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Offline James999

As, and I know

Ok Anth, time to help you out here, perhaps have a selection of questions to ask the girls to encourage them to chat (thus relaxing you) better if you memorise these as opposed to turning up with a clipboard and pen and reading them off....

Here's a few guaranteed to get the girls response....

Do you prefer black cock or white cock?
Do you like being tied up?
What do your parents think of you doing this?
Have you ever had a cucumber in your arse? This can be followed up with, would you like to try it?
Do you have a dog?

If you get through those questions then she may still think you're weird but at least not as weird as if you tell crap jokes  :sarcastic:

Offline AnthG


Here's a few guaranteed to get the girls response....

Do you prefer black cock or white cock?
Do you like being tied up?
What do your parents think of you doing this?
Have you ever had a cucumber in your arse? This can be followed up with, would you like to try it?
Do you have a dog?

If you get through those questions then she may still think you're weird but at least not as weird as if you tell crap jokes  :sarcastic:
For me my opening question is, so are you doing this while at university?

Its a good opener as its a hidden compliment too - as it clearly appears you are suggesting you think the girl is very intelligent.

Then if its a no, have you never thought about modelling. Then you suggest some adult websites take amateur pics of gorgeous girls that you take with a camera phone and email them and they pay good money for them to put them on their website too. Ishotmyself.com is a good one for example.

Offline James999

For me my opening question is, so are you doing this while at university?

Its a good opener as its a hidden compliment too - as it clearly appears you are suggesting you think the girl is very intelligent.

Then if its a no, have you never thought about modelling. Then you suggest some adult websites take amateur pics of gorgeous girls that you take with a camera phone and email them and they pay good money for them to put them on their website too. Ishotmyself.com is a good one for example.

Anth, my lines were much better, those lines you said most won't know what Uni is and will think you're taking th episs, and as for the model thing same again they will think you are laughing at them, in particular as you like the fat ones, and the talk about the websites and phone pics will freak them out as they will think you're a perve wanting to take pics on your phone  :hi:

Offline mattylondon

For me my opening question is, so are you doing this while at university?

Its a good opener as its a hidden compliment too - as it clearly appears you are suggesting you think the girl is very intelligent.

Then if its a no, have you never thought about modelling. Then you suggest some adult websites take amateur pics of gorgeous girls that you take with a camera phone and email them and they pay good money for them to put them on their website too. Ishotmyself.com is a good one for example.
Anth, let me ask you, as I can see that you're well meaning and probably trying to ask questions that you think make the girl more comfortable. Do you honestly think, for one moment, they actually give a ff, when their main driver is to offer you a service for cash? Surely some of what you're talking about is for afterwards, in your UNPAID TIME. Do you actually find the time to get down to 'business', if you spend the whole of it chatting, or is the chatting and 'company' part the bit you prefer here!  :P Hey, you're paying, so fair play if that's your bag. I can see why the girl would be very happy with this arrangement, mind you!  :D
« Last Edit: January 14, 2012, 11:16:00 AM by mattylondon »

Offline AnthG

Do you actually find the time to get down to 'business', if you spend the whole of it chatting, or is the chatting and 'company' part the bit you prefer here!  :P Hey, you're paying, so fair play if that's you bag. I can see why the girl would be happy with this arrangement, mind you!  :D

Yes, this is why sometimes I do not have sex in the appointments. To be honest I get most fun out of the DFK than most else in the appointment. Its annoying when the girl does not offer this as its by far the most fun. Then 69 and then hand-relief and then lastly sex.

DFK is good as you can mix it with hand relief and thus its the most fun I do in the hour. Hence also why I often don't get around to sex.

Offline mattylondon

Yes, this is why sometimes I do not have sex in the appointments. To be honest I get most fun out of the DFK than most else in the appointment. Its annoying when the girl does not offer this as its by far the most fun. Then 69 and then hand-relief and then lastly sex.

DFK is good as you can mix it with hand relief and thus its the most fun I do in the hour. Hence also why I often don't get around to sex.
I'll be honest here and give you my opinion. It seems to me that you're primarily looking for a girlfriend/companion, but you lack a bit of confidence. This isn't something you're going to find with a prostitute. Prostitutes are generally very streetwise and can 'smell' such a vulnerability in a guy like you. They are there to MAKE MONEY. They do not give a fuck about punters, whatever heart rending stories they peddle out on here, beyond the allocated time. Sure, I'm willing to believe the odd exception, but if you want to test that, ask any of them if they've ever met a punter outside of a booking to talk about his 'problems' for no cash being paid then, or promised on a future booking. And in some cases, they don't care even within the allocated time. I'm not saying that they should care, beyond the time either. It's their job to provide a service to your satisfaction, within the allocated time. No more, no less.

