Popularity of certain services

[Zeusthedoc]

Just wondering - it's unlikely we will ever know the true extent but:

How popular are certain services with particular WGs...

For EG:
domination sessions (with a mistress and 1 other, male / female)
strapon
verbal humiliation
financial domination
etc

i've seen much advertised, but very few reviews about them here.
That is possibly due to people being embarrassed about their fetishes etc.

but are the girls who only offer such services struggling for business?
are regular girls (gfe/pse only) being approached for this stuff.

Just thinking / wandering rather than anything else.

[bensonhedges20]

I doubt many posters would confirm if they have had verbal humuliation or financial degredation
Its more a bdsm thing suited to those.

No one here is a dumb fuck to get raped by financial degredation.no one would willingly hand over a pot of gold so to speak. On the other hand there have been others who have given loans etc and never heard of the girl again.

Moat escorts cant properly provide these services anyway which is why the reviews are what they are.

[Zeusthedoc]

I doubt many posters would confirm if they have had verbal humuliation or financial degredation
Its more a bdsm thing suited to those.

No one here is a dumb fuck to get raped by financial degredation.no one would willingly hand over a pot of gold so to speak. On the other hand there have been others who have given loans etc and never heard of the girl again.

Moat escorts cant properly provide these services anyway which is why the reviews are what they are.

I assumed that to be the case.
But I guess I am wanting to know if the girls who offer these services have dusty phones.
not that it makes a difference, As I said - pain / degradation (of any kind) not really my thing.

I know there are some UKP users who are comfortable / confident enough to speak about most of, if not all of, everything they get up to - I'm thinking Hendrix and Horizontal Pleasures....

But are there guys out there, who might ask a WG and her male dom colleague to do what they do etc....

[SirFrank]

Just wondering - it's unlikely we will ever know the true extent but:

How popular are certain services with particular WGs...

For EG:
domination sessions (with a mistress and 1 other, male / female)
strapon
verbal humiliation
financial domination
.

I get most of this shit at home (thankfully with the exception of getting fucked up my shitbox) for nowt, why the fuck would I want to pay some bird for the pleasure ?

[johnnyboy61]

SirFrank, hat's off to you, as always, you are priceless sir!

[Ali Katt]

I think there is a reason BDSM services aren't reviewed on here often if at all. I the men into that are in a different subset of punters and are usually just into fetish services not straight sex services which I presume most people on here are into. I could be wrong though.

[Zeusthedoc]

fair enough - makes sense that this tends to be a forum for reviews of a fairly straight-forward nature.

with the exception of the odd threesome with a TS/TG here and there.
and the review of a post-op TS too - some claiming they didnt know till after the fact (me, genuinely)
others claiming that the post-op is every bit a woman as a person born as a female.

So i guess, we'll (on this site anyways) not be truly sure of the popularity of those BDSM services.

Oh well, on with life!

[Malvolio]

Financial domination?  Is that when you turn up and you find out you have to pay double?

[Sylvester]

Financial domination?  Is that when you turn up and you find out you have to pay double?

I find the idea of financial domination morbidly fascinating.  It's up there with getting nails hammered into your balls on the list of kinks I just don't understand.

Although presumably if your sack is nailed to the kitchen table it makes it much easier for the girl to Nick your credit cards...

[nigel4498]

Financial domination?  Is that when you turn up and you find out you have to pay double?

Plus everything on her enjoy list is extra too.

[Zeusthedoc]

That's partly the intrigue for finding out how popular some of this shit is.

[Little Katie]

Hi DOPEBEATS..

Bit of insight for you..

I can't speak on behalf of all escorts as we're all different.. I'm sure there are some girls that would be put off by unusual requests where other's would quite welcome the opportunity to entertain certain fetishes.

In my experience so far I'd say 90% of my clients have requested a GFE/PSE type experience on the first meet. Of this 90% an estimated 70% have been open and suggestible to experiment with BDSM in further meetings whilst the other 20% are happy to keep things fairly vanilla. It's just personal preference.
Only 10% have actually began communications by expressing their desire for a specific BDSM scenario.
However, figures from the majority would clearly suggest a lot of people are indeed curious to explore this avenue but perhaps they're just a bit shy, polite or embarrassed to instigate it on a first meeting.

