OK, just some random thoughts for those of us who have regulars about what it is that keeps us coming back for more.
I know that for some punters the idea of having the same woman who you regularly pay for sex is not attractive at all - isn't that called a wife, although you pay her for it in a different way? The attraction of fucking lots of different girls and never having to go back is for many one of the chief attractions about punting. However, I, like some others, find myself returning to the same few girls (although not exclusively) and at the moment I have two regulars, one I've been seeing for nearly a year and the other for about 3 months.
There's quite a lot of differences between them:
One's blonde, the other brunette; one's got a fuller figure (not BBW though) and the other is slim; one's got big boobs, the other small; one smokes, the other doesn't; one is fluent in English and we have a good laugh, the other is much more limited in her English; one climaxes quite easily and reliably, both in foreplay and sex; the other takes much longer to cum and never cums through penetration (both do genuinely cum though - I think); one I occasionally have a text conversation with (which she sometimes initiates), the other one I don't contact except to arrange a meeting and sometimes send a brief thank you text after.
So what is it that means they are my ladies of my choice?
I do feel that there is a certain sexual chemistry between us that is not just on my side, although I don't kid myself in any way that they fancy me, and they certainly wouldn't look twice at me outside of their job; in any case I am twice their age, married and not looking for anything outside of our paid meetings. Okay, I know that I am laying myself open to ridicule by saying this, and many will quite rightly say this just means that they are good at their job, but although both are good lays, I have (and do) had more intense sex with other WGs.
I think at the end of the day it is the girls who I feel I can trust, with whom I feel totally comfortable with, and who seem to relax with me, that means that I return. As far as I can tell there is no pretending when it comes to sex, although I know that they wouldn't consider putting their tongue down my throat or my dick in their mouths unless I was handing over the folding stuff when I see them (and of course I don't discount the fact that they are both very good actresses). On my last visit to one, after some time and effort giving her RO she told me that she wasn't going to climax today - she was quite apologetic about this, but actually I really appreciated this honesty, not least because she later told me that I am the only one who can make her regularly cum (ok, more fool me for believing her, but she did convince me that it was somewhere near to the truth). But both do genuinely seem to respond to the things that I do, without the histrionics and over the top reactions that you get from some WGs (I love the way that one of them gives a small involuntary shudder when I touch her in certain places for the first time - I mistook this initially for a little laugh - thinking about it though, I do hope that this is not a shudder of revulsion!!).
They are, to me, both good looking and pretty (this is important to me), although they are not stunners (sorry ladies if you're reading this, but I hope you take this the right way), and I have had regulars in the past that are not as pretty as my current two. They both offer all that I require on their likes list (which means a fairly vanilla GFE) and I don't return to see if I can push their boundaries further. Within the provider/client boundaries we are quite open with one another and they know details of my life that I wouldn't reveal to other WGs and visa versa, whilst still respecting the requirement that there are some areas that should remain private.
I pay them their advertised hourly rate, which I think is very fair for the services they offer, and wouldn't feel comfortable asking them for a discount. I do know that both will see me if at all possible and that one, who knows that one day particular day of the week is easier for me, will often see me even on a day that she's not working, but then I know that WGs like to keep regulars sweet because in the long run they will be a large source of income for them over the ensuing weeks and months (or less flatteringly we can be called cash-cows).
So to summarise these rambling and self-indulgent meanderings the two main reasons that a single encounter would turn into a regular one for me are:
An apparently real sexual chemistry between us (I'm not claiming that this is totally genuine on their side).
Within the limit of the service provider/client relationship there is a strong element of trust, openness and friendliness
between us (but they are not "friends").
(and, also, perhaps stating the obvious, I find them very attractive)
I don't see regs though as being like a comfortable old pair of slippers though. If I no longer have the thrill of anticipation before the meeting and that floating-on-air post punt elation I know that it is time to call it a day with that particular girl.
I know that many of the UKP members don't have regulars (and I might be in quite a small minority), but why do others feel that they keep return to the same girl(s)?
PS - This is a general discussion, I have reviewed both girls on here, but if you really are that keen to know who these two NW/N London based girls are PM me. In any case, one man's meat is another man's poison and I am sure this is very true with regs, there are girls I have given positive reviews for who I wouldn't consider seeing on a regular basis.
