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Author Topic: do you pay for companionship or sex  (Read 3945 times)

Offline unclesweetheart

As a single guy I enjoy both sex and companionship.  However, I only pay for the sex. 

If I enjoy an escorts company and it's obviously mutual then I'm always delighted to take her out off the clock; I always get a buzz being seen out and about with a young gorgeous lady on my arm - knowing I've either shagged her senseless before we came out, or am about to.  ;)

I often go out for dinner with one particular regular after a long session and we take turns paying.  I have had a few really nice evenings out with two other regulars for dinners or a show where I've paid for the meal/show but otherwise only paid their hourly rate for the sex.  Also have had over-nights and weekends away where I've just paid for the play time and expenses. 

Not entirely dissimilar to dating a civvy except I'm paying a premium for the privilege of dating someone much younger/hotter than I otherwise could, and of course the guarantee of a great shag; plus the added benefit of no aggro if I don't call her, send flowers, or remember her birthday! :drinks:

I like going out for a meal too. Sex comes before or after. Both equally pleasant. I usually pay for the meal but one girl insists on returning the favour, which is great. The regulars I tend to see want to talk about this world as much as I do, so "companionate" time feels natural and as much fun as the sex. It ain't called a GFE for nothing: and eating out is part of that.
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Offline sam55

Back on topic.

I generally prefer my own company, too little of it as a rule.

Paying a WG for companionship is an expensive way of doing this, join an evening class.

I love my own company, as you say, it's a precious commodity.

My old mum used to say - If you're bored with your own company, why inflict it on other people.

Offline Quesadilla

I like going out for a meal too. Sex comes before or after. Both equally pleasant. I usually pay for the meal but one girl insists on returning the favour, which is great. The regulars I tend to see want to talk about this world as much as I do, so "companionate" time feels natural and as much fun as the sex. It ain't called a GFE for nothing: and eating out is part of that.

Exactly - I enjoy the full GFE wherever possible.  Eating out / eating them out is all good.  :lol:

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Offline Tjkooker

Upon reading a post here i was wondering does it make sense to pay for companionship vs paying for sex? Companionship means paying the girl to go out with you to the movies, theatre and dinner. paying her to talk to you like you mean something to her knowing she does not even know you real name nor she is interested. Paying her to eat her food and paying her food as well? would you pay a girl say 300 pounds for 2 hours just to have a companion for dinner?

an important question could punting cause you to be isolated from the real world and lose touch with reality until you monetized everything even to the extend of paying for basic human needs. it does make me feel sad to think about it 

this has been lingering in my head for a few days and it makes me question could I probably in the future end up paying for companionship as extras?

Are you a journo, writer or prossie?
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Offline greychap

Both....but as this is a punting website most will be the other.
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Definitely just the sex - I have a reasonably fulfilling social life so am lucky to never feel alone. These days I only do 30 minute punts because the last few 1 hour punts I've had, the main event is over within 30 minutes and then I spend (an expensive) 30 minutes pretty much bored - talking to someone who isn't interested in me about my fake persona and theirs.

 As others have said, there are plenty of ways of fulfilling a social need without punting, in my humble opinion, if that's what you feel is missing - even pulling up a chair at the bar of a pub and buying a couple of rounds would be way cheaper than a punt and possibly more socially fulfilling as well if you meet someone who genuinely does give a shit about you.

If you are 60 years old and you prefer the company of a 20 year old you do have to pay ------------- unless your name is Ronnie Wood, and even he will pay eventually.     :hi:

But that is in a sexual dynamic, isn't it? If not, why not just hangout with people that age? You don't need to pay. Join a class or group, or tour or society and it happens. If it is sexual, we are back to my point.

Offline Quesadilla

Definitely just the sex - I have a reasonably fulfilling social life so am lucky to never feel alone. These days I only do 30 minute punts because the last few 1 hour punts I've had, the main event is over within 30 minutes and then I spend (an expensive) 30 minutes pretty much bored - talking to someone who isn't interested in me about my fake persona and theirs.

 As others have said, there are plenty of ways of fulfilling a social need without punting, in my humble opinion, if that's what you feel is missing - even pulling up a chair at the bar of a pub and buying a couple of rounds would be way cheaper than a punt and possibly more socially fulfilling as well if you meet someone who genuinely does give a shit about you.

There's quite a different social need fulfilled by spending time with a hot young lady as opposed to hairy arsed blokes who smell of beer. In day to day life I have plenty of the latter interactions, not many of the former.

Also I guess many punters are married which means they a) have plenty of social time with their wives / families and b) have to keep their punting very much on the down low hence fake personas which as you say rather hampers your conversation options with an escort.

