Relationships with escorts do they work?

[MancSean]

Ones that want to live off her earnings from my experience. That's why in my case I entered a relationship with her after she gave up hookering

[willmo1]

Whenever a girl tells about her significant others after a punt (and it sounds like the guy knows she escorts). I always wonder what kind of fellow wouldn't mind his gf fucking strangers everyday and all the time doing all sort of things to her

Yeh. Agree.

Money the girl makes is alot of it.

[Punting Valley]

Ones that want to live off her earnings from my experience. That's why in my case I entered a relationship with her after she gave up hookering

I know I can't cope with the jealousy (and possibly resentment), not even if I am living off her earnings.... That's why punters must not develop EAS. These guys who are in a relationship with active escorts are like EAS but without the negative effect  I actually have quite a lot of respect for them that they can put up with it

[charming_red]

They'll only work if you're a millionaire. Or at least longer than most. Its the only way to keep them (and their families) happy.

From reading people's experiences with them it seems these women are pretty psychotic. Once the money runs dry their hot tempered nature will almost certainly come out.

[Ben4454]

Why on earth would you want a relationship with a prossie? This is what civvie's are for.

[squeezebox]

They'll only work if you're a millionaire. Or at least longer than most. Its the only way to keep them (and their families) happy.

From reading people's experiences with them it seems these women are pretty psychotic. Once the money runs dry their hot tempered nature will almost certainly come out.

That would also apply to the civvie's too.

Women are nest builders, so if that is threatened in anyway, even if it's something out of your control, they then become insecure. If they are not confident enough to find another nest builder, then their frustration is unleashed upon you.   

[midspunt69]

Why on earth would you want a relationship with a prossie? This is what civvie's are for.

What if her she was a prossie in her past and nobody knew?
I have a feeling many girls n AW who hide their face will adopt this, when they do get into a relationship after whoring I bet they will delibaretly leave that part out

[Ben4454]

A working girl isn't exactly going to be the most committed girl in relationships. A percentage of girls work even though they have partners and the partners do not know. Personally I do not do relationships or marriage so this isn't something that I will consider but to me it seems like a really silly idea.

[spkmstr48]

What if her she was a prossie in her past and nobody knew?
I have a feeling many girls n AW who hide their face will adopt this, when they do get into a relationship after whoring I bet they will delibaretly leave that part out

Snigger, just worked out how you'd know. She'd be the girl who didn't ask you how many girls you'd slept with, too afraid to be asked the same question.

[midspunt69]

Snigger, just worked out how you'd know. She'd be the girl who didn't ask you how many girls you'd slept with, too afraid to be asked the same question.

Haha that could be true would be an awkward question
Prossiesmare women doing s job so like someone else said its like asking donrelationships with women work.

[midspunt69]

A working girl isn't exactly going to be the most committed girl in relationships. A percentage of girls work even though they have partners and the partners do not know. Personally I do not do relationships or marriage so this isn't something that I will consider but to me it seems like a really silly idea.

You don't know whether she would be committed or not u would say a job doesn't define a person
Any woman with any job could not be committed in a relationship

You could say the same about punters really
I'm a cheating bastard 

[CanterburyGent]

If she would quit the job then it might be an option. Else I couldn`t bare the though of other man fucking her!

[spkmstr48]

If she would quit the job then it might be an option. Else I couldn`t bare the though of other man fucking her!

Don't you think that's a tad hypocritical?

[Ben4454]

You don't know whether she would be committed or not u would say a job doesn't define a person
Any woman with any job could not be committed in a relationship

You could say the same about punters really
I'm a cheating bastard 

You talk as if punting is a regular 9 to 5. You just justified that really. With that logic you are saying that you would only cheat on your partner with escorts and wouldn't touch a civvie ? Because punting doesn't define your commitment to relationships. If shes fucking for £70-100 her resolve in a real life situation will not be as high as a regular civvie. Lets be honest though even some civvie's resolves are not that high anyway.

Plus in my 11 years of punting I have never heard of a escort relationship ending happily ever after.

[midspunt69]

You talk as if punting is a regular 9 to 5. You just justified that really. With that logic you are saying that you would only cheat on your partner with escorts and wouldn't touch a civvie ? Because punting doesn't define your commitment to relationships. If shes fucking for £70-100 her resolve in a real life situation will not be as high as a regular civvie. Lets be honest though even some civvie's resolves are not that high anyway.

Plus in my 11 years of punting I have never heard of a escort relationship ending happily ever after.

