I'm married, kids, decent house, lifestyle etc. Love my wife, she's very attractive and we have reasonably active sex life. And yet.... If I had it all over again, I wouldn't get married. I started punting 18 months or so ago during a dry spell at home. That was the reason I started, and I haven't yet found one to stop. In fact, I've also met someone amazing through work and find this hobby to be the only thing keeping me from a full blown affair and the inevitable messy and expensive divorce. Punting is discrete, with no emotion involved just good honest sex with someone hot. It just about keeps me on the straight and narrow with the other person.
Fuck, that's a confession and a half. To conclude, Punting saves marriages, but don't get married and you haven't got any issues in the first place!