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306

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My near favourite wg when asked how many punters you like out of ten vists replied
2 i like and 3 are ok out of 10 punters
That sort of odds make a wg job super hard and i can now understand how their heads get fucked up ( and quickly too if they are trying to make £500 a day after costs )
Any one else care to comment ?

Offline Jack_soa

I don't know if any of mine like me, Im always "nice" and polite to them but I imagine im not the sort they usually go for in thier civvie life. I think it does take a special breed of person to distance yourself enough to go through with it, on our side and thier's (moreso thier's), and too many times we see a girl who sees the cash and dives in inevitably providing a terrible service. Im paying them about a days pay for an hour, if they can't fake it for that long they should really look to other jobs and forget the money. I think its a "You either have it or you don't" situation to be able to deal with the issues surrounding the job.
 :hi:

Offline Marmalade

About as meaningful as "How many customers does my newsagents like?"

I mean I hope he has a nice life, doesn't get mugged, sells the stuff I want to buy and is civil and polite or even 'friendly' in a colloquial sense. I personally think I'm a decent human being but not so insecure that I need his opinion on it.

Do I like my own 'customers'? Well some are less hassle than others, hence better value for me; some are more pleasant and some very pleasant. My relationship is based on matching what I want to offer to what they validly want. That's what I 'like'. I like doing honest business. It's logistics, not personal really. A few are genuinely friends outside of business. Many just like the 'friendliness' which I suppose is part of my business in a similar way to gfe being part of a WG's business. Worrying about whether she 'likes' me is not really healthy if I give it more than a few seconds reflection.
« Last Edit: April 19, 2015, 04:46:02 pm by Marmalade »

MrBridger

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About as meaningful as "How many customers does my newsagents like?"

Except that your newsagent doesn't let his customers stick their dicks in him (or at least I assume not). That's something that you only usually do with someone you really like. Sex work is not just another business, so I don't buy your reasoning. I agree that they must all have some tough experiences, more so for those who for whatever reason have limited choice in who they see.

306, given that you have repeatedly referred to this girl as your 'near favourite' or 'second favourite', I wonder which category you fall into with her? Has she told you? :thumbsup: or  :thumbsdown:
« Last Edit: April 27, 2015, 12:55:14 am by MrBridger »

Offline smiths

My near favourite wg when asked how many punters you like out of ten vists replied
2 i like and 3 are ok out of 10 punters
That sort of odds make a wg job super hard and i can now understand how their heads get fucked up ( and quickly too if they are trying to make £500 a day after costs )
Any one else care to comment ?

WGs are paid to offer a service, sucking and fucking punters, they get well paid for doing so unlike many people who don't enjoy what they do to make money but get paid poorly.

If a WG really doesn't like being a WG as an adult she is 100% responsible for changing her life if she so chooses to. I don't agree being a WG is super hard, working as a labourer on minimum wage is what I class as hard.

306

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i hope i fall in to a nice to see punter  box :yahoo:
as  she always phones me when back in this country working again
and gives me a reduced overnite rate .
she does say how much do you want to pay ? for o/nite
i like to think i am her best customer  but who am i to say
maybe /maybe not  only guide i have is i will/will not see you again  :timeout:
every thing else is anyones guess

Offline Marmalade

Except that your newsagent doesn't let his customers stick their dicks in him (or at least I assume not). That's something that you only usually do with someone you really like. Sex work is not just another business, so I don't buy your reasoning. I agree that they must all have some tough experiences, more so for those who for whatever reason have limited choice in who they see.

No business is just another business and there again it is just another business. It's not to do with whether it involves genital contact, it's to do with the fact that it's the person's job, what they do for a living. I had a best mate who decided to be a prossie for six months and she did indeed think it was a job like any other only better paid. The same for the few prossies I've dated with over the years. Likeable and less likeable punters are on the same sort of scale as having a good morning at the office and a less good one. Punters pay a lot of money and think it's all about them. Really it's not. And it's not to do with whether she's a nice person or a callous cow, it's just that the punters are just customers, and it's not that different from anyone else looking after a customer base.

