I've had a pretty sheltered sex life, but since I started punting I feel a lot more confident in talking to women generally. Having had an energetic session with Miss KDD this week I was quite content to let life go back to reality, and having found myself in a nice hotel in Yorkshire was quite happy to be Mr Anonymous in the bar. But apart from me there was only one other person there, a 35 + year well fed but not attractive lady who I struck up a conversation with.
After a few drinks she said why don't we take the drinks up to her room. I agreed but made my excuses to go to the gents (to get condoms). Came back and went upstairs. Things developed and shagging was the next step. Stopped to get the condom on and I could tell she wasn't happy, she said there's no need for protection. I thought I can either bareback her or insist on protection. Did the latter and told her it was a policy I had, take it or leave it. She was ok in the end, but bought home to me the risk with civvies.