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Author Topic: Does anyone believe the prossies line "I really enjoy my work"?  (Read 16640 times)

Offline Miss A Squires

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So what you're saying is any WG is a relationship where her partner is fully aware of her profession can't have commitment, loyalty and trust in that relationship?


Offline mattylondon

So what you're saying is any WG is a relationship where her partner is fully aware of her profession can't have commitment, loyalty and trust in that relationship?

No, because the very fact that you have sex with other men demonstrates that you have no commitment?! You are still emotionally engaged, especially if you provide something like French kissing (with discretion) that you do?! Can you kiss with no emotion then?

Naturally, somebody like you would say that you're committed emotionally, rather than physically, but that's just a load of tosh used to justify the former.

Ask yourself an honest question then. Would you be happy for your partner to sleep with other prossies or women, as long as he said it was purely physical?

Offline Miss A Squires

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It's a job. Yes I'm in it for the physical. And I would actively prefer it if a partner slept with escorts than had an affair. I understand that sex can be purely physical but it's the other half you come back to, who looks after you and you share your life with.

If a WG is lying about her job, then there is no honesty or trust.

Some people just enjoy sex - I'm surprised you're on a forum like this if you can differentiate between sex with and without emotion.

Some people have long lasting happy relationships where the girl is a WG, heck some are even married. That's their choice and it works for them. It's foolish for you to judge relationships and generalise when you clearly have no personal understanding of it.

Have an opinion yes but don't start telling people that they can and can't have relationships a particular way because of what they do.

Offline kizzie

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Hi all. After many months just watching, I'm raising my head and waiting for the bullets! Yes, I really enjoy my job. Not every day, not every client, but mostly.  One of the most frustrating things about this forum is (by some) the constant assumption that everytime a prostitute opens her mouth, it"s to lie. It's really exhausting and a tad boring! The assumption I mean. The job is never boring.  I'm very lucky in that I don't seem to attract arseholes and am busy enough to pick and choose to a certain extent.  I can only speak for myself, but even on a bad .day this is still the best job I've ever had. But then, so far, I've never stacked shelves. Lol. 

Fatpro$$ie

Yes I would. I have even booked a girl for him as a surprise before.  He however prefers swinging as I have said before as then he knows the girl is doing it with him because she wants to not just for money.   I guess we are a little more sexually liberated than you.  We know we are comitted to eachother 100% and would never have an emotional affair but we both like to explore sex with other people.

Please try and remember that before religion came along and decided we should only have one partner, we had many as often as we chose.  I nor my partner are religious in anyway so do not think we should have to live by the morals and guidelines religion sets us.

We both know that no matter how many people we have sex with we love each other, will always be there for each other.  We dont have jealousy or secrecy in our partnership.  Do you not think that partners who are completely honest with each other have more love and respect for their partners than those who choose to lie and hide their activities?

Just because you feel that to love someone you have to be monogamous, it does not mean others have to feel the same way.  Sex for us is an enjoyment, a hobby if you will and something we choose to share and enjoy with others.

At the end of the day, we are not opening up our hearts and lives to others, we are just having sex.  I think perhaps you expect everyone to follow your views but thankfully the world is full of differing views and opinions which gives us all plenty of choice about how we live and what we do. 

Offline mattylondon

For someone who pays for sex you are rather judgemental aren't you.  Saying a man cannot love or respect his wife if she is a Wg, is no different to a prossie saying all punters are sad pathetic losers who can only get sex by paying for it.  Both are generalisations and both untrue

And just so you know, I pay for sex in addition to having sex with regular women too.  :cool:

My rationale is very simple...

Sometimes I like a good chat drink and conversation with women I like. Sometimes I just want a fuck. Sometimes I like both!

The advantage of paying for a prostitute is that I can get exactly what I want, when I want and not have to buy somebody drinks/pay for a meal and endure their dreary life story, when the only thing I'm interested in is a fuck! It's that simple!

