What is your worst thing about being a punter?

[Mr Br1ghts1de]

That it's expensive and addictive. Even when I'm not punting I'm finding it harder not to think about it: it's like a maggot in the brain, always chewing away...Doing work seems a lot less fun than coming on here, looking at new girls, anticipating my next punt... Still, am learning the virtues of self-control, if only in terms of desisting from wanking for days before a punt.

+1.

Initially it was just the cost. My budget was £120 an hour, but now I might push to £150 max. That has been fed by wanting to see some of the better reviewed girls on here, but because they are in demand, I'm finding myself booking well in advance with a number of them, so barely a week passes without a punt. And because the punts have been good, that is just feeding my desire to either see them again or push the boat out a little further and see some other newbies on the hl. So increased cost and increased addictiveness for me.

[scorpion61]

Now when i look at normal girls i think: "meh" can get better looks and probably better sex for 100£. This is far from healthy attitude.

When I look at normal girls I think " I wonder how much it would take to get them into bed" - that is not healthy either. Don't like myself for that.

[spkmstr48]

Because for 30-odd years I've been an old-style 80s feminist. Am learning that feminism can encompass BDSM, obviously, but am still learning.

I haven't learned how to cut + paste on my ipad - apologies - but the 2 most submissive girls I've met are Bree 121 and Lindsey xxx.

Thanks.

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[spkmstr48]

Because for 30-odd years I've been an old-style 80s feminist. Am learning that feminism can encompass BDSM, obviously, but am still learning.

I haven't learned how to cut + paste on my ipad - apologies - but the 2 most submissive girls I've met are Bree 121 and Lindsey xxx.

OMFG!!!

Glad I don't live in London, I'd be skint.

I couldn't help imagining standing with one of them nuzzling against each leg.

[Stickitin]

Realising I have to pay to stick my cock in anything half decent 

[CardiffCentral]

When I look at normal girls I think " I wonder how much it would take to get them into bed" - that is not healthy either. Don't like myself for that.

This is pretty much the only reason why I'd give up punting.  I'm half way now between relocating to London, and there's an abundance of single women here.  The city is also awash with escorts.  When I first started punting it was such an easy, time saving solution; You pay your moneys, have sex, leave.  That's about the same cost as a date I'd say to myself.  Well not really.  A date doesn't always cost that much and you spend far more time having sex with the girl, who as it happens WANTS to sleep with you.  That difference alone means civvie sex wins hands down. 

What's even more damning is I'm in my early 30's, single with no kids and I work out regularly so I'm in good shape.  I'm also not hideous looking either.  All that means is I have no excuse and really see punting as a lazy alternative to sorting myself out and doing what all of my work colleagues do, go out and date women and have memorable experiences.  All of my punting expeditions are book ended by the same pathetic AW/internet search, booking her, paying, sex and then leaving knowing that she simply couldn't have cared less about the experience.  Sure that was awesome once, but as a lifestyle choice it's pretty corrosive. 

I understand it's different for people who are in long term relationships with kids and need a break from the cycle of banality that is commitment.  But it's for that reason I think single guys often sell themselves short.  Rather than pay for it all the time how about getting yourself in shape, learning new things and developing your personality, and then get out there are meet women.  In civvy life the worst outcome is getting turned down by a girl or perhaps not having anything in common with someone.  In punting life you're potentially paying for a trafficked girl who views the entire experience as some sort of sexual assault.  How strange that some of us would prefer to pay and cause misery rather than risk being deflated after a knock back in a bar or not being asked out again on a second date.  It's all a little warped! 


But...then I pop onto AW and see a Polish girl with a perfect ass... 

[charming_red]

Not being able to take the girl home.

[spkmstr48]

Not being able to take the girl home.

Need bigger pockets?

[spkmstr48]

When I look at normal girls I think " I wonder how much it would take to get them into bed" - that is not healthy either. Don't like myself for that.

Know what you mean, after a punt the other day I stopped at a motorway service station. Outside was a fast food outlet, girl serving was gorgeous. Inside, at a different outlet, another one. All I could think was, "You girls are daft doing that on minimum wage when you could be selling your puss. "Which is more degrading?

[Herges Adventures]

That it's expensive and addictive. Even when I'm not punting I'm finding it harder not to think about it: it's like a maggot in the brain, always chewing away...Doing work seems a lot less fun than coming on here, looking at new girls, anticipating my next punt...