It strikes me that you should be joining a couple of dating sites, to raise your self esteem. You ought to have enough confidence by the very fact that you book prostitutes. You will find no solace through booking them, trust me. You'll just end up a lot poorer, for little gain.  :hi:
« Last Edit: January 14, 2012, 11:31:06 AM by mattylondon »

Offline adindas

I do 33+ only in a party, not P2P. In P2P I have many option to choose ..

I have not found that the older one are better and more satisfying than younger one ..

I think here it is something to do with personal attitude of WGs and less with age.

Someone who are getting old will look less attractive compared to when she was  still young ..

But similarly, say they are young and attractive but bad attitude. Apart from sex everything is No, do touch here, do not do this ... It will turn me off comp;etelly and I will not say this is a good punt...

In your personal experiences do you find that your punts with older WG's are better and more satisfying than those with younger WG's?
For the sake of controversy lets say older is 33+

Offline smiths

In your personal experiences do you find that your punts with older WG's are better and more satisfying than those with younger WG's?
For the sake of controversy lets say older is 33+

A WGs age isnt the defining feature that ensures a good or better punt to me, its her attitude, enthusiasm and honesty along with me fancying her that is.

My very best punts have been with WGs aged so they said between 19-40.

Offline smiths

I wont go into 30+ but there is a massive difference between 19,20,21 and 25,26,27.

The 20 year old you have a laugh with. Its a fun hour. They laugh and joke with you. They are bubbly and fun.

The 25-26 is more bossy and controlling in the appointment. They try but give a bad impression they are enjoying your time. They mostly just act like robots. They smirk at your jokes as opposed to laugh.

For someone going to an appointment just for sex I can see why they would not be bothered by the age. But for me I go for a laugh and an enjoyable hour with a girl and thus around 20 is the best for me due to preferring someone who is bubbly and fun. And you do not find many bubbly and fun 27 year old's. As they would be considered immature if they were.

This is a massive generalisation and certainly not been my experences over 29 years of punting. I have punted with many bubbly WGs in their late 20s and 30s, it depends on the individual.

Offline smiths

I have no experience of old women ------------- why on earth would I want to.    :unknown: :unknown:

It depends on your definition of old. To me old is a wrinkly pensioner walking with a zimmer frame. ;)

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For me my opening question is, so are you doing this while at university?

Its a good opener as its a hidden compliment too - as it clearly appears you are suggesting you think the girl is very intelligent.

Then if its a no, have you never thought about modelling. Then you suggest some adult websites take amateur pics of gorgeous girls that you take with a camera phone and email them and they pay good money for them to put them on their website too. Ishotmyself.com is a good one for example.

If someone said those things to me, I'd definitely be rolling my eyes x 1000000000  :D Seriously, I'd say most escorts hate those kinds of questions. On Escort Forums it's like a signal of an "oh no, here we go again....." question.

Because a) the university one is taken as the same sort of line as that old chestnut "you are too good for this", implying that the job is degrading and that you are going to be one of "those" punters (the ones who project their hang-ups and guilt of seeing sex workers onto the girl) and b) the modelling one is just cheesy and we get it so often that it's seen as an empty facetious line - I mean you wouldn't go up to a girl at work you'd just met and say "Have you ever thought about modelling?" would you?  :lol:

I know you must mean well Anth  :kissgirl: as you come across as a nice person from your posts, but perhaps just be yourself instead and just speak to the escort just the same as you would speak to any other girl in "civvie - land" and you will get along better.

If you use those comments with a 18-21 year old, then yes they will probably be flattered etc and giggly. But yes, use them on anyone over say 22 and they will look aghast and major "hmmmmm..." and probably ,despite trying, not be able to hide it! I'm sure you are a nice guy, if you can just be yourself instead of the misguided compliments you would probably have a much better time with the older ladies (well older than 22!). It's not that you sound insincere, it's just that is how it comes across because sex workers hear these lines multiple times a week or even a day, and most who say them are sort of "sucking up", so it probably gets their backs and guards up a bit (I know they do with me, although I'm apparently a hard-nosed bitch!  :sarcastic:)     

Offline mattylondon

although I'm apparently a hard-nosed bitch!  :sarcastic:)   
That you are, but at least you made some very good points for once!  :sarcastic: Have you ever thought of taking up modelling?   :D
« Last Edit: January 14, 2012, 05:44:40 PM by mattylondon »

Offline Joe Blob

I've had good and bad experiences with young and old.
It's all down to the individual pro$$ie.....IMHO.  :)

