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Offline indexpunt

This concerns when she's already taken the money from me. If in the unlikely I was to change my mind, how soon do you reckon I could ask for a refund and leave? The thing is, on occasions, sometimes an escort opens the door and she doesn't look like her pictures. She's decent, but some part of me is just saying; 'I want to leave', 'Fuck it, I want to go home'. Eventually I just ignore my thoughts of uncertainty and just go with it.

However, if I really wanted to leave, when could I ask for my money back? Are the chances of a refund extinct as soon as I intimately touch her? Or when we get naked? Would girls ever give the money back once it's been handed over?
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Offline raylondoner

Generally, but there are exceptions, hand over the dosh and that's it, you're fucked (or maybe not).

Offline cueball

I've never asked for a refund. I've walked a few times over the years before paying. I would have thought getting your money back after you've handed it over very difficult, you make your call while your dick and your money is still in your pants

Offline Jimmyredcab

If you want refunds I suggest you stick to Marks & Spencers.

Once she hands that cash over to Sergei in the next room it is gone for good.    :hi:

Offline Steve2

As soon as you hand over the money, you are normally committed.




Would girls ever give the money back once it's been handed over?

Never. Once you've paid that's it my old son. The time to change your mind, if you must, is before you cross the threshold. Unless of course you are built like a brick shit house with the speed of Usain Bolt and the hands of Mike Tyson. Then you can ask for a refund afterwards!

Once you hand the cash over it's realistically game over  :cry:

Offline Sqn Ldr Brown Wings

If the door opens and your gutted then my best advice is t say " shit sorry luv I forgot my wallet in the car give us 5 minutes " then disappear.

I don't think many escorts will take too kindly to a request for a refund once your in and parted with the fee. Unless you can sell a good get out that is!
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Chances of a refund... None to zero...once you enter you've committed especially if you get to the touching stage...

Offline Roth

This concerns when she's already taken the money from me. If in the unlikely I was to change my mind, how soon do you reckon I could ask for a refund and leave? The thing is, on occasions, sometimes an escort opens the door and she doesn't look like her pictures. She's decent, but some part of me is just saying; 'I want to leave', 'Fuck it, I want to go home'. Eventually I just ignore my thoughts of uncertainty and just go with it.

However, if I really wanted to leave, when could I ask for my money back? Are the chances of a refund extinct as soon as I intimately touch her? Or when we get naked? Would girls ever give the money back once it's been handed over?

Not a fucking chance!  :scare:  If you need to walk then do it BEFORE you hand over any cash!  :scare:

Offline MrFluffy

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Offline Ben4454

You are only committed to the punt once money changes hands. Once you hand over the cash it is difficult to get a refund. This is why we say confirm services before handing over the money. The problem with this is girls will lie about services (A lot of Romanians do this)

Heres a tip: While you are confirming services hold strong direct eye contact with her. Look for negative body language or flinches or her not looking you directly in the eye when she says something. You will be able to determine if she is lying or not.If she shows signs that she is lying about services then say you left your wallet in the car and get out of there.

Romanian 1 : I once punted with a Romanian who looked down at the floor whilst she was confirming OWO.  - Of course she was lying about it. - So I exited.

Generally its better to punt with reviewed girls on here.



« Last Edit: April 12, 2015, 09:18:43 PM by Ben4454 »
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For me, you've got to be prepared to walk immediately you're not happy. 'I've left my wallet in the car' should be on the tip of you're tongue as she opens the door. It's not a pleasant thing to do for either party, but once you've backed out, the initial awkward moment is quickly forgotten.

I go prepared to walk (or run) if I get there and things are not as I'm expecting. Punting with well reviewed girls means it's not likely to happen although there are no guarantees, money back or otherwise.

Once you've paid though, better to get on with it and try and enjoy yourself as best you can.

I did have one girl refund £10 out of the £80 fee twenty minutes into an hour booking when she said she felt unwell, although she did complete the HJ to CIM (and nearly threw up). I still felt ripped off though. Needless to say, she got a negative review.

tcm

Offline sizzling

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If she is not your type then walk away without entering the house.
Escorts tend to be receptive to atmosphere. And if the male seem uncomfortable then the likelihood is she'll feel uncomfortable and from there it's not going to be that good an experience.
As an agency girl the best advice I can add is.

To Dress well, be a gentlemen, no swearing, bring a small gift like a bottle of wine even if it's a cheap bottle. It's the thought that counts and from there I promise you will get a very good experience no matter how much you are paying. She will feel obliged to please you.
I tell my girls that I told the client you are the best girl on my books. This makes them perform much better as they feel they have a point to prove to me and to the client. Another good trick is to tell the agent you write reviews. They in turn will tell the girl this and she will give it her best. Or the agency will recommend the girls she knows will not give her agency a bad name. win win situation.

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For me, you've got to be prepared to walk immediately you're not happy. 'I've left my wallet in the car' should be on the tip of you're tongue as she opens the door. It's not a pleasant thing to do for either party, but once you've backed out, the initial awkward moment is quickly forgotten.