The only thing you're interested in, ultimately, is my money... the only thing I want from you is a fuck. Now if we can click, we both walk away happy.  :cool:

Fatpro$$ie

You were the one making judgements not me.  I do not care why people pay for sex. Everyone has their own reasons and I would never pass judgement.  Unlike you, who seems to feel he can judge others because the woman is having sex outside the partnership.  You seem to have a very closed minded view of other peoples relationships.  Perhaps it is just the fact that women are having extra marital activities that you find hard to comprehend rather than either side having sex outside of their marriage

Offline mattylondon

One of the most frustrating things about this forum is (by some) the constant assumption that everytime a prostitute opens her mouth, it"s to lie.

That's because most of you do lie, in one form or other!! lol  :D And most switched on punters realise that, just as they often tell porkies to!

I take it as a given that most prossies lie and will  tell me what they think I want to hear, but I really couldn't care less. I'm just interested in the punt. It just amuses me when I read or hear certain things and it's assumed we're all that stupid!

Isn't lying a necessary evil of the job? To protect ones privacy and so on?

Otherwise, if you're that proud, I'm sure you'd put your real full name on whatever profile you use and inform HMRC so that you can pay tax, just like the rest of us!!! lol Or perhaps you do both already?  :P

Offline mattylondon

Perhaps it is just the fact that women are having extra marital activities that you find hard to comprehend rather than either side having sex outside of their marriage

You do make me laugh.  :D

I'd find it hard to comprehend if either the man or woman, whilst married, did that. It's got nothing to do with just picking on women. It applies both ways. Although, yes,  everybody has their own reasons, naturally.

It's just my personal view that any man whose happy for their wife to prostitute herself and have sex with other men is either not a real man, or simply deep down, has no respect for you and is probably up to no good himself, without your knowledge!

Doesn't mean people can't care about one other, but have respect? I doubt that.

Think we'll agree to disagree.




Fatpro$$ie

Of course we lie about our names and where we live.  Would you want a drunk punter banging on your door at 3am?  It however does not mean everything we say is a lie.  It is no different to clients turning up and calling themseves Pete and when you see them the following month their name has changed to Jim.
 The whole booking is basically a lie as well as it is a fantasy. Something that is not real.  A good GFE is a lie. 
When does a woman ever meet a man and 30 seconds later have her tongue down his throat and be stripping at the same time.
 Its fantasy, fantasy is not reality hence it is a lie.  Would you really want a prossie to be truthful and say thanks for the money but I find you really unattractive so dont want to kiss you or give you a BJ but will,  if I dont have to look at you and you dont mind me cringing. Of course not, you expect us to lie and say how lovely you are, how good you are etc, its part of our job.

Fatpro$$ie

We will have to disagree as I find your remarks rather insulting. My husband cannot respect me as we both like other sexual partners is very insulting.  I dont understand people who only stay with one partner even when that gets boring but I dont judge them or make sweeping statements because I have the ability to comprehend that others view points differ from mine and can be just as valued. 
What you have to remember is, just because it is a value you hold dear, not everyone will feel the same way. That does not mean their relationship has less respect.  It means they prefer to live another way than the one society has decided is the right way to live.  Actually not even society but religion decided it

Offline mattylondon



Some people just enjoy sex - I'm surprised you're on a forum like this if you can differentiate between sex with and without emotion.


I can have sex with or without emotion. That will largely depend on my mood, the girl and the types of services I choose to book. What's your point exactly?

I'm on here chiefly to discuss punts with other punters and know the good prossies from the bad. There are a lot a scams and lying service providers out there. I have no wish to throw my money down the drain on a bad punt and Adultwork's field reports are largely a lie and we all know why. I find this forum very informative, unbiased and ultimately, it potentially saves me money..

I'm sure you're a very nice person, but I'm not really on here to interact with prostitutes. This is my private time. I'm always happy to interact directly after a booking and have done so, having some very informative conversations many times, so I'm not just talking out of my arse, as it may seem!! I have spoken to real working girls, face to face and things such as this thread do pop up.

This is chiefly a punter's forum, to discuss punting, is it not?
« Last Edit: December 10, 2011, 05:50:00 PM by mattylondon »

Offline jackdaw


Isn't lying a necessary evil of the job? To protect ones privacy and so on?

