Kissing or no kissing?

[JackBurton86]

Hi all.

Does it put you off if a W/G won't kiss you?

First time I saw Vicki, she didn't as much. Second time I saw her, she gave me a good snog. It felt great.
But when I've been looking for my next punt. I've notice some do and some don't.  However the ones that don't offer some other likes that the kissing ones don't. 

I didn't use to mind when I saw street W/G. Some did. But it was all about in and out and move on.
But when you have an hour booked. You need to do something. 

[cueball]

It's been covered plenty of times but yes, it matters to me, no kissing means no punt

[spkmstr48]

A popular subject for dicussion.

Vive la difference, I say.

[smiths]

Hi all.

Does it put you off if a W/G won't kiss you?

First time I saw Vicki, she didn't as much. Second time I saw her, she gave me a good snog. It felt great.
But when I've been looking for my next punt. I've notice some do and some don't.  However the ones that don't offer some other likes that the kissing ones don't. 

I didn't use to mind when I saw street W/G. Some did. But it was all about in and out and move on.
But when you have an hour booked. You need to do something. 

if a WG agrees to offering me kissing when I enquire, book and confirm I expect to receive it as I ensure I am clean, with the right money upholding my end of the deal. If kissing isn't actually on offer it will result in a negative review off me as the WG is a lying cunt.

Kissing is an absolute must for me at a 121 punt, without it a punt is a waste of my time.

[Danny86]

Not really bothered about the actual kissing itself, but i've noticed that if she does DFK, the rest of the service tends to be better and less 'forced'.

If i could get the same service given by those who do DFK, without the act of DFK itself, i probably would, mostly for hygiene reasons.

In a nutshell, i'll book a girl that does DFK, but i rarely actually indulge in it.

[Jimmyredcab]

It's been covered plenty of times but yes, it matters to me, no kissing means no punt

+500     

[johnnyboy61]

It has become a must for me as I have moved over the years from 30 min to 1 hour punts. In a recent punt I started to go a little soft, the girl asked what she should do and assumed that oral would do the trick, but I asked her to kiss me instead - instant result! If a punt starts with some passionate kissing from a girl I am almost instantly flying at full-mast; those that start with a massage often leave my tackle looking a little sadder.

[PLeisure]

It has become a must for me as I have moved over the years from 30 min to 1 hour punts. In a recent punt I started to go a little soft, the girl asked what she should do and assumed that oral would do the trick, but I asked her to kiss me instead - instant result! If a punt starts with some passionate kissing from a girl I am almost instantly flying at full-mast; those that start with a massage often leave my tackle looking a little sadder.

Agreed. It is the original aphrodisiac. Good of her to enquire on your behalf 

[RedKettle]

It has become a must for me as I have moved over the years from 30 min to 1 hour punts. In a recent punt I started to go a little soft, the girl asked what she should do and assumed that oral would do the trick, but I asked her to kiss me instead - instant result! If a punt starts with some passionate kissing from a girl I am almost instantly flying at full-mast; those that start with a massage often leave my tackle looking a little sadder.

completely agree - if when you first meet her there is a decent snog you know you are going to have a good time, even better if that happens before you hand over the cash.

[Oxfordswing]

Absolute must for any punt longer than an hour. If it is a soho walk-up then it's neither expected or wanted, but for an AW escort booking DFK is top of my list and some lovely looking girls have been blocked from my searches because they don't provide what I think is a very basic service.

[DeWallenFan]

no kissing means no punt

This ^^

[Punting Valley]

To be kissing is a must. I don't fuck, cum and go. If I just want a hole I would just stick with waking or buy sex toys. I enjoy the passionate/intimate bits of sex and the human aspect (no doesn't mean I would grow attached to them), and to do that it doesn't matter if it is GFE or PSE, no kissing would make the whole experience feels rather cold.

[Danny86]

To be kissing is a must. I don't fuck, cum and go. If I just want a hole I would just stick with waking or buy sex toys. I enjoy the passionate/intimate bits of sex and the human aspect (no doesn't mean I would grow attached to them), and to do that it doesn't matter if it is GFE or PSE, no kissing would make the whole experience feels rather cold.

Personally there isn't really a fantasy aspect for me with WGs, i see it for what it is, ie a fuck with someone other than the OH. If i want attention i can get plenty of that elsewhere, if i want to fuck an Asian/black/Romanian/Polish girl, i see a WG.....but i have no intentions of getting in a relationship with those types of women (not that there's anything wrong with that, i just wouldn't).

Realistically it's an easier way than going out clubbing to pull a girl, and much less risky. Also considering i'd have to go out on the pull in another city, meaning hotels etc, it's also cheaper. It's a means to an end for me, nothing more, nothing less. I'm under no illusions that she is there for a reason, and so am i. I see no advantage in getting fake affection, nor putting her in a position where she feels she has to provide it.

But that's just my 2p, each to their own.

[greychap]

Hi all.

Does it put you off if a W/G won't kiss you?

First time I saw Vicki, she didn't as much. Second time I saw her, she gave me a good snog. It felt great.
But when I've been looking for my next punt. I've notice some do and some don't.  However the ones that don't offer some other likes that the kissing ones don't. 