Financial Domination - Never been asked for this so couldn't comment!

Review wise.. I think you're probably right. None of my exclusively fetish clients have posted a review about our sessions.
Maybe this is due to privacy reasons, maybe it's out of courtesy, maybe it's because they deem it irrelevant to most of the punters on here, maybe they are not members of UKP.. I honestly don't know.. I'd have to ask them about this one! 

[Zeusthedoc]

Hi DOPEBEATS..

Bit of insight for you..

I can't speak on behalf of all escorts as we're all different.. I'm sure there are some girls that would be put off by unusual requests where other's would quite welcome the opportunity to entertain certain fetishes.

In my experience so far I'd say 90% of my clients have requested a GFE/PSE type experience on the first meet. Of this 90% an estimated 70% have been open and suggestible to experiment with BDSM in further meetings whilst the other 20% are happy to keep things fairly vanilla. It's just personal preference.
Only 10% have actually began communications by expressing their desire for a specific BDSM scenario.
However, figures from the majority would clearly suggest a lot of people are indeed curious to explore this avenue but perhaps they're just a bit shy, polite or embarrassed to instigate it on a first meeting.

Financial Domination - Never been asked for this so couldn't comment!

Review wise.. I think you're probably right. None of my exclusively fetish clients have posted a review about our sessions.
Maybe this is due to privacy reasons, maybe it's out of courtesy, maybe it's because they deem it irrelevant to most of the punters on here, maybe they are not members of UKP.. I honestly don't know.. I'd have to ask them about this one! 

Fair enough.
I guess that given you tend to lean towards the GFE/PSE in terms of what you offer - you're less likely to be contacted by the guys that are in to the whole BDSM stuff!

Thanks for shedding some light on the topic though!

[Jimmyredcab]

I think there is a reason BDSM services aren't reviewed on here often if at all. I the men into that are in a different subset of punters and are usually just into fetish services not straight sex services which I presume most people on here are into. I could be wrong though.

Yes, you are wrong ------------------- I am into BDSM and normal sexual sevices.     

[od13218]

This is a really interesting topic for me: my punting career has veered between vanilla and really quite heavy BDSM stuff, and in fact for many years I *only* went "out" for the kinky stuff (which was not on the menu at home). I often fancied the idea of a dominant Mistress-type who also offered sex (especially at the end of a seriously kinky session, when I was incredibly wound up!), but as a rule BDSM specialists never do this. There are I believe one or two exceptions but I've never had the good fortune so far...
There are also ladies who offer both but never (or rarely) combine them - i.e. you can book them as "Mistress X" who will tie you up, whip you senseless, sit on your face for half an hour while pulling on your nipple clamps before pulling out the strap-on or as plain "X" who will do your GFE/PSE or whatever is on her vanilla menu - but not both.
I reviewed Scarlett of Watford a few days ago from a visit in September when the main appeal was that she *would* do both (though again she advertises as either "SCarlett" or "Mistress Scarlett" suggestion that most of her clients would choose one or the other) - but in the end was in my vanilla zone and didn't venture very far down the submission route.
I think this is the nub of the issue - it's quite unusual for the 2 types of experience to combine successfully. If you're in submissive mode, part of the kick is knowing that there is something you can't have - i.e. her pussy! - but of course you desperately want it and even the promise of a taste if you "behave" is enough to make you do what she says. (I appreciate this is a minority taste lol!) So a lot of guys genuinely *don't* want sex with a dominatrix because that kind of breaks the spell.
Somehow I can imagine it working more successfully in the other direction: starting with an intense GFE, maybe leading to a bit of extended facesitting or tie & tease and gradually getting more intense & testing your boundaries.
I must say the idea of WGs who offer both is a BIG turn-on for me - though only if she is genuinely into the BDSM part of it, and hasn't just stuck it on the list for the sake of it. I'm in a vanilla phase at the moment but will definitely be seeking this out again soon.
Having said all that - financial domination/blackmail just sounds absolutely bonkers to me! And that's from someone who has tried pretty much everything on the BDSM list... (I can write reviews if anyone's interested but rather assumed that wasn't most people's cup of tea round here and didn't want to put anyone off their breakfast!)