She'll quite likely have humorous names for her regulars just to remember which one is which. She probably does a better job some days when she's feeling on form than other days. She looks after her customers but that's what they are, customers. Not friends. Not 'lovers.' Not 'people in her social circle.' Not people she facebooks. Customers. Geddit?? There's nothing intrinsically good or bad about it. Punters aren't 'special.' They're her living.

If a top hotel receptionist suddenly decided to let you put your dick in her for money, then it would be a biggish deal quite probably. Just as it would if a prossie had to do her job for a day. But do it day in day out and it's a job. Actually come to think of of, I know a hotel receptionist who worked as a prossie when things got quiet so maybe it's not a case of the earth moving. Sex to you is special cos you don't have it as often as you want, you pay quite a bit of money for it, put in anticipation and have wee head-games to yourself before and after, all part of the fun, but that's a punter's experience. To the prossie, it's a job. You're the customer. And there's not really an awful lot of shit going on very often about liking and not liking punters all that much. That seems hard for some people to understand.
« Last Edit: April 27, 2015, 12:17:11 pm by Marmalade »

Offline threechilliman

No business is just another business and there again it is just another business. It's not to do with whether it involves genital contact, it's to do with the fact that it's the person's job, what they do for a living. I had a best mate who decided to be a prossie for six months and she did indeed think it was a job like any other only better paid. The same for the few prossies I've dated with over the years. Likeable and less likeable punters are on the same sort of scale as having a good morning at the office and a less good one. Punters pay a lot of money and think it's all about them. Really it's not. And it's not to do with whether she's a nice person or a callous cow, it's just that the punters are just customers, and it's not that different from anyone else looking after a customer base.

She'll quite likely have humorous names for her regulars just to remember which one is which. She probably does a better job some days when she's feeling on form than other days. She looks after her customers but that's what they are, customers. Not friends. Not 'lovers.' Not 'people in her social circle.' Not people she facebooks. Customers. Geddit?? There's nothing intrinsically good or bad about it. Punters aren't 'special.' They're her living.

If a top hotel receptionist suddenly decided to let you put your dick in her for money, then it would be a biggish deal quite probably. Just as it would if a prossie had to do her job for a day. But do it day in day out and it's a job. Actually come to think of of, I know a hotel receptionist who worked as a prossie when things got quiet so maybe it's not a case of the earth moving. Sex to you is special cos you don't have it as often as you want, you pay quite a bit of money for it, put in anticipation and have wee head-games to yourself before and after, all part of the fun, but that's a punter's experience. To the prossie, it's a job. You're the customer. And there's not really an awful lot of shit going on very often about liking and not liking punters all that much. That seems hard for some people to understand.

Very well put. For me, that's exactly how it is.

tcm

greychap

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My near favourite wg when asked how many punters you like out of ten vists replied
2 i like and 3 are ok out of 10 punters
That sort of odds make a wg job super hard and i can now understand how their heads get fucked up ( and quickly too if they are trying to make £500 a day after costs )
Any one else care to comment ?

They don't like that many punters.

If your very polite and don't expect loads for your money and tend to leave early before time up then the wg will like you if you want your moneys worth and are quite demanding expect the wg to be thinking thoughts of you having a heart attack and dropping dead :lol: :lol:

Offline bestbefore

They only like your money.

They don't like you. Get real.

unclesweetheart

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They only like your money.

They don't like you. Get real.

They certainly like their money. Who wouldn't? But escorts are human beings, for goodness sake, and are bound to like some of their clients. Plenty of stuff on SAAFE to show how this is true. Some punters are likeable guys. Some are aresholes. Screening presumeably weeds out some of the latter. You are of course paying to be liked, so the degree of sincerity can't ever be clear. But if a popular girl chooses to see you as a regular, when she could be seeing someone else, it's a fair bet that she doesn't think you're an arse. 

