Well, turns out the prevalent view that they are all potty and incapable of normal friendships/relationships seems to be right.
Thursday night my regular was very keen to see me again, texting how horny she was and how she didn't want money just to meet up.
So against my better judgement I thought, what the hell, and we went for a few soft drinks. She spent the whole time talking about herself, about her latest violent incidents, her life in general, and most of all the many blokes she had fucked lately, her bf, various random men, someone she met in the street and of course her bookings. She kept stroking my leg and flirting a lot.
After that we went back to hers for a coffee, and she sat next to me and gave me an obvious come on. I kissed her and she kissed back, and took her knickers off and we were fooling around, her getting very wet and met very hard, as one might expect. At that point she told me she didn't want sex as she wasn't in the mood!
Ok I thought, back off a bit. Chatted a bit more and ended up kissing again, but she was clearly now in a strop and I didn't fancy being subject to a false rape charge now even if she changed her mind, so I gave up and asked what was up and she said she just wasn't in the mood today and had to go home as she had to be somewhere soon. Fine, said goodbye and she left.
An hour or some later she left three messages on my voicemail clearly furious, about how I was no different to any other man, all I wanted was sex and I wasn't interested in her as a person.
Well firstly, I spent 2 hours chatting to her and listening to all her life stories and problems. Secondly she knows I like fucking her since I pay for it. Thirdly she was well aware what would happen and should have made it clear if she wasn't up for it. And lastly, she could have kept her knickers on if she really wasn't in the mood.
I have no idea what is going on in her head, and I can't be bothered to try to work it out, but clearly she gets off on using sex as a control mechanism of some kind, or just likes drama and attention. Either way, I can't be bothered with this kind of crap, number deleted, I lose my regular and she loses my ongoing cash. A total lose-lose result for all involved.
An interesting experience, but a lesson reinforced: they are all completely bonkers. Pay them, fuck them, and get the fuck away.