Me too

Offline sacredrealm

I'll be honest here and give you my opinion. It seems to me that you're primarily looking for a girlfriend/companion, but you lack a bit of confidence. This isn't something you're going to find with a prostitute. Prostitutes are generally very streetwise and can 'smell' such a vulnerability in a guy like you. They are there to MAKE MONEY. They do not give a fuck about punters, whatever heart rending stories they peddle out on here, beyond the allocated time. Sure, I'm willing to believe the odd exception, but if you want to test that, ask any of them if they've ever met a punter outside of a booking to talk about his 'problems' for no cash being paid then, or promised on a future booking. And in some cases, they don't care even within the allocated time. I'm not saying that they should care, beyond the time either. It's their job to provide a service to your satisfaction, within the allocated time. No more, no less.

It strikes me that you should be joining a couple of dating sites, to raise your self esteem. You ought to have enough confidence by the very fact that you book prostitutes. You will find no solace through booking them, trust me. You'll just end up a lot poorer, for little gain.  :hi:

You could probabaly say the same about myself. Although I have 2 points against. 1. What if we want it to be as genuine, honest and fun as possible, but don't want a "normal" monogamous relationship? (while also not being the kind of person to go out drinking, and innitiating things with girls, which seems to be the "acceptable" way of doing it hah.)

And 2. About dating sites: Ive been on 2 for a while, and not got out of it yet. Girls on there are as selective as in real life or MORE, since they can easily ignore someone by not replying.

Offline mattylondon

You could probabaly say the same about myself. Although I have 2 points against. 1. What if we want it to be as genuine, honest and fun as possible, but don't want a "normal" monogamous relationship? (while also not being the kind of person to go out drinking, and innitiating things with girls, which seems to be the "acceptable" way of doing it hah.)

And 2. About dating sites: Ive been on 2 for a while, and not got out of it yet. Girls on there are as selective as in real life or MORE, since they can easily ignore someone by not replying.
I take your point on both of those things and yes, some aspects can irritate, such as the 'nagging'! I'm sure women will come back on that and say it's just because guys won't listen, to which I usually reply "what?"!!  :P Ok, on your points:
1. Personally, I'd rather spend my money on somebody who has a chance of genuinely being 'into me', rather than being with me because I'm paying them too! It's never really 'genuine', when you're paying by the hour, is it? Remember, I'm only talking about a scenario where you book somebody and spend the whole time chatting!
2. Depends on what dating site you're using! Yes, women are incredibly fussy on them. Some would say they're just being more honest! I tended to find women were incredibly specific about what they were after, whereas guys were equally as fussy, but happy to play the percentages and catch as many fish as possible, then they'd be choosy! But probably try to get away with a few shags on the way. But women are equally capable of playing that game and there are plenty of sites where that can be done! The reality lies somewhere in between for both! A site such as eharmony would perhaps be better in that sense, as it tries to match interests and isn't so 'blunt' as say, the broadsheet dating sites.

Everybody's after different things. I think my point with Anth was that if he's just spending the whole time chatting, it appears to me that he risks being taken for a ride, if you pardon the pun! That said, it's a punter's money, so if that makes him happy, it's up to him!  ;)

Offline Lurtz

In your personal experiences do you find that your punts with older WG's are better and more satisfying than those with younger WG's?
For the sake of controversy lets say older is 33+

I punt with a range of ages but mainly with girls in their twenties. I struggle to make a strong generalization, but girls in their thirties tend to be more experienced, more skilled, and more up for a full-on session. Just make sure you pick one whose body hasn't been ravished by sunbeds, kids and fags.

Tony Montana

I wont go into 30+ but there is a massive difference between 19,20,21 and 25,26,27.

The 20 year old you have a laugh with. Its a fun hour. They laugh and joke with you. They are bubbly and fun.

The 25-26 is more bossy and controlling in the appointment. They try but give a bad impression they are enjoying your time. They mostly just act like robots. They smirk at your jokes as opposed to laugh.

My experience is completely the opposite.  I find girls under ~20 so be reserved, passive and inexperienced, but those in mid-20's onwards have a sexual and personal confidence that I find very sexy.  They are comfortable with their bodies and with the profession they have chosen.


