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Author Topic: Does anyone believe the prossies line "I really enjoy my work"?  (Read 16634 times)

Offline softlad

Tell you what (seeing as its you) I'll even let you spill it on my carpet. :D

  :D :drinks:

I may be guilty of assuming what is people's minds. Non prostitutes I have known would have never contemplated sex without love or a commitment but I suppose if you are whoring for a living then you have to be able to separate the two to be able to cope long term. If your punters are in the main at least acceptable then maybe they can enjoy their work.

Offline finn5555

All prossies love it with me as I am a sex god     :drinks:

Offline kiwi69

IMO, girls who are good providers all have a high sex drive and do enjoy the  " work ", as one favourite ( a  particularly horny and tabulous )  Thai MILF in a FKK said, " How would you like to have orgasms and get paid a E100 an hour ?! " Those same girls are also pretty picky when it comes to their clients, any guy who is obese, has crap personal hygiene, is rude or tries to get rough ( generally guys from EE/Muslim countries )  get the short shift and the word gets passed around.

Sometimes they strike out with a guy who is an asshole, but often have days only going with  " stammkunde" ( regulars ). Treat them to a GFE and you get a GFE/PSE back............ :P :D

Offline Ali Katt

IMO, girls who are good providers all have a high sex drive and do enjoy the  " work ", as one favourite ( a  particularly horny and tabulous )  Thai MILF in a FKK said, " How would you like to have orgasms and get paid a E100 an hour ?! " Those same girls are also pretty picky when it comes to their clients, any guy who is obese, has crap personal hygiene, is rude or tries to get rough ( generally guys from EE/Muslim countries )  get the short shift and the word gets passed around.

Sometimes they strike out with a guy who is an asshole, but often have days only going with  " stammkunde" ( regulars ). Treat them to a GFE and you get a GFE/PSE back............ :P :D
Well said. TBH I think it is like any job (especially a blow job) you get good and bad. I think if a WG has a bad day it may put her off escorting but the ones who show resent for every punter should probably give it up.

Offline jacksparrow11

TBH, Its becoming the regular line on all Esorts Websites! (I Love my JOB) Bollocks! We all have Good & Bad Days in our Jobs & things we like & dislike! We also like meet people we like & people we dont like!

Offline Joe Blob

If you're as good looking as your avtar we might just have something  :D.  Might even stuff a few twenties up your "aris" [was that a misspelling or some Scotch pronunciation?] to make sure you have a really good time.  :lol:

Aris is a sort of double rhyming slang:-

Aristotle = bottle 
Bottle and glass = arse

'Reggie' is one step further

Reggie Harris = Aris


Offline softlad

Aris is a sort of double rhyming slang:-

Aristotle = bottle 
Bottle and glass = arse

'Reggie' is one step further

Reggie Harris = Aris

Thanks for the explanation JB.  :thumbsup:

Offline Secret Liaison

I get satisfaction from knowing I've made someone feel good. My occupation like anyone elses has good bits and bad bits to it. I would be lying if I said it's wonderful all the time, it isn't and it wouldn't be normal to 'love my work' every single minute of the day, however the balance is on the side of the good - which is most important!

Like any other job I've had I get days when I think "I can't be bothered".

Wholeheartedly agree, and on those days I can't be bothered I simply do not work, my mobile remains switched off and I adjust my website accordingly. However 99% of the time I love all that my 'job' entails. I love the knock at the door, the anticipation of what is to come, exploring someones body and pleasing them to the best of my ability! It gives me a great detail of satisfaction to please  :)


To be honest, I've never understood what girls enjoy about sex generally.  The often passive nature of the female role when having sex even to the extent that a woman has no control over when or if she orgasms is alien to me. 

But then, I'm a man (ooh, Betty!) so that's almost to be expected.  So I have to just take it on trust that women do love being on the receiving end of a man's cock and letting him take control while they're having sex.

For the same reason, I am willing to accept that women with high sex drives are just as capable as a man at separating the act from the person and enjoy being fucked or pleasuring a man they've never met before.  Swinger's parties seem to demonstrate that fact.

Also, it may just be that women's definition of what they enjoy is different to men's.

All that said, you can usual identify a whore who doesn't at least act as if she enjoys herself fairly quickly into a meeting.  I find the best thing to do then is to dominate her as far as she'll let me.  Lots of positions and lots of hard banging so at least she won't easily forget that I'd fucked her.


SOD
« Last Edit: December 09, 2011, 12:44:04 PM by Son of the Desert »

All prossies love it with me as I am a sex god     :drinks:

If only this were true for me... :(


SOD

Fatpro$$ie

No one can enjoy this work ALL the time.  Some days its great, Nice clean clients, good sex and a good laugh too and then you get that client, he rubs at your bits as if he is sanding down plaster insisting there is something wrong with you as you have not had an orgasm (only thing wrong is he is rubbing all the skin off and wont listen when you try to direct him), he probably also has bad breathe and a poor attitude, how can anyone say they love that?   Like all jobs there are good times and not so good times and whilst we really do enjoy the good times the bad ones will still be there.  Like any job you enjoy some parts and dislike others.  The point of it though is to ensure the client thinks you are enjoying your time together and if you do that well then that is all that matters surely???

Offline smiths

No one can enjoy this work ALL the time.  Some days its great, Nice clean clients, good sex and a good laugh too and then you get that client, he rubs at your bits as if he is sanding down plaster insisting there is something wrong with you as you have not had an orgasm (only thing wrong is he is rubbing all the skin off and wont listen when you try to direct him), he probably also has bad breathe and a poor attitude, how can anyone say they love that?   Like all jobs there are good times and not so good times and whilst we really do enjoy the good times the bad ones will still be there.  Like any job you enjoy some parts and dislike others.  The point of it though is to ensure the client thinks you are enjoying your time together and if you do that well then that is all that matters surely???

