it when girls pretend to be more than what they clearly are.

I think if someone has a booking with her and starts saying "oh my god you're my life long companion" as soon as she puts her lips around a part of them. She will herself come back saying. "No, reality check here, I am a prostitute!"

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Make sure you are polite when messaging. My pet hate is being called "babe" or "hun" or any other pet names. If we haven't met before please do not address me as such. I get a lot of emails and filter them depending on how respectful the sender appears. Good grammar and spelling goes a long way.

For this, she seriously needs to get a school headmistress outfit as she seriously would be good for roleplay. (that actually sounds fun, I wonder if she has kept her graduation acceptance cloak too)

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And finally

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Everyone is nervous the first time they visit an escort. If you have any particular worries then please do not hesitate to contact me. I am very friendly and non judgmental, so nothing you say will sound silly.

Hang on, doesn't that contradict the whole

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I get a lot of emails and filter them depending on how respectful the sender appears. Good grammar and spelling goes a long way.

I mean how to terrify newbie punters....Act like you are going to literally grade and then dismiss those who do not use perfect grammar, punctuation, politeness and use the right term to address her. Or inquire about services not stated in her likes list.
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*If it is your first time using a professional escort or booking independently, please find some info below to help your booking run smoothly. *

*Never... *

Use the word "whore" "prostitute" or any variation of the two.

does that mean as long as you've booked a prossie before you can call her what you like    :unknown:

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Its in LilyD's AW profile. No disrespect to her, but I think she has maybe let the fact that she is popular get to her head a bit.

She probably has and she can take her pick who she wants to see.

To do with a new punter addressing her as a prostitute/whore I kind of know in what she is trying to say if somebody starts off like that to her face she probably wonders what else they might do, I know on here punters can use those terms a lot but most punters would not say it directly to them if there looking for a good time unless there wanting some dirty talk and the girl has usually agreed before.

From what I have been told many times by all different types of escorts that a lot of punters that email slang dribble for e.g "hi sexy fancy meeting up for a wild time, get back to me babe, what do you offer, how much"

Are usually just messers so that's why probably a lot make it clear you wont get a reply!!!

From a punters or some punters point of view I suppose they would and do use the word whore and prostitute because when your offering cim with everyone and licking out punters arses etc I suppose people would associate that with whore/prostitute.

I personally think she can be choosy with people emailing her and it is up to her how she addresses it, she obviously is making a point so she is trying to avoid certain types of punters.

Offline rthunderbird

She probably has and she can take her pick who she wants to see.

To do with a new punter addressing her as a prostitute/whore I kind of know in what she is trying to say if somebody starts off like that to her face she probably wonders what else they might do, I know on here punters can use those terms a lot but most punters would not say it directly to them if there looking for a good time unless there wanting some dirty talk and the girl has usually agreed before.

From what I have been told many times by all different types of escorts that a lot of punters that email slang dribble for e.g "hi sexy fancy meeting up for a wild time, get back to me babe, what do you offer, how much"

Are usually just messers so that's why probably a lot make it clear you wont get a reply!!!

From a punters or some punters point of view I suppose they would and do use the word whore and prostitute because when your offering cim with everyone and licking out punters arses etc I suppose people would associate that with whore/prostitute.

I personally think she can be choosy with people emailing her and it is up to her how she addresses it, she obviously is making a point so she is trying to avoid certain types of punters.

Aye fair point.

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If she's that  precious on her profile, it makes you wonder is she is actually prepared to remove her underwear.
A definite no from me.

Offline rthunderbird

If she's that  precious on her profile, it makes you wonder is she is actually prepared to remove her underwear.
A definite no from me.

I get where you're coming from there, but I suppose a more formal and professional exchange of communication is going to assure her that they are not a time waster.

greychap

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Only thing that is a bit odd is she says her "health is the most important thing and would not risk anything"

If that was truly the case she would not do owo or cim etc she would be extra careful and play it safe all the way and do ow to be extra safe, but then again she probably would not be as popular I suppose!

