What if your GF or wife used to be a prossie?

[tazz]

I was just woundering how anyone on here would react if they got into a relationship and then several months or years down the line found out their partner was a prossie? Read about a guy who was devastated when he read his gf's emails and found out shed be an escort.

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[Cuntminion]

Don't ever forsee having a girlfriend or a wife but no big deal, would not bother moi

Everyone has past

[Ipunter]

I actively try a promote all the benefits of being an escort to my misses... She's content sitting on her arse and doesn't question anything I do...

[threechilliman]

In my recent experience I've come to the conclusion that most OH's of WG's don't know what they do for a living. One girl recently left me shaking my head as she told me her story. And they think we're devious!

tcm

[MrBridger]

In my recent experience I've come to the conclusion that most OH's of WG's don't know what they do for a living. One girl recently left me shaking my head as she told me her story. And they think we're devious!

tcm

Shouldn't you have been wiping it on the curtains? 

[Taggart]

Had a quick flick through the saafe thread, and the whores on there are, generally, outraged the guy went prying and found her emails.  WTF?

Is that in anyway different to wives/girlfriends/significant other looking at our emails?

OK, she claims she stopped, deleted her AW account etc, so how could be read her emails unless she was silly enough to use an outlook style account or something? How could feedback be read if the account was dead - surely shows 'member not active'?

Sounds like a made up tale to me.

[MancSean]

As I have mentioned before my ex gf was a wg when I met her. She gave up when we got together. Then 7 years later when I lost my job she went back on the game a submissive whore behind my back. I got suspicious and found her advertised on numerous sites.  I was devastated. She of course said it wasn't cheating as it was for money and asked why I was looking at those sites.
For the next 3 years till we split up I punted behind her back as revenge plus I obviously got pleasure sexually out of the punts. 
Ironically her mate that got her back into it was the one who introduced me to aw.
My ex did give up as soon as I found out but the damage was done and I never enjoyed fucking her again

[Ipunter]

Well my bird finding out I sleep with 1 or 2 escorts a month, to an escorts boyfriend finding out she sleeps with 5 to 10 men a day...

[pumps]

As I have mentioned before my ex gf was a wg when I met her. She gave up when we got together. Then 7 years later when I lost my job she went back on the game a submissive whore behind my back. I got suspicious and found her advertised on numerous sites.  I was devastated. She of course said it wasn't cheating as it was for money and asked why I was looking at those sites.
For the next 3 years till we split up I punted behind her back as revenge plus I obviously got pleasure sexually out of the punts. 
Ironically her mate that got her back into it was the one who introduced me to aw.
My ex did give up as soon as I found out but the damage was done and I never enjoyed fucking her again

Links? or it never happened

[Type_O_Negative]

I don't think i would handle this situation. Probably i would end up with breakdown.

[Cuntminion]

As I have mentioned before my ex gf was a wg when I met her. She gave up when we got together. Then 7 years later when I lost my job she went back on the game a submissive whore behind my back. I got suspicious and found her advertised on numerous sites.  I was devastated. She of course said it wasn't cheating as it was for money and asked why I was looking at those sites.
For the next 3 years till we split up I punted behind her back as revenge plus I obviously got pleasure sexually out of the punts. 
Ironically her mate that got her back into it was the one who introduced me to aw.
My ex did give up as soon as I found out but the damage was done and I never enjoyed fucking her again

Is there no way you could of worked around it, if that was her job so to say could you not look at it like that

[Cuntminion]

I suppose the flipside is if your with it , it may translate as not giving a shit so a no win situation

I don't think it's a massive deal though wg prob majority have relationships outside of what they do

[MancSean]

Is there no way you could of worked around it, if that was her job so to say could you not look at it like that

No I wouldn't have been able to handle it.
Based on stuff she told me when we first started dating she estimated she had seen over 10000 clients some repeat of course. I was able to live with this took a while but eventually never thought about. But after 7 years of her not whoring when she went behind my back I was never able to forgive her.

[spkmstr48]

Having just received a rare BJ from the OH she has reminded me how good at it she is. I did wonder when we first had sex, it was very like a punt, much more pro than any other civvy I've known. In fact she's still the best at it I've ever had including punting.

 

[webpunter]

They key words would appear to be 'used to be'

On the basis that UKP'ers on here now are presumably still punting then just a bit hypocritical to criticize.  Reckon there are a number of fit women out there who have been 'party-girls' in the past.  Goes with the territory - they've had sugar daddies & the like.  Or got into escorting more seriously.  If it was donkeys ago then i can't see what difference it makes.  Least they should be a good shag & open minded about sex.  So their clients will have been saying that one of the reasons they're there is lack of sex.  They're probably less like to turn the taps off in the bedroom dept as they are well aware of the likely outcome at some point in time

Think about the reverse situation - a GF / wife finds out that you like punting.  How are they going to react ?  If in the past then does this make any difference ?  I think not - although unlikely that:  1/ they'd be best pleased & 2/ they'd trust you 100%

There's no one answer fits all IMO.  But either the girlie previously being an escort or the bloke previously punting isn't going to help the relationship much

[webpunter]

Having just received a rare BJ from the OH she has reminded me how good at it she is. I did wonder when we first had sex, it was very like a punt, much more pro than any other civvy I've known. In fact she's still the best at it I've ever had including punting.
 

