Short version: Timewaster. She can't have any excuses. Avoid.
Long version: I contacted her early in the morning for a meeting later the same day. She responded quickly and we agreed a time (4 pm) and the services.
About 2 hours before the meeting she texted saying she wants to run out for a bit and can we postpone it to 5. At this point, I knew this meeting wasn't going to happen. I know it's ridiculous and I keep saying that to myself, but I have to start listening to that feeling. Anyways, I shut that voice down and text back: 5 is ok but please don't make me wait when I come there at 5. She says: ofc not, I'll be back before 4:30 and be ready for you at 5.
I leave around 4 and when I get out of the tube 4:45ish I see a text: "5?" I reply saying I'm almost there and ask for the full address. A few mins past 5 she says she's running late. I call back goes straight to voicemail. I text back saying I'll give her 10 more mins and I'm leaving. I wait around like a tool until 530, all the calls going straight to voicemail meanwhile. I text thanking her for wasting my time and head back home still steaming.. I'm really angry at this. Still. Mostly at myself and a bit at her. I waste 2.5 hours of my life because this lowlife wants to go to Nando's. Not even a text later saying she's sorry and making up a story about her grandmum/best friend/cat dying.
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