In my 30 years of marriage the onlyfemales I've fucked behind her back have been escorts
I'm sure there are many relstionships where the woman used to be a prossie and they are living happily ever after. Those relationships are probably the ones where the girl has kept her prossie past a secret. I think relationships where the prossie is open about her past or still whoring the relationship is more likely to fail

[midspunt69]

Don't you think that's a tad hypocritical?

+1

[Sparquin]

They can be made to work, but you have to try very hard to come to terms with your emotions.  Jealousy is a terribly destructive thing and if you cannot handle it then the relationship is doomed.

I have a close relationship with a WG and I enjoy it enormously. It has taken a long time to establish what sort of relationship we are comfortable with.  During that time I learned things about myself and feel I am actually more emotionally mature and rounded as a result. I like who I am when we are together.

Money still changes hands as otherwise I would be having an affair, which I do not want, contrived as it sounds. However my life is much richer for her presence in it and I do not regret what I have done.

On balance I would have to say this relationship has required more work than if she were a civvy, so anyone contemplating a WG relationship should be prepared to put in a lot of effort.

[Ben4454]

In my 30 years of marriage the onlyfemales I've fucked behind her back have been escorts
I'm sure there are many relstionships where the woman used to be a prossie and they are living happily ever after. Those relationships are probably the ones where the girl has kept her prossie past a secret. I think relationships where the prossie is open about her past or still whoring the relationship is more likely to fail

Are you seriously telling me that if some random bird came up to you and offered it to you on a plate and was bang tidy and hot you wouldn't do it ?

In my experience as well once a cheater always a cheater. Once a punter - always a punter.

[threechilliman]

A working girl isn't exactly going to be the most committed girl in relationships. A percentage of girls work even though they have partners and the partners do not know.

Not entirely true. I've met two parlour girls recently who've been working for more than 10 years who are happily married with kids. Their partners have no idea what they do for a living. My jaw hung slack when they told me!

Which begs the question. Do you know what your partner does for a living?

tcm

[Watts.E.Dunn]

 Humm;.....

External Link/Members Only

From the FAQ..

What can I do if I fall in love with a Venus Escort?

If you fall in love with her and the lady adores you too, you could start the relationship by booking her exclusively as described above.
The young lady would appreciate your support and see that you are seriously interested in her and not trying to get her "for free" (as some do) so she would not have to fear "wasting her time". This would be the ideal way to see if your relationship works out.

VenusEscorts™ has already arranged the start of several happy relationships.

[CanterburyGent]

Don't you think that's a tad hypocritical?

What you don`t know ....can`t hurt you

[HappyandLucky]

Humm;.....

External Link/Members Only

From the FAQ..

What can I do if I fall in love with a Venus Escort?

If you fall in love with her and the lady adores you too, you could start the relationship by booking her exclusively as described above.
The young lady would appreciate your support and see that you are seriously interested in her and not trying to get her "for free" (as some do) so she would not have to fear "wasting her time". This would be the ideal way to see if your relationship works out.

VenusEscorts™ has already arranged the start of several happy relationships.

What a load of shit. LMFAO 
Obviously the agency are on the  scale

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Well happy and lucky you may well say that but some years ago I punted in differing circles to what I do these days, very  differing circumstances and a lot of the girls from that agency did just that but the punters they had were very rich men who thought nothing at all of blowing several Grand on a punt not hundreds but thousands.

I don't think they looked at AW for available women!. Thats for sure.

Anyone remember Yolanda from that site?, a Six foot tall German lady stunning looker meant to meet up with her but just couldn't get a reason to go to Germany I know some who did tho, and she sure broke a LOT of hearts!.

Sod me just did a google and shes still around!!

Albeit over in the USA!.

External Link/Members Only

[pianodave]

Bumping this thread because a semi-regular of mine has asked me out on a non-paid meet, which I suppose in the real world would be a date.

She actually suggested this before - we have met up for off-the-clock drink and a chat before now, and she is good fun. I am of course extremely cynical, but it does seem she genuinely would like to spend some social time with me. I think she might be a bit loney/bored.

I don't see any problem, although it is an odd situation - she realised this would probably lead to sex anyway, and so it's a weird thing to negotiate, since she knows I'm prepared to pay her, so why give it away?

I left the ball in her court, and said if she wanted to meet for a drink or free fuck that was fine, and she could dictate the time and events etc rather than me. If I were to take the initiative, it would be odd - basically asking to book her without having to pay. Bizarrely she seemed sad at this, saying it seemed like I didn't want to meet.

No interest in a relationship with her, but despite my very high level of cynicism, I do think it's possible we simply get on well, and she enjoys chatting, which is fair enough - even WGs are human, so we shall see. I'll probably meet up with her sometime for a drink, and if she wants to fuck afterwards, that's up to her. A very complex scenario, once money has changed hands, I think.