Don't be getting fluffy now.  Any chance you could provide a mini-review and also give a likely price indication ? 

[charming_red]

I suppose the flipside is if your with it , it may translate as not giving a shit so a no win situation

I don't think it's a massive deal though wg prob majority have relationships outside of what they do

At the end of the day WGs are humans with desires and they must have relationships but I really wonder how long these last. Its really interesting to think how their relationships transpire.

Once the truth comes out and despite the great sex, most men out there probably won't be able to hack that their woman was having sex with numerous guys every day and they'll be constantly thinking what shes getting up to.

[spkmstr48]

Don't be getting fluffy now.  Any chance you could provide a mini-review and also give a likely price indication ? 

Me fluffy, I just implied I wouldn't be surprised if my OH had been a WG before we met.

Re: review - no.
Re: price - no.

 

[Marmite]

There's no one answer fits all IMO.  But either the girlie previously being an escort or the bloke previously punting isn't going to help the relationship much

If trust breaks down in a new relationship with an exwg, a current wg or a nonwg it is probably best to move on.  Whether it is his or her fault is a moot point.

[justfornow]

Wouldn't be able to cope with a wg gf for too long if at all.

If she would quit i wouldn't have a problem with it.

[charming_red]

Wouldn't be able to cope with a wg gf for too long if at all.

If she would quit i wouldn't have a problem with it.

'Quit' is the crucial word. Wouldn't it be on the back of your mind if she really has quit?

[webpunter]

Me fluffy, I just implied I wouldn't be surprised if my OH had been a WG before we met.

I was but jesting.  Know what you mean when you wonder quite why they are so good.  I had quite a few civvie shags when younger & some of the girlies seemed very experienced.  My knowledge of punting back that was limited so i didn't connect the two.  i just figured that they'd shagged lots of blokes and liked it

[Marmite]

Wouldn't be able to cope with a wg gf for too long if at all.

If she would quit i wouldn't have a problem with it.

A serious relationship with an exwg would require a considerable amount of mental effort to deal with but a current wg... too much brain ache for me.

[Cuntminion]

At the end of the day WGs are humans with desires and they must have relationships but I really wonder how long these last. Its really interesting to think how their relationships transpire.

Once the truth comes out and despite the great sex, most men out there probably won't be able to hack that their woman was having sex with numerous guys every day and they'll be constantly thinking what shes getting up to.

Probably majority wise yeah, personally wouldn't bother me to a degree almost certainly interesting

[spkmstr48]

I was but jesting.  Know what you mean when you wonder quite why they are so good.  I had quite a few civvie shags when younger & some of the girlies seemed very experienced.  My knowledge of punting back that was limited so i didn't connect the two.  i just figured that they'd shagged lots of blokes and liked it

Thing is it wasn't just that she was good, it was the whole way she went about it, the whole session felt like a punt with things happening in a standard punt like order. Felt bizarre at the time. She didn't even speak English at the time so nothing else to do really other than have sex.

 

[webpunter]

Thing is it wasn't just that she was good, it was the whole way she went about it, the whole session felt like a punt with things happening in a standard punt like order. Felt bizarre at the time. She didn't even speak English at the time so nothing else to do really other than have sex.
 

Sounds ideal.  Although IMO the odds are unfortunately decreasing.  But who gives a monkeys 

[Daffodil]

I wouldn't date a current wg or an ex-wg.

If I found out a partner was a wg I'd kick her into touch.

 

[Cuntminion]

I wouldn't date a current wg or an ex-wg.

If I found out a partner was a wg I'd kick her into touch.

 

How come?

[Daffodil]

How come?

Because I don't want to date a girl who has been fucked by half the town.

I also believe once a prossie, always a prossie.

[Cuntminion]

Because I don't want to date a girl who has been fucked by half the town.

I also believe once a prossie, always a prossie.

Every has their preferences, wouldn't bother me, only type I wouldn't touch with a barge pole is a druggie or piss head

[spkmstr48]

Because I don't want to date a girl who has been fucked by half the town.

I also believe once a prossie, always a prossie.

Is that like once a punter always a punter, does that make you undateable too?

 

[Cuntminion]

Is that like once a punter always a punter, does that make you undateable too?

 

 

[anonyorks]

I wouldn't be bothered, after all would she date someone who used to be a punter?. I look at it fluffy style, they are probably a lot safer than a civvy long term.

[Cuntminion]

I wouldn't be bothered, after all would she date someone who used to be a punter?. I look at it fluffy style, they are probably a lot safer than a civvy long term.