This. Had a day working from home... and spent half of it doing in-depth research into my next punt   

[justfornow]

This is pretty much the only reason why I'd give up punting.  I'm half way now between relocating to London, and there's an abundance of single women here.  The city is also awash with escorts.  When I first started punting it was such an easy, time saving solution; You pay your moneys, have sex, leave.  That's about the same cost as a date I'd say to myself.  Well not really.  A date doesn't always cost that much and you spend far more time having sex with the girl, who as it happens WANTS to sleep with you.  That difference alone means civvie sex wins hands down. 

What's even more damning is I'm in my early 30's, single with no kids and I work out regularly so I'm in good shape.  I'm also not hideous looking either.  All that means is I have no excuse and really see punting as a lazy alternative to sorting myself out and doing what all of my work colleagues do, go out and date women and have memorable experiences.  All of my punting expeditions are book ended by the same pathetic AW/internet search, booking her, paying, sex and then leaving knowing that she simply couldn't have cared less about the experience.  Sure that was awesome once, but as a lifestyle choice it's pretty corrosive. 

I understand it's different for people who are in long term relationships with kids and need a break from the cycle of banality that is commitment.  But it's for that reason I think single guys often sell themselves short.  Rather than pay for it all the time how about getting yourself in shape, learning new things and developing your personality, and then get out there are meet women.  In civvy life the worst outcome is getting turned down by a girl or perhaps not having anything in common with someone.  In punting life you're potentially paying for a trafficked girl who views the entire experience as some sort of sexual assault.  How strange that some of us would prefer to pay and cause misery rather than risk being deflated after a knock back in a bar or not being asked out again on a second date.  It's all a little warped! 


But...then I pop onto AW and see a Polish girl with a perfect ass... 

I work out regularly and all that. It's not about looks but personality. Guys like me and i assume that you too aren't cut out for dating otherwise we'd be out there doing it.
Punting is just to easy. Enormous amount of pleasure available on tap. It is a lazy solution i agree.
I don't get discouraged by initial rejection. It's the later one that's fucking frustrating. When you commit and then get shit all over.

You don't get companionship with punting but when you find a wg that knows how to push your buttons it is hard work going out with a civvie girl that doesn't know how to do that stuff.

So as much as i would like a relationship i don't beat myself over it to hard. I am who i am and i do what i do
punting ftw

[Drillakilla]

Getting caught, and if it's a shitty punt, anger that I could've spent that money on something better for myself.

[Punting Valley]

Number one the COST!!

Then number two is if you hit on well with the girl, you have to be careful not to get EAS. You must always remind yourself that she only sleeps with you because of the money paid.

Thirdly, due to the nature of this business (no string attached and paying by the hours), with the exception of a really close regular, you have a strict time limit and can't spend more non-fucking time without them asking for you to pay their 'social rate'. The no-extend-your-friendship-beyond-business is so strict compare to any other businesses.

[Mr Br1ghts1de]

In civvy life the worst outcome is getting turned down by a girl or perhaps not having anything in common with someone. 

It's not. It's getting into a relationship that turns shit and being run over by a steamroller both emotionally and financially.

[LanceVance]

I would say two things. One is the cost. I usually spend about £100 or so on a punt and while it can be worth it if the punt is great, when money gets tight I do wonder if the punt was ultimately worth it. I always think it is a waste of money if it is the kind of punt that leads to Negative review on this website.

The biggest thing I don't like is the fact that Punting has become something of the easy option. Yes there are occasions when you just to fuck with no strings attached, but loads of people would just go to a club and pick up a civvy for that instead. By just reaching for punting, I don't have an incentive to try my luck with the civvy population (that's not to say I don't, but I know that if I fail, it doesn't matter) which in turn means I am likely to be less successful.

I don't punt often and that is how I would like it to stay. Once every few months is good enough balance for me.

[CardiffCentral]

I work out regularly and all that. It's not about looks but personality. Guys like me and i assume that you too aren't cut out for dating otherwise we'd be out there doing it.
Punting is just to easy. Enormous amount of pleasure available on tap. It is a lazy solution i agree.
I don't get discouraged by initial rejection. It's the later one that's fucking frustrating. When you commit and then get shit all over.

You don't get companionship with punting but when you find a wg that knows how to push your buttons it is hard work going out with a civvie girl that doesn't know how to do that stuff.

