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Author Topic: Do you ever feel too shy/awkward to ask for services?  (Read 1814 times)

Offline tallguy74

Like usually I will just say I'm into everything to the girl and let her take control of the situation. But I would like to try certain things but always feel me biting me tongue
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Offline itk

Used to when I first started punting, but nowadays I ask for everything I want. After all I'm the one paying for services

Offline Greedo

Like usually I will just say I'm into everything to the girl and let her take control of the situation. But I would like to try certain things but always feel me biting me tongue

+1,  usually feel too awkward to go in demanding specific services so tend to just go with the flow more..... definitely on first meet anyway whereas 2nd meet can start to feel more relaxed and discuss positions etc a bit more

Yes, I feel a bit shy and embarrassed - I remember when i asked her first time if she could swallow my load. I was so embarrassed to ask...
But with my regulars it's not a problem - they know what I want. :hi:

Offline tallguy74

It keeps happening to me whenever I leave a punt, I'm thinking, I should have done this and that, feeling unsatisfied
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Tony Montana

It keeps happening to me whenever I leave a punt, I'm thinking, I should have done this and that, feeling unsatisfied

You will probably find that the wg was wishing you would tell her what you like, what to do etc, at the same time you were biting your tongue.

Good sex is about communication as everyone is different

I would always tell the girl about what I would like to do or my requirements, but I also leave them a lot of room to do what they are good at.  :wacko:

Like usually I will just say I'm into everything to the girl and let her take control of the situation. But I would like to try certain things but always feel me biting me tongue

As Lex has already said it's better for both you and the wg if you're up-front about what services are important to you. By doing that you'll also suss out the girls who say they offer certain services but, in reality, don't. Like you I initially found it hard to confirm services but have become used to it so it's much easier to do now I'm a bit further down the punting road.  :)
« Last Edit: March 17, 2015, 02:24:27 PM by ForrestGump »

Offline Stiltskin

It actually turns me off if I have to talk about what I want. I prefer just to go with the flow and check a girl's boundaries as things progress. This mostly works for me, but I'm a vanilla GFE guy most days.

Only at the start of my punting. Now agree list, running order and if on role play, the scenario. Experienced wgs will give you what you want.

tcm

Offline fredpunter

You could always try an rb, may find it easier to write down what you want to do and (in an ideal world) those bidding should be willing to do it.

Offline bobajob

I used to find it difficult but having found UK Punting I have been much more assertive in what I am looking for. UKP has made me realise that I am paying for the experience and I should walk away feeling that I have got everything that I wanted from the punt.

jcdmj12

No, but sometimes I am forgetful and leave out the bit about the goat.

Offline Siadwel

No, but sometimes I am forgetful and leave out the bit about the goat.


 :lol:

Offline Siadwel

I establish from the off that OWO and CIM is on the menu, for the price and leave it at that.

One girl asked me what I like to do. I said, 'I like to fuck sexy little hookers half my age'. 'Ok', she said, 'I'll go and get my mum'.


I said, 'I like to fuck sexy little hookers half my age'. 'Ok', she said, 'I'll go and get my mum'.

 :lol:

Offline smiths

Like usually I will just say I'm into everything to the girl and let her take control of the situation. But I would like to try certain things but always feel me biting me tongue

Certainly not, I know EXACTLY what I require and so does the WG from my phone enquiry to her. If I don't get it its always because the WG is a liar.

My advice is specify what you want and always remember its you paying.

Offline spkmstr48

I establish from the off that OWO and CIM is on the menu, for the price and leave it at that.

One girl asked me what I like to do. I said, 'I like to fuck sexy little hookers half my age'. 'Ok', she said, 'I'll go and get my mum'.

 :lol:

It depends if I just want a fuck, or the girl doesn't speak English, I'll go with the flow.

If I want to train a filthy submissive slut, it's lots of written communication to explain exactly what will be required of her. And of course to agree the "consequences" for bad behaviour.

The more elaborate the scenario, the more comms needed, a quick f*** needs none.
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Offline Lager

In the past I didn't like it as Im partial to being rimmed. I didn't like asking somebody I didn't know to lick my arse! Now I don't care so much its a simple yes or no!

Never had that problem, I find it a turn on discussing services on the phone / email before hand.

You've booked a prostitute to have sex with, most people would find that really embarrassing. It should not be a big deal to go the little extra inch and ask for everything you want. Really surprised that most people in this thread say they trouble asking for what they want.

Never had that problem, I find it a turn on discussing services on the phone / email before hand.

You've booked a prostitute to have sex with, most people would find that really embarrassing. It should not be a big deal to go the little extra inch and ask for everything you want. Really surprised that most people in this thread say they trouble asking for what they want.

I agree brightperv. I like to get things agreed before the meet which is a good gauge of not only the prossie's attitude but also how willing she is to get down and dirty. If she won't talk about the details of the punt or agree to deliver some services then I move on. The meeting, after all, is about sex in all its glory.

Offline spkmstr48

Never had that problem, I find it a turn on discussing services on the phone / email before hand.

You've booked a prostitute to have sex with, most people would find that really embarrassing. It should not be a big deal to go the little extra inch and ask for everything you want. Really surprised that most people in this thread say they trouble asking for what they want.

Treat the communication beforehand as free foreplay, leaving you free to get the best possible use out of the paid time, not difficult or unreasonable. Also the more you're paying, the more important this is.
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Offline Dani

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You will probably find that the wg was wishing you would tell her what you like, what to do etc, at the same time you were biting your tongue.

Good sex is about communication as everyone is different

This is so true. We are not mind readers but are paid to give a good time. It's not easy to do if you have no idea what the client wants. At the beginning of the punt before handing over the cash just say during the booking you would like X Y and Z to happen. Most girls will work it into the punt so it feels smooth and glowing which is better than stopping every five minutes to say ok can we do this  now. However if she forgets or doesn't di what you want just remind her.  you pay for you to have fun so don't be shy about letting a girl know what makes it fun for you. She is likely to prefer that rather than having to try and guess what you want and just hoping she gets it right. She wont be offended as its what she is paid for.
 

It keeps happening to me whenever I leave a punt, I'm thinking, I should have done this and that, feeling unsatisfied

Same here, each time I think 'today I'm going to be clear what I want so that I get it' but I get in and go with flow and end up kicking myself

Offline Warwick Hunt

If your not naturally assertive it difficult ask a for a particular kind of service.
This is where the top girls come into play, there instinctive, they bring it out for you, they know how to get the job done.
But yes, we should ask without fear, but its not easy.
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