306

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so this coment gives you a true answer does the wg like you?

 Some punters are likeable guys. Some are aresholes. Screening presumeably weeds out some of the latter. You are of course paying to be liked, so the degree of sincerity can't ever be clear. But if a popular girl chooses to see you as a regular, when she could be seeing someone else, it's a fair bet that she doesn't think you're an arse.

everyone if they can chooses the best deal for themselves wg included

Offline threechilliman

They certainly like their money. Who wouldn't? But escorts are human beings, for goodness sake, and are bound to like some of their clients. Plenty of stuff on SAAFE to show how this is true. Some punters are likeable guys. Some are aresholes. Screening presumeably weeds out some of the latter. You are of course paying to be liked, so the degree of sincerity can't ever be clear. But if a popular girl chooses to see you as a regular, when she could be seeing someone else, it's a fair bet that she doesn't think you're an arse.

One girl I've seen several times said 'she enjoys all her meets, some more than others obviously!'

As I know she likes a vigorous fucking, I guess it relates to punter performance with her. She is a swinger turned working girl - one of a rare breed that actually enjoys getting fucked by random blokes!

tcm

taplow

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Just because she's taking the money it doesn't necessarily mean that she won't like any of her customers.  A punter could turn up and she'll think, "oh no, not this one again," but then later on someone else will turn up and this time she'll think, "Oh no, not this one again." 
Yeah, come to think of it, she probably won't really like any of her customers except in the sense of "oh, good, it's him, this is some easy money."
It's different for me though.  I know in that in my case most of the ladies don't dislike me, that's until they meet me of course.     

Offline Norman8796

A tricky topic. Some people like to be liked, some men like to be liked by other men and don't care whether women like them or not and vice versa. I don't enjoy it unless I feel liked. I am one end of the spectrum, the other end of the spectrum views it as a commercial transaction. I can see both points of view but am not sure that denial of emotion is particularly healthy or sustainable.

Offline virtualplayer

A tricky topic. Some people like to be liked, some men like to be liked by other men and don't care whether women like them or not and vice versa. I don't enjoy it unless I feel liked. I am one end of the spectrum, the other end of the spectrum views it as a commercial transaction. I can see both points of view but am not sure that denial of emotion is particularly healthy or sustainable.

I entirely agree with this.

I know it is a financial transaction. I pay them they fuck me. But at the same time I also enjoy feeling like and pleasuring whoever I am having sex with be that a wg, a swinger, a civvie.

Ideally I'd like to think I am liked / preferred client who they enjoy seeing, not too much effort to please and polite, clean and on time.

But it is always about the money

spkmstr48

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In reality this is a thread asking a question looking for a simple answer that doesn't exist. There are as many answers as there are WGs.

They are real people and as such will get on more with some people than they do with others. Is it a job? Yes. Do we all like the people we meet through work? No. Do we all like the same percentage of the people we meet through work? No.

At the end of the day though it's not healthy to go to a WG with the expectation of being liked. I just try to be pleasant and polite. Always clean and enjoy the experience for what it is.

There's no secret formula, no predictable outcome,  welcome to the human race.

Samia-x

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They only like your money.

They don't like you. Get real.

Not necessarily always true! A guy who used to come to me came back a few times and we ended up great friends. He wallpapered and painted my lounge and we even go for nights out together!
Maybe I'm just one of the lucky ones but I genuinely like 99 percent of my clients   :)

Offline closeshave

He did your lounge

You did well from him

Offline superchamp

Not necessarily always true! A guy who used to come to me came back a few times and we ended up great friends. He wallpapered and painted my lounge and we even go for nights out together!
Maybe I'm just one of the lucky ones but I genuinely like 99 percent of my clients   :)

And the other one per cent you tell them you've got the painters in.  :D

Samia-x

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I did pay him! I'm not a complete arsehole hehe.
Lol, I re read my comment after writing it and thought oh Christ, sounds like a euphemism  :sarcastic:

Offline mf_1101

Depends how you define "Like".