So as much as i would like a relationship i don't beat myself over it to hard. I am who i am and i do what i do
punting ftw

I personally would never describe myself as not being cut out for dating.  I usually get through a couple of short term relationships a year (4 months or so per relationship).  I usually get bored and end things and I'm quite a bastard about it.  I've only ever been 'hurt' once when I was in my teens so perhaps that's why I end things and move on rather than commit. 

So it's pretty simple for me really; I have a fear of commitment and I punt as a way of avoiding getting hurt, while at the same time missing the first part of a relationship.  Great therapy this!   

[nike]

Being outed by my brother.  It actually happened to me.  I caught the hypocrite with a prossie a few years ago and said nothing to anyone and this is how he repaid me.

[CardiffCentral]

The biggest thing I don't like is the fact that Punting has become something of the easy option. Yes there are occasions when you just to fuck with no strings attached, but loads of people would just go to a club and pick up a civvy for that instead. By just reaching for punting, I don't have an incentive to try my luck with the civvy population (that's not to say I don't, but I know that if I fail, it doesn't matter) which in turn means I am likely to be less successful.

I don't punt often and that is how I would like it to stay. Once every few months is good enough balance for me.

About 12 years ago I went traveling with a uni mate around Eastern Europe (Prague, Krakow, Baltics, Helsinki).  I pulled a few times in random night clubs during our drunken jaunts and had a whale of a time.  That's not even including the girls you end up chatting to and dancing with.  Back then I didn't punt so there was only one way of meeting women.  Looking back, if I'd been punting I wouldn't have seen the things I'd seen or met the people I met and stayed in touch with.  We would have spent our free time trawling the net, making bookings using a calling card and then spending a dodgy hour chatting to a hateful nutter in broken English before ending up home in bed by 10pm because we'd spent too much!

While punting can be awesome and you could argue it provides its own experiences, it costs more overall and it does not have a positive effect on your personality.  Although some of us are double hard bastards who are way past saving. 

As you say, every so often....develop your shagging technique and have a laugh with some proven whores! Can't be doing with any of this lurking outside a council flat at 2am, nursing a semi with £40 in your pocket and a deranged look on your face! 

[spkmstr48]

It's not. It's getting into a relationship that turns shit and being run over by a steamroller both emotionally and financially.

To which I would add, and why do I never learn, even my once gorgeous EE wife has gone native, so that wasn't a solution either.

There is no worst thing about punting, all the really shitty stuff happens in the real world.

As the saying goes - took a look at the real world once, didn't like it.

[bensonhedges20]

Escorting is just like gambling

If you cant afford it - dont do it.

Only thing that would worry me is being jacked mid punt.
I couldnt give a fuck about money but if they nick the car keys or my main phone then its a nightmare.

[serialpunter65]

Just knowing the girl you are with is only interested in your cash and everything said and done in the time you are together is pure delusion.

[spkmstr48]

Just knowing the girl you are with is only interested in your cash and everything said and done in the time you are together is pure delusion.

How so, the sex in my last punt seemed real.

Apologies for flippant comment but as long as she's a decent actress, what's the problem, it is only sex after all.

[Iloveoral]

I'm also +1 on the missus and kids thing, can't deny its not right but......


I love sex and hot girls I'd normally not be able to pull, usually because they are half my age or less and Asian 

[serialpunter65]

How so, the sex in my last punt seemed real.

Apologies for flippant comment but as long as she's a decent actress, what's the problem, it is only sex after all.

There's no answer to that! Good luck my friend! Enjoy!

[Anadin]

Apart from the waste of money feeling that tends to wash over me in that weird post-cum clarity moment for me the worst thing about punting is Gum clinics. I've been putting off going for a while now because the whole process takes too fucking long. I should really be able to just go in there have a swab, get my blood drawn and leave within the hour but the last time I went there it took the whole fucking day (5+hours) and I was there before the opened too.

[Mr Br1ghts1de]

Apart from the waste of money feeling that tends to wash over me in that weird post-cum clarity moment for me the worst thing about punting is Gum clinics. I've been putting off going for a while now because the whole process takes too fucking long. I should really be able to just go in there have a swab, get my blood drawn and leave within the hour but the last time I went there it took the whole fucking day (5+hours) and I was there before the opened too.

Look for a different GUM Clinic then. I usually book ahead, but urine, blood and oral swab always done within 1 hour. Like it or not, going to a GUM clinic is a necessary evil if you are a regular and conscientious punter, even if you do not partake in bareback activities.

[Horizontal pleasures]

for me the worst thing about punting is Gum clinics.

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