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Offline AnthG

I am not sure if there is a set definition for this. So I really was either hoping Admin could clear this up once and for all. Or if not people can have a discussion on what they feel a negative review should be.

I ask as it seems there are two options for this, or possibilities, of what a negative could be in terms of a review.
Either.

1. There is a forum wide definition, or forum wide general consensus, of what a negative should be and what it consists of in terms of what was received for your money. So for example the girl was not as described, or the services promised went off the table after handing over the cash, the girl had a poor attitude and other things like this.

Or

2. If however a negative is simply. 'The guy left unhappy. So its therefore a negative'.

Personally speaking I am hoping negative is the first one as it allows somekind of standardisation of when it should and could be given (as the girl could have for example been perfect, but you were just having a bad day so still left unhappy, and thus could give a negative if its option 2). But I am not so sure when I think of it. Hence asking this topic now.
« Last Edit: February 20, 2015, 09:51:35 am by AnthG »
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carefree

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A negative review is subjective, its as simple as that.

What you find a negative I might find a positive.

Thats my view anyway :rolleyes:

Offline berksboy

                 Or did the meet take place  ? If no meet can a guy still give useful  info or not ? I think so but not sure if i would go as far as calling it a negative unless i had traved to hers and then got a no answer or when she opens the door you go  :scare:

Offline Jimmyredcab

Anth, it is a good question but there is no definitive answer.
My definition is where I would certainly not return but that could be for many reasons, her looks, attitude, lack of services. If there is simply no "chemistry" between us I would not bother to do a review.  :hi:

Offline Jimmyredcab

                 Or did the meet take place  ? If no meet can a guy still give useful  info or not ? I think so but not sure if i would go as far as calling it a negative unless i had traved to hers and then got a no answer or when she opens the door you go  :scare:

That is open to debate, as far as the rules are concerned you can do reviews where no punt took place but bear in mind one of our most popular girls got a negative from someone who never saw her and she now has over 30 positive reviews.  :hi:

Offline smiths

I am not sure if there is a set definition for this. So I really was either hoping Admin could clear this up once and for all. Or if not people can have a discussion on what they feel a negative review should be.

I ask as it seems there are two options for this, or possibilities, of what a negative could be in terms of a review.
Either.

1. There is a forum wide definition, or forum wide general consensus, of what a negative should be and what it consists of in terms of what was received for your money. So for example the girl was not as described, or the services promised went off the table after handing over the cash, the girl had a poor attitude and other things like this.

Or

2. If however a negative is simply. 'The guy left unhappy. So its therefore a negative'.

Personally speaking I am hoping negative is the first one as it allows somekind of standardisation of when it should and could be given (as the girl could have for example been perfect, but you were just having a bad day so still left unhappy, and thus could give a negative if its option 2). But I am not so sure when I think of it. Hence asking this topic now.

Within the rules admin has brought in its up to a punter to decide if it was a negative or not. To ME that's a very good thing, its his experience so entirely his business how he saw the punt or booked punt.

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+1 Smiths
It's entirely subjective
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Offline King Nuts

I would take the view that it's negative if the WG and the services offered are significantly not 'as advertised'.

Further, if something really crap happened, that would make a negative.

Offline Jimmyredcab

I would take the view that it's negative if the WG and the services offered are significantly not 'as advertised'.

Further, if something really crap happened, that would make a negative.

She could have provided the services as advertised but displayed a bad attitude ------------- giving the impression that she doesn't want to be there.    :thumbsdown:

JV547845

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I think the punter should've at least left the house for a booking (or had booked an out call) or we could get swamped with negative reviews for any old profile that just say `she didn't reply to my email'.

306

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i once drove 40 miles got to the hotel and wg phone was off a site punt for me but should i post it here ?
i dont know my time wasted and had to revert to plan b.

Quesadilla

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i once drove 40 miles got to the hotel and wg phone was off a site punt for me but should i post it here ?
i dont know my time wasted and had to revert to plan b.
I'm assuming you had a confirmed booking in which case that's a definite negative - you travelled and there were no comms at all!  That's the kind of behaviour we need to know about so we can avoid it.


Offline Jimmyredcab

I think the punter should've at least left the house for a booking (or had booked an out call) or we could get swamped with negative reviews for any old profile that just say `she didn't reply to my email'.

We did have a negative review where a punter could not understand the girl on the phone, after I pointed out that the review was invalid it was removed and the rules had to be changed, now the girl has to have accepted the booking.

