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Author Topic: Punting a working girl who is married. Does it make any difference?  (Read 5851 times)

Offline mattylondon

I've asked myself this question, when punting working girls who provide GFE. However, I guess it could equally apply to other types of SP!

Does your perception of a working girl or approach to a punt change, if you know the girl is married? Is it a turn on to know that you are fucking somebody else's wife or does it detract from the punt in some way? That is, kill the fantasy element? Do you find single girls that provide GFE, do so in a more convincing manner or is there no discernible difference to the punt?

Offline Ali Katt

It's a turn off for me because I don't want to know about her husband and I don't want her to go on about him. I simply want us to cum together and have a nice time - if she has a problem justifying what she does by mentioning him in every sentence I suggest she does something else.

For me - a WG being married isn't a concern nor does it really cross my mind.
What i do find a turn on is those who are married and the husbands know what their wives do - i suspect most keep it a secret, but the open ones do add a bit of spice or frission to proceedings.
I always think - how would i feel if my wife or GF was a WG. Would i be excited or horrified? Bringing me back to the eternal question of whether I could date a WG?


Offline James999

For most it makes no difference as the hubby has no feelings for her (otherwise he wouldnt want her being a pro$$ie) and as such she probably gets greater emotion from punters while her hubby is out spending the cash she earns on other pro$$ies and generally having a good time with her cash  :hi:

Offline AnthG

For most it makes no difference as the hubby has no feelings for her (otherwise he wouldnt want her being a pro$$ie)
I think James sums up things perfectly there. I know someone will come along angry saying you don't know my personal husband. But I still think James is right.

For me I hate it when the girl is married. Deep down I want to "pull" the escort. I know its wrong of me to think this way. But deep down I do and cannot help it. And its an impossibility when she is married.

Offline mattylondon

For most it makes no difference as the hubby has no feelings for her (otherwise he wouldnt want her being a pro$$ie) and as such she probably gets greater emotion from punters while her hubby is out spending the cash she earns on other pro$$ies and generally having a good time with her cash  :hi:

I think you're bang on the money there.  :drinks:

So let me pose a supplementary question to you. If you knew that the girl was doing it out of some 'need', for a 'limited' period of time, as opposed to her vocation in life, is your perception of such a girl different if she is single, as opposed to a married one?  ;)

Offline James999

So let me pose a supplementary question to you. If you knew that the girl was doing it out of some 'need', for a 'limited' period of time, as opposed to her vocation in life, is your perception of such a girl different if she is single, as opposed to a married one?  ;)

All pro$$ies are doing it out of need, prostitution is not a vocation that someone works towards you dont have exams and courses and discus it at school with careers advisers, , it's something that girls do as a result of their needs, be it drink, drugs, bring up children, supplement social security income, try and better themselves (property etc) or for many the simple fact that the alternative is minimum wage at Asda or the like, and long hours, so they decide to sell themselves and earn in a day what they would in a week in most jobs.

Nothing wrong with that, was with a cute 22 year old earlier and she said she had various jobs after she left school, including shop work and bar work and decided that it was easier and paid better to just "take her clothes off" as she put it  :hi:

Offline mattylondon

All pro$$ies are doing it out of need, prostitution is not a vocation that someone works towards you dont have exams and courses and discus it at school with careers advisers,

I'll quickly clarify that I didn't mean it was a career choice or something a girl should be proud of or aspire too!  :scare: Vocation was the wrong word!!  :blush: I really meant for the long or short term! And yes, we all know the short term with prossies invariably ends up being the long term! But even in prossieland, I'm willing to believe there may be the odd exception!  :P  My other point was more is there a difference to your punt, re the marital status, which I think Anth and Ali Katt addressed.
« Last Edit: January 10, 2012, 06:32:02 PM by mattylondon »

Offline smiths

I've asked myself this question, when punting working girls who provide GFE. However, I guess it could equally apply to other types of SP!

Does your perception of a working girl or approach to a punt change, if you know the girl is married? Is it a turn on to know that you are fucking somebody else's wife or does it detract from the punt in some way? That is, kill the fantasy element? Do you find single girls that provide GFE, do so in a more convincing manner or is there no discernible difference to the punt?