Otherwise, if you're that proud, I'm sure you'd put your real full name on whatever profile you use and inform HMRC so that you can pay tax, just like the rest of us!!! lol Or perhaps you do both already?  :P

No, I disagree. First nobody needs to lie to protect their privacy. No courteous punter would ask any WG anything that might compromise their privacy, so why would a lie be needed? If an inappropriate question is asked... WG can just politely decline to answer. I really don't see that as any different to the rules of courtesy that should apply between anybody.

Again I don't regard not putting ones full name on profiles, etc as lying. I don't put my full name ono my own profiles.... that's nothing to do with lying.... no system of ethics I've heard of requires you to tell the whole world everything about oneself. Indeed doing so, can clearly be wrong.... I can think of many instances where I've not disclosed full information... not for my own gain but because I sincerely believed revealing details would hurt others.

Finally, the "tax question". I may be the only punter in the world that believes many successful WG's organise their tax and financial affairs legitimately. But I do... mainly for pragmatic reasons... such as getting mortgages, and sleeping soundly at night. Equally sure some don't... just as many people in other jobs where there's a lot of pretty untrue-able don't. I've not seen anything to convince me that their financial probity is any different from any other groups. (They probably fall from grace a bit more often because they have a lot more opportunity. But "let he who is without sin cast the first stone....").

Fatpro$$ie

This is chiefly a punter's forum, to discuss punting, is it not?

So stop directly quoting prossies and posting about their relationships if you dont want prossies to have a discussion with you. Simples......

Offline mattylondon

So stop directly quoting prossies and posting about their relationships if you dont want prossies to have a discussion with you. Simples......

I'll do exactly what I please and say exactly what I like, within the forum rules. This is punter's forum. You are here as guests, at the invitation of the moderator.

If I've touched a raw nerve with your personal situation, that wasn't my intention. I just find that some of you girls talk a lot of nonsense on such things! You're not fooling anybody but yourself

I suggest that you just chill out and stop taking yourself so seriously.  :cool:

That's my last.. simples!!  :P

Offline mattylondon

No, I disagree. First nobody needs to lie to protect their privacy.

I don't disagree with anything you've said.

No self respecting punter would ever ask or expect a WG to reveal her real name.

I was responding to the "I'm a prostitute and proud" type of comment. If you're that proud and can justify it, then you should have no problem being above board with everything.

Obviously, the reality is that it would be impossible to do that.

I was just being cheeky!

Finally, the "tax question". I may be the only punter in the world that believes many successful WG's organise their tax and financial affairs legitimately.

You really believe that? I think you're being a little naive there, but if you honestly believe that, fair enough!

I'd give credit to those that do, but I'm pretty sure that would be a tiny minority.
« Last Edit: December 10, 2011, 06:05:46 PM by mattylondon »

Fatpro$$ie

Until a moderator asks me to stop posting I will carry on as so far they have had no objections to me posting on here.

As for your views I think you have shown exactly how closed minded and ignorant you really are and I think you have a very low opinion of WG's in general by what you have posted.  How you can possibly call something you obviously have no comprehension of as nonsense just shows how you do not understand the complexities of life at all.

I think opening a conversation and then when it is not going the way you want, try to end it by telling me to chill is so childish.  This is not school, we are not children.  This is a forum, forums are where if you start questioning people and their motives or lives they will respond.  Get used to it. 
This may be a punters forum but I have always stood by the ethos of this place and it is down to the mods whether I post or not, not you.
I am quite aware I am a guest here as are you and do not need reminding by someone other than those with the authority to do so.

Offline mattylondon

Until a moderator asks me to stop posting I will carry on as so far they have had no objections to me posting on here.

As for your views I think you have shown exactly how closed minded and ignorant you really are and I think you have a very low opinion of WG's in general by what you have posted.  How you can possibly call something you obviously have no comprehension of as nonsense just shows how you do not understand the complexities of life at all.

I think opening a conversation and then when it is not going the way you want, try to end it by telling me to chill is so childish.  This is not school, we are not children.  This is a forum, forums are where if you start questioning people and their motives or lives they will respond.  Get used to it. 
This may be a punters forum but I have always stood by the ethos of this place and it is down to the mods whether I post or not, not you.
I am quite aware I am a guest here as are you and do not need reminding by someone other than those with the authority to do so.

