Men who make homophobic remarks are the ones in denial in my opinion, and experience. Not all gay men do anal sex. A wg offered, in fact tried to persuade me to accept a strap-on. I turned her down, but was pretty chuffed, thinking that this proved she fancied me, however I now know that she prefers women. One girl told me that many of her older clients liked the strap-on, cos they had erection probs. We, men like our bottoms being touched etc, cos nature made it pleasureable.