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Author Topic: CIM question !? is it okay to cim without asking??  (Read 3883 times)

Okay so help me out here I'm intrigued.
CIM if offered or not or as an extra and not initially paid for or agreed BUT I end up exploding and letting her take my cum should I pay, apologise , laugh say thank you ???
I mean there's been times I've had some amazing bjs and don't know etiquette about warning her im gonna be coming or just holding myself back.
So I guess what I really want to know is this

 Is it okay to cim without prior agreement ?

I still tend not to be clear on services with these workers as try and let things either happen naturally or be led
Where are people on this who've had expoereince or just general views

Thank ya ll

Offline raylondoner

Should be agreed in advance but girls will know when you are going to cum anyway.  :hi:

Offline SirFrank

As above, you need to agree in advance. Most girls will tell you if they don't do CIM and I usually give an indication of what's about to happen just before it does
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Offline Jimmyredcab

As above, you need to agree in advance.

I remember reading once about the most frequently told lies ---------

1) The cheque's in the post.

2) Black is beautiful.

3)  I promise I won't come in your mouth.     :hi:

Okay I've only ever had classy Dorris and daisy say about this others don't say anything or Milf Wendy said and actively encouraging me to cim and she loves it !!; its prob how I am as a person coz these encounters I have are really just a casual sex and good laugh I've developed that side rather than anything to mechanical though some girls lead me...
I just wondered if I came when I'm getting a bj and I cum would I get told off or anything ?? And they may get annoyed??

Offline raylondoner

Okay I've only ever had classy Dorris and daisy say about this others don't say anything or Milf Wendy said and actively encouraging me to cim and she loves it !!; its prob how I am as a person coz these encounters I have are really just a casual sex and good laugh I've developed that side rather than anything to mechanical though some girls lead me...
I just wondered if I came when I'm getting a bj and I cum would I get told off or anything ?? And they may get annoyed??

Might bite your dick off!  :dance:

Offline d00fer

Might bite your dick off!  :dance:

+1. Look at it this way, say for instance you don't like having your arsehole played with and had indicated that to the girl, but then she stuffed a massive un-lubed dildo up your arse and fucked you with it, how do you think you might feel?

#worstnightmarearghhhhhhh
Omg that's like tooooo scary then.

Offline cueball

Might bite your dick off!  :dance:

Good point Ray, you're not exactly in control with your best mate between two sets of biting noshers, I'd let her know well beforehand

Offline pianodave

I had this issue recently, was a few moments from exploding and hadn't discussed CIM (im not bothered about it) and wondered if I should shout something, or if she would hear me ... but she seemed to know anyway and removed it at the last moment, so it was ok. But it's a good question, are you supposed to shout to warn them? I have no idea.

Online monstar

You should definitely give them warning and it's doubly important if you have not confirmed CIM is available beforehand.

Offline raylondoner

I had this issue recently, was a few moments from exploding and hadn't discussed CIM (im not bothered about it) and wondered if I should shout something, or if she would hear me ... but she seemed to know anyway and removed it at the last moment, so it was ok. But it's a good question, are you supposed to shout to warn them? I have no idea.

Garde à l'eau  :hi:

I always discus prior or ask part way through if that's the way I want the punt to go.

I once saw a girl who said a guy came in her mouth without asking so she got her own back by going to the bathroom and pretending to spit it out then came back, got on the bed, looked lovingly in his eyes and spat it in his mouth when she went to kiss him.
Apparently the guy wasn't impressed at this and even less so when she charged him £20 for CIM then asked for an extra £20 for snowballing, he paid the £20 for CIM and basically got the point. 

Offline Tjkooker

I always discus prior or ask part way through if that's the way I want the punt to go.

I once saw a girl who said a guy came in her mouth without asking so she got her own back by going to the bathroom and pretending to spit it out then came back, got on the bed, looked lovingly in his eyes and spat it in his mouth when she went to kiss him.
Apparently the guy wasn't impressed at this and even less so when she charged him £20 for CIM then asked for an extra £20 for snowballing, he paid the £20 for CIM and basically got the point.