Offline johnny34


For this, she seriously needs to get a school headmistress outfit as she seriously would be good for roleplay. (that actually sounds fun, I wonder if she has kept her graduation acceptance cloak too)

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Great idea Anth, thanks  :thumbsup:

Offline rthunderbird

Only thing that is a bit odd is she says her "health is the most important thing and would not risk anything"

If that was truly the case she would not do owo or cim etc she would be extra careful and play it safe all the way and do ow to be extra safe, but then again she probably would not be as popular I suppose!

Shut up Grey Chap she might take them off the menu now!  ;)

Offline AnthG

I personally think she can be choosy with people emailing her and it is up to her how she addresses it, she obviously is making a point so she is trying to avoid certain types of punters.

But she is not avoiding them. As by doing this "guide" those people who would literally message her and say something like

"Hi Whore, can I come and fuck you up the arse for £60 on Friday night".

She can then say to herself, nope and I am not going to ever let you book me either.

But by doing this guide, that same guy above after reading it (unless he is a total retard) will message her now possibly going "Hi Lovely, how are you, are you possibly free for some special time we can have together on Friday".

The person wont have changed, they'd still act the same in the flesh. But now she will see him due to the changing of the message from reading the guide.

If I was a prostitute and getting offensive messages from guys. I wouldn't want to give them tips and aids to not send me offensive messages. I would want to let them continue and thus have a means to rule those ones out. And only see the ones who don't send me offensive messages unaided.
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greychap

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I get where you're coming from there, but I suppose a more formal and professional exchange of communication is going to assure her that they are not a time waster.

Yes there just picking out punters that seem genuine from the start and read her profile rather then acting in a odd manner that seem like there time wasters, nut jobs and weirdos.

It can be a risky job and attracts lots of strange ones!!

greychap

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But she is not avoiding them. As by doing this "guide" those people who would literally message her and say something like

"Hi Whore, can I come and fuck you up the arse for £60 on Friday night".

She can then say to herself, nope and I am not going to ever let you book me either.

But by doing this guide, that same guy above after reading it (unless he is a total retard) will message her now possibly going "Hi Lovely, how are you, are you possibly free for some special time we can have together on Friday".

The person wont have changed, they'd still act the same in the flesh. But now she will see him due to the changing of the message from reading the guide.

If I was a prostitute and getting offensive messages from guys. I wouldn't want to give them tips and aids to not send me offensive messages. I would want to let them continue and thus have a means to rule those ones out. And only see the ones who don't send me offensive messages unaided.

Some of the weird ones don't even bother reading the profile hence why some will email "hi babe, looking for sexy time, what do you offer how much" even though its all listed.

She obviously is encouraging punters that do read her profile to take notice of what she wants and then if they address her how she wanted she probably thinks that's good he has taken the time to respect how I do bookings.

greychap

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But she is not avoiding them. As by doing this "guide" those people who would literally message her and say something like

"Hi Whore, can I come and fuck you up the arse for £60 on Friday night".

She can then say to herself, nope and I am not going to ever let you book me either.

But by doing this guide, that same guy above after reading it (unless he is a total retard) will message her now possibly going "Hi Lovely, how are you, are you possibly free for some special time we can have together on Friday".

The person wont have changed, they'd still act the same in the flesh. But now she will see him due to the changing of the message from reading the guide.

If I was a prostitute and getting offensive messages from guys. I wouldn't want to give them tips and aids to not send me offensive messages. I would want to let them continue and thus have a means to rule those ones out. And only see the ones who don't send me offensive messages unaided.

Some people do address strangers as hi babe, hi darling, hi hun when they have never had contact with them before.

Personally as its a payment business transaction most people would not do the first introduction like that to a stranger you might call them hun, baby after you have met them maybe if that is the way you talk but sometimes starting off like that can come across not business like, but that is just my opinion.

greychap

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Shut up Grey Chap she might take them off the menu now!  ;)

I doubt it they like the ££££££'s too much :lol:

David Larry

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"Use the word 'whore' 'prostitute' or any variation of the two....... will result in the termination of the booking"

It's 2015, I get where she's coming from.