I go prepared to walk (or run) if I get there and things are not as I'm expecting. Punting with well reviewed girls means it's not likely to happen although there are no guarantees, money back or otherwise.

Once you've paid though, better to get on with it and try and enjoy yourself as best you can.

I did have one girl refund £10 out of the £80 fee twenty minutes into an hour booking when she said she felt unwell, although she did complete the HJ to CIM (and nearly threw up). I still felt ripped off though. Needless to say, she got a negative review.

tcm

I did actually leave the cash in my car once. WG looked at me as if to say, " oh yeah, bye then !! " I left my coat to prove I would be back. Turned out to be a really good meet, saw her a few times.
 I could tell by her reaction it wasn't an unusual thing for blokes to do when not impressed.

always ask for receipt, even if it's just for tax purposes.

Offline closeshave

If she is not your type then walk away without entering the house.
Escorts tend to be receptive to atmosphere. And if the male seem uncomfortable then the likelihood is she'll feel uncomfortable and from there it's not going to be that good an experience.
As an agency girl the best advice I can add is.

To Dress well, be a gentlemen, no swearing, bring a small gift like a bottle of wine even if it's a cheap bottle. It's the thought that counts and from there I promise you will get a very good experience no matter how much you are paying. She will feel obliged to please you.
I tell my girls that I told the client you are the best girl on my books. This makes them perform much better as they feel they have a point to prove to me and to the client. Another good trick is to tell the agent you write reviews. They in turn will tell the girl this and she will give it her best. Or the agency will recommend the girls she knows will not give her agency a bad name. win win situation.

So do you work there? Or do you do the administration?

Which agency?

PM will do

Offline Jimmyredcab

always ask for receipt, even if it's just for tax purposes.

Yes, you can then claim back the VAT.      :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

As an agency girl the best advice I can add is.....

I tell my girls that I told the client you are the best girl on my books......

So who and what are you? a pimp, a pro$$ie or both?


Offline dork

regarding the op's post, having consulted the escort/english dictionary, the term, "refund" doesn't exist
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Offline hexohm

Not quite in the same context but i gave over £100 for a £95 job, she actually offered me the £5 change which i wasnt expecting - i told her to wait till the end and if she was any good she could gave it as a tip!

Offline pianodave

I had a full refund once after I'd had OWO and a few minutes of shagging. She burst out crying and said she didn't want to be a prostitute. Gave me the lot back and left. Shame as I was having a good time :)

Offline Zeusthedoc

I had a full refund once after I'd had OWO and a few minutes of shagging. She burst out crying and said she didn't want to be a prostitute. Gave me the lot back and left. Shame as I was having a good time :)

I would have asked for the money back and carried on fucking. She's only a prostitute if she gets paid for it

Offline SamLP

Sometimes it's a case of if you don't ask you don't get it back. I've been in a situation 6 times where I've asked for my money back. 4 times were fine, the other two involved an argument.

A few of the easy ones took place a few minutes into the punt and it's because the girl lied and wasn't providing FK or OWO. I just get up, start dressing and tell her I paid for a service I confirmed and was lied to. Give me my money and I will go. One of those times the money was still on the table so I told her I will be taking it and leaving, she didn't object. Another time I actually asked after half an hour if I could cut the punt short and get a refund on the remaining time as the punt was dire and I had no desire to go for a second round with her, and since she had tried to convince me to stay for only a half hour to begin with, she didn't object and gave me £20 back.

As for the other two, well I reviewed one recently and got my money back, and the second (or first as it was last year) was a Chinese girl in Bayswater. Again, lying about services (FK & OWO not provided) and refused to go for round two. Wanted to spend the rest of the hour massaging me, and even wanted me to tip her  :wackogirl: Eventually got half my money back.

It's better to walk if you don't like what you see or the services you initially agreed over the phone suddenly become extras or not on offer. Some lowlifes even lie to your face when reconfirming and therein lies the problem. You can either choose to continue with the punt or try and get your money back. Sometimes you're offered another girl in the flat as a solution. I've always declined that solution.

Offline ManBat

This concerns when she's already taken the money from me. If in the unlikely I was to change my mind, how soon do you reckon I could ask for a refund and leave? The thing is, on occasions, sometimes an escort opens the door and she doesn't look like her pictures. She's decent, but some part of me is just saying; 'I want to leave', 'Fuck it, I want to go home'. Eventually I just ignore my thoughts of uncertainty and just go with it.

However, if I really wanted to leave, when could I ask for my money back? Are the chances of a refund extinct as soon as I intimately touch her? Or when we get naked? Would girls ever give the money back once it's been handed over?

Contract law means that if the service isn't provided in full you are entitled to a full or partial refund. If they wont provide it immediately I would send them an invoice by post demanding refund within 28 days. If this is unsuccessful you can commence legal action through the small claims court.
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