An ex did this to me when I was 18!! Minus the £20 cim charge though. I thought it was hilarious. We split up shortly after.
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jcdmj12

Okay so help me out here I'm intrigued.
CIM if offered or not or as an extra and not initially paid for or agreed BUT I end up exploding and letting her take my cum should I pay, apologise , laugh say thank you ???
I mean there's been times I've had some amazing bjs and don't know etiquette about warning her im gonna be coming or just holding myself back.
So I guess what I really want to know is this

 Is it okay to cim without prior agreement ?

I still tend not to be clear on services with these workers as try and let things either happen naturally or be led
Where are people on this who've had expoereince or just general views

Thank ya ll

No, it's not.  CIM increases the risk of contracting STDs for the WG, so it's a personal decision for her to take if she's happy with that risk.  It's a bit like trying to sneakily slip into her arse whilst doing her doggy style.  Both would be entirely reasonable grounds for her kicking you out.

Cim with a wg who doesn't offer it is a dickhead manoeuvre in my opinion...if you want specific services, find someone who offers them.

Offline Trevor12

CIM is not my thing, but if it was I'd definitely agree in advance. Once agreed, I wouldn't 'warn' her again though, just do it.

And not forgetting, how much are you going to spunk all over her face, if you haven't had a wank for a couple of weeks, and have it all stored up

Offline smiths

Okay so help me out here I'm intrigued.
CIM if offered or not or as an extra and not initially paid for or agreed BUT I end up exploding and letting her take my cum should I pay, apologise , laugh say thank you ???
I mean there's been times I've had some amazing bjs and don't know etiquette about warning her im gonna be coming or just holding myself back.
So I guess what I really want to know is this

 Is it okay to cim without prior agreement ?

I still tend not to be clear on services with these workers as try and let things either happen naturally or be led
Where are people on this who've had expoereince or just general views

Thank ya ll

All very simple and basic common sense to me. I seek agreement that anything I do sexually with a WG is agreed with her BEFORE I do it. Very clearly communicating avoids "misunderstandings" in my experience.

Offline Jimmyredcab

If a prostitute does not know you are about to spunk it must be her first day in the job.     :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

All very simple and basic common sense to me. I seek agreement that anything I do sexually with a WG is agreed with her BEFORE I do it. Very clearly communicating avoids "misunderstandings" in my experience.
Omg I'm still trying to get a hold of having a check list I make requests before meeting now and that's it but yea I guess I should check they will do this or that.
But I get it I kinda ask when I'm going along with things like finger fucking her or pussy sliding which girls have been more than happy with and encouraging. Im in the moment but yes I guess its good idea to confirm she does things coz this time before UK punting I saw this WG and she didn't even do kissing and im there stuck in the room! But now I feel I focused on encountering the right ladies. I'm also very clear that I don't want infection so I make sure condoms are given to me and by my side so I'm ready to go. I found that much better than a girl breaking off to get rubbers I have them ready out of her bag or draw so we can transition smoothly to being inside her. I'm sure you expoereinced guy already do that tactic but something I decided to be proactive and request before encounter even if she's rolling the rubber upon my hard one I want the rubbers visibly in sight when I enter the room either on bed or pillow and  not even on the side table.

Offline Siadwel

I had a booking with a well-reviewed girl just over a year ago. We never discussed CIM, but she has it on her Likes list. It just happened and she carried on as if it was all in a day's work.

Time to go back to her, I think.

I had a booking with a well-reviewed girl just over a year ago. We never discussed CIM, but she has it on her Likes list. It just happened and she carried on as if it was all in a day's work.

Time to go back to her, I think.

Name and fame her !! I got extra money over easter hols as had Ronaldo to score in El classico. Yessssahh

jcdmj12

I find it a massive turn on asking a girl "can I come in your mouth?" when I'm about to blow my load.  There is something so deliciously dirty about it.

Offline Sylvester

I thought this was a slightly strange question, given that the answer should be so plainly obvious.

Consent in all things sexual is very important, even more so in a paying arrangement with a girl you don't actually know.  In my view anything else is abusive.

Don't mean to get all heavy, but I think it's really important to remember and respect each girls individual limits.  If a girl doesn't do what you like, there are plenty more out there that will...
« Last Edit: March 22, 2015, 09:04:08 PM by Sylvester »
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