[DanDingle]

Great thread. I must have spent an hour reading it all - thanks for starting GeordieJay and MancSean for a frank and open account of what happened.

Definitely something i think all of us must think about at one stage or another  - especially after an amazing punt or where you both seem to click.
The girls obviously have lives away from work, though i genuinely question how they or their partners live with what happens at 'work' every day. It'd tear you apart to know the women you love is getting fucked by countless random guys each day.

The only logical solution i see working is a pimp or fuck-buddy type relationship - different situations i know but anything else will almost certainly leave you broken financial or emotionally

[Sammy_the_bull]

@ best most are lying bitches so yes they would lead a double deciving lives.
@ best they wont last long.

NOW if by mistaken mistake and a big no no mistake you want to start one. Name me in your will before you begin. thats how bad it is.

i have seen and heard a few.

i was about to be burnt in one too.

short of it is she got 6 to 8 years and i was so lucky what ever they did with me is NOT on my CRB anymore.

emotional blackmail and usages is first thing they learn.

they have hearts of stone as they go deeper and deeper into the business.

sad pcityure i know then again look at what industry it is.

[Cuntminion]

Anything can work it's just about willing

If they can send a monkey to space anything is possible

Maybe it's the fluffy in me but I certainly don't define someone by what they do and don't see wg as a purchased commodity, fuck it everyone deserves to be a little happy if someone can make it work good luck to them

[spkmstr48]

Anything can work it's just about willing

If they can send a monkey to space anything is possible

Maybe it's the fluffy in me but I certainly don't define someone by what they do and don't see wg as a purchased commodity, fuck it everyone deserves to be a little happy if someone can make it work good luck to them

Wouldn't bother me if my gf fucked guys for money

[Hyperchicken]

I'm sure of the right people were happy with the right situation it would work, but quite a few things would have to fall in line for that to be the case.

[Cuntminion]

Wouldn't bother me if my gf fucked guys for money

Probably wouldn't bother me but am I lazy or emotionally detached

Just look at it like someone's doing the job for you so you can kick back and watch some game of thrones

[pianodave]

I think I would mind.

I am very non-judgemental, and open-minded. But I remember a serious gf admitting to me once she had fucked 500+ guys, and despite my best efforts, I did mind.

Anyway, we shall see. She has messaged me twice today and seems very keen to meet off the clock, so the ball is in her court. It's often said on here, you can tell if she really likes you by asking for a free meet, no money involved. She has offered, I have accepted, so let's see if it actually happens.. If it does, I will treat her as a civvie and deal with her as an honest individual. If not, I shall continue to book her as a paid, acting WG and treat her as such.

My cynical hat is firmly in place.

[Gothic D]

In my experience it will not last as they are all two faced,lieing,manipulative,back stabbing bitches.They will tell you what you want to hear,promise the earth and then fuck your head up as soon as they feel like it.
Just my opinion,for what it's worth.

[Grumbleguts]

In a word "NO"

[ampersand]

I think I would mind.

I am very non-judgemental, and open-minded. But I remember a serious gf admitting to me once she had fucked 500+ guys, and despite my best efforts, I did mind.

That is a serious number for a civvy - equates to one a week (every week) for 10 years!!

[Oberyn1]

Considering the amount of guys these women fuck every day, how can they still stay horny to fuck their pimps/boyfriends/husbands? I don't believe they are constantly horny like their profiles suggest. There must come a point where they're just exhausted and get fed up of fucking every day.

[Cuntminion]

Considering the amount of guys these women fuck every day, how can they still stay horny to fuck their pimps/boyfriends/husbands? I don't believe they are constantly horny like their profiles suggest. There must come a point where they're just exhausted and get fed up of fucking every day.

Probably , I like biscuits but I wouldn't steam ten a day seven days a week

#fluffy warning#

I imagine for a relationship outside a wg day job has got to be more there than fucking and this would be accepted by both sides for it to work

How many married couples fuck day in day out after ten years of marriage ?
Relationships that work have to be more than just sex

[purple_t]

I could not do it. Even with an ex-WG. Enjoyed reading this thread though.

[Aspen]

Considering the amount of guys these women fuck every day, how can they still stay horny to fuck their pimps/boyfriends/husbands? I don't believe they are constantly horny like their profiles suggest. There must come a point where they're just exhausted and get fed up of fucking every day.

I agree completely.

I even had one tell me that she hadn't fucked her BF for months because she couldn't be arsed to do it when she got home after doing it all day. I found that quite appalling and actually I asked what do you say when he complains. She said he doesn't, because he knows he has no choice. Stupid guy, fancy staying with someone who treats you like that.