Everybody fucks

You could date a woman who has slept with hundreds and not been a wg but that's cool because she was neverv paid?

as you mentioned safety promiscuous on a non professional level people probably take a lot more risks

I  would never judge on past nor present have to be rational on a play by play basis

[spkmstr48]

Everybody fucks

You could date a woman who has slept with hundreds and not been a wg but that's cool because she was neverv paid?

as you mentioned safety promiscuous on a non professional level people probably take a lot more risks

I  would never judge on past nor present have to be rational on a play by play basis

Precisely, I expect next time we fuck up most of us would like to be given a second chance?

 

[Cuntminion]

Precisely, I expect next time we fuck up most of us would like to be given a second chance?

 

Yep. To a degree it's not even fucking up, as long as an individual is honest most things can be worked around


I'm not an idealist but would not write something off at the drop of a hat

[RedKettle]

I would wonder why she was not better at sex? 

[Daffodil]

Is that like once a punter always a punter, does that make you undateable too?

 

I've said just that many times. If a regular women knew I fucked prossies I would be undateable to many, certainly for long term relationships. I understand that completely and is why I keep my punting secret 

[Daffodil]

Everybody fucks

You could date a woman who has slept with hundreds and not been a wg but that's cool because she was neverv paid?

as you mentioned safety promiscuous on a non professional level people probably take a lot more risks

I  would never judge on past nor present have to be rational on a play by play basis

And I would be bothered.

There is a difference. Fucking because you enjoy sex/are attracted to the guy is different from spreading your legs for any old Joe provided they have £60. Not saying either is worse, necessarily, but there is a difference.

But regardless of the difference, being fucked by half the town is being fucked by half the town and I wouldn't go there.

[Type_O_Negative]

Because I don't want to date a girl who has been fucked by half the town.

I also believe once a prossie, always a prossie.

+1

[Tiger63]

I had a relationship with a girl in the late 80s who I knew had been on the game...it didnt bother me at first as she was agreat shag but it started to eat away at me and I left.
If we were out anywhere and she got talking to anyone I had it in my mind that she was setting up a meet.....it had to end.

[hendrix]

Long as my commission was paid, I don't see a problem.

[Type_O_Negative]

"If we were out anywhere and she got talking to anyone I had it in my mind that she was setting up a meet.....it had to end."

Yep, basically it would be all the time in your brain. You couldn't relax because you would think non-stop "What is she doing now?" or "She didn't pick up when i rang her, is she with another man?" and more more. It would make massive build up in your head and one day you couldn't hold your horses anymore and you would explode and split...

No, i couldn't handle it...

[jaltec]

FUCK ME. it was like watching an episode of the view. she lied to him for years and the chicks there are defending her and bashing the guy for reading her emails.

[AnthG]

Wouldn't be able to cope with a wg gf for too long if at all.

If she would quit i wouldn't have a problem with it.

My thoughts on this too.

'Quit' is the crucial word. Wouldn't it be on the back of your mind if she really has quit?

To be honest, I would be a bit hesitant to have sex without a condom and even with that quietly go to the Gum clinic every now and again incase she has went back to this line of work on the quiet. But I would like to think I could handle it well and not mess it all up.

[CaptainRoscoe]

FUCK ME. it was like watching an episode of the view. she lied to him for years and the chicks there are defending her and bashing the guy for reading her emails.

Life has taught me to take most things women say with a pinch of salt. When it comes to lying, especially with infidelity, they will rationalise it no matter what. And of course they're all defending her: birds of a feather. I'm sure they have done or are doing worse. That's why I always look at my s/o friends. Who she surrounds herself with tells me a lot.

Me personally, in the illustrious words of Nino Brown: I'd cancel that bitch.

[madeinwales56]

I was going out with a girl in Dorset for a couple of years who after a while admitted that when she was a struggling, young, single mother used to see some local blokes who would "help her out with the housekeeping" as she put it. I asked her what the difference was between what she did and a prossie and in typical feminine fashion she categorically said it was very different. As it turned out, it seems all the local boys in our village and surrounding areas had fucked her and the ironic thing was she was absolutely shit in bed and her blow job was the most tragic I have experienced.
That's what happens when you date the local bike - the wheels eventually come off.

[Mikeyorks]

When my wife as at uni she never actively advertised as an escort but she did see a few guys in exchange for money. She was up front and honest from the start with me and to be honest I found it a turn on rather than off. Knowing these men were willing to pay good money for what I get for free? Of course it's somethng private between us that nobody else knows about but I don't have a problem with it

[MancSean]

Sounds ideal.  Although IMO the odds are unfortunately decreasing.  But who gives a monkeys 

I hope you are not my brother in law

[Sir Lance-a-lot]

Wouldn't bother me.  Former WG or still on the game, I wouldn't care.  Why should I be jealous of other guys paying to get what I'm getting for free?

Howver, she'd have to be OK with my own punting.  None of that "I'm only doing it for the money" crap.  I refuse to believe that she doesn't actually enjoy having sex with at least some of her clients, so I get to do the same with other WG's.