I can honestly say I'm rarely if ever bored with an escort despite mainly having 2-3 hour punts - and obviously I'm not such a stud that that's 100% shagging time.  Having spent many evenings and several weekends with various regs we still find stuff to talk about. Go figure.  :unknown:
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Is that the full gfe experience ? Why stop there.... get the hoover out...

Fuck me if i'm paying her to clean my house I'm not sure I can afford a whole week

I pay to see a hot girl dressed like a slut, so I can cop a feel of her tits and ass, put my cock in her holes and cum all over her face.

Happy International Women's Day, everyone!

Ha Ha yeah respect  :thumbsup:

Fuck me if i'm paying her to clean my house I'm not sure I can afford a whole week

Go for the weak hole instead

I love my own company, as you say, it's a precious commodity.

My old mum used to say - If you're bored with your own company, why inflict it on other people.
Wise words indeed

Offline Malvolio

I pay for sex - as far as companionship goes, I find an evening in the pub with my mates does the trick.

There are non-sex escorts out there and last year I used one from here:

http://www.dukesofdaisy.com/

She was charming, fun and no clock watcher either so it worked out well.  Google will list other sites.

For me it is a bit of both, for sex will an hour booking only otherwise have done multiday bookings for companionship before.

Offline spkmstr48

Most decent girls will have a much lower rate for social only time which is normally at most half their normal hourly rate

As with all things, it's "different strokes for different folks"

For me it's sex at a time and place of my choosing, with a girl of my choosing.

I treasure time alone as it's a rare thing and planning what to do with it is important.

I understand that there are lonely people out there who need the companionship but even at half price wow that's expensive. Wouldn't they be better Joining an evening class?
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Offline Jimmyredcab

Most decent girls will have a much lower rate for social only time which is normally at most half their normal hourly rate

Big Deal.       :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Take a pro$$ie who charges £120 an hour --------------------- @ £60 an hour a three hour dinner date would still cost £180.  :scare:

I would rather have a hot needle pushed down my Jap's eye.      :hi:

Offline spkmstr48

Apologies, I already said most of what's in my past post.
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As with all things, it's "different strokes for different folks"

For me it's sex at a time and place of my choosing, with a girl of my choosing.

I treasure time alone as it's a rare thing and planning what to do with it is important.

I understand that there are lonely people out there who need the companionship but even at half price wow that's expensive. Wouldn't they be better Joining an evening class?

I'll tell you a few good options for free female companionship and a good chat:

1 Volunteer at a non-profit organisation loads of women not busy old/young who like to chat.
2. Charity work for cats and dogs trust!
3. Go to church, everyone talks to you in church. Midday sessions go to Jam sandwich and tea club.
4. Meetup groups, book clubs.
5. Go to Mecca bingo, loads of women.

See, no need to pay for female companionship.

I value my time alone too, so it's paid sex time for me and a few minutes chat between round 1/2.

Offline Quesadilla

I'll tell you a few good options for free female companionship and a good chat:

1 Volunteer at a non-profit organisation loads of women not busy old/young who like to chat.
2. Charity work for cats and dogs trust!
3. Go to church, everyone talks to you in church. Midday sessions go to Jam sandwich and tea club.
4. Meetup groups, book clubs.
5. Go to Mecca bingo, loads of women.

See, no need to pay for female companionship.

I value my time alone too, so it's paid sex time for me and a few minutes chat between round 1/2.

Really don't think you understand the concept of "companionship" in this context.  The fat ugly trollops who volunteer, go to church, go to bingo etc etc are no more interesting to spend time with than the fat hairy beer swilling blokes down the pub.  I have lots of people - male and female - I socialise with through various groups and through work. 

For me "female companionship" means something totally different - it means spending quality time with a very hot young lady that I fancy the pants off, can flirt with, and invariably of course also fuck.  I for one get a buzz from flirting with hot girls.  Yes of course it's not real flirting as I don't need to win them over to fuck them, just open my wallet, but for me it's still a great way to spend an evening every now and then. 

Also as I said if you genuinely click with a regular WG my experience is that some will certainly be happy to see you socially for free as long as you are still regularly paying for sex.  It's not something I ever came out and asked, just happened naturally so maybe it's just me and my amazing social skills - your mileage may vary.  :D
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Really don't think you understand the concept of "companionship" in this context.  The fat ugly trollops who volunteer, go to church, go to bingo etc etc are no more interesting to spend time with than the fat hairy beer swilling blokes down the pub.  I have lots of people - male and female - I socialise with through various groups and through work. 