Yes, really enjoying themselves or pretending to convincingly is good enough for me. ;)

To be honest, I've never understood what girls enjoy about sex generally.  The often passive nature of the female role when having sex even to the extent that a woman has no control over when or if she orgasms is alien to me. 

When my wife and I are on speaking terms she will often just let me shag her and not be bothered about climaxing. She knows that I love her and is happy to let me use her for my wicked way. Of course that brings us onto the other question of whether you should shag prossies if you are in a relationship. My view is that you can love two children as much as you can love just one, so folllowing on from that, shagging a prossie does not make you love your wife less.

Fatpro$$ie

Of course that brings us onto the other question of whether you should shag prossies if you are in a relationship. My view is that you can love two children as much as you can love just one, so folllowing on from that, shagging a prossie does not make you love your wife less.

What does having the ability to love more than one child have to do with being married and shagging prossies?   Love does not come into it.  It is a sexual urge.  It has nothing to do with emotion at all and is a physical want/need. I do not think the two (sex and love) have anything to do with each other.  Sex is purely physical, love is emotional

Offline smiths

What does having the ability to love more than one child have to do with being married and shagging prossies?   Love does not come into it.  It is a sexual urge.  It has nothing to do with emotion at all and is a physical want/need. I do not think the two (sex and love) have anything to do with each other.  Sex is purely physical, love is emotional

Spot on although unless a robot there are emotions involved, lust being my primary one when punting.

Being able to seperate love from sex has never been a problem for me, i punt for sex but want love that punting cant provide. A case of having my cake and eating it. Monogomy sucks, a never in this lifetime for me.

What does having the ability to love more than one child have to do with being married and shagging prossies?

I would have thought it obvious that there is no connection at all. I was simply using that as an example to say that shagging a few prossies doesn't make you love your partner any less.

What does having the ability to love more than one child have to do with being married and shagging prossies?   Love does not come into it.  It is a sexual urge.  It has nothing to do with emotion at all and is a physical want/need. I do not think the two (sex and love) have anything to do with each other.  Sex is purely physical, love is emotional

I think there's a lot of truth in the view that women trade sex to get love whereas men trade love to get sex.

SOD

Yes, really enjoying themselves or pretending to convincingly is good enough for me. ;)

Agreed.


SOD

Offline mattylondon

They may enjoy sex with some punters but to suggest they love their work is pure Alice in Wonderland.

Any guy who thinks otherwise needs a reality check.

Try this test ------ next time you are in a supermarket look around for the ugliest old lady and ask yourself this ------- could I shag her for money. ????

I agree with that 100%. It's really going to depend on whether they fancy that punter or not. It's very difficult to fake it, if there's a genuine attraction with somebody, no matter how clever one thinks they are!

Some they will be attracted to in some way, most they probably won't!!

Offline mattylondon

What does having the ability to love more than one child have to do with being married and shagging prossies?   Love does not come into it.  It is a sexual urge.  It has nothing to do with emotion at all and is a physical want/need. I do not think the two (sex and love) have anything to do with each other.  Sex is purely physical, love is emotional

Perhaps that works for you, but if your husband truly loved and more importantly had any respect for you, why is he happy for you to have sex with other men? A strange kind of love, I'd say!?

That's surely only sustainable if both are getting something out of it. The minute the balance swings one way, that's when jealousy can creep in and the problems start to occur.

When I've spoken to prossies about this, it appear to me at least that they can justify this line as long as they're the ones doing the shagging, whatever they may say to the contrary on this type of forum! I haven't met many prossies, when asked, who would be perfectly happy for their man to shag other women (especially prossies) and have their 'favourites'.

Jealousy is a natural condition of life in us and other animals.. it's just a question of what triggers the emotion. Some have a higher tolerance than others!


Fatpro$$ie

As you know absolutely nothing of my relationship with my husband and are posting generalisations I will ignore the fact that you feel he cannot respect me or actually love me.  Perhaps you are so insecure in yourself that you could not bear your partner to have sex with others but not everyone is the same.  Swinging is the proof of this.  For someone who pays for sex you are rather judgemental aren't you.  Saying a man cannot love or respect his wife if she is a Wg, is no different to a prossie saying all punters are sad pathetic losers who can only get sex by paying for it.  Both are generalisations and both untrue

Offline Miss A Squires

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As you know absolutely nothing of my relationship with my husband and are posting generalisations I will ignore the fact that you feel he cannot respect me or actually love me.  Perhaps you are so insecure in yourself that you could not bear your partner to have sex with others but not everyone is the same.  Swinging is the proof of this.  For someone who pays for sex you are rather judgemental aren't you.  Saying a man cannot love or respect his wife if she is a Wg, is no different to a prossie saying all punters are sad pathetic losers who can only get sex by paying for it.  Both are generalisations and both untrue

I agree with this.

Everyone is different - what works for some doesn't for others.

Offline mattylondon

Me insecure? I think not!?   :cool:

Rather, it's what's called having commitment, being loyal and having respect for somebody else. An alien concept and double standard for prossies such as yourself.

I'd never punt or have sex with any other woman whilst in a relationship. I accept that people have a different view.

Believe whatever makes it feel easier for you to justify it to yourself. I doubt very much that you'd be happy if your hubby was screwing around with other prossies.
« Last Edit: December 10, 2011, 05:01:46 PM by mattylondon »


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