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Author Topic: Disappointment 2nd week in a row  (Read 2483 times)

Anyone else received a msg from Lilydelphine cancelling for the foreseeable future?

Offline johnny34

Maybe she is concentrating on her dissertation for uni, shes mentioned it needs to be handed in soon?

Offline LilyD

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Right guys, this is the last thing I'm going to post.
I realise this will not be popular but I have decided to take a break from this industry until I have graduated. I had intended on taking bookings this week and then breaking, however the stress of trying to finish my degree, keep up a positive image for work and provide the service that I expect from myself has finally become too much. I apologise for any disappointment this has caused, however I would rather be criticized for canceling a booking than to take your money when I know that the booking wouldn't be up to the high standards I hope I maintain. 
Those of you who have studied for a degree will understand just how much pressure there is in the last term of uni, and I underestimated the impact that all this would have on my mental wellbeing. Although I absolutely love my job, it does take so much out of you and right now I simply don't have it in me to work. I never just go through the motions with my clients, I approach every booking with the enthusiasm and authenticity I believe every girl should be providing.
OP, I'm very upset that you chose to come straight on here rather than respond to the very heartfelt message I sent you explaining my reasons, however it is obviously your prerogative to do what you feel is fair. If you think I have been unreasonable and would rather I had seen you and not given you the service you deserve, this is obviously your opinion and you are very much entitled to it. However on this occasion I must stand by the fact that I have done the right thing by letting you know in plenty of time, rather than letting you waste your money on a session that would have been a disappointment for both of us.
I realise that this is now most likely going to turn into a huge discussion, but I cannot apologise anymore and if clients can't understand why I have made this decision then I'm afraid there is nothing more I can say on the matter.
Take care guys, see you in a month.
xo
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Offline NEGaz

Good luck hope all goes well  :thumbsup:

Surely no one will criticise her for this, this is her future she is putting first. She sounds like a very sorted young woman who does not want to disappoint punters.
Have met enough WG's who are lacking enthusiasm and happy just to take the money so well done for being up front.

I was just about to book some time with you LilyD, but I totally understand... been there, done that!! Good luck with the dissertation and the remainder of your uni work. Please let us know when you're ready to come back xxxx

Everything that has been said is 100% understandable. I just want to say by starting this post it wasn't meant to criticise in any way at all, literally only to express my own disappointment which is what social media and forums are all about after all. Agreed that this is a line under the whole thing.

Offline johnr1

well said LilyD it is hard work doing a Degree and more important than us punters, its your future in the long run, and you are doing the right thing by concentrating on your studies, all the best with your Degree and have fun later when you will be happy and relaxed working again..... best of luck and I am sure most on here will understand but a little disappointed until you return  :(
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Offline Reeson69

Right guys, this is the last thing I'm going to post.
I realise this will not be popular but I have decided to take a break from this industry until I have graduated. I had intended on taking bookings this week and then breaking, however the stress of trying to finish my degree, keep up a positive image for work and provide the service that I expect from myself has finally become too much. I apologise for any disappointment this has caused, however I would rather be criticized for canceling a booking than to take your money when I know that the booking wouldn't be up to the high standards I hope I maintain. 
Those of you who have studied for a degree will understand just how much pressure there is in the last term of uni, and I underestimated the impact that all this would have on my mental wellbeing. Although I absolutely love my job, it does take so much out of you and right now I simply don't have it in me to work. I never just go through the motions with my clients, I approach every booking with the enthusiasm and authenticity I believe every girl should be providing.
OP, I'm very upset that you chose to come straight on here rather than respond to the very heartfelt message I sent you explaining my reasons, however it is obviously your prerogative to do what you feel is fair. If you think I have been unreasonable and would rather I had seen you and not given you the service you deserve, this is obviously your opinion and you are very much entitled to it. However on this occasion I must stand by the fact that I have done the right thing by letting you know in plenty of time, rather than letting you waste your money on a session that would have been a disappointment for both of us.
I realise that this is now most likely going to turn into a huge discussion, but I cannot apologise anymore and if clients can't understand why I have made this decision then I'm afraid there is nothing more I can say on the matter.
Take care guys, see you in a month.
xo
I would doubt it. Most of us haven't seen you and the world of prostitution doesn't revolve around you.
 

I would doubt it. Most of us haven't seen you and the world of prostitution doesn't revolve around you.

What on earth does this have to do with the op's original  post??
A very odd response to ANY wg.......why did you feel the need to post such drivel?
If you followed  this forum you would realise that what she is stating, is sadly all too true !
« Last Edit: April 24, 2015, 03:22:29 AM by FLYING BLUE »

I would doubt it. Most of us haven't seen you and the world of prostitution doesn't revolve around you.

I suggest you view the previous Neutral review Lily received and the ridiculous and lengthy thread that ensued , she is spot on, thats what happens on here when a popular WG gets a less than Positive review-especially Lily.

I have never seen lily.....
Nor do I go for the over support some of the popular girls get.

However it's a shame it's necessary anyone feels the need to defend themselves in such a manner. She shouldn't be and shouldn't feel she has justify cancelling bookings in good time. "personal reasons" would have been sufficient.