Toshiba

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i wonder how we'd respond if this wasn't lily?

i wonder  :D

Offline rthunderbird


i wonder how we'd respond if this wasn't lily?

i wonder  :D

Never even seen her, hence why I think it is a bit much. If this was on a newbie's profile we'd all be calling bollocks.

greychap

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i wonder how we'd respond if this wasn't lily?

i wonder  :D

I think we know the answer to that, its only because she provides a good service that some wont rip her to shreds :D

Offline AnthG


i wonder how we'd respond if this wasn't lily?

i wonder  :D

In all honesty its the sort of AW profile a member of the sisterhood would've come out with that people often make jibes about.

The fact that she is very fit means she gets a bye for it though.
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Offline FLYING BLUE

Personally, I couldn't give a toss what she writes on her profile - unless of course, she wrote 'No old baldy fat fuckers allowed' ....because that would preclude me from ever seeing her again ;)

It's her life, her profile, her choice and at least we can safely assume it's the lady in question who actually penned the words and not some greaseball scumbag Romanian pimp :D

greychap

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Personally, I couldn't give a toss what she writes on her profile - unless of course, she wrote 'No old baldy fat fuckers allowed' ....because that would preclude me from ever seeing her again ;)

It's her life, her profile, her choice and at least we can safely assume it's the lady in question who actually penned the words and not some greaseball scumbag Romanian pimp :D

That is very true least we know its all her own words

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"Use the word 'whore' 'prostitute' or any variation of the two....... will result in the termination of the booking"

They're amongst many words and terms that at one time were commonplace and are now, quite rightly, seen as offensive and degrading, such as :

Nigger, queer, tart, slapper, psycho, coon, dyke, paddy, jock, paki, chinky, looney ,,,,,,,,,,, etc. 

I'm old enough to remember when words such as those were widely used, including mainstream television comedies on the BBC of all places.

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Toshiba

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Personally, I couldn't give a toss what she writes on her profile - unless of course, she wrote 'No old baldy fat fuckers allowed' ....because that would preclude me from ever seeing her again ;)

It's her life, her profile, her choice and at least we can safely assume it's the lady in question who actually penned the words and not some greaseball scumbag Romanian pimp :D

my point FB is we wouldn't be so plutonic if this wasn't lily, fact

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"Use the word 'whore' 'prostitute' or any variation of the two....... will result in the termination of the booking"

They're amongst many words and terms that at one time were commonplace and are now, quite rightly, seen as offensive and degrading, such as :

Nigger, queer, tart, slapper, psycho, coon, dyke, paddy, jock, paki, chinky, looney ,,,,,,,,,,, etc. 

I'm old enough to remember when words such as those were widely used, including mainstream television comedies on the BBC of all places.

What nonsense, prostitute and prostitution are the proper terms, used everywhere from news, media, charities, politics, law courts to even recent parliament legislation.
Suggestion that prostitute is the same as saying nigger is ridiculous.

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Platonic even.

Point taken Admin.
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Offline the bloody butterfly

I'm confused.

I'm planning on saying "excuse me for being nervous but I've never visited a ????????? before". Oh what word to use.

Offline AnthG

I'm confused.

I'm planning on saying "excuse me for being nervous but I've never visited a ????????? before". Oh what word to use.

I always use the word girl, or girls. They know what I mean when I say it.

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Offline Jimmyredcab

"Use the word 'whore' 'prostitute' or any variation of the two....... will result in the termination of the booking"

They're amongst many words and terms that at one time were commonplace and are now, quite rightly, seen as offensive and degrading, such as :

Nigger, queer, tart, slapper, psycho, coon, dyke, paddy, jock, paki, chinky, looney ,,,,,,,,,,, etc. 

I'm old enough to remember when words such as those were widely used, including mainstream television comedies on the BBC of all places.

Is it OK for me to use the word "shirtlifter" ---- I wouldn't want to offend any poofters.  :hi:

greychap

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I'm confused.

I'm planning on saying "excuse me for being nervous but I've never visited a ????????? before". Oh what word to use.

I think they want the word wg or escort or paid pleasure machine probably. :lol: :lol:

Toshiba

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I always use the word girl, or girls. They know what I mean when I say it.

id say WG  ;)

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greychap

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How about courtesan?