Offline RedKettle

You are over thinking this - we are paying women for sex not marking university degrees.  Did you enjoy yourself? Positive.  Did you have an OK time? Neutral  Was it pretty poor or something unacceptable happen?  Negative.   It is subjective.

Where there are complications (I found Lovely Lena hard to categorise for example) then go with your gut and explain complications in the narrative.

OldAdmin

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So I really was either hoping Admin could clear this up once and for all.

It's up to the punter to decide.
I don't change a review's rating even if many others disagree with it and believe it should be changed. The member himself has to ask for it to be changed.

If someone is overly harsh and gives negative for the minor thing, then that is their decision.

Offline AnthG

If someone is overly harsh and gives negative for the minor thing, then that is their decision.

Thanks for clearing this up. This seems fair as it also avoids needing to worry if you have fully justified the reasons for giving a negative when typing any review up.
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Offline cueball

It is subjective, what the punter feels is reflected in his review, is up to the reader to pull out the facts he feels he needs, there is no right or wrong way to do a review (barring not putting a link up), it's the reviewers honest opinion, I've had good punts with negative reviewed prossies and vice versa.

west8

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I am not sure if there is a set definition for this.

No definition, but I think this simple formula should cover 99% of reviews:


Did you meet the girl in the pictures? A: Yes
AND
Overall, was the punt a positive experience? A: Yes

= Positive


Did you meet the girl in the pictures? A: No
OR
Overall, was the punt a positive experience? A: No

= Negative

Offline AnthG

No definition, but I think this simple formula should cover 99% of reviews:


Did you meet the girl in the pictures? A: Yes
AND
Overall, was the punt a positive experience? A: Yes

= Positive


Did you meet the girl in the pictures? A: No
OR
Overall, was the punt a positive experience? A: No

= Negative

I do not think its that cut and dry. I remember back in 2011. And I still have fond memories of it. One of my favourite punts was with a girl called Misti from Diamonds.

However she was a bait and switch as the girl I seen was not in anyway the girl in the photo. She wasn't as attractive as the girl I thought I was seeing (as in the one in the photo) - bur she was still nice looking. However she really made up for it as she was one of the most fun girls I have booked.

She claimed (from memory thinking back) she did not know why they had that photo up for her on the website. She didn't need to have those false photos up for her. I really am not sure why they did.

So anyway using your chart I would have had to give her a negative when really she was a great punt and just the agency were being daft shoving up a photos of someone else for her.
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Offline Bangers and Gash

...... but bear in mind one of our most popular girls got a negative from someone who never saw her and she now has over 30 positive reviews.

Jimmy. Would it be possible for you to go one day without biggin' up Michelle Independent?

EAS... much!  :kissgirl:

Offline Dani

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Did you enjoy the booking and walk away thinking it was money well spent. If yes then it's a positive. If no then it's a negative. Each person will experience a booking differently as people have differing likes be your looks or what they and how it is done like sexually. So punter A May have a great time and punter B might not enjoy it at all

west8

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However she really made up for it as she was one of the most fun girls I have booked.

That's all well and good, but she wasn't actually the girl you booked in the first place ... so you just got 'lucky'.

B&S in any form = Negative, simple as.

I think that should actually be in the Rules in fact.

Offline Steve2

Jimmy. Would it be possible for you to go one day without biggin' up Michelle Independent?

EAS... much!  :kissgirl:

Maybe he will stop when Michelle finally tells Jimbo she is actually Romanian.

 :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose:
« Last Edit: February 20, 2015, 07:11:50 pm by Steve2 »

SirFrank

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I'd agree that reviews are subjective (positive, negative and neutral). I approach reviews on here like tripadvisor. I'll leave a review for outstanding and shit service and rarely bother with a meeehhh experience. Looking back at my negatives on here they are all largely for confirmed bookings that, for various reasons, didn't happen.

I accept that shit happens and I've been blown out numerous times, most of which resulted in no review whatsoever. There's usually a bit more to it for me when I do leave a negative

Offline Trevor12

it's the reviewers honest opinion, I've had good punts with negative reviewed prossies and vice versa.

This is my opinion exactly.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Jimmy. Would it be possible for you to go one day without biggin' up Michelle Independent?