Nobody objected to you posting anything on here. What an Earth are you on about? I'm simply stating my right to be on here, as this is chiefly a punter's forum.

I'm perfectly entitled to my view, as are others.

It's obviously touched a raw nerve of yours. As for the rest of your rant, I think you just need to calm down.
« Last Edit: December 10, 2011, 06:10:33 PM by mattylondon »

Offline smiths

How i view things are i punt for sex and can easily seperate sex from love, i am a very selfish person which makes it that much easier.

I dont believe in the concept of monogomy, it really sucks and is alien to me and always has been and always will be. However like most men i want to be loved which punting is unlikely to offer and in my case i wanted children as well, so i have been lucky enough to find love and have a child. But i require sex with a variety of women so i punt to fulfil that desire. As i said its selfishness and wanting my cake and to eat it.

So i am a self confessed lying cheating selfish arsehole who doesnt feel guilty.

Offline mattylondon



So i am a self confessed lying cheating selfish arsehole who doesnt feel guilty.

Ah yes, but at least you're an honest, lying, cheating arsehole, who provides informative posts.... if that contradiction makes sense!!   :P


So i am a self confessed lying cheating selfish arsehole who doesnt feel guilty


Quote of the week imo,  laughed like fuck!! :lol:

Offline kizzie

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That's because most of you do lie, in one form or other!! lol  :D And most switched on punters realise that, just as they often tell porkies to!

I take it as a given that most prossies lie and will  tell me what they think I want to hear, but I really couldn't care less. I'm just interested in the punt. It just amuses me when I read or hear certain things and it's assumed we're all that stupid!

Isn't lying a necessary evil of the job? To protect ones privacy and so on?

Otherwise, if you're that proud, I'm sure you'd pi'ut your real full name on whatever profile you use and inform HMRC so that you can pay tax, just limke the rest of us!!! lol Or perhaps you do both already?  :P


Ok. Yes (hold the front page) KL isn't my real name but perhaps in a different world (I'm thinking Japanese geisha of a different century. Pls don't insist I go look up which century to prove my point, though I will if I must) I would use it. Tax? I'm self-employed like many, but if you really think the IF don't have access to AW etc, you are in different world. Right that's the usual crap dealt with, back to the point, lying. 
Without doubt you make some points, but why on here? If you are about to say publicity, I take the point but it really isn't that sort of platform in my opinion. Hence why I've never posted before. I'm still not sure I've done the wise thing. The reason I have is because in this hidden world, sometimes you just want to put your point.

Offline kiwi69

Hi all. After many months just watching, I'm raising my head and waiting for the bullets! Yes, I really enjoy my job. Not every day, not every client, but mostly.  One of the most frustrating things about this forum is (by some) the constant assumption that everytime a prostitute opens her mouth, it"s to lie. It's really exhausting and a tad boring! The assumption I mean. The job is never boring.  I'm very lucky in that I don't seem to attract arseholes and am busy enough to pick and choose to a certain extent. I can only speak for myself, but even on a bad .day this is still the best job I've ever had. But then, so far, I've never stacked shelves. Lol.

If that is you in youravatar...................that I can well believe .         :)

Offline Wayang

I'll do exactly what I please and say exactly what I like, within the forum rules. This is punter's forum. You are here as guests, at the invitation of the moderator.
That's my last.. simples!!  :P

Bullshit - anyone male or female can be a member of ULPUnting and WGs are not guests.
They are bound by the same rules as you.

And your continued negative posts about WGs makes me wonder why you are here atall.

Offline kiwi69

Nobody objected to you posting anything on here. What an Earth are you on about? I'm simply stating my right to be on here, as this is chiefly a punter's forum.

I'm perfectly entitled to my view, as are others.

It's obviously touched a raw nerve of yours. As for the rest of your rant, I think you just need to calm down.

I think you are a  sanctimonious arse wipe .  :rolleyes:           Not the infamous  " 1234's " older sibling , are we  ?  :unknown:


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