That is usually the term for higher price girls she starts at £50 or £60 so not sure if that is the right word.

Courtesan is more the expensive outcall girls.

Offline FLYING BLUE

my point FB is we wouldn't be so plutonic if this wasn't lily, fact

Not disagreeing with your point Tosh - simply saying that I really don't care what she writes on her profile :timeout:

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That is usually the term for higher price girls she starts at £50 or £60 so not sure if that is the right word.

Courtesan is more the expensive outcall girls.

I thought it meant their clients were wealthy, not necessarily the girls fee.

Offline FLYING BLUE

I thought it meant their clients were wealthy, not necessarily the girls fee.

   Courtesan -  a prostitute, especially one with wealthy or upper-class clients.
    "they diverted their remaining funds into frequenting courtesans"

Origin - Google

Offline the bloody butterfly

I think they want the word wg or escort or paid pleasure machine probably. :lol: :lol:

I like that one although I lack the confidence to say it with a straight face.  :D

Offline AnthG

I think they want the word wg or escort or paid pleasure machine probably. :lol: :lol:

If you are seeing Lily

You could just literally say to her in the booking, with total conviction when you do!

"I am a bit nervous as this is the first time I have booked a Godess like you".

She may laugh and smile. Or she may show you to the door. If I get round to booking her i will say it and report back :)
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Offline rthunderbird

If you are seeing Lily

You could just literally say to her in the booking, with total conviction when you do!

"I am a bit nervous as this is the first time I have booked a Godess like you".

She may laugh and smile. Or she may show you to the door. If I get round to booking her i will say it and report back :)

Same, I need to stop procrastinating and book her.

Offline smiths

I thought it meant their clients were wealthy, not necessarily the girls fee.

No although such WGs want to attract punters who can afford their rates of course. Courtesan like high class and elite are just marketing terms in punting for expensive usually. What they don't in anyway mean is the WG offers a good service, or a service better than a WG who doesn't call herself any of these but does charge a lot less.


sentinel

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Lily's probably this reading and crossing numerous guys off her client list as we speak.

Offline PlasticGeordie

Prostitute may well be acceptable in a general discussion of the industry. To use it in relation to an individual girl I personally find to be sheer bad manners. The W word I would find unacceptable unless it was one of the out and out dangerous scammers reported lately. I am not just saying this because it's Lily, I have never used these terms in relation to any individual girl and never would.

As regards an acceptable term the answer clearly seems to be "Escort"

Online finn5555

Prostitute may well be acceptable in a general discussion of the industry. To use it in relation to an individual girl I personally find to be sheer bad manners. The W word I would find unacceptable unless it was one of the out and out dangerous scammers reported lately. I am not just saying this because it's Lily, I have never used these terms in relation to any individual girl and never would.

As regards an acceptable term the answer clearly seems to be "Escort"

Get a fucking grip man any woman who sells her arse, like Lily, is a prostitute  :crazy: dress it up how you will she will take my money as quickly as she would take yours  :hi:

Online finn5555

Sorry a little context, she has written a guide for first time users of her service and has claimed that if you use whore or prostitute or any variation of the word will result in a termination of the booking which seems a bit silly to me. I mean is she not a prostitute or a WG or a call girl or an escort all of which are variations on prostitute. I just love it when girls pretend to be more than what they clearly are.

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Another deluded pro$$ie  :wackogirl:

Offline AnthG

Lily's probably this reading and crossing numerous guys off her client list as we speak.

I don't think she would. She is quite intelligent and she will know one of the main reasons she is as popular as she is, is due to the people on this forum.

Without this forum all she would have is a bunch of positive comments on Diamonds, and then after it a bunch on Amour. Given that Diamonds have 50 girls on their books and Amour 70 thats no way to stand out from the crowed.

Its the people on this forum raving about her here for everyone else to see why she is so popular. Crossing off those very people from seeing her would be like Gerald Ratner saying 'The reason my stuff is so cheap, is because its shit'
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sentinel

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I think escort is the only term that I and many others would want to use when speaking to or dealing with a WG.