I see possibly one girl every two/three months or so in a way to try and stop it taking over my life but I have been punting on and off now for 22 years and I have to say it would be so easy to be addicted to it. I am a bit soft arse to be honest and do feel a little guilty about it but the way I bury it is to think of it as interactive porn and that it isn't cheating, I don't care for the girl at all its just a way of living out a fantasy that the mrs wont do.
Interactive porn - like that expression.
When does it become wrong?
Well, before the internet I started with dodgy mags, then chat lines - the ones where you could speak 1 to 1 with other callers - spent hours on those, luckily it was from work phones and they didn't have itemised bills in those days. Then with the advent of the internet, viewing porn videos and then progressing to cams, then paying for private sessions on cam.
Finally the transition to real flesh. A few visits to parlours, then indies, then discovering AW, then UKP. Now pushing the boundaries, older, younger, bigger, smaller, anal, facial, 2 girls, 3 girls, parties, bukkake, MMF, TS, BDSM etc etc. Always in pursuit of the ultimate experience.