Like as in "Will be friends outside of the booking?" - Probably could be with some, but why would you? In my life I wouldn't want to be connected to an escort in my social circle, nor I doubt an escort would want to be to a client.
Like as in they find you sexually attractive?" - Majority will not, unless you're a stud but even then it probably won't effect the performance too much.
Like as in they think you're a decent person - In my line of work, you get clients you like to deal with as they're polite or upbeat or understanding and I imagine same applies for escorts but would you hang out with them after work? Nope.
Like as in you're a fluffy cunt? - You buy them gifts, give them extras and write expansive poetry for reviews, they probably like you as a client, depends on the girl I reckon, if their ego is so massive they probably don't like you but the attention, if they're your normal down to earth WG getting all this attention, they might appreciate it or they might see through you as a fluffy cunt.

Of course a lot depends on the girl themselves, if they have a poor attitude it's quite obvious they don't like you at all and are unlikely to like any of their clients if they're given such poor service.

My two pennies. Personally I won't lose sleep if my favourite WG doesn't like me at all because at the end of the day I give her money and she sucks my cock, she doesn't have to accept my cash so I pass the only test I care about - the test where WG's will accept my bookings as I don't come across as a timewaster or dangerous man. Don't care otherwise.
« Last Edit: April 27, 2015, 08:56:19 pm by mf_1101 »

Offline Roth

Don't give a fuck and not worth thinking about.   :timeout:

If they take my money and allow me to dump my man fat then I don't care if the love me or hate me.   :lol: :lol: Their problem not mine.  :timeout:

Type_O_Negative

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TBH it's hard to give a clear answer. We are humans and we are different. Off course prossies have easier life with mannerly punters and may create that ilussion they like them.

On the opposite side - when prossies have to deal with rude dirty old bastards - pecunia non olet may apply.

taplow

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Money may not stink but some punters do.

Offline mf_1101

Money may not stink but some punters do.

Depends where the punter stores the money...or the prossie  ;)

Offline Marmalade

I did pay him! I'm not a complete arsehole hehe.
So what is the current word at med school for "toutin' wee cunt?"  :hi:

Offline Roth

TBH it's hard to give a clear answer. We are humans and we are different. Off course prossies have easier life with mannerly punters and may create that ilussion they like them.

On the opposite side - when prossies have to deal with rude dirty old bastards - pecunia non olet may apply.

All true.  :thumbsup:

Punter = Income  :wackogirl: :wackogirl:
 

Offline the fitter

My near favourite wg when asked how many punters you like out of ten vists replied
2 i like and 3 are ok out of 10 punters
That sort of odds make a wg job super hard and i can now understand how their heads get fucked up ( and quickly too if they are trying to make £500 a day after costs )
Any one else care to comment ?
My head's fucked up with my job, and I don't get £500 a day.

Offline bestbefore

Every waiter in a restaurant likes you. I mean REALLY likes you. They ask how you are, have you had a nice day, where you are from, how is the food, they smile, they laugh at your jokes, they mop up your spillages.

See if they still like you if you don't give them a tip!

If an escort says she likes you. Try asking her for a freebie!

Please guys, get real.


Samia-x

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Most likely things to make a WG dislike you :
1) pushing boundaries/acting like you're OWED something we don't offer e.g bareback. They go straight on my black list as I'll never feel comfortable with them again in case they try it.
2) bad hygiene, and ignoring tactful suggestions to shower etc., then wondering why our oral is not hugely enthusiastic. If I wanted cheese I'd have it with wine, not off a strangers cock.
3) haggling/asking for discounts before first meet. I appreciate it's a lot of money to pay but if you don't have enough disposable income, don't punt!
4) nosy questions. If we feel comfortable enough with you to offer up facts about our life we will do so, I never ask people about their life unless they bring it up themselves and expect men to do the same!