[tintin054]

I had a punt once where the girl was actually texting her boyfriend while i was fucking her. I was a bit shocked but also quite turned on at the same time. Can't really criticize though as i'm married.

[Aspen]

I have always wondered, do you think most guys who visit working girls find it harder to, not just date normal girls, but get intimate with them? For e.g. you are visiting wg's who are amazing at pleasing you, but then you get to the bedroom with a normal girl and your expectations are lowered so much because you find the latter just cannot press your buttons the same way as a wg can.

That's a very good point. I've not got very far with a normal girl since I've got used to WG's taking the initiative. Normal girls also quite naturally expect a lot more from you and that can be a bit challenging when you don't yet know what they like.

[Aspen]

I had a punt once where the girl was actually texting her boyfriend while i was fucking her. I was a bit shocked but also quite turned on at the same time. Can't really criticize though as i'm married.

Do you need to criticise? It's called multi-tasking.

I had a similar situation with one taking the next booking on the phone, and I have to say it was fun. I made sure the guy on the other end could hear what was going on.

[Sparta Prada]

As a married punter, I have no interest in a relationship with a wg at all.

However this thread has reminded me that the last time I saw one of my favourites she told me that she was dating a guy IRL. When I pushed her on the subject she admitted that it was a customer who asked her out. She says that her expectations (in terms of a long term relationship) are low. But good luck to them!

[melk]

I agree completely.

I even had one tell me that she hadn't fucked her BF for months because she couldn't be arsed to do it when she got home after doing it all day. I found that quite appalling and actually I asked what do you say when he complains. She said he doesn't, because he knows he has no choice. Stupid guy, fancy staying with someone who treats you like that.

But not all wg's work long shifts everyday. I don't think i could consider dating a full time escort for the same reasons that have been ponted out, but what about those who do it part time? In fact, i have found that i click much better with wg's who work/study as a main activity and only escort as a side fun thing which also pays well. They appear to have found a nice balance between the two jobs and i'd be inclined to believe that a relationship is more likely to work.

[peter_bungee]

Don't go there!!  How they are in the booking is not their real self, the reality is that most are insecure, bitches, with a non-convential attitude to relationships and life.   I made the mistake of falling for one and we went on holiday together (non paid but i still paid expenses) and she was a nightmare!  Complete retard, totally clueless and no rational behaviour.  ALl from her upbringing and messed up family life

[Clooney]

I was in a relationship with a very part time WG for 3 years.

The factor in our break up had nothing to do with her being a WG. It can happen.

Not all WGs are the lying, scheming harpies some on this thread suggest.

Not all punters are sad pathetic 'marks' who are there for the taking.

In my case, we both knew and understood the realities of the dynamic.

We are still very fond of one another to this day, but in the end other things did for our relationship.

[spkmstr48]

I was in a relationship with a very part time WG for 3 years.

The factor in our break up had nothing to do with her being a WG. It can happen.

Not all WGs are the lying, scheming harpies some on this thread suggest.

Not all punters are sad pathetic 'marks' who are there for the taking.

In my case, we both knew and understood the realities of the dynamic.

We are still very fond of one another to this day, but in the end other things did for our relationship.

Well said, too much stereotyping going on, everyone is an individual I treat people as I find them and not some preconception.

 

[Quesadilla]

I was in a relationship with a very part time WG for 3 years.

The factor in our break up had nothing to do with her being a WG. It can happen.

Not all WGs are the lying, scheming harpies some on this thread suggest.

Not all punters are sad pathetic 'marks' who are there for the taking.

In my case, we both knew and understood the realities of the dynamic.

We are still very fond of one another to this day, but in the end other things did for our relationship.

+1 - my experience of wg's bears no relation to the stereotype - but then I look for qualities in a wg much the same as I do in a civvy - intelligence, humour, confidence without arrogance.  As a result I have taken many wg's out on non-paid dates, weekends away, longer vacations, and could not find anything different in them vs civvy women I've dated.  My experience is they tend to be just much more pragmatic generally, and of course more relaxed about sex.

I have no issue dating an ex wg but as I am completely monogamous could not date an active escort - just not for me.

[Cuntminion]

Well said, too much stereotyping going on, everyone is an individual I treat people as I find them and not some preconception.

 

+1

[closeshave]

If you find someone give it a go.  Don't give up the chance that it might work.  Have no regrets about trying.

Good luck to those that try.

[spkmstr48]

If you find someone give it a go.  Don't give up the chance that it might work.  Have no regrets about trying.

Good luck to those that try.

That's a fairly random thought and another generalisation