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Author Topic: scammed on and outcall. Should I tell the police in case she comes back?  (Read 4739 times)

Online Mikeh38

MHD if my original post sounded harsh then I apologise, but I've seen it all before including high profile buisness people getting scammed like you.

Do NOT under any circumstances contact her in any form, if you do you will make matters worse especially if she has a pimp, as I said bin her stuff she won't be back.

Offline Cupcake X

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Sorry to hear this Dave, it is very terrible what has happened. I do not mean to worry you but if this prostitute has got a pimp then she may be acting under his instructions. Do not make contact- don't answer either -you may need to change your number that she/they have. I hope everything is ok
Maybe do research in future (thoroughly) as to who comes to visit you at your home address.

jcdmj12

Just thing if Harriet Harman had her way OP wouldn't even have been able to go to the police.   :thumbsdown:

Sorry to hear about that, OP. Since how ever much she scammed from you is probably more than what her stuff worth, she made a profit through scamming you and ran off. I doubt she will return, it is probably just a scam, and since you have file a police report I would just leave it and make no further contact.

Just thing if Harriet Harman had her way OP wouldn't even have been able to go to the police.   :thumbsdown:

Yea the police would arrest and charge OP the second he mentions he committed punting  :scare:
I was indecisive about who to vote in the general election, but the labours' anti-punter stand has definitely pushed me away from considering them.

Offline spkmstr48

Can't see many male MPs voting with Harriet, their Doms won't let them.
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Offline socks

Sounds to me like you might not be alone MHD. Given that she knew your address because because she'd been there only about 20 minutes previously, why would she ask you it in a text? The only thing I can think of is that there were several of you and she wanted to check which were gullible enough to reply, to a text sent to more than one person.

My conclusion is that those who've recommend you totally ignore her, are right. She's already written off whatever shit she left at your place, as an investment on a much bigger return. It's like spam, junk mail and tele-marketing, the worst thing you can do is respond. Sleep easy mate, ignore her, she's already forgotten you.

Hopefully admin can come up with a way of exposing this cunt and her backroom staff without raising your vulnerability.

Can't see many male MPs voting with Harriet, their Doms won't let them.

Canadian conservative MPs voted for the anti-punter bill there, even when there was an ex-dominatrix threatening to expose the MPs who voted for the bill and were her clients.

Offline Tjkooker

What I say will sound unsympathetic... However it has to be said.
She has straight scammed you. She does not care about the contents of this bag (which you still won't reveal here) she has not threatened you and has not even responded to your messages. If you persist in messaging her she will simply say you are harassing her. If police ever got involved (unlikely) you could possibly (unlikely) be charged or warned for harassment.

She's fucked you over. If you don't want comeback leave it well alone.
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Offline raylondoner

Isn't this a common ploy of girls that do a runner, the common one being that they have to pop out to pay the driver but never come back?

They usually leave a bag of cheap crap to prove they will return but it's worth only a fraction of what you paid her.

I doubt if you will see her again but do think that making a report to plod is a good idea.

This is really grim HMD! You didn't deserve this and I'm sorry to hear that it happened to you.

I definitely think you should report this to plod as, if nothing else, you'll most likely feel better for having doing so. And who knows it may even lead to this dirt-bag being apprehended as she's probably already a 'usual suspect' and your report may make it just that little bit easier for them to charge her.

Offline NEGaz

Go to the police it happened in York a couple of years back and the girl got charged & Sentenced

Offline SirFrank

What did you decide to do in the end mate?
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Curious6705

Just seen this thread this morning. Sorry to hear of your trouble. Honestly, and it's difficult to offer advice, not least because it may seem glib coming from an able bodied person, but I would do nothing. I would want to remain discreet, and involving the authorities may make that difficult.

If there's a hint that she or an associate is threatening then that's a different matter and the Police must be involved IMO. But if it's "just" a scam, I would write it off. Personally, before any punt, I always remind myself that it's just that, and I may be throwing be the punting fee away for little or no reward, and personally I accept that, and have written the money off in my mind.

So long as there's been no actual threat I would put away from your mind fears she or an associate may return - and each day those fears should recede a little more - though like I say, any sniff of that, and I would go to the Police. And hopefully your premises are secure?

It's a shame LMP don't appear to be returning for Bristol - otherwise that could have been some monthly fun for you. Perhaps stick to forum darlings with a good rep, or reliable agencies - if there are any locally.

Wrt to the police saying you hadn't actually been scammed yet, I do recall an experience where a cashier had "borrowed" some money. The police took no immediate action, IIRC because an offence has been committed where the intention was to permanently deprive the victim of the cash.

Offline smiths

Just thing if Harriet Harman had her way OP wouldn't even have been able to go to the police.   :thumbsdown:

Absolutely spot on point. :thumbsup:

Offline Siadwel


Just thing if Harriet Harman had her way OP wouldn't even have been able to go to the police.   :thumbsdown:

Absolutely spot on point. :thumbsup:

And it's made my mind up more than The Debate' last night.