Apart from that, looks, age etc. really does not come in to it. A lot of the time I would rather an older gentleman with a bit of experience. I'm 19 myself and once met a 19 year old punter, felt like I was sleeping with a school boy!  :vomit:

Samia-x

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So what is the current word at med school for "toutin' wee cunt?"  :hi:


Oh honey please, what need would I have to tout ive just started my 10 week break  :yahoo:
Not the best time for advertising!

Offline bestbefore

Most likely things to make a WG dislike you :
3) haggling/asking for discounts before first meet. I appreciate it's a lot of money to pay but if you don't have enough disposable income, don't punt!

Absolute nonsense. Most girls pitch their prices way too high because some suckers will pay that. Most girls will offer a discount if you ask. Willingly. Try posting a RB and you will see. One girl with an overnight rate of £800 saw me for £300. No problems at all - she even stayed for breakfast. Drank me out of brandy though...


carefree

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"How many punters does a wg like"........

Errrrr, i couldnt give a monkey toss.

We are pounds and pence to them, no more no less and any fluffies out there who think otherwise are sadly deluded.

306

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if a wg hates you you are in for one shit punt!

carefree

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Haha, wtf would you have to do to make a wg HATE you :dash:

Im sure most have a general dislike of us who use them, but hate is a bit strong :lol:


James999

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2) bad hygiene, and ignoring tactful suggestions to shower etc., then wondering why our oral is not hugely enthusiastic. If I wanted cheese I'd have it with wine, not off a strangers cock.

So you are so desperate for money that even if someone is dirty / has a cheesy cock you'd still go with them just for the cash, how fucking skank, do you have no standards or any self respect  :vomit:
« Last Edit: May 01, 2015, 04:45:25 pm by James999 »

Offline Jamboney

Don't give a fuck and not worth thinking about.   :timeout:

If they take my money and allow me to dump my man fat then I don't care if the love me or hate me.   :lol: :lol: Their problem not mine.  :timeout:

Completely agree. As long as it's not evident that they don't like me then I couldn't care less

Toshiba

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truly couldn't give a flying fuck

i see them as hopefully a good fuck/suck, they see me as money, nothing much else to say really

considerateguy

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I know this puts me in the category of fluffy cunt, but it would matter to me if I learned that  WG I returned to didn't like me. I don't expect her to wait anxiously for my call but I want to think that while I am doing intimate things with her body that she isn't loathing me or what I'm doing. Equally, I have to like a girl in order to go back to her.

I don't think of these girls simply as receptacles for my dick and my semen and being obliged to put up and shut up until I'm done. With all of the enjoyable sessions I have had, I have liked the human being with whom I have spent an hour, and felt that she (at least in part) liked me.

Hyperchicken

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Yeah that makes sense, having sex with anyone (WG or not) that you know doesn't like you and is never going to enjoy it is more of a turn off than a turn on.

Offline Trevor12

2 i like and 3 are ok out of 10 punters

That ratio probably applies to a lot of jobs involving working with the general public.

I imagine I'd fall in the 'OK' category, as I'm clean and polite, but they also have to work for their money and for the duration of the punt.

Punters they like would be guys that are clean and polite, cum quickly and fuck off early.

considerateguy

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Apart from that, looks, age etc. really does not come in to it. A lot of the time I would rather an older gentleman with a bit of experience.
You, I like!  :rolleyes:

Offline Dani

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It's a very hard question to answer and one that will vary from girl to girl. Some may like 3out of 10 as said before. Some may like 8 out of ten. I personally hv a couple who I like and respect a lot and we have become friends outside of work and I like the majority of my clients. If I didn't I wouldn't see them again. Offering a GFE is very hard if you don't like the person at all and I could t work dreading someone turning up so its easier and better for both of you to point the ones you don't like elsewhere. However if you have set your targets to seeing 8-10 a day you are going to have to see some you don't particularly like and this is where good acting skills come in.  By saying like,I don't mean fancy or want to meet out of work or become friends I mean like as in they are pleasant towards you, don't push boundaries (unless agreed beforehand in a sub situation) and you can enjoy spending time with them knowing they will be clean and polite