For me "female companionship" means something totally different - it means spending quality time with a very hot young lady that I fancy the pants off, can flirt with, and invariably of course also fuck.  I for one get a buzz from flirting with hot girls.  Yes of course it's not real flirting as I don't need to win them over to fuck them, just open my wallet, but for me it's still a great way to spend an evening every now and then. 

Also as I said if you genuinely click with a regular WG my experience is that some will certainly be happy to see you socially for free as long as you are still regularly paying for sex.  It's not something I ever came out and asked, just happened naturally so maybe it's just me and my amazing social skills - your mileage may vary.  :D

You're wasting your breath.  People here are genuinely equating charity shop volunteers (yay, let's give up an entire weekend in the hope of clicking with someone attractive while standing around in a shop full of old things!), random pub people (because that's companionship right?) with sexily dressed, attractive dinner dates who are focused entirely on you.  It really is different strokes for different folks I guess. 

And you don't have to be a 'pick-up artist' to get some sort of buzz from feeling attractive.  The best times I've ever had with women began with her genuinely finding me sexy.  The thought that the lady you're with wants to spend time with you and wants to fuck your brains out (even if it's in fantasy land!) is not to be sniffed at. 

In fact most of what this site is about is whether or not the WG you're seeing actually feels enthusiastic about shagging you.  If you break down companionship in this context; mutual attraction, flirtation, sexual chemistry, ALL of those things are what makes an awesome session with an escort too.  The opposite is something we all loathe, someone who just lies there with their legs open. 

Anyway Adultwork isn't probably the best place for companionship, neither is that site Dukes of Daisy (although worth a browse!).  I found SeekingArrangement weirdly interesting.  The thought of having a couple of students 'on tap' for £500/month each for some may turn out to be cheaper than actual punting.  The companionship element being going out with them as well as shagging their brains out.  The £6000/month girls on there though are clearly deluded. 
« Last Edit: March 09, 2015, 01:26:11 AM by CardiffCentral »

Really don't think you understand the concept of "companionship" in this context.  The fat ugly trollops who volunteer, go to church, go to bingo etc etc are no more interesting to spend time with than the fat hairy beer swilling blokes down the pub.  I have lots of people - male and female - I socialise with through various groups and through work. 

For me "female companionship" means something totally different - it means spending quality time with a very hot young lady that I fancy the pants off, can flirt with, and invariably of course also fuck.  I for one get a buzz from flirting with hot girls.  Yes of course it's not real flirting as I don't need to win them over to fuck them, just open my wallet, but for me it's still a great way to spend an evening every now and then. 

Also as I said if you genuinely click with a regular WG my experience is that some will certainly be happy to see you socially for free as long as you are still regularly paying for sex.  It's not something I ever came out and asked, just happened naturally so maybe it's just me and my amazing social skills - your mileage may vary.  :D

Best titties I have ever seen belonged to a bible basher I met when I volunteered for something. A year of friendship later it turned out she had a crisis of faith and sucked dick like a champ. It's what Jesus would have wanted.

I'll tell you a few good options for free female companionship and a good chat:

1 Volunteer at a non-profit organisation loads of women not busy old/young who like to chat.
2. Charity work for cats and dogs trust!
3. Go to church, everyone talks to you in church. Midday sessions go to Jam sandwich and tea club.
4. Meetup groups, book clubs.
5. Go to Mecca bingo, loads of women.

See, no need to pay for female companionship.

I value my time alone too, so it's paid sex time for me and a few minutes chat between round 1/2.

I'd add:   Nordic Walking      http://nordicwalking.co.uk/

Good fun and younger women enjoy doing it too.  (It was the last time I had civvie sex)  :thumbsup:

Offline Quesadilla

Best titties I have ever seen belonged to a bible basher I met when I volunteered for something. A year of friendship later it turned out she had a crisis of faith and sucked dick like a champ. It's what Jesus would have wanted.
The Lord works in mysterious ways and no mistake but personally I prefer my gratification to be a little more instant than a year!  :lol:
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Offline spkmstr48

The Lord works in mysterious ways and no mistake but personally I prefer my gratification to be a little more instant than a year!  :lol:

Agreed but that's the beauty of punting, the sex and the companionship don't have to be with the same person.
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Offline Quesadilla

Agreed but that's the beauty of punting, the sex and the companionship don't have to be with the same person.

For you maybe - for me that's not the point at all.  I have plenty of companionship from civvy women and from mates.  That's all good.  But I also enjoy the companionship of hot young women that I would not normally socialise with let alone be able to fuck.

With punting I can find women who are incredibly attractive (to me), have great sex with them, and if we get along also socialise with them.  To me that is the beauty of punting.  As you said yourself, diff'rent strokes and all that.  :hi:
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