It doesnt make a jot of difference to me and if the WG is good she will be good whether married or not. Plus for all i know a WG is married but doesnt say so, i dont ask to look through the wedding album so if a newbie to me who knows. ;)

Offline Boy

for many the simple fact that the alternative is minimum wage at Asda or the like, and long hours, so they decide to sell themselves and earn in a day what they would in a week in most jobs.Nothing wrong with that, was with a cute 22 year old earlier and she said she had various jobs after she left school, including shop work and bar work and decided that it was easier and paid better to just "take her clothes off" as she put it

As in Thailand. I knew one who took a break from bar work to working for a factory owned by a foreign company in Thailand, closer to her family home. 12 hour days, nasty management, gruelling work and utter peanuts in wages compared to what she was earning from the occasional short time with foreigners. Of course, it wasn't long before she came back to bar work. Plenty of freedom, having a laugh, plenty of Thai friends to natter to day and night. Now and again she opened her legs to sleep with customers like me, but the choice is simple. Either you're screwed by a foreign tourist in a different way on short time or you're screwed big time on a daily basis by a large foreign company exploiting you far worse than said tourist ever would.

a past regular settled down with one of her punters (he was loaded etc)
when he lost his job etc and done his money on still living his life style (including seeing other working girls ) she ended up back working to support them , sad really

Offline James999

a past regular settled down with one of her punters (he was loaded etc)

Basically just a gold digger, it's cheaper to see her as a pro$$ie and pay her rate than marry her and let her leach of you  :hi:


Offline NIK

This is a good question as it's something I haven't really considered much before.

I definitely don't like it when they start babbling about their husbands, boyfriends and brats as it spoils the illusion for me.

Had one skanker years ago who blathered on about her boyfriend who had just been released from prison, and she said he would sort anybody out who hurt her. What made this even worse was that she was an 'escort' paying me a home visit when she was telling me this rather than a parlour girl. I reckon the agency had picked her up from the streets judging by the state of her.
Even before that in my very early days of punting a parlour girl wouldn't let me go down on her as she said she saved that for her boyfriend! - of course  this was in the days before I knew kissing was available; I assume that would have been saved for her bf too.
Only last year the rubbish Rebecca of Max's Angels who I saw last summer babbled on about her baby, which contributed to making a poor punt even worse.  :mad:

When I think about it virtually all the best girls I've seen have been childless and, as far as I was aware, boyfriendless, at least that's what they told me or at least they didn't talk about them. Of course I have no way of knowing whether they were telling the truth, but it must be more than coincidence that these have been the better performers.
I wonder if there's less holding back when they aren't in a relationship?

Thinking back I did see one - Alicia of Minx agency who is well up my top twenty - who performed superbly despite telling me she had a bloke and a brat.  :cool:

Offline mattylondon

Of course I have no way of knowing whether they were telling the truth, but it must be more than coincidence that these have been the better performers.
I wonder if there's less holding back when they aren't in a relationship?


I've personally found that the 'single' girls put a lot more into a GFE, than the married ones. I think there's definitely an element of 'holding back'. Mind you, I've been amazed by the number of crap shags I've had with married women, so if the profile mentions 'hubby' or 'partner' in advance or during a phone conversation, I knock them off the list... kills the fantasy for me!

Big turns offs and no, no's for me are girls talking about kids, moaning about partners and such like! It's something that they invariably try to moan about after a punt, but I've learned to cut them short these days.  ;)

And always punting when single myself, I definitely respect the married working girls less, so again, these days I'll avoid them if I know.
« Last Edit: January 11, 2012, 07:48:55 PM by mattylondon »

Offline Jimmyredcab



Had one skanker years ago who blathered on about her boyfriend who had just been released from prison, and she said he would sort anybody out who hurt her. What made this even worse was that she was an 'escort' paying me a home visit when she was telling me this rather than a parlour girl. I reckon the agency had picked her up from the streets judging by the state of her.


As you know I hate the word "escort".   It is just a nice word for prostitute, in most cases the girl will be no better than a parlour girl ----- just more expensive.
Regarding agencies recruiting from the streets, I know for a fact that one east London agency was guilty of that.

