WGs such as Lindsey and Little Katie in Bristol, who are both holding down jobs/ studying and
fielding a deluge of requests are best approached with a great deal of patience, humility and relaxed humour, I'd like to suggest.
I mailed Lindsey end of March, message read 25mins after, responded to a week later, with impeccable manners - as is her way. My subject heading indicated "May, or beyond" in recognition that she's wading through a mountain of requests. At the time, I was thinking late May. In subsequent exchanges via Whatsapp, we've swapped ideas, got an idea of how the first meet might go... and, due to my own circumstances, am now looking at mid-July (b'day treat).
What I'm trying to say - and without criticism of anyone who's been lucky enough to meet her so far/ is expecting to in the very near future - is that we should look at this in the medium term. Not, "can you fit me in next week; or the one after?"
Give the girl some breathing space.
Will I be pissed if we get to June and she decides, "Fuck this, I'm taking a long-deserved break to go travelling through the Himalayas"? Actually, no. The communications have been pleasant, enticing and at times, intriguingly salacious. But my dick will have to direct its attentions to another, equally good SP.
And there will always be another one around the corner...