Another horrible out-call scam thread. Sympathies with HMD, hope it all works out/worked out harmlessly enough for you.

It's these threads that make me think many more times than twice about out-calls.


Offline Ben4454


Advice to everyone: Ask for the cash back if WG attempts to leave premises for ANY reason. If she refuses to hand over - you're about to be scammed.
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I've just read this thread and feel sympathy for you hmd and anger towards said prossie.

I too don't think she will come knocking, the threat of the police involved will have her and her pimp (who, by the way is potentially living off immoral earnings) keeping well away.

One if my concerns for you pal is that you state that your in a low place and deserve it.

IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT, AND YOU DO NOT DESERVE IT.

I really don't think there will be much comes from this, I think she will return to get gutter and continue to scam punters until she really does scam the wrong one.

Learn from this pal, be very very choosy with regards an outcall to your address, read the reviews on here with lads that have had outcall to their homes, pm the ukp member and believe me, we're all helping each other on here.

Does anyone on here know if this is still against the law?  I thought I'd read that the law was changed (?) some years ago so that it's no longer a crime?

Evening all.

So this is how it played out in the end.

My carer (who know's/knew what i did) arrives at 11.00pm I've still got the girls bag which as i said earlier was a prossie's toolkit. I didn't ask any of it for this particular meet with this girl, you know the type of stuff. Condoms, wet wipes, oil, anal toys, handcuffs! stripper heels.

So I basically tell my carer the situation in case she comes knocking on the door, she is sympathetic but worried about staying the night in case anything kicks off and strongly says that this is not part of her job description, that i've been an idiot and she feels unsafe. she asks to see the bag (which i refuse to show her).   

She's torn between leaving and staying obviously she still feels she has a duty of care. Eventually she says she'll stay only on the condition that i don't open the door to this girl.

Around 11.10 i get a call from this girl, saying that she's had to travel and get shit sorted and that she's more then willing to see me...and that shit happens and she'd never scam me. I tell her i'm dumping the bag outside of my flat and that i don't want to see or speak to her ever again. She accepts this and around 20 mins later the bag is gone. The reason why I did this is that the police said if she doesn't collect her stuff by the end of the night you can bring it into the station. she contacted me before 12.00 therefore I had to give her the stuff.

Now comes the hard part.

I know this isn't the place for this and I apologise but: 

I suffer with periods of depression at the moment i'm on a low. As such I have a big heart to heart with my carer and talk about the fear I feel about my family ever found out. (folks are christians) sister n law has strong views. I then go into a diatribe about what a cunt I am, and how i fucking hate myself. Carer nods and says she knows, she see's it every shift she's in. 


My carer rightly says I have to make some changes, one of them being cutting out seeing escorts, my libido is rock smack bottom at the moment, so wouldn't be hard. and that maybe i should join a group for people in my situation. (FFS I even struggle to wank) She also thinks I should tell my parents so the sword of damocles isn't hanging over my head

i know where she's going with this, but watching porn once or twice a week and seeing escorts about every 3 or 4 doesn't count as an addiction or a problem. I've spoken to doctors, sexual health specialists and counselors and the most anyone has ever said is "look after yourself" every other response seems to be "we understand...you are a man, you are 25...you have needs".

 In short working in care in close proximity with someone is about trust and picking your battles, I've just lost every bit of goodwill I had with this carer.

As a boss I fucked up badly , I put a member of staff in potential danger, If I have an outcall to my house again. I think she'll probably leave as I am on a pretty destructive path at the moment, and that is fair enough.           

Whatever i do from now on, I have no one to back me, no one to save me ( i don't ask for this i'd rather take a beating then have to go to an employment tribunal because some hooker has smacked a carer.)

I've just fucked up really badly.

Anyway, Thank you all so much for giving me advice and support. You kept my sanity in check...(till my carer came in at least) This is gonna seem a misogynistic comment but I knew you guys would come good. I truly do think that in certain situations It only works when men seek advice and support from their elders. 

Cheers guys.

HMD   

 

Offline SirFrank

Hi mate, glad to hear you didn't get any further grief from this scammer. Don't beat yourself up over this. You made a mistake, you lost money and no one got assaulted. Try not to dwell on it. I'm sure everything will blow over and in time your carer and you can have a reasonably normal relationship - she didn't come to any harm. Don't beat yourself up about having sexual needs either, it's normal, it's not a disease. Don't tell your parents, they don't need to know.

If you haven't already, I suggest you go see your GP. It sounds like you might be depressed? Take it easy bud and don't beat yourself up
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Offline johnny34

If you haven't already, I suggest you go see your GP. It sounds like you might be depressed? Take it easy bud and don't beat yourself up

+1. Hi Dave, it sounds like your carer is aware of your mood/feelings at the moment. Take some time-out from punting & as Sir Frank says get some help from your GP. Good luck & take care of yourself.

Online cueball

Best of luck Dave, glad it's kind of sorted itself easily.

I can't comment on depression as I've never suffered from it but whatever helps get you on the up has got to be good.

Once you've calmed down and things have settled you'll start feeling like a randy 25yr old again. My advice is....