Offline Jerboa

I'm not bothered If the lady Is single or married, at the end of the day who knows unless you see her marriage certificate, but I don't think WG's should talk about her bf/hubby to a punter, as It could put some guys off.

Offline mattylondon

As you know I hate the word "escort".   It is just a nice word for prostitute, in most cases the girl will be no better than a parlour girl ----- just more expensive.
Regarding agencies recruiting from the streets, I know for a fact that one east London agency was guilty of that.

Jimmy they're all prostitutes, which isn't meant to be an insult. The only difference between these girls are the locations they work and the rates they set. I also fucking hate this term 'high class escort'. What the fuck does that mean, other than that they charge piss take rates!? I know that some girls get offended by the word 'prostitute', but this is just a form of denial. You try saying that term face to face on a punt?! Has anybody ever done that? Obviously on this forum, there's more of a recognition of the truth, but then that's because men on here are free to speak their mind!

It's the same with this bloody term 'clients', which I sometimes slip into! I prefer the word 'punter', as it's not so high brow, for an activity which, let's be honest, is fun, but certainly not high brow!  :D
« Last Edit: January 11, 2012, 07:55:58 PM by mattylondon »

Offline mattylondon

I'm not bothered If the lady Is single or married, at the end of the day who knows unless you see her marriage certificate, but I don't think WG's should talk about her bf/hubby to a punter, as It could put some guys off.

That's true, Jerboa, but I guess my question was more if it was discovered in an overt fashion from the working girl. In which case, you've answered another question, which mirrors my view too.

Offline smiths

I'm not bothered If the lady Is single or married, at the end of the day who knows unless you see her marriage certificate, but I don't think WG's should talk about her bf/hubby to a punter, as It could put some guys off.

I agree, i couldnt care less, all i want is a punt,  their personal circumstances arent relevant as long as i believe they are working of free will and an adult. ;)

Offline mattylondon

I agree, i couldnt care less, all i want is a punt,  their personal circumstances arent relevant as long as i believe they are working of free will and an adult. ;)

And what if they happen mention the hubby, partner or kids before the action? How do you approach that. Do you pretend to listen or just cut them off. I mean, let's be honest, none of us give a fuck, but you know what I mean!

Offline smiths

And what if they happen mention the hubby, partner or kids before the action? How do you approach that. Do you pretend to listen or just cut them off. I mean, let's be honest, none of us give a fuck, but you know what I mean!

If its chit chat in the break it goes in one ear and out the other with me. ;)

Offline Ali Katt

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I've personally found that the 'single' girls put a lot more into a GFE, than the married ones. I think there's definitely an element of 'holding back'. Mind you, I've been amazed by the number of crap shags I've had with married women, so if the profile mentions 'hubby' or 'partner' in advance or during a phone conversation, I knock them off the list... kills the fantasy for me!

Big turns offs and no, no's for me are girls talking about kids, moaning about partners and such like! It's something that they invariably try to moan about after a punt, but I've learned to cut them short these days.  ;)

And always punting when single myself, I definitely respect the married working girls less, so again, these days I'll avoid them if I know.
Glad I'm not the only one. I think it's the equivalent of a girl talking about an Ex-boyfriend if you're on a date, totally off-putting. A lot married women are crap shags but so are a lot of single ones- once again if on a profile it's says I live cheating on my boyfriend or husband I do not see them even if they could be single.

Fatpro$$ie

A wg should not bring up her persona life at the start, middle or end of a booking.  It is just not the done thing.  The hard bit is when a client starts asking questions (yes, many do).  I have tried saying I dont really want to discuss my personal life but with some they then think you are aone and sad so try to push for dates etc so now if asked I always say I am married as it stops it but would never bring it up myself.  Guys are there for the fantasy not to be reminded the girl has a partner

Offline Strawberry

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Yes, it can be difficult as clients can bring this up at any time, and there is no right or wrong situation! Some want you to say you have someone 'special', others don't want to see a girl who might have a partner in the background. Some also see being single or attached as a challenge/opportunity. You can't win, whether I'm single, attached, married, divorced, whatever my private life situation it will not affect how I relate to my clients(never experienced the last two, so who knows though!). If/when I do have a partner I will say I'm less likely to accept into extra, free personal/social time but then again even when single I still value my own privacy too.


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