I didn't use to mind when I saw street W/G. Some did. But it was all about in and out and move on.
But when you have an hour booked. You need to do something. 

No not at all.

In fact I don't want to kiss a lot of them especially if a lot offer CIM, don't want to be doing snow balling thanks.

[JackBurton86]

It's interesting that so many love it. Then why do many W/G don't offer it more. I've seen it when they put descrection next to it. You know they can say no if they want to.
Sorry if this has been mentioned before. Was about to booked an appointment then notice she didn't offer kissing. So I wasn't sure. Still not to be honest.

[JackBurton86]

Personally there isn't really a fantasy aspect for me with WGs, i see it for what it is, ie a fuck with someone other than the OH. If i want attention i can get plenty of that elsewhere, if i want to fuck an Asian/black/Romanian/Polish girl, i see a WG.....but i have no intentions of getting in a relationship with those types of women (not that there's anything wrong with that, i just wouldn't).

Realistically it's an easier way than going out clubbing to pull a girl, and much less risky. Also considering i'd have to go out on the pull in another city, meaning hotels etc, it's also cheaper. It's a means to an end for me, nothing more, nothing less. I'm under no illusions that she is there for a reason, and so am i. I see no advantage in getting fake affection, nor putting her in a position where she feels she has to provide it.

But that's just my 2p, each to their own.

Thanks. Does make sense. I remember asking a street W/G back in the day if I could kiss her and she said "No because it's to personal".

[JackBurton86]

No not at all.

In fact I don't want to kiss a lot of them especially if a lot offer CIM, don't want to be doing snow balling thanks.

I love snowballing. But only if I just shot my load in her mouth. 

[OakTree]

It's interesting that so many love it. Then why do many W/G don't offer it more. I've seen it when they put descrection next to it. You know they can say no if they want to.
Sorry if this has been mentioned before. Was about to booked an appointment then notice she didn't offer kissing. So I wasn't sure. Still not to be honest.

If you're having a really good fucking session, kissing and snogging is a natural part of it. So for it to be realistic and to appear she is into it as much as me I would expect kissing. I'm always bemused when a girl will gladly suck my cock but balk at kissing.

As for street girls, I wouldn't touch them let alone kiss them.

[OakTree]

I love snowballing. But only if I just shot my load in her mouth. 

I'm a bit lost here. Where else would you shoot it for that?

Or are you thinking someone else's load might be in there?

[JackBurton86]

I'm always bemused when a girl will gladly suck my cock but balk at kissing.

Agreed with that. I've seen profiles where they will do hard sport, but not facials.

About snowballing. I was referring to what the other guy had said.

[madeinwales56]

It's a bit like the advert featuring Vinnie Jones about administering CPR to the tune of Staying Alive. He says " You only kiss your Missus on the lips". I'm firmly on his side ...

[muffherwell91]

As I usually go for a GFE kissing is a must in all of my punts. I also prefer non smokers as I detest the taste of cigarettes on a girls breath. 

[SirFrank]

DFK is a deal breaker for me - no kissing no booking

[muffherwell91]

DFK is a deal breaker for me - no kissing no booking

Yip pretty much this. 

[Danny86]

I just prefer a more honest punt.

She doesn't 'really' want to kiss me, regardless of how good looking i might be, and i don't want to 'marry' her.

Once you set those boundaries, and see the situation for what it is, you can actually start to enjoy yourselves outside of the realms of fantasy.

[JackBurton86]

Actually I've just realised that all punts should be different.
Right now I want a women with big tits and will to piss on me and finger me up the ass. Next is a girl who has done Fake taxi/agent and is willing to do photos/videos. Next would be a full on BDSM experience.
So when you look at it that each should be different.  It becomes more enjoyable. There are limitations in Nottingham area. Even in the East Midlands on what you may want. However I'm not ready to start travelling to far just yet. Still new to this.
Thanks everyone who help me realise this. 

[Danny86]

Pretty much sums it up from my perspective -

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[Danny86]

Actually I've just realised that all punts should be different.
Right now I want a women with big tits and will to piss on me and finger me up the ass. Next is a girl who has done Fake taxi/agent and is willing to do photos/videos. Next would be a full on BDSM experience.
So when you look at it that each should be different.  It becomes more enjoyable. There are limitations in Nottingham area. Even in the East Midlands on what you may want. However I'm not ready to start travelling to far just yet. Still new to this.
Thanks everyone who help me realise this. 

Call pretty much any woman on AW, offer them £1,000, and you can do all of that, and then some.

[JackBurton86]

Pretty much sums it up from my perspective -

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That was funny.  Hey each to their own.
I actually doubt many women would want to kiss me after pissing over me any way. Some won't even let you lick/taste your own spunk, when you shoot your load over them. But are happy to shallow 
It's a funny old world out there.

[MrBridger]

I can separate my (admittedly not massive) experience of puntng into two sections. Those where there is great kissing and those where there isn't. Without exception the former have been intense, horny and exciting while the latter have been mechanical, soulless and unfulfilling.

In brief, if I just want to empty my balls, I'll save my cash and have a wank. If I want great sex, great kissing is where it all starts.