However if someone was unclean and refused a shower as said previously, it wouldn't come down to liking them or not as they wouldnt be getting seen by me as I do t think any half decent woman, prossie or not that would agree to touch a dirty covk let alone suck it

Offline willie loman

Actually a reasonable question to ask. Perhaps you should ask how many does she dislike. Probably the same proportion, 10-20 per cent. The terms the girls use to themselves usually,  are easy and difficult customers. One of the advantages of using saunas and hanging around the  lounge, is you see the other clients. A small percentage are physically repulsive, some are complete tossers, but the majority look and sound like captain Mannering, or major peacock, fat blokes anxious to be liked, who take just a bit too long to tell a funny story, that wasn't funny the first time they told it. In their private lives their own boyfriend are  usually pretty banal, there are in fact very few decent blokes around full stop. Most girls find being a hooker remarkably easy, that is probably the most misunderstood aspect of the sex industry.

considerateguy

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Offering a GFE is very hard if you don't like the person at all and I could t work dreading someone turning up so its easier and better for both of you to point the ones you don't like elsewhere. However if you have set your targets to seeing 8-10 a day you are going to have to see some you don't particularly like and this is where good acting skills come in.  By saying like,I don't mean fancy or want to meet out of work or become friends I mean like as in they are pleasant towards you, don't push boundaries (unless agreed beforehand in a sub situation) and you can enjoy spending time with them knowing they will be clean and polite

Since you brought it up, I feel able to ask ... how the devil do you DFK a complete stranger with enthusiasm? For me the GFE, and DFK in particular, is an essential part of my visit. I don't go just to have sexual intercourse, I go for the illusion of intimacy and friendship. And most of the girls I have visited (although to be fair there haven't been that many) have been very good at it. I have left their flats feeling as if, in other circumstances, she and I could easily be Friends With Benefits.

But I have to say that I am in awe of these girls. Because while I could imagine quite easily myself (were I female, of course) having vaginal intercourse, anal intercourse and even giving blowjobs, I can't imagine myself easily doing DFK with someone I had just met, and in particular did not actually like. How does one do that? Because if the girls I have enjoyed were in reality acting, then they put highly paid actresses in the shade.

I doff my virtual hat to all of you!

Siadwel

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<SNIP>

 I have left their flats feeling as if, in other circumstances, she and I could easily be Friends With Benefits.

<SNIP>

No.

No, you couldn't. Forget it. A girl I've seen a lot uses this phrase a lot. 'Within paid & scheduled time.' Remember that.

Offline Horizontal pleasures

They don't like that many punters.

and are quite demanding expect the wg to be thinking thoughts of you having a heart attack and dropping dead :lol: :lol:

At my age I suppose the ladies I visit do worry about me having a heart attack and dropping dead in their bed. (73). So do I, only I worry more about having a heart attack and NOT dropping dead. Imagine the consequences ... Missus HP: 'where did you say the ambulance found you?'...

306

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After a fair while this topic has turned good witj some good truthfull replies . how do you dfk a punter you have met 3 mins before?
« Last Edit: May 03, 2015, 02:27:59 pm by 306 »

Quesadilla

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I have a few who claim they like me which I initially took with a pinch of salt but then some see me off the clock for dinner dates / evenings out or offer such ridiculously low rates for extended bookings that frankly there's no other explanation.

Of course I don't see that a wg liking me stops it still being a professional relationship - ultimately it's just good customer service - but as I know for myself if I don't like a client I won't spend more time with them than I have to.

Also let's not forget it has to be mutual - from talking to my reg's I'd say most clients make it perfectly clear they want to keep things professional and keep a distance - and some clearly look down on them. You of course can't really like someone in that case. So clients a wg really likes are definitely going to be a very small minority.