Read your positive review, book the same girl again whilst your carer is out, punt and enjoy. Life is too short not to enjoy.

You're here for a good time not a long time.

Offline bunny84

Police are useless . It's your word against hers you gave her money Fuck the bitch bin her stuff and get her back somehow if you can . Even if it'd by putting her number on Gumtree advertising free stuff like a tv . I have done this to people for a laugh . There phone rings none stop

Offline smiths

Evening all.

So this is how it played out in the end.

My carer (who know's/knew what i did) arrives at 11.00pm I've still got the girls bag which as i said earlier was a prossie's toolkit. I didn't ask any of it for this particular meet with this girl, you know the type of stuff. Condoms, wet wipes, oil, anal toys, handcuffs! stripper heels.

So I basically tell my carer the situation in case she comes knocking on the door, she is sympathetic but worried about staying the night in case anything kicks off and strongly says that this is not part of her job description, that i've been an idiot and she feels unsafe. she asks to see the bag (which i refuse to show her).   

She's torn between leaving and staying obviously she still feels she has a duty of care. Eventually she says she'll stay only on the condition that i don't open the door to this girl.

Around 11.10 i get a call from this girl, saying that she's had to travel and get shit sorted and that she's more then willing to see me...and that shit happens and she'd never scam me. I tell her i'm dumping the bag outside of my flat and that i don't want to see or speak to her ever again. She accepts this and around 20 mins later the bag is gone. The reason why I did this is that the police said if she doesn't collect her stuff by the end of the night you can bring it into the station. she contacted me before 12.00 therefore I had to give her the stuff.

Now comes the hard part.

I know this isn't the place for this and I apologise but: 

I suffer with periods of depression at the moment i'm on a low. As such I have a big heart to heart with my carer and talk about the fear I feel about my family ever found out. (folks are christians) sister n law has strong views. I then go into a diatribe about what a cunt I am, and how i fucking hate myself. Carer nods and says she knows, she see's it every shift she's in. 


My carer rightly says I have to make some changes, one of them being cutting out seeing escorts, my libido is rock smack bottom at the moment, so wouldn't be hard. and that maybe i should join a group for people in my situation. (FFS I even struggle to wank) She also thinks I should tell my parents so the sword of damocles isn't hanging over my head

i know where she's going with this, but watching porn once or twice a week and seeing escorts about every 3 or 4 doesn't count as an addiction or a problem. I've spoken to doctors, sexual health specialists and counselors and the most anyone has ever said is "look after yourself" every other response seems to be "we understand...you are a man, you are 25...you have needs".

 In short working in care in close proximity with someone is about trust and picking your battles, I've just lost every bit of goodwill I had with this carer.

As a boss I fucked up badly , I put a member of staff in potential danger, If I have an outcall to my house again. I think she'll probably leave as I am on a pretty destructive path at the moment, and that is fair enough.           

Whatever i do from now on, I have no one to back me, no one to save me ( i don't ask for this i'd rather take a beating then have to go to an employment tribunal because some hooker has smacked a carer.)

I've just fucked up really badly.

Anyway, Thank you all so much for giving me advice and support. You kept my sanity in check...(till my carer came in at least) This is gonna seem a misogynistic comment but I knew you guys would come good. I truly do think that in certain situations It only works when men seek advice and support from their elders. 

Cheers guys.

HMD   

 

Dave its easy for me to say your an adult and punting isn't illegal (yet) so its not your carers business if you choose to book WGs. All that is of course true but your carer was scared, so I have sympathy for her. However, that doesn't mean she can dictate how you live your life, that's up to you.

If push comes to shove isn't another carer a possibility, rather that than you cant do what you wish in my view.

Offline Butter

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Just wanted to say its awful what she has done to you. You have had good advice here, don't take it to heart. She obviously will do and will have done the same to many others.

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Offline Lilywhite

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Evening all.

So this is how it played out in the end.

My carer (who know's/knew what i did) arrives at 11.00pm I've still got the girls bag which as i said earlier was a prossie's toolkit. I didn't ask any of it for this particular meet with this girl, you know the type of stuff. Condoms, wet wipes, oil, anal toys, handcuffs! stripper heels.

So I basically tell my carer the situation in case she comes knocking on the door, she is sympathetic but worried about staying the night in case anything kicks off and strongly says that this is not part of her job description, that i've been an idiot and she feels unsafe. she asks to see the bag (which i refuse to show her).   

She's torn between leaving and staying obviously she still feels she has a duty of care. Eventually she says she'll stay only on the condition that i don't open the door to this girl.

Around 11.10 i get a call from this girl, saying that she's had to travel and get shit sorted and that she's more then willing to see me...and that shit happens and she'd never scam me. I tell her i'm dumping the bag outside of my flat and that i don't want to see or speak to her ever again. She accepts this and around 20 mins later the bag is gone. The reason why I did this is that the police said if she doesn't collect her stuff by the end of the night you can bring it into the station. she contacted me before 12.00 therefore I had to give her the stuff.

 

Did she return your money?


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