EAS... much!  :kissgirl:

I didn't mention her by name ------- you did.     :hi:

Offline threechilliman

For me it's easy. I know as soon as I walk away. Either I'm pissed off or happy. There's no middle ground with me.

tcm

JV547845

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I do not think its that cut and dry.

re: positives from a bait and switch


I've had this too.  But at the end of the day your review is supposed to be helpful to other punters, so if there's no profile of the girl you saw, there's nothing to give a positive review to.  You may not even be able to rebook yourself unless she tells you her profile name or it's a parlour.  As to the profile you originally booked, I don't know - it's nice for them to offer a decent plan B WG instead of flaking on you at the last minute but I can't see it deserves more than a neutral as not every punter would want that.  I'd just say what happened, give it a neutral and let everyone else make their own mind up.
« Last Edit: February 20, 2015, 08:11:35 pm by JV547845 »

Old monk

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I work on a simple formula.

1, is it the girl advertised? If yes go to question 2.
2, did I receive value for money? Cost is not an issue, if I paid x pounds and im happy it's a neutral.
3, would i return? If yes it's a positive, I may not actually return but the fact that I would means it's a recomend on my part.

Ive got to the point That tbh i pretty much see 1 of 3 or so girls because I know what I'm getting and they make me smile and seem to be into our meets as much as me. Of course they may not be but I don't really care as long as my grin is as wide as the Amazon and my cock is as hard as teak.

Girls, you know who you are!

DG

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For me reviews are all about expectations. If the girl delivers all of the services you have chosen from her Likes List, has a good attitude, is enthusiastic and all the admin ie. comms, venue, facilities, punctuality etc then you would be hard pushed not to give a positive review. Doesn't mean it was the best punt ever but you got what you expected to get.

If any of the above are not delivered, it does give the punter scope to give a neutral review. Clearly multiple 'failure to deliver' might incur a negative review. That said it might be sufficient if, say, she had a terrible attitude, or was completely unenthusiastic, to give a negative review based on that alone.

mrhappypants

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Check out the punting wiki guide on report writing. External Link/Members Only
The "back in time" and "return in the future" tests are both versatile and robust.

Dave

Offline Steve2

Check out the punting wiki guide on report writing. External Link/Members Only
The "back in time" and "return in the future" tests are both versatile and robust.

Dave

They seem a fair assessment Dave

Offline smiths

It's up to the punter to decide.
I don't change a review's rating even if many others disagree with it and believe it should be changed. The member himself has to ask for it to be changed.

If someone is overly harsh and gives negative for the minor thing, then that is their decision.

Thanks, not that I needed clarification as I had already read your review rules but hopefully this will help the hard of thinking. Its up to the punter to  decide as long as a booking is accepted whether to do a review or not. Perfectly clear to me. :thumbsup:

bensonhedges20

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I think a punt has to take place to be a negative or atleast you physically view the person in reality.

If bad comms or it didnt happen then the review should be neutral as a precaution. Unless you have CONFIRMED via aw ( not by phone or text) and thus wasted your time and journey.

Prossies get many Fruit loops calling them and texting and delays/no shows are expected. Almost every meet i have had in the last six months has started 10 mins late( so ended ten mins late or more too).

If i recall there was a negative in london reviews for two escorts ( one was kav lipstick Who seems to get glowing reports for actual meets but was given a negative for failing to schedule if i recall).



« Last Edit: February 21, 2015, 07:33:22 am by bensonhedges20 »

Offline Sedlmayer

I think a punt has to take place to be a negative or atleast you physically view the person in reality.

If bad comms or it didnt happen then the review should be neutral as a precaution. Unless you have CONFIRMED via aw ( not by phone or text) and thus wasted your time and journey.

Prossies get many Fruit loops calling them and texting and delays/no shows are expected. Almost every meet i have had in the last six months has started 10 mins late( so ended ten mins late or more too).

If i recall there was a negative in london reviews for two escorts ( one was kav lipstick Who seems to get glowing reports for actual meets but was given a negative for failing to schedule if i recall).

Why  :unknown:

Offline Sedlmayer

That's all well and good, but she wasn't actually the girl you booked in the first place ... so you just got 'lucky'.

B&S in any form = Negative, simple as.

I think that should actually be in the Rules in fact.

Nonsense from you as usual. The guy says it was one of the most fun punts he ever had.
Who are you to tell him that should be a Negative? And who are you to start telling Admin what the rules should be - he's stated them clearly enough.

If you get B&S'd you have to mention that in the review so other are aware, but if it turned into a good punt it's a positive.