[CatBBW]

In my experience - when I was strictly GFE I was repeatedly approached by the kinksters wanting more than (or instead of) penetration. I get the impression that a lot of guys want to try things but 1) without paying premium "lifestyle domme" prices, and 2) without having a scary woman (or man) beat them up, and 3) within the confines of a more "fluffy" booking.

I started out in 2010 offering sex. Straight vanilla sex, BJs, GFE type thing. But - apart from my very first client - I found the activities requested were "kinky". They wanted to be spanked, edged, tied up (or down), face sat (I had NO idea THAT was a 'thing' until I started this job!), babied (as in Adult Babies, again, an eye-opener!)...so my services offered changed to reflect what the clients wanted.

By around 2012/2013, I had stopped offering GFE/sex all together as 99% of enquiries were asking for domme services - all the above and more. Fisting (on them), prostate massage, breath play/asphixiation, strapon, humiliation, sissification, forced bi, forced cum-eating, hardsports, snot, vomit and more (MUCH more) were all oft requested (although mainly not fulfilled as I just can't face most of those services  ). Even had a handful of guys wanting full castration

Verbal humiliation is more popular on cam/text/phone than in RL sessions for me.

Strapon is one of the most requested RL services, although I haven't ever found a harness that was big enough (and have recently gone off poking around in men's bums because the prostate massage is smelly enough even after they've fully douched/evacuated).

Body part "Worship" is a popular one too, when I'm domming, with ass-cleaning (rimming) and licking my shoes/boots clean being being the most requested.

Financial domination. Now that's a funny one. It's not as easy as some of the "instadommes" ("give me your money" bratty princess etc) often think it is. The so-called finslaves and finsubs are VERY VERY needy. If you had 1000 self-proclaimed "finslaves" queuing for you, you could easily whittle that down to 2 by setting them 1 simple test: "Please give me a fiver". 998 will mooooan and gripe and whiiiiine and call you greedy and bitch that they want to see your tits first. The other 2 will pay up. But then one of them will expect to see your tits now. The other one might play the game, for a few weeks, or months....being a needy little worm who wants phone calls 3 times a day and expects to have you at HIS beck and call.

Hope this has answered some of your questions

Just wondering - it's unlikely we will ever know the true extent but:

How popular are certain services with particular WGs...

For EG:
domination sessions (with a mistress and 1 other, male / female)
strapon
verbal humiliation
financial domination
etc

i've seen much advertised, but very few reviews about them here.
That is possibly due to people being embarrassed about their fetishes etc.

but are the girls who only offer such services struggling for business?
are regular girls (gfe/pse only) being approached for this stuff.

Just thinking / wandering rather than anything else.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

I think Cat .. we can conclude that there's "Nowt as queer as folk" as  those wise people in gods chose county always say;!..

[anyfucker]

I doubt many posters would confirm if they have had verbal humuliation or financial degredation

why go to a prossie when we have sirfrank on this very board, he'd probably be happy to humiliate you for a fraction of what you might pay 
{my usual commission applies}
Oops, just read sirfrank's post above so maybe he and his wife could give a threesome.

[johnnyboy61]

I've had one BDSM session which went vanilla partway through. There were several reasons for this: I had never tried it before and went because I liked the look of the girl, but as she offered these services thought it might be a chance to try them out. In the pre-action chat it turned out that we knew each other vaguely and had lots of common friends. Decided to carry on, but just couldn't cope with the role play. She stuck a buttplug up my arse and then made me kneel on the floor, put a gimp mask on and some nipple clamps. I'm afraid I found it very difficult to be subservient and when she demanded that I look in the mirror to look at myself I just burst out laughing! At which point she said "you're not really into this are you?" and the punt suddenly switched with 40 mins left to a GFE. Booked her one more for a GFE, but have since moved out of the area. She now seems to have gone completely domme, with her own dungeon etc. and it looks unlikely that she would flip to GFE now.