[nike]

Not really bothered about the actual kissing itself, but i've noticed that if she does DFK, the rest of the service tends to be better and less 'forced'.

If i could get the same service given by those who do DFK, without the act of DFK itself, i probably would, mostly for hygiene reasons.

In a nutshell, i'll book a girl that does DFK, but i rarely actually indulge in it.

+1

[Max Pleasure]

Kissing is a must for me and the deeper it is the sexier it is.  I would be really disappointed if it was  refused, although that's not happened yet.

[Hordak3000]

It's been covered plenty of times but yes, it matters to me, no kissing means no punt

Ditto x 1000

[random]

I don't need to have it. Sometimes it can be good and add to the experience, or I might feel more in the mood for it. There are other times when it's unpleasant and I'd rather not have any kissing.

[JackBurton86]

Still interesting how a lot continue to say it's important. Then why do many have it of their like list? The few I looked at would off lost so much business from you lot.
It's a bit like OWO. The W/G will know she will get more if she puts that on her list?

[JackBurton86]

Sorry to all if I brought up at subject that had been discussed many time. 
I just typed in "kissing" in the search box and got a huge list. But is it really a problem?
I'm new on here (like many others) and wanted to discuss something.  Something to help me in picking W/G in the future  and help out on a current choice.
I've been on other forums were if you picked up an old thread you get moaned at.

[Sqn Ldr Brown Wings]

My preference is for girls who offer dfk. Personally my best "punt"s have been with girls who dont hold back on this. I find the rest of their service tends to be just as uninhibited. It allows the fantasy to become real and is a very sensual experience which maximizes my enjoyment. I have had great experiences with girls who dont dfk but just not as good as those who do.

[Johnbean]

Yes even before a 15 minute quickly, love DFK to get you in the mood. Always wary of 'at discretion' as 10 times out of 10 for me it's been a 'no'.

[DeWallenFan]

Always wary of 'at discretion' as 10 times out of 10 for me it's been a 'no'.

I hate that, I wish girls would clarify on that more. They probably don't because it could mean a possible punter avoiding them maybe 

[anton11]

I like a full GFE, therefore no kissing = No Punt

[spkmstr48]

Yes even before a 15 minute quickly, love DFK to get you in the mood. Always wary of 'at discretion' as 10 times out of 10 for me it's been a 'no'.

I automatically read "at discretion" as "no".

[Siadwel]

I automatically read "at discretion" as "no".

I always read it as '£10/£20 Extra'.

[Carmel]

A good kiss makes for a good session, saddly not many can do it right. But those that do would get a 100% response from a WG. I should think that a lousy kiss would bring into effect 'at discretion'. Nothing worse than somebody leaving snail trails all over your kisser. 

[DeWallenFan]

But those that do would get a 100% response from a WG.

The same could be said from a punter 

[Carmel]

It most certainly can. It works both ways. But the punter is paying and can walk or do with out kissing. The WG only has at discretion.

[JackBurton86]

Do hate the like list. Never really explain on whom or what. When they put discretion.  You know that have the final say.

[Danny86]

I get really confused with the phrase 'GFE'....honestly, if you want a 'girlfriend experience', why not just get a girlfriend?

Different cars do different things for me, i love Caterhams, but be fucked am i going to drive one to the supermarket in the rain. I also love an Audi estate, but i'm not going to turn up to a track day with one.

I just can't get my head around the paradox here. They're not your girlfriends, they really don't like you, they are after your money. I'm not being mean here, but we must all realise this...no?

Why is this strange illusion of 'she gives a shit' something people care about? Trust me, she doesn't give a shit. Next time you go to a WG, try just giving her the money and walking out straight away, see if she stops you.

Newsflash, she won't. 

[JackBurton86]

I get really confused with the phrase 'GFE'....honestly, if you want a 'girlfriend experience', why not just get a girlfriend?

Different cars do different things for me, i love Caterhams, but be fucked am i going to drive one to the supermarket in the rain. I also love an Audi estate, but i'm not going to turn up to a track day with one.

I just can't get my head around the paradox here. They're not your girlfriends, they really don't like you, they are after your money. I'm not being mean here, but we must all realise this...no?

Why is this strange illusion of 'she gives a shit' something people care about? Trust me, she doesn't give a shit. Next time you go to a WG, try just giving her the money and walking out straight away, see if she stops you.

Newsflash, she won't.

Damn your harsh.
Guess it's important to remember this is Pretty Woman film playing out in real life.

[Danny86]

Damn your harsh.
Guess it's important to remember this is Pretty Woman film playing out in real life.

There's an argument to say that the movie 'Pretty Woman' convinced women that would normally have never considered prostitution, to get into the industry, which is obviously a bad thing. The whole 'Knight in white shining armour'  Richard Gere nonsense.

Anyway, i love strong women, i'm just a realist, harsh maybe, but a realist nonetheless.

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[unclepokey]

For me 'no kissing' (and I don't expect or want to have to extract the girls tongue from my tonsils, just straightforward lips on lips) then no sale nor contract.
And if discovered during a punt - a never return!
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