People justify themselves in the best way they see fit, no two people are the same, and I personally take my "horny" hat off to Lily for braving it coming on here to explain herself. I've not yet seen her, she is number 1 on my list and, due to her communications alone, I find her overall exemplary.
« Last Edit: April 24, 2015, 09:33:56 AM by David Larry »

Offline AnthG

She shouldn't be and shouldn't feel she has justify cancelling bookings in good time. "personal reasons" would have been sufficient.

The problem is, the last time she didn't say anything everyone started saying. "Its because she must be a drug dealer and been raided by the police".......

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=44179.0

It seems funny looking back at it now how extreme the conclusions that can be reached when someone popular takes leave from this business. But she is probably wanting to nip anything like that in the bud before it starts by giving the real reason.

(before anyone new to the forum reads the above and jumps to further conclusions, it all stemmed from a news paper article of a student property being raided for drugs. And many people put 2 and 2 together and got 500 thinking this must be the reason why Lilly left as it was around the same time it occured).

Sadly, that's human nature and deciding which way to go about something is, often, a case of you're damned if you do and damned if you don't.

Offline Mansell

I was actually really surprised she was still working, as whilst it might be in the very very distant past, I can remember the stress of a doing your finals. So I had deliberately not tried to book her until I knew she had finished her degree and the stress was over. So completely understand her pulling out.

Mind as has been said I bet this thread drags on !! it's a shame we don;t have a like button like other forums as FB has just tried to put a final post on the other thread and hopefully that will be it ended, but with a like button we could all like his comment and others might get the hint and not post.

So if you like the above DON'T POST and let's leave it !  (for once  :D)

FFS cant there be an end to threads like this...!! she's not working coz she's busy, end of story, all the "good lucks" and "see you soon huns" are pointless..! its ridiculous...!!! you'd think the world was gonna end...  :dash:


It's practically armageddahardon IMO

Offline greychap

FFS cant there be an end to threads like this...!! she's not working coz she's busy, end of story, all the "good lucks" and "see you soon huns" are pointless..! its ridiculous...!!! you'd think the world was gonna end...  :dash:

+1  :thumbsup:

Must say I have a good giggle at this post I was thinking exactly the same.

She does give value for money without a doubt but it does feel a little like the Lilly show and she probably likes it that she gets some men eating out of her hand....don't blame her though she is playing the game to get her through uni.

The reality is though when she does eventually gets a good job with a good income she wont want to be kissing and swallowing old ugly blokes spunk a means to end only.

She is a good actress and I applaud her for that but I bet she is thinking I hate that stinking punter or I hate kissing him and I bet there is a lot of discussions of what punters she hates etc.

Lilly is good at hiding her feelings unlike some other escorts where it shows on there faces. :sarcastic: :sarcastic:

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Offline Looking4fun

+1  :thumbsup:

Must say I have a good giggle at this post I was thinking exactly the same.

She does give value for money without a doubt but it does feel a little like the Lilly show and she probably likes it that she gets some men eating out of her hand....don't blame her though she is playing the game to get her through uni.

The reality is though when she does eventually gets a good job with a good income she wont want to be kissing and swallowing old ugly blokes spunk a means to end only.

She is a good actress and I applaud her for that but I bet she is thinking I hate that stinking punter or I hate kissing him and I bet there is a lot of discussions of what punters she hates etc.

Lilly is good at hiding her feelings unlike some other escorts where it shows on there faces. :sarcastic: :sarcastic:
Great opinion but why do punters think that we're all ugly old men surely theirs some younger guys who punt?

Great opinion but why do punters think that we're all ugly old men surely theirs some younger guys who punt?
I'm a younger punter, we a rare breed or something like?

Offline greychap

Great opinion but why do punters think that we're all ugly old men surely theirs some younger guys who punt?

Of course were not all old and ugly :D

There is some younger guys that punt I have just been told its a lot more older men  that visit then young.

To do with ugly because I am considered  quite an easy punt im not that fussy with what I get as long as someone is reasonably attractive, friendly and chatty that is the main thing I want I get to have lots of conversations with the workers and a lot open up to me as they say your so easy going compared to a lot we get.

So because I am considered an "easy punter" they feel they can confide in me and many have told me they cannot stand a lot of the punters because there cheap skates, want everything for no money have to do owo or cim because every girl bloody does it so there risking there health with no extra money for it and a lot of the punters smell or are ugly and they then go on to say but obviously not you because you are lovely just wish all were like you!!!!

Its interesting having these conversations and knowing what they really think of most punters and I think the only reason I get told this is because I suppose I am considered an easy punter for them not because they really like me just because I am not demanding.
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Offline greychap

I have even had a lot of "the popular girls" say similar things to me that's is how I know some of these girls are very good at fooling the punters and being quite good at being an actress.

Saying that though punters just want a decent time with the services they require for the money they pay so as long as they get that from the actresses does it really matter what most girls think of the punters it is only a business transaction after all nothing else (well for most anyway)
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Offline greychap

I have never seen lily.....
Nor do I go for the over support some of the popular girls get.

However it's a shame it's necessary anyone feels the need to defend themselves in such a manner. She shouldn't be and shouldn't feel she has justify cancelling bookings in good time. "personal reasons" would have been sufficient.

She does not have to come on here she chose to come on here.

She could have put a note on her AW profile saying off why she studies and no doubt if she told a few regs that she knows are on here the word would have got around like it always does.
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