[Zeusthedoc]

I've had one BDSM session which went vanilla partway through. There were several reasons for this: I had never tried it before and went because I liked the look of the girl, but as she offered these services thought it might be a chance to try them out. In the pre-action chat it turned out that we knew each other vaguely and had lots of common friends. Decided to carry on, but just couldn't cope with the role play. She stuck a buttplug up my arse and then made me kneel on the floor, put a gimp mask on and some nipple clamps. I'm afraid I found it very difficult to be subservient and when she demanded that I look in the mirror to look at myself I just burst out laughing! At which point she said "you're not really into this are you?" and the punt suddenly switched with 40 mins left to a GFE. Booked her one more for a GFE, but have since moved out of the area. She now seems to have gone completely domme, with her own dungeon etc. and it looks unlikely that she would flip to GFE now.

I have thought this - I met with a WG once who then changed her services to a 'non-sexual' nature. I contacted her and suggested that given that we had met previously with a different pretence, would she be willing to offer me her old services. She obliged, but asked me not to share. Given her request, I haven't said anything. She's no longer on AW but has kept her punting number - the odd text gets a reply when she wants to work/make a quick buck.

So, long story short - it might be worth asking!

[slavealan75]

As my username suggests I one of those members who does want BDSM and Fetish type session. I have been happy to ask any provider on AW about a kinkier session if their likes are BDSM, tie and tease etc.

The reason I search AW rather than Pro Domme websites is that I don't enjoy things too severe and really enjoy RO. A lot of Pro Dommes will not consider this under any circumstances.

Back to the question at hand. I find it difficult to review girls services because I am looking for something completely different. I don't want OWO, CIM or Anal and there are personal reasons for that.

I can report back on if a lady is genuine though and did the things promised. That is why I have no reviews.

[Zeusthedoc]

As my username suggests I one of those members who does want BDSM and Fetish type session. I have been happy to ask any provider on AW about a kinkier session if their likes are BDSM, tie and tease etc.

The reason I search AW rather than Pro Domme websites is that I don't enjoy things too severe and really enjoy RO. A lot of Pro Dommes will not consider this under any circumstances.

Back to the question at hand. I find it difficult to review girls services because I am looking for something completely different. I don't want OWO, CIM or Anal and there are personal reasons for that.

I can report back on if a lady is genuine though and did the things promised. That is why I have no reviews.

Power to you buddy!

As long as its legal - get your rocks off!

[socks]

I've had one or two punts where I've asked to be on the receiving end of some BDSM activities but am not into the role playing or humiliation aspect at all. So I sometimes like being spanked, having my legs slapped, bits being pegged, being pissed on, being spat on etc, but it's purely a physical sensation thing. If they come out with all that "naughty boy", "obey your mistress you worthless piece of shit", or alledge that I have a tiny cock etc etc, I'd get a flop on.

[jimbobwood]

As my username suggests I one of those members who does want BDSM and Fetish type session. I have been happy to ask any provider on AW about a kinkier session if their likes are BDSM, tie and tease etc.

The reason I search AW rather than Pro Domme websites is that I don't enjoy things too severe and really enjoy RO. A lot of Pro Dommes will not consider this under any circumstances.

Back to the question at hand. I find it difficult to review girls services because I am looking for something completely different. I don't want OWO, CIM or Anal and there are personal reasons for that.

I can report back on if a lady is genuine though and did the things promised. That is why I have no reviews.

Still do a review mate!

I would be interested in BDSM and Tie and Tease. I like CBT, prostate massage, spanking and foot fetish.

It doesn't matter what is the norm, write it anyway. Makes the reviews section more interesting.

[slavealan75]

Okay mate I will. I will do some retrospective reports in the South West section.

My concerns really came around the fact I enjoy StrapOn play

[Zeusthedoc]

Okay mate I will. I will do some retrospective reports in the South West section.

My concerns really came around the fact I enjoy StrapOn play

Only a concern if you do it and don't enjoy it.
We're all adults here, if someone doesn't enjoy your review, they can Fuck off.

[Topgun]

I don't get how some men enjoy financial domination of showering women with gifts so to speak, for no or little return physical pleasure.
The amount of money some of these guys spend on women, I could fuck a load of very fit high class women escorts.

I suppose it's a bit like in our younger days, or men who find it easy to get laid with attractive women - why spend money on whores when you can get laid at the local pub so to speak... if only it was that easy for most of us or else escorts would be unheard of.

[slavealan75]

Financial Domination appears to be young girls trying to make easy money (easier than escorting ) I'm not a fan of it and personally won't do it.