Firstly, Mr 306 asked about hot wax.
It was a domme who told me that she has 3 different types of candle by temperature and when she had used lowest, then middle one on me.
It takes a long, careful, hot shower to get the wax off a hairy torso and legs.
Thinking about the theme of building trust. A domme I saw recently as an escort at HOD was safely parcelled in one of my hugs.
I said that I was surprised that a girl as dominant as she is so enjoyed being held that way. Her reply was "All girls like a good hug".
Perhaps that's why I get so much trust so soon. I am more than old enough to be a father figure and strong enough to provide a really good hug. One WG told me that I am easily the strongest of her repeat clients. Perhaps being wrapped up in a strong hug conveys a feeling of security which morphs into trust.
Of course, I may be completely wrong. It can happen.