What does having the ability to love more than one child have to do with being married and shagging prossies? Love does not come into it. It is a sexual urge. It has nothing to do with emotion at all and is a physical want/need. I do not think the two (sex and love) have anything to do with each other. Sex is purely physical, love is emotional
Perhaps that works for you, but if your husband truly loved and more importantly had any respect for you, why is he happy for you to have sex with other men? A strange kind of love, I'd say!?
That's surely only sustainable if both are getting something out of it. The minute the balance swings one way, that's when jealousy can creep in and the problems start to occur.
When I've spoken to prossies about this, it appear to me at least that they can justify this line as long as they're the ones doing the shagging, whatever they may say to the contrary on this type of forum! I haven't met many prossies, when asked, who would be perfectly happy for their man to shag other women (especially prossies) and have their 'favourites'.
Jealousy is a natural condition of life in us and other animals.. it's just a question of what triggers the emotion. Some have a higher tolerance than others!