Offline sacredrealm

I take your point on both of those things and yes, some aspects can irritate, such as the 'nagging'! I'm sure women will come back on that and say it's just because guys won't listen, to which I usually reply "what?"!!  :P Ok, on your points:
1. Personally, I'd rather spend my money on somebody who has a chance of genuinely being 'into me', rather than being with me because I'm paying them too! It's never really 'genuine', when you're paying by the hour, is it? Remember, I'm only talking about a scenario where you book somebody and spend the whole time chatting!
2. Depends on what dating site you're using! Yes, women are incredibly fussy on them. Some would say they're just being more honest! I tended to find women were incredibly specific about what they were after, whereas guys were equally as fussy, but happy to play the percentages and catch as many fish as possible, then they'd be choosy! But probably try to get away with a few shags on the way. But women are equally capable of playing that game and there are plenty of sites where that can be done! The reality lies somewhere in between for both! A site such as eharmony would perhaps be better in that sense, as it tries to match interests and isn't so 'blunt' as say, the broadsheet dating sites.

Everybody's after different things. I think my point with Anth was that if he's just spending the whole time chatting, it appears to me that he risks being taken for a ride, if you pardon the pun! That said, it's a punter's money, so if that makes him happy, it's up to him!  ;)

Ah yes. I wasn't exactly "against" what you say BTW! As what you say, is I guess what would be ideal! (apart from the "official" mono relationship, for me)

But I guess for me its just the difficulty of getting the oppertunity to do the same with someone you know is "into" you hah.

It seems the best I could do is book someone and hope in some way that they might be into me anyway in some way haha! And actually give them the choice of not doing anything.

Or just wait and not do anything about it.

The dating sites I'm on are OKCupid and plenty of fish. I spend alot of time looking on them. Which can get frustrating I suppose as like in real life it feels like you can look at all the pretty girls but not touch haha. But thats fair enough!
I haven't really been bothered to try e harmony because to be honest atm I am mainly looking for "sex". Not necesserily just that, but not one of those type of "relationships". Of course a great connection and bond would be great! But I'm talking about a way to satisfy the more physical/visual urges hah. And that can be seperate from that! IMO.
« Last Edit: January 15, 2012, 09:07:15 PM by sacredrealm »

Offline sacredrealm

My experience is completely the opposite.  I find girls under ~20 so be reserved, passive and inexperienced, but those in mid-20's onwards have a sexual and personal confidence that I find very sexy.  They are comfortable with their bodies and with the profession they have chosen.

Interesting. This has been something Ive wondered about! And I'm still not sure which to go by hah. Gues I'll have to find out by trying.

Offline mattylondon

e harmony because to be honest atm I am mainly looking for "sex".
Yes, as you say, eharmony isn't so wise if you're just looking to get your leg over!! But POF and Zoosk should suit! Perhaps when approaching those sites it's better not to be "too fussy"!  :)

Offline sacredrealm

Yes, as you say, eharmony isn't so wise if you're just looking to get your leg over!! But POF and Zoosk should suit! Perhaps when approaching those sites it's better not to be "too fussy"!  :)

Hah yeah! Although I was told on the POF forum that I had no chance of of getting sex from there, and that I should list that I want "dating", not "intimate encounter" if I want any chance hah. But I didn't as A. I don't think I'd have any more luck, and B. I refuse to not be honest in that way. Seems pointless.
But he was saying I don't have anything on the profile that would make a girl want to do that with me. But I mean I can only be me! I have pictures, and a description of myself and things I do, so I can't see what would make them want to. I know girls on there must get 100s of messages. But I always wonder who are the ones they actually reply to. Because on that particular one, POF, I dont think Ive ever had a reply haha!
Ive actually wondered if theres a problem and I'm not even visible on the site at times haha!

But anyway I shouldn't complain!

Yeah, maybe I could be less picky. But it seems on there, that I either like the look of girls alot, or I dont at all hah. And I'd like to do it only with ones Id like to, as otherwise it just seems like doing it for the sake of it.
But yeah anyway that is why I am drawn somewhat to the escort idea haha.

Offline Melb

Age is less of an indicator in the girl's behaviour than the length of time she's been in the business, im my opinion.

Over time the girl develops a 'hardened attitude' I find. Either hating her job or hating men or both.

Of course this is a generalisation and there are exceptions on both sides.

Offline Melb

A fantasy of mine is to have both together.
As in mother teaches daughter... as long as the daughter isn't 50 like in the old joke.

Offline softlad

Age is less of an indicator in the girl's behaviour than the length of time she's been in the business, im my opinion.

Over time the girl develops a 'hardened attitude' I find. Either hating her job or hating men or both.

I'd agree with that.

Offline sacredrealm

Age is less of an indicator in the girl's behaviour than the length of time she's been in the business, im my opinion.

Over time the girl develops a 'hardened attitude' I find. Either hating her job or hating men or both.

Of course this is a generalisation and there are exceptions on both sides.

So it may be best to go for "new" girls? Are you talking years when you